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first off thanks for your advice. i have turned the corner after she moved on to another guy. one of my friends went over to her house behind my back and wanted to know if she would get back with me and she shook her head no. he wanted to know why all the girls like me? and that i went out this weekend and was picked up in a hot sports car by a beautiful woman and didnt come home all weekend. while he was there he noticed on her computer she was reading 34 reasons why to have sex. within minutes of her going back to her computer and my friend on his way home. she contacted me and wanted to know if i am ok and that she was just checking in. i blew her off for the last few days and am sending a little note that says the break up was the right thing to do and i didnt realize it until i spent time away from her. that i would like to catch up with her one day, stay friends but so many exciting things are going on in my life right now. i guess a little jelousy you sag. girls have can get the best of you sometimes. she wants no one talking to me. when i met her i was dating 4 women and she one by one took over my time to get rid of them. lol. now after doing that she got me down to nothing and moved on. now i have my confidence back and i recalled the letgoes and a few have returned. aaaaaah i feel better. she said someday she may get back with me to my friend but she is happy now. yeah right. thinking about sex and texting your ex. you should be texting the guy you had sex with this weekend. i guess maybe he didnt connect as well as i did. especially since she thought i was amazing. oooh yeah. so well see. by the time she comes back around i will be fully booked. lol. thanks ladies.
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when i met her i was dating 4 women and she one by one took over my time to get rid of them. lol. now after doing that she got me down to nothing and moved on.



Bah ha hah. Yeah, they don't call Sags the Don(na) Juans of the zodiac for nothing.
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there was only one way she was going to be able to get rid of the other women. she didnt don juan anyone. it was through classless jealousy and confrontation. not the most advanced sign i would say. she is no libra. because she is so hot, i overlooked how her peterpan syndrome was going to affect me. she needs to grow up and accept lots more responsibility, not be just the party girl. now her shit has hit the fan. her ex husband has won in court to get custody of her kids. her child support and alimony are being slashed and all her nose in the air entitlement has vanished leaving her broken, confused and second guessing leaving me. so much for her optimism. i still love her though.
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when i met her i was dating 4 women and she one by one took over my time to get rid of them. lol. now after doing that she got me down to nothing and moved on.



Bah ha hah. Yeah, they don't call Sags the Don(na) Juans of the zodiac for nothing.



there was only one way she was going to be able to get rid of the other women. she didnt don juan anyone. it was through classless jealousy and confrontation. not the most advanced sign i would say. she is no libra. because she is so hot, i overlooked how her peterpan syndrome was going to affect me. she needs to grow up and accept lots more responsibility, not be just the party girl. now her shit has hit the fan. her ex husband has won in court to get custody of her kids. her child support and alimony are being slashed and all her nose in the air entitlement has vanished leaving her broken, confused and second guessing leaving me. so much for her optimism. i still love her though.
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if what you say is true about her kids, then she has more issues going on than her zodiac.
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UPDATE: its been 2 months since we broke up. with no contact. she still is with another guy. how they are doing i dont know. then when my grandmother died some weeks ago she found out from someone we both know. i recieved a text from her expressing her sorrow for me. i texted her back and wished her, her new boyfriend and the kids a blessed Easter. she texted back i hope you are Ok, i think about you often. i thanked her for her concern but just couldnt address the think about you often statement.

i have changed, made major adjustments to my life, like removing tenants that are behind in rent and working on self. we had our problems without each other it just took its toll. she has found this out from one of my tenants. i get a text two days ago at 10pm. " i am soooo proud of you." not knowing what she has found out about me i dont know what she is proud of but i would say she sees something ive done. i didnt really care to know what it was as i am focused on ME and my life. which she is not part of. its not that i was ignoring her, i just didnt want to go into anything and a thank you response two days later lost its steam. maybe i should text her a thankyou even if it is two days later. anyway i guess by ignoring her she is thinking about me? maybe the honeymoon with the other guy is losing its appeal. after all it was a rebound, with a cancer no less. i caught her riding by my house staring at me. i didnt wave i was busy and just continued walking in the direction i was headed as she went by. WTF is going on? i am moving on and now this girl is sending me im proud of you texts and driving by. i would like to get back with her someday but how she treated me i would have to have her be a different acting woman. ANY THOUGHTS?
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i have changed, made major adjustments to my life, like removing tenants that are behind in rent and working on self. we had our problems without each other it just took its toll. she has found this out from one of my tenants. i get a text two days ago at 10pm. " i am soooo proud of you." not knowing what she has found out about me i dont know what she is proud of but i would say she sees something ive done. i didnt really care to know what it was as i am focused on ME and my life. which she is not part of. its not that i was ignoring her, i just didnt want to go into anything and a thank you response two days later lost its steam. maybe i should text her a thankyou even if it is two days later. anyway i guess by ignoring her she is thinking about me? maybe the honeymoon with the other guy is losing its appeal. after all it was a rebound, with a cancer no less. i caught her riding by my house staring at me. i didnt wave i was busy and just continued walking in the direction i was headed as she went by. WTF is going on? i am moving on and now this girl is sending me im proud of you texts and driving by. i would like to get back with her someday but how she treated me i would have to have her be a different acting woman. ANY THOUGHTS?



