PISCES (female) what the fuck is her problum

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stimpy22
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True

u know when ever i leave that's when she gets real

i have a good way of living with her but not seeing or talking to her all day 🙂
i think we get along grate when we don't say a damn thing to each other.

i have a idea. Just move faster then her and leave her out of it, i know she wont be able to stand the
idea that she cant come with but can look away.

and what do i do when she just walks away from my words? the truth will be spoken by the sag

and thank u
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brianafay
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Yeah, I guess you're right. Now that I think about it, "daily struggle" is very fitting.
They are always finding reasons to get completely pissed off at us...and we're so oblivious to those reasons it's just sad.

The sooner they just accept our jerkishness, embrace it, the better. Just like we have to make a conscience effort to be more sensitive with them...they have to make a conscience effort not to be so sensitive/defensive with us.
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IdesOfMarch
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Posted by bassace
stimpy, the moving faster idea is good if you want to keep fighting. if youre trying to fix the problem, youll have to sit down and work it out with her. from what yorue saying, it looks like shes not willing to do that so maybe it is best for you to keep fighting, or even leave. its hard for sags to solve issues with pisces because we can be more articulate with our feelings whereas they want someone who feels it out and can communicate on a more subtle level. and they will always expect compromise. they FEEL multiple points of view and will expect you to take theirs seriously. since your a sag, youll prob end up leaving if she keeps up this whole game of "my way or the highway". try explaining that you both cleary have issues with each other and have to reach a common ground. but like i said, its hard when we communicate on different levels. seek advice from the pisces board, they will have a better understanding of where shes coming from



This is key. I think pisces get frustrated with sags because we know that y'all are a lot more sensitive than you let on. So when you don't communicate on that level, it comes off as a conscious decision which pisces naturally (to us) sees as you choosing being a asshole. Of course, I'm sure sags get just as frustrated with us when we don't know the exact words to describe what we're feeling and think that we're just trying to manipulate you and throw you off your game (the f**k do y'all always have to feel like you're playing some kind of game? :p).

Believe me... this is one of the most fulfilling relationships either sign can have if they can get to a level where they can truly trust each other. But this is a big if because neither of them like feeling vulnerable will expect the other to not only open up, but open up on the level that they're most comfortable reading. Unfortunately, this usually ends with them accusing each other of not opening up (even if both of them actually did) then writing them off as shallow and manipulative (even if they know in their heads that that's not the case).
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Posted by bassace
stimpy, the moving faster idea is good if you want to keep fighting. if youre trying to fix the problem, youll have to sit down and work it out with her. from what yorue saying, it looks like shes not willing to do that so maybe it is best for you to keep fighting, or even leave. its hard for sags to solve issues with pisces because we can be more articulate with our feelings whereas they want someone who feels it out and can communicate on a more subtle level. and they will always expect compromise. they FEEL multiple points of view and will expect you to take theirs seriously. since your a sag, youll prob end up leaving if she keeps up this whole game of "my way or the highway". try explaining that you both cleary have issues with each other and have to reach a common ground. but like i said, its hard when we communicate on different levels. seek advice from the pisces board, they will have a better understanding of where shes coming from



This is key. I think pisces get frustrated with sags because we know that y'all are a lot more sensitive than you let on. So when you don't communicate on that level, it comes off as a conscious decision which pisces naturally (to us) sees as you choosing being a asshole. Of course, I'm sure sags get just as frustrated with us when we don't know the exact words to describe what we're feeling and think that we're just trying to manipulate you and throw you off your game (the f**k do y'all always have to feel like you're playing some kind of game? :p).

Believe me... this is one of the most fulfilling relationships either sign can have if they can get to a level where they can truly trust each other. But this is a big if because neither of them like feeling vulnerable will expect the other to not only open up, but open up on the level that they're most comfortable reading. Unfortunately, this usually ends with them accusing each other of not opening up (even if both of them actually did) then writing them off as shallow and manipulative (even if they know in their heads that that's not the case).
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I agree 100% with what you wrote.
In order for a Sag & a Pisces to get along, it takes more than the Sag opening up and showing their sensitive side....it also takes the Pisces realizing/ac