Sag sharing personal info

Girls and boys, horoscopes say that Sagittarius are ready to talk about almost everything, except personal matters. What does your experience say about that? Is it usual for a Sag to talk about such things, as a divorce of his parents, his family that's not that friendly, and being used to living alone cause of that, what family he wants to have and what he strives for in life? Can this stuff be told to just any person?

I can't speak for Sags in general only from myself (Mercury/Venus/Ascendant). I like to think I'm open with most people I meet as there was a time when I was not and well people just didn't notice me. I find that once I have said something out loud to myself I don't hold back from sharing that experience with others. It is all part of me and part of a bigger journey to self-discovery.

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Girls and boys, horoscopes say that Sagittarius are ready to talk about almost everything, except personal matters. What does your experience say about that? Is it usual for a Sag to talk about such things, as a divorce of his parents, his family that's not that friendly, and being used to living alone cause of that, what family he wants to have and what he strives for in life? Can this stuff be told to just any person?

moon n mercury in scorp. I keep it very superficial with people. Some dont even know what I do for a living.

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If you??re asking, if it is in indicator of him liking you, I don't think so. Not neccesarily that is. But it does mean, some sort of trust is established. Also depends on age🙂

Yes, that's what I was asking about: if it's supposed to mean that he trusts you or it's just his open-with-everyone nature. As I could feel some regret and bitter emotions were put into that story (but it's my subjective perception). As for liking, I think there are some other indicators, telling that🙂

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talk about such things, as a divorce of his parents, his family that's not that friendly, and being used to living alone cause of that, what family he wants to have and what he strives for in life? Can this stuff be told to just any person?

This type of information is not that sensational to me. So I'd talk about it to any strangers.

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...I find that once I have said something out loud to myself I don't hold back from sharing that experience with others. It is all part of me and part of a bigger journey to self-discovery.

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Me too. I talk a lot (if anybody is around me) and use the talks for tidying my mind.

I know that might mislead some people. They may think they are special to me.

Yet there are things I don't say to them. This may be my Sag parts (and my experiences). This may come from Neptune/Lilith in Scorpio/H12 and Moon in Pisces. Deep inside I know people cannot handle important/sensational information. They feel compelled to distribute and change it.

And whenever a girl says she's about to tell me a secret, I say no. I refuse to listen. I say I cannot give any gurantee. The actual reason is that I simply don't want to have their sht in my life. That be left for classy ladies of zodiac. They have the most secrets, betrayals and theatricality.

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Girls and boys, horoscopes say that Sagittarius are ready to talk about almost everything, except personal matters. What does your experience say about that? Is it usual for a Sag to talk about such things, as a divorce of his parents, his family that's not that friendly, and being used to living alone cause of that, what family he wants to have and what he strives for in life? Can this stuff be told to just any person?

I can talk about my goals and what I strive for anyday. Philosophical discussions actually relax me. Topics like death, meaning of life, state of the world etc. When it comes to revealing my feelings for men...that's hard. Makes me feel very vulnerable.

I only give out personal info to those I trust can be discreet. Not that I'm special, but to get the full Monty you have to be a part of my inner circle. Don't get me wrong, I'm more than willing to share my personal feelings freely on certain subjects but as for what's currently going on with me at any given moment...as in me telling you without asking? That's reserved for those closest to me.

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Girls and boys, horoscopes say that Sagittarius are ready to talk about almost everything, except personal matters. What does your experience say about that? Is it usual for a Sag to talk about such things, as a divorce of his parents, his family that's not that friendly, and being used to living alone cause of that, what family he wants to have and what he strives for in life? Can this stuff be told to just any person?

I'm a sag female & I only ever truly open up to people I trust. It doesn't mean much more than "I trust you." It's really really difficult for me to talk about personal things so it means a lot when I share.

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And what is your Moon, Venus, Mars position?

I'll talk about all sorts of things, but its hard for me to open up to people and talk about things that affects me emotionally. I only talk a out such things with someone I have made a connection with.

What frustrates me about my Sag ex (that I am still in contact with for the sake of our son (also a Sag) is that she will talk about life/stuff in general but definitely seems to not want to talk about our relationship. I thought it was males that were supposed to be like this. She just doesn't seem to want to talk things over even though as far as I am concerned it would help to heal things. But perhaps it is only me that's really hurting so that's not her problem or something. It sucks.

I seem to have a way bend a convo into a direction and keep it going without revealing too much of myself. Call me out on it, I'd rather be pushed into opening up. Means you CARE. Depending on what my gut tells me and trust I'll tell you straight up what is going on.

"... my Sag ex ... she will talk about life/stuff in general but definitely seems to not want to talk about our relationship... help to heal things."

1. she may really be done with you.
2. If not, this could help:
2.a) you write letters to her and wait for a while. Even if you have harsh things in it (but you better not), she'll try to find the truth. She'll think about them, talk to others and find ways to solve problems.
2.b) you can take a third person, a mediator, to discuss issues with her.

The benefit of a third person is that your ways of talking (which often seems as complains to a Sag) would be translated with other words.

My Sister is Virgo with Mercury in Virgo and I am Sag with Mercury in Sag. We discuss a lot. One day I told her I got the feeling I talk Chinese and she talks Spanish. We talk but not in a language the other one can understand. So a third person as translator can ease the talk.

I mean we are squares for a reason.

I don't like talking about my family much with anyone. I'll talk about my relationship-related situations with a female friend, but I won't talk about my feelings with my romantic partner. I like it when they reveal their thoughts and feelings to me, but I don't always do the same. I guess I don't want to be manipulated.

Also, I don't really have feelings anyway. (J/k) I'll call people out on their bullshit and I'll tell them where they're going wrong, and I'll apologize if I did anything to upset or offend them, but as for situations where someone tries to upset me - well, I usually know what's going on, so again I call them out on that. I'm not going to be offended if I know they're doing it intentionally, but if they're a pain in the neck drama queen I'll probably just end up walking away.