Ugh. That's freaky weird. (the freaky staring and riding by your house? WTF is her problem?? LOL Doesnt she know how to use a doorbell? LOL) You should find out her other placements too. AND to top it off - she's WITH another guy!!!
DOUBLE UGH.
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other placements? i get the feeling she still wants to be friends or that she found out the grass isnt always greener. from what ive read Sags dont go back to old relationships, so i dont know why she would want to stay in touch. she currently is not part of my life, with her comment she is action like she still is part of it enough to comment on it which i dont need from her. i ignored her for now. must have been a big shocker, when i have not responded. enough to ride by to see what was going on at my house though. yes the tennants are leaving and she may have thought that by me seeing her i would text or call her. i just didnt think sags would play these kind of games. people want what they cant have and i am headed away from that direction in a hurry if she wants me b
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i have changed, made major adjustments to my life, like removing tenants that are behind in rent and working on self. we had our problems without each other it just took its toll. she has found this out from one of my tenants. i get a text two days ago at 10pm. " i am soooo proud of you." not knowing what she has found out about me i dont know what she is proud of but i would say she sees something ive done. i didnt really care to know what it was as i am focused on ME and my life. which she is not part of. its not that i was ignoring her, i just didnt want to go into anything and a thank you response two days later lost its steam. maybe i should text her a thankyou even if it is two days later. anyway i guess by ignoring her she is thinking about me? maybe the honeymoon with the other guy is losing its appeal. after all it was a rebound, with a cancer no less. i caught her riding by my house staring at me. i didnt wave i was busy and just continued walking in the direction i was headed as she went by. WTF is going on? i am moving on and now this girl is sending me im proud of you texts and driving by. i would like to get back with her someday but how she treated me i would have to have her be a different acting woman. ANY THOUGHTS?



Ugh. That's freaky weird. (the freaky staring and riding by your house? WTF is her problem?? LOL Doesnt she know how to use a doorbell? LOL) You should find out her other placements too. AND to top it off - she's WITH another guy!!!
DOUBLE UGH.
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you answer as if its been done to you. i am looking for answers as to why after what a sag has done to me. im not really concerned about freaky or wierd, it is what it is. she obviously was trying to get my attention for a reason. what that is i dont know, nor do i care to ask her. i though maybe a sag on the site could see into her motives. like ive said sags dont go back to old relationships so i cant see her ever coming back so ive moved on. i laid alot on the line for her. a place to live if she needed it, a career, and a lover and friend. she wanted to do it all herself and now has to deal with the repercussions of her decisions. i hope she is happy with her new lover.
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Posted by Sagittarius89
Of course she wants to do it on her own! She is a sag! What she doesn't need you to be her daddy! Which is probably why she left your ass in the first place!



actually she has made a complete mess of her life all on her own. of course she doesnt need a daddy, he died when she was 11. now her soon to be ex husband was very controlling and she doesnt want anything like that. but unfortunately she lacks the skills to manage her life by herself. so i guess she will learn the hard way like many others do.

the reality of the situation is i walked out on her due to her temper, irrational behavior and lack of self control. but i did care deeply for her and was hoping she would turn to her spiritual side to work on the internals of her mind to change. only time can do that. once i walked out she was done. when i tried to work through it and see if we could still make a go of it she had moved on. just cant understand why she would still contact me and send me cards. the drive bys are a whole nother tactic on her part. bottom line is she is with someone else, so why bother with me?
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I'm sorry to hear that, she probably has some man issues due to that and sadness. I didn't say you made a mess of her life, I said that you shouldn't of tried to fix it. You should never help people. People should only help themselfs because thats the only way they will become a better person. But you can always be SUPPORTIVE. Helping and supporting are two very different things.

You "Help" people. Two things happen.

1. Dependence

2. Resentment

Neither of those are good.

I bet she has a "Habbit" of going to controlling men who "try to save her" (thinking they might, and oh I like the "idea" of that) than she realizes thats not what she wants and backs out.

Her behavior has nothing to do with you, she probably projects that on alot of guys.

I bet she enjoys male attention due to the fact of not having father figure. She wants you around still for the attention.
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Posted by Sagittarius89
I'm sorry to hear that, she probably has some man issues due to that and sadness. I didn't say you made a mess of her life, I said that you shouldn't of tried to fix it. You should never help people. People should only help themselfs because thats the only way they will become a better person. But you can always be SUPPORTIVE. Helping and supporting are two very different things.

You "Help" people. Two things happen.

1. Dependence

2. Resentment

Neither of those are good.

I bet she has a "Habbit" of going to controlling men who "try to save her" (thinking they might, and oh I like the "idea" of that) than she realizes thats not what she wants and backs out.

Her behavior has nothing to do with you, she probably projects that on alot of guys.
I bet she enjoys male attention due to the fact of not having father figure. She wants you around still for the attention.


very good post. the problem is she is not equipped to handle life all on her own. i refrained from saving her but foundations in place to build life on. problem was the timing is off. shes all about fun and games. that will come to an end when reality stares her down. im more concerned about her wanting to stay in touch with me. the sympothy card sign Love --------. the text think about you often, the note im sooo pround of you and the drive by. focusing on the why she is doing THAT. sags dont beat around the bush. right now i feel the need to stay focused on my life and how i am going to respond to her actions. right now i ignore her existance while she is with another man and i focus on the line of women interested in what i have to offer. i dont need her, but wanted her.
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Posted by valeria25
^^ they proclaim their fondness very openly (like all fire signs)

And I can tell you still want her 😛

I know, it's hard, after how you have been like a daddy-figure to her. You feel very protective and loving.
But she's with that other guy, and like I said, she's probably just thankful for all youve done. Maybe she's feeling guilty too. Who knows. She shouldn't go hiding and beating around the bush, and maybe she doesnt want to be near you because she probably still wants you too 😛

Sorry. Not trying to give you hope. But I know that you're very strict with your morals, I can tell too.
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her claim that i wasnt giving 100% buy barely 50% percent to her 100% was correct. the woman is not even divorced yet. being involved with her i wouldnt call strict. with so many problems going on in our lives, i couldnt take hers and she couldnt take mine. neither of us were thinking straight. i should not have been involved with her.... she needs to land and establish herself in her new life. she wanted to be all crazy for me in love. the excitement was there too. i drive a short track NASCAR car and go to 30 concerts a yr. ,have no kids and according to her AM A HOTTIE. why she would leave that to go to a man 12 yrs her senior who is a controlling cancer is another questionable move, IN MY OPINION. i cared for her and she cared for me deeply. we both admitted such. but lots of drama in only 4 months of being together. when we broke up she said she cant have a relationship, its all or nothing with me and she wants to be with her friends. all that and i find out she is with some guy who they call each other babe this babe that. whats with sags calling people babe? all i got called was a bed freak. lol just kidding. im sure she will remember THAT.
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Then perhaps you should just leave it at that. I can't see how it's benefitting you in any way to overanalyze her actions in retrospect.

