Sag and comittment

Is it true that Sag men get bored quickly and find the idea of commitment scary and makes them want to run?

Posted by RainDancer88
All sags want commitment but they can't be put in the box. They have to walk into that cage willingly and their loyalty remains. Give them the wings to fly and they will always return home. Just make it so they'll want to come back (so no making him feel guilty - HUGE TURNOFF)

Be cool, easy going, BE YOU and have fun! Expect nothing and let him initiate it.

This!!! Just keep it fun and light. Once you start to get too heavy and/or smother them, they'll be ready to run. But either way, you'll have a good friend if it doesn't work out.

Thank you!! I think its working he is calling and texting and wanting me stay at his house like never before. Wow!

"... bored quickly and find the idea of commitment scary ..."
I'd say yes.
Sag is an explorer. If they have not seen enough of the world, then they do not want to get tied down in a small city.

But I know a Sag guy who married the mother of his child cause she did not want to give up on him. They had the perfect form of a happy family for years. He had a second appartment in the same building and I don't know if it was his Office or a place for love affairs. After some 20 years they got divorced and he married a second wife (a foreigner of course). They are now living in another City. He is hardworking.

Another Sag guy I know is married to a Cancer woman, mother of his three children. She has never complained anything about his behavior. I also don't think that loyalty was an issue between them. He was the one who chased her when they were singles.

The other guy was married to a Leo for years. He also put much time into taking care of his old sick mother. After their only child was out of home he was ready to fal in love again. After one or two cases he settled with a nurse. Foreigner of course.

Another guy was for years with a Leo girl. But she left him at the end. I don't know what the reason was.

"bi-polar?"
As character disorder? as cuss word? or adjective? I'm bipolar. I know it.

"they hafta be ready"
100% agreed.
Then again it is not a matter of sun sign.
Besides nowadays people have a lot to shop before they commit.

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Posted by RainDancer88

Posted by Gobshite
Don't tie them down and turn a blind eye when they want to sleep with someone else. That's the secret.

You fuck. lol. You confuse sag with leos.

Errrmmm... Nope!

Leos: Treat them like a king/queen and turn a blind eye when they want to flirt with someone. That's the secret.

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With the sag men ive ran into, even if they have water placements, they still need freedom and independence. just be ready to merge when they are. then when they need to go back out into the world, go find something elso to occupy your time.

I'm just getting sucked in and I know I need to proceed with caution. I am so not good with making people chase me and I think I like him more than he likes me.

I know a sag man who both committed and faithful. to the extreme.

I have two boyfriends at the moment. If that isn't commitment I don't know what is.

Posted by Sag89
I have two boyfriends at the moment. If that isn't commitment I don't know what is.

lol. damn venus in aquas

Yes and yes but Sags know what they want - once they find the right one, they will commit 100% .

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Posted by vesperlynd83
Yes and yes but Sags know what they want - once they find the right one, they will commit 100% .

This sounds too Disney though. No matter what sign it involved.

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Not really. You go out, meet different people and get to know them. It may be a long process but when they say when you meet the right one, you just know because there is that inexplicable bond between the two people. You go out of your way to do things and be there for them and not because of any other reason than you just naturally want to do it. You put your whole focus on that person. Sags are not the type to fake or do anything that is out of their character just for the sake of it. It comes straight from the heart.

Posted by SunraySag87

Posted by vesperlynd83
Yes and yes but Sags know what they want - once they find the right one, they will commit 100% .

So far yes but then there's this thing in my head poking and wondering what if settling for the right person is because you haven't looked further and you just assume its right there. No boundaries and we're back at square one 10 yrs later down the line lol. If this makes sense?

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I've had that before too where I always felt like the grass is greener on the other side. If one is in a relationship and is not fully satisfied or is having doubts then that may be something to ponder on. Of course, no relationship is perfect but I feel like once you find the right one then you won't feel like you have settled.

Posted by tiziani
They say that "the one" thing about Aries males all the time. Then a woman comes back and turns out she wasn't the one, but one of three.

yes!

happened to my aries bff. She was dating an aries male and found out after a year that he has 3 other relationships going on.

Posted by aquagirllovesu
Is it true that Sag men get bored quickly and find the idea of commitment scary and makes them want to run?

Lol, no...if we're ready. What you describe is not a Sag problem, but a consequence of the dating environment overall...just look at the othe forums with similar questions. We live in a society where experiences are championed over true depth. Why do you think it's calied the game? Everything starts out with a lie. We fool ourselves and each other and it spills over into the relationship. Avoiding talking about real issues when they arrive. "I thought we were just having fun."

One way to not get us to commit is not trying to truly understand us. First, be our best friend. It's the first thing we look for. Yes, we have a bevy of female friends and all of them we have no interest in dating. If we treat you special...you have us. Insecurity turns us off completely and if you can't have confidence in us treating you special...

We don't need a mommy. Telling us to "grow up" will make us walk in a heartbeat especially given that most people are childish in different ways...and know it! So it's hypocritical. You have to take the good with the bad. That childishness makes you laugh and comforts you. Its also how a Sag(male and female) conquers hurdles. We're from Jupiter so we laugh at obstacles. When one arises, we simply get it done...while whistling with a smile_??_Yeah, we have a hard time expressing our feelings but mostly like it's because you've failed to consider them in the first place.

It's not that hard to figure out. It starts with you. Ask for what you want and are looking for in the early stages. If you want a relationship, say so. If they don't, keep it moving. The worst thing you can do is sit around and wait for potential. A man will move mountains to be with a woman he thinks is special and a Sag is no different. If not, he either isn't ready or you're not her...that doesn't mean you're not special. Just not the one for him. It's that simple. Best wishes!

@beautifulsoul74 great message. I needed to read this today.

Posted by aquagirllovesu
@beautifulsoul74 great message. I needed to read this today.

Thanks! :-) Anything I can do to help