Just move on with your life, and she will do the same.
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thats what i did and now that i have moved on she comes trolling around again, trying to act like she is part of my life in some way like i need her to be proud of me. lol. yeah ok. fortunately for me i'm not buying into what she is trying to do whatever that is. thats why i am ignoring her. she always said my actions speak louder than my words. she went to alot of trouble to have me exit her life. now she has what she wanted. HER TIME AND SPACE. go sow those oats BABY
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Then perhaps you should just leave it at that. I can't see how it's benefitting you in any way to overanalyze her actions in retrospect.

Just move on with your life, and she will do the same.
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not benefitting? most likely correct assumption. i did move on and now i find her trying to stay in touch. just want peace and forget about her and that relationship ever existed. sags think they can stay friends with their ex. sometimes are sadly mistaken.
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Just be assertive and tell her to piss off....if that's what you REALLY want.


But somehow I get the feeling that it's not.......


I mean, if you really wanted to get her out of your mind, then why start this thread? And why retrospectively analyze her actions?



True true, we just had too many personal problems that bled into the relationship, for one her pending divorce. i am upset at the fact she tried to tell me she couldnt have a relationship and blah blah blah, and then goes and gets involved again. thats why i started the thread to get into her head on why she still thinks she could contact me after lying. i had her out of my mind. but when she reopens these wounds by trying to stay in touch, it hurts.
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^^ Yeah I got that too. He still wants/desires her.

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Then perhaps you should just leave it at that. I can't see how it's benefitting you in any way to overanalyze her actions in retrospect.

Just move on with your life, and she will do the same.




not benefitting? most likely correct assumption. i did move on and now i find her trying to stay in touch. just want peace and forget about her and that relationship ever existed. sags think they can stay friends with their ex. sometimes are sadly mistaken.



you sound bitter. 😢

Find other women. Enjoy the experience you had with her. There's a ton out there that are looking for men 🙂
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unfortunately i am, had she focused on her life without me or any man for that matter and got her s--- together i would of had much more respect for her. but she was out to try to forget about me cause our breakup hurt her. a rebound relationship was good for her i suppose. but honestly she is in no position to be in any relationship in my opinion. im just trying to work on me. for me to respond back to her is just letting her know i am ok with being friends with her while she plays her men games.
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really what didnt work was she is in the midst of a custody battle and divorce and i am single with no kids, and i had no business being involved with her at this time. with my own issues to deal with neither of us should be in a relationship until things were worked through. we both knew this but she went head over heals and wanted to be with me. i guess i should of backed off. instead i just gave a 50% effort. i caught her and another guy sending each other semi riskay pictures was the sign that i should of left. she commented she wanted me and apologized. she wanted the guy who was a friend, as a back up she said in case things didnt work out with me. not good. thats why she got 50% . at least one of the reasons. now the guy she is with has to deal with the other guy who just got home from the Army. this just doesnt sound like the type of person i was hoping she would be. Sorry to say but her ways have just caused too many problems in her life. running around with different men only brings disappointment.

obviously she is thinking about me, and i think about her else i wouldnt be here. the texts, drive by and telling me she thinks about me often and the im proud of you comment. the no contact is getting to her. cant see me spending even a day in the friend zone after her behavior. i do love her enough to let her go. only time heals all wounds.
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UPDATE:7/19/10

Well its been 5 months since we broke up. shes dumped her cancer after only 2mo. and tried to make in roads back to me. i disappeared like so many have advised. she gave herself no time to get it together and jumped into another relationship with another cancer, an old friend from high school. she ran into one of my best friends( hot female)about 2wks ago and indicated that she missed me and hanging out with me and all the fun we had. she is remembering ALL THE GOOD TIMES. funny since i remember the pain i allowed her to make me feel. she said she wished we could be friends again. when my friend said what about your boyfriend who WE KNOW IS IN LOVE WITH HER, she exclaimed its nothing serious, he is getting divorced. WOW talk about getting involved in drama. i dont need it. my life is very exciting i dont blame her for missing it. we did many fun things together. the problem is, i dont need her to enjoy my life. i do those things with or without someone. But i cant help but wonder why she broke up with me when she felt we had all this fun and may want it back. she said i wish we could be friends, which we cant and i dont need her as a friend. she said maybe someday. i think she is missing the sex to be honest, that she did think was amazing. oh well still moving forward, if i cross paths with her again someday i can revisit my feelings then.
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Sags who are a mess do silly things, no one can ever help them except for themselves. They have to come to their senses before they could change their acts.

As I see it, she is making herself visible to you because she knows that you are the only person that could give her the support. Perhaps she finally realized that when you 2 broke up. The problem is she can't let go of the guy she is with unless you showed her signs that you are willing to take her back. I know it's not fair of her being with someone else and at the same time wanting to get back with you. The best thing that you need to do now is to let her be and hopefully she cleans up her own mess. Unless she cleans up her acts, she can never be a good mate to anyone.
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Sags who are a mess do silly things, no one can ever help them except for themselves. They have to come to their senses before they could change their acts.

As I see it, she is making herself visible to you because she knows that you are the only person that could give her the support. Perhaps she finally realized that when you 2 broke up. The problem is she can't let go of the guy she is with unless you showed her signs that you are willing to take her back. I know it's not fair of her being with someone else and at the same time wanting to get back with you. The best thing that you need to do now is to let her be and hopefully she cleans up her own mess. Unless she cleans up her acts, she can never be a good mate to anyone.



very good assumption. thank you. i generally dont like women who need a guy to jump to before they break up with them. that has not been the case with either of the two sags ive dated. both showed signs of wanting to reunite but not before they ended it with the guy they are with. i like independant woman and to me this is not independant, this is co dependant.

she has just screwed up her yearly rental and is now forced to live in a cheap winter rental at the beach. forcing her to have no where to live come spring. i am glad that i am not involved with these type of decisions. she will fend for herself. shes had to move in with her boyfriend for two weeks and cant wait to get to her own place. why do i have find out all this drama? she runs into people i know and tells them things that she knows for sure will get back to me.

then the other day she left a spiritual book that i left at her house on my doorstep with a note. "i hope you are doing well, found the book very good read i might add. i heard you were dating suzanne good luck i wish you all the best" funny thing is i am not dating suzanne. we are friends and she always felt threatened by her interest in me. to the point of violence. funny how she could wish the best when she dispised her. i wonder if i should even respond to this in an email? maybe it would be better for her to think i am dating suzanne. hmmmmm. any comments? i would like to bother her since she is taking the time to instigate that she wants to be friends again someday and she liked my body and etc. i didnt need to here this stuff. now i would like her to here some stuff back that bothers her. i g
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haha! She's definitely a Centaur! Ooppss, sorry for the laugh, I just happen to see myself in her (not in the way she does it though). She definitely wants you back so badly that she ends up doing silly things to get your attention. Even to the point of irritating you so she could merit a response from you. BUT, since you were ignoring her the more that she does these things that annoys you. If you'd reply in a way that would just irritate her more then expect a non-stop attention from her. But, if you'd just tell her to STOP and leave you alone, then I'm sure she'd leave you be.
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If you'd reply in a way that would just irritate her more then expect a non-stop attention from her.



hmmmmmmm. very interesting. she has tried many things over the 6months apart. i just thought she wanted to be just friends at first which i dont need anymore friends. i like games. especially head ones. now who can think of what to say that would irritate her as she is trying to get to me? any sags wanna take a shot at this?
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By taking the time to write about this Sag woman it goes to show how much you really miss her....I'm sure she wants you back and what makes you so appealing to her is that she doesnt have you eatting out of her hand. I'm sure she thought that you would come running back...You have became like a target to her and she will not stop until you give in or until she finds the one that makes her forget you...Unfortunatelly thats how it goes with sags. Good Luck 😉



based on me posting for the last 6 months, i think that goes without saying. i do miss her. we had lots of fun together. she knows. we danced at clubs, i drive short track NASCAR. i go to 30 concerts a yr. travel to conventions. i was right up her alley compared to her boring life stuck going through a divorce. well thats over. my problem is i dont chase women, i make them chase me. some will most wont. really i dont need to give her a second shot at me, i can find better. shes hot and all but thats not everything in life. doing life together is everything. i could give in but SHE IS WITH ANOTHER MAN and ive been dating. in fact i met another sag. but this one i did love. i just didnt let her know it. which was my mistake. i was taking things cautiously while she was divorcing as to not put pressure on her to move forward. i dont here from her much. now and again she runs into people i know a feed them info. knowing it will get back to me. if she wants to play that game which i didnt but now i might like to show her how it feels. any suggestions?
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based on me posting for the last 6 months, i think that goes without saying. i do miss her. we had lots of fun together. she knows. we danced at clubs, i drive short track NASCAR. i go to 30 concerts a yr. travel to conventions. i was right up her alley compared to her boring life stuck going through a divorce. well thats over. my problem is i dont chase women, i make them chase me. some will most wont. really i dont need to give her a second shot at me, i can find better. shes hot and all but thats not everything in life. doing life together is everything. i could give in but SHE IS WITH ANOTHER MAN and ive been dating. in fact i met another sag. but this one i did love. i just didnt let her know it. which was my mistake. i was taking things cautiously while she was divorcing as to not put pressure on her to move forward. i dont here from her much. now and again she runs into people i know a feed them info. knowing it will get back to me. if she wants to play that game which i didnt but now i might like to show her how it feels. any suggestions?



It's clear in this post that no matter how you miss her you no longer want her in your life. I see your urge of wanting to communicate to her to tell her ALL the hurt that she had given you, but as I've said it's best if you just totally ignore her. Actually there's no need for you to communicate now, SHE DEFINITELY KNOWS IT AND NOW IT'S KILLING HER. Just move on with your life, and since you are dating now just FOCUS on that thought.
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Another update: why? because im bored with my ex. and all her childish games has got me into playing too. its fun. oh well here it goes. you dont need to tell me to move on or that i still care for her. these are all true statements but the fact remains, she is with another man. anyway, the last i spoke was when she had dropped of a book with a note indication that she knew i was dating someone that bothers her. yes we are dating now but not for much longer. i am not interested in taking this relationship any further and want to move back into the friend zone with her. thats all another story.

i thought that the book back and the note was a dig into my personal life which i have not bothered hers. so to play back i had heard she was moving from her residence to another house and until it was ready she would move in with boyfriend. soooo many of you hear thought that if i gave her some attention she would continue to bother me. so i took the challage. i looked her up on my friends facebook and picked the name of her boyfriend out that i knew from someone else she blabbed to. then i went to the county records interned site and looked up any property he might own. i find he just bought a condo 2 months ago. great, i then send her at his address another spiritual booklet with a note. in the note i indicated im glad she injoyed the last book sooo much here is another. in my travels it was given to me and i know she would take care of it like she did the other book. i also mentioned i know she stopped by and dropped off the old book and im sure she wanted to see me, but i was out of town. couple other things i mentioned were of the spiritual nature and that i had seen another round of Rob Thomas who we saw back in Dec 09. signed with love virgo66. i figured she is home during the day and would get the mail and her bf would never know. how wrong i was.

this guy, a cancer male, blew a gasket. i had no idea he would see that book or note and frankly it really was just addressed to her. that was on a tues. that next sunday. my best friend who is a female was moving and was some 40 miles away from my ex and her bf. what happens they show up at my best friends new house with the moving truck outside. how she found out where she lived i have no idea. they come walking up and they proceed to want to come in and help out . my friend was curtious and then her bf started giving my friend the third degree on how did i get his address, he is scared im going to

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hurt him and he is afraid that i want my ex back. yada yada yada. i just cant believe she is with a feak like this and not to mention how weak he is which is distasteful to her. she like strong men. she belittled him in front of my friend about a few different things. really embarrassing for him to be confronted like this in front of my best friend im sure. he didnt like her at all, my friend, shes hot and this guy is nasty. why my ex is with a nasty looking guy when she is soo beautiful is mind boggling to me. anyway who am i to judge the why anyway?

about a few day later my best friend gets another facebook friend request from my ex. the second one. the first she ignored because she felt she would be used by my ex to get to me. well i advised her to accept, there isnt anything wrong with it and its been over 6 months, im not bothered by her like i used to be. most of the pain has subsided. anyway the day after she accepts, from what i learned her bf lossed it again and now her facebook page has been temporarily shut down. wow i just cant believe and independant woman like this who is with an ugly guy would be controlled like this. i couldnt control her. she would just do the oppostite of what anyone expected of her in demand. im expecting this relationship to break up seeing how i know how she acts when trying to be controlled. if so i expect to here from her again. till next time. hope you enjoyed the soap opera. lol. go ahead i'll take the comments. good or bad. this is fun for me to see the drama with this guy and her cause i know how much it bothered them and in his criticism of me all she did in front of my best friend is come to my defense.
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A Sag woman exists only to find a guy with solid options and a direction

and remove those options and change the direction to her own

and then change her mind about the whole thing

so the guy is left as aimless as she is.




They also have very short memories of "blow your mind" sexual experiences
and are very difficult to motivate to sex. But if you f**ked her like a
wild man ... you will affect her forever.

The four Sag girls I went out with all transitioned to black guys
and two married black guys ( the other 2 just "became white meat" )
and all are now physically abused.

Kinda made me feel strange...badly...until I was told that I ruined them
for all other white guys. haha

Serves them right.
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Vir66,

This is coming from someone who has plenty of experience with "I want to let go, but still love her."

I went through this same exact experience with my semi-ex Cap. She came from a broken home with a cokehead military father and mother who is mentally ill.

I let her ride roughshod over me all the time because of her family background. And cause I honestly thought she could be the one. The first time she broke it off. I moved on even though it freaking hurt like hell. Three months pass, I run into her and she is happy to see me.

She more or less initiates us going out on a date. We go, things supposedly went well. Then she becomes busy, aloof, and distant. She wouldnt contact me for two weeks at a time and act like things were cool.

I put up with this on/off pattern for a year. Then one day, I had what they call in AA "A moment of clarity." At the time we had been broken up for months. But she seemed interested in wanting to start things again. She asked for my number and called me. We talked for a while, and tried to schedule a meetup.

She had to go because her roommate at the time was b---hing in the background to use the phone. I tell her to call whenever regarding a date schedule.

Well, a month passes and I hear nothing. I moved on again, and then run into her. Once more, she acts like nothing is wrong. Seeing that made me so pissed off, I just walked away in the middle of our conversation.

And I have never looked back since. You couldnt pay me all the money in the world to get back together, let alone f--k her. The moment I knew I was over her is hearing she got a new bf and not feeling anything. It didnt bother me at all.

Virg66, cut off any way this sag girl can contact you. If she sends something dont read it through the crap away. Hell make up a lie saying you're moving to a different area of town. If you catch her still trying to stalk you, file a restraining order. Is it a little extreme and harsh? Yes. But sometimes being a jerk is the only way people will stop messing with you.

You sound like a guy who has options. Stay on the trek of helping yourself. And keep having flings with the current hotties that interest you. Until you feel strong enough mentally and emotionally to be in a relationship with someone else. Keep any line of communication available for your ex to use is not helping. GTFO and totally sever any way the nut can get in touch with you.
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Posted by WynterBourne
Wow. OK, now you're just fucking pathetic.

Hopefully soon the Cancer guy will persuade the stupid Sag to go to court and take out a restraining order against your psycho, stalking ass.



considering the such limited contact i have had with her i dont need to do that to her. and to do it to me would be overkill when there isnt a problem with us. she has requested to be friends with me and she was saved at my church. i only repond to her and dont intiate any contact. had she not stopped by there would be no need to play the game. so take your psycho overraction comment to the dump. not to mention the fact the cancer guy tried his hardest to put me down for doing anything to be in contact with her. which she indicated she liked, and liked my spiritual ways. sooo WynterBourne looks like my ex. defending me to her current bf has your advice nulified. what do you have next smarty pants?
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Posted by FlyingBurritos80
Vir66,

This is coming from someone who has plenty of experience with "I want to let go, but still love her."

I went through this same exact experience with my semi-ex Cap. She came from a broken home with a cokehead military father and mother who is mentally ill.

I let her ride roughshod over me all the time because of her family background. And cause I honestly thought she could be the one. The first time she broke it off. I moved on even though it freaking hurt like hell. Three months pass, I run into her and she is happy to see me.

She more or less initiates us going out on a date. We go, things supposedly went well. Then she becomes busy, aloof, and distant. She wouldnt contact me for two weeks at a time and act like things were cool.

I put up with this on/off pattern for a year. Then one day, I had what they call in AA "A moment of clarity." At the time we had been broken up for months. But she seemed interested in wanting to start things again. She asked for my number and called me. We talked for a while, and tried to schedule a meetup.

She had to go because her roommate at the time was b---hing in the background to use the phone. I tell her to call whenever regarding a date schedule.

Well, a month passes and I hear nothing. I moved on again, and then run into her. Once more, she acts like nothing is wrong. Seeing that made me so pissed off, I just walked away in the middle of our conversation.

And I have never looked back since. You couldnt pay me all the money in the world to get back together, let alone f--k her. The moment I knew I was over her is hearing she got a new bf and not feeling anything. It didnt bother me at all.

Virg66, cut off any way this sag girl can contact you. If she sends something dont read it through the crap away. Hell make up a lie saying you're moving to a different area of town. If you catch her still trying to stalk you, file a restraining order. Is it a little extreme and harsh? Yes. But sometimes being a jerk is the only way people will stop messing with you.

You sound like a guy who has options. Stay on the trek of helping yourself. And keep having flings with the current hotties that interest you. Until you feel strong enough mentally and emotionally to be in a relationship with someone else. Keep any line of communication available for your ex
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Posted by gemtaur
Oh, for eff's sake's, you LOVE her. This isn't fun for you. This is Virguy trying to reduce emotions to logic and rationalize his way out of it. Are you kidding me? How many months are you going to sit back and analyze rather than allow yourself to feel?

My suggestion? Go over to her place, tell her you love her and want her back, and DON'T try to control her this time. Then, take your clothes off and hers too and thank me later.

Jesus.



Lol. i dont think i would torture myself thinking she could be anything of what i need at this point. she could start though with showing me how good of a friend she could be for me, thats a start, but it will destroy her cancer man if he ever found out she was in touch with me. insecure freak he is.
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Posted by gemtaur
Bitter much Scorp?

Only when over $ 250,000 in real eastate and 8 months of
relentless convincing are involved, followed by a
"I think I've made a terrible mistake, I'm sorry"
( TRANSLATION: I want a new horse, so I can't help with the mortgage
that i convinced you into ... Bye! )
less than a week after the deal went through
on this house she wanted "so bad"
and which I finally got rid of.


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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
Psst........scorpiopics.......yeah, you.......I gots a little somethin' for ya'..............

( photo of catapults and thorns )


*walks away whistling*


😄




lol
love and suffering do go hand in hand for scorp
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It used to be, because I was all about commitment and devotion
and compromise to please to the other and kinda expected the
same in return and that no little fucktarded w.ho.re would
get me into a deal ...then a week later default on her part.


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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
Psst........scorpiopics.......yeah, you.......I gots a little somethin' for ya'..............






*walks away whistling*


😄




Thanks for the roses, but I don't want anything from
a Sagittarius. I know you must be intensely attracted
to me ( otherwise you would not be sending me the roses
...you'd just ignore me )...but ... just do me and you
a favor and fuck-off.

I have notice however that little w.h.o.r.e.s seeing
other w.h.o.r.e.s being chastised for w.h.o.rish behavior
tend to get really mad about it and expose themselves
as w.h.o.r.e.s. It is God's plan.

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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
Scorpiopics:

1shouldn't you be off planning those Sag women murders or something?


BTW:

2Did you really date a Sag woman? That must have been the lamest 24 hours of her life!


3(until she got the restraining order)

😄



1 - I don't know a single Sagittarius female that would be
worth the 28 years. No in-depth plans would be needed anyway.

2 - Lived with 1 over 6 months, the one mentioned: over a year.
Longest single non-stop sex marathon was only 22 hours, not 24.
In retrospect, I WISH it had been lame.

3 - No restraining order was required to keep me away.
When she told me she was going to buy and board a horse
instead of pay her (predetermined) share of the mortgage

- her stuff was sent to her parent's home while she was
at work and I changed the locks on "my" house.


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Wow. OK, now you're just fucking pathetic.

Hopefully soon the Cancer guy will persuade the stupid Sag to go to court and take out a restraining order against your psycho, stalking ass.



considering the such limited contact i have had with her i dont need to do that to her. and to do it to me would be overkill when there isnt a problem with us. she has requested to be friends with me and she was saved at my church. i only repond to her and dont intiate any contact. had she not stopped by there would be no need to play the game. so take your psycho overraction comment to the dump. not to mention the fact the cancer guy tried his hardest to put me down for doing anything to be in contact with her. which she indicated she liked, and liked my spiritual ways. sooo WynterBourne looks like my ex. defending me to her current bf has your advice nulified. what do you have next smarty pants?



That you're delusional.

The Sag dumped you right? And probably feels sorry for your lovesick ass, and mistakenly feels that if she's kind and sympathetic to you that you'll let go of her easier.

That's why I say she's stupid by attempting to be friendly to you. Look how you keep obsessing over her.

Get some help dude. Seriously.
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no she didnt dump me, i walked out on her, took my stuff and left over her uncontrollable anger. she realized i dont love her enough to put up with her bs and being i dont have the baggage she carries, im in a much better position to be a better catch than she is. i wanted to work things out with her to help her become a better person and she was too hurt to see any other way than to move on. she needed someone who was head over heals for her and that just wasnt me. so she took a couple steps back in the looks department and easily found that type who she could walk all over.

when sags dont win they take their toys and go home. poor girl, just couldnt compete with my Libra. now that was a good game to watch, having a libra fight it out for me with the sag. i was told who would win and they were right. Libras are all about relationships. very developed people. she outsmarted my sag and underminded our relationship until
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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
Virgo66 said this: "when sags dont win they take their toys and go home. poor girl, just couldnt compete with my Libra. now that was a good game to watch, having a libra fight it out for me with the sag. i was told who would win and they were right."




And my response is: So, you're basically admitting that you enjoy playing games and manipulating people?

Pfft. Can we say "transparent"? No wonder the Sag tired of you. We can see right through that shit.

Leave her alone dude. I can guarantee she doesn't want you back. And before you come back with the predictable lackluster retort of "but I don't want her back??", think about how much time and energy (both online and offline) you have put into this "game" so far. So while your words may be saying one thing ("I don't want her"), your ACTIONS are definitely saying another ("I'm either a weirdo stalker or a vengeful psycho. Take your pick").


Like I said: Transparent, for the reals.

And no offense or anything, but you sound like a bunny-boiler in the making.

Why don't you give the Libra a call? Sounds like she's hip to playing your games.


:/



i didnt play any games with her while we were together so im not sure what you are referring to. i think you should reread some posts about the type of things this girl says about me to other people. i not really concerned about whether she wants me back, its not about her its about me and whether i would even want her back. i havent spent hardly anytime compared to the energy she has spent talking to my female friends about me. i havent stalked her, talked to her texted her nor called her in 6 months. so stalker isnt even on the list. vengeful psycho is overboard. you could catoragize her as that for some of her behavior but even that would be a stretch. i think your over reaching in your assessment. i wouldnt worry too much about me, i came here to ask questions about her behavior.
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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
Second time's a charm...

Now that the murderous, Sag-hating arachnid has scurried into the shadows.....


virgo66, I remember talking to you when I had my old sn jade_dragon. I told you then that you needed to move on with your life and stop obsessing about her. It is clearly doing neither of you any good at all.

Now, do something for me. Re-read the following excerpt from your post. Can you HONESTLY tell me that this sounds like normal, well-adjusted behaviour on your part?


Posted by virgo66


so to play back i had heard she was moving from her residence to another house and until it was ready she would move in with boyfriend. soooo many of you hear thought that if i gave her some attention she would continue to bother me. so i took the challage. i looked her up on my friends facebook and picked the name of her boyfriend out that i knew from someone else she blabbed to. then i went to the county records interned site and looked up any property he might own. i find he just bought a condo 2 months ago. great, i then send her at his address another spiritual booklet with a note. in the note i indicated im glad she injoyed the last book sooo much here is another. in my travels it was given to me and i know she would take care of it like she did the other book. i also mentioned i know she stopped by and dropped off the old book and im sure she wanted to see me, but i was out of town. couple other things i mentioned were of the spiritual nature and that i had seen another round of Rob Thomas who we saw back in Dec 09. signed with love virgo66. i figured she is home during the day and would get the mail and her bf would never know. how wrong i was.





And you do realize that if she ever decides to take legal action against what could DEFINITELY be perceived as stalking and harassment on your part, that your ip address has been logged on a GOVERNMENT WEBSITE? Searching the housing records of her current BF?

Seriously. That's just fucked. :/


For your own sake, just let this go.

Good luck to you 🙂
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i dont think its that serious just amusement at this point. his address was also in the real estate listing sales. all public information. besides shes the one who let it be known to my bestfriend where she would be and gave her,
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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
I really have nothing more to add to this, virgo66. Your self-described actions (scouring a government website to find out where your ex is currently living, and then sending a book to her boyfriend's house) have revealed you to be a stalker.


I actually felt kinda sorry for you, until you revealed that you enjoyed watching the Sag and the Libra compete for your affection. Now, I think you are a bit of a dodgy kunt, who revels in playing games. But it looks like that kinda backfired on you, didn't it?


Some final words of advice: leave the Sag alone. Seriously. That's all there is to it. If she- for some reason unbeknownst to me- decides to contact you in the future, instead of playing MORE games, just be direct and ask her what's up. Does she want you or not? If yes, just do it; if not, LEAVE HER ALONE FOR GOOD, and stop wearing your creep pants.


I will now return to the role of perplexed bystander, watching in confused amazement as you continue to engage in circular reasoning with yourself.


Peace out.



lol. no comment on her behavior huh? not a one. if she were to contact me? i think if you read my posts you will see this is all her doing. i make one move to send something nice to her which she liked and you get all over me thinking im stalking her. your funny. i havent even so much as gone near where she lived and its only blocks away all summer. so i think your assessment is way off base. games you say? what about all the inuendos she is sending you dont mention any of those is your assessment. there really is nothing to feal sorry about. i didnt want to offer her the type of love she was looking for, its a simple as that. so i moved on when we broke up. i dont really thing she though i would. when she found out i did is when she started all this, i want to be friends with him again, i miss him, i liked his body, we had sooo much fun together. so dont give me this shit that im the one who is stalking her, big deal i sent her a little spiritual booklet with a note showing her i have no resentment towards her just forgiveness. life is short to harbour any of these negative feelings. i know what she wants from me and wanted from me. i just wanted to reserve that while i watched her integrity deteriorate in front of people i know.
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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
---
@ Scorpiopics

Second time's a charm...

Now that the murderous, Sag-hating arachnid has scurried into the shadows...
---


I have not ever scurried into the shadows.
That does not mean I won't go there slowly and wait.



@ Virgo66

And you do realize that if she ever decides to take legal action against what could DEFINITELY be perceived as stalking and harassment on your part, that your ip address has been logged on a GOVERNMENT WEBSITE? Searching the housing records of her current BF?

@ Virgo66

She's just jealous that nobody wants her like that.
But ... the boyfriend will do your wet work for you
if you give him enough time to show him her true colors.

It is best for you to not pursue her anymore and become
a suspect for something you DIDN'T do.











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Posted by scorpiopics
Posted by Dynamite Parfait
---
@ Scorpiopics

Second time's a charm...

Now that the murderous, Sag-hating arachnid has scurried into the shadows...
---


I have not ever scurried into the shadows.
That does not mean I won't go there slowly and wait.



@ Virgo66

And you do realize that if she ever decides to take legal action against what could DEFINITELY be perceived as stalking and harassment on your part, that your ip address has been logged on a GOVERNMENT WEBSITE? Searching the housing records of her current BF?

@ Virgo66

She's just jealous that nobody wants her like that.
But ... the boyfriend will do your wet work for you
if you give him enough time to show him her true colors.

It is best for you to not pursue her anymore and become
a suspect for something you DIDN'T do.

i stopped pursuing her long ago. when she realized i didnt need her everything changed. she flew away like a loose balloon. lol. i just let her go. i was the better catch. she really knew she had nothing to offer me. where as what i could offer her was a list, that i just wasnt willing to do for her. once i watched her integrity fall apart, i pulled away. she is already putting her bf down in public in front of my confidants. lol. they just laugh at this tool. she feels so good about herself she put on 35lbs and looks terrible. stress will kill ya. got out just before the self indulgent behavior really escallated. she wishes i would pursue her, but she knows where to find me.... take a walk up the integrity latter and i'll be there. she chose the low road. thats fine. love these chats though. oh well no more drama till next time.









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Posted by virgo66

i didnt play any games with her while we were together so im not sure what you are referring to. i think you should reread some posts about the type of things this girl says about me to other people. i not really concerned about whether she wants me back, its not about her its about me and whether i would even want her back. i havent spent hardly anytime compared to the energy she has spent talking to my female friends about me. i havent stalked her, talked to her texted her nor called her in 6 months. so stalker isnt even on the list. vengeful psycho is overboard. you could catoragize her as that for some of her behavior but even that would be a stretch. i think your over reaching in your assessment. i wouldnt worry too much about me, i came here to ask questions about her behavior.



It's one thing for you to come here and ask questions BUT it's another if you would go look up for her bf's address and send her a book. If you already have a libra and if you keep on saying that you don't want to be with the Sag girl anymore SO WHY REALLY BOTHER? And why would you waste your time over something that you don't want in your life anyway? This is why most people here are telling you that what you speak is not what you really feel, you don't wanna admit it that you still want Sag girl but your actions speak for it...

You've started this post in March so just the thought of her and annoying her is really a waste of time. Better focus with your libra girl instead.
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Posted by virgo66

i didnt play any games with her while we were together so im not sure what you are referring to. i think you should reread some posts about the type of things this girl says about me to other people. i not really concerned about whether she wants me back, its not about her its about me and whether i would even want her back. i havent spent hardly anytime compared to the energy she has spent talking to my female friends about me. i havent stalked her, talked to her texted her nor called her in 6 months. so stalker isnt even on the list. vengeful psycho is overboard. you could catoragize her as that for some of her behavior but even that would be a stretch. i think your over reaching in your assessment. i wouldnt worry too much about me, i came here to ask questions about her behavior.



It's one thing for you to come here and ask questions BUT it's another if you would go look up for her bf's address and send her a book. If you already have a libra and if you keep on saying that you don't want to be with the Sag girl anymore SO WHY REALLY BOTHER? And why would you waste your time over something that you don't want in your life anyway? This is why most people here are telling you that what you speak is not what you really feel, you don't wanna admit it that you still want Sag girl but your actions speak for it...

You've started this post in March so just the thought of her and annoying her is really a waste of time. Better focus with your libra girl instead.
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i have already answered these questions in past posts on the why's. but i will add and sum up in one post for you. our relationship was very short, only 4 months, we really did not have a chance to get to know one another. what she recieved from me was the three forms of love,(spiritual, physical and emotional), in bits and pieces. she was not the type of girl who does anything in bits and pieces especially in the love department. because of outside pressures on her situation and mine, we really didnt have a chance, now that i look back. based on her conversations with my female friends she has indicated because of my no contact with her, that she would like to be friends again. since the physical and emotional love i had for her has died down all i have left is the spiritual. so whenever i re
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Posted by Dynamite Parfait
Second time's a charm...

Now that the murderous, Sag-hating arachnid has scurried into the shadows.....


virgo66, I remember talking to you when I had my old sn jade_dragon. I told you then that you needed to move on with your life and stop obsessing about her. It is clearly doing neither of you any good at all.

Now, do something for me. Re-read the following excerpt from your post. Can you HONESTLY tell me that this sounds like normal, well-adjusted behaviour on your part?


Posted by virgo66


so to play back i had heard she was moving from her residence to another house and until it was ready she would move in with boyfriend. soooo many of you hear thought that if i gave her some attention she would continue to bother me. so i took the challage. i looked her up on my friends facebook and picked the name of her boyfriend out that i knew from someone else she blabbed to. then i went to the county records interned site and looked up any property he might own. i find he just bought a condo 2 months ago. great, i then send her at his address another spiritual booklet with a note. in the note i indicated im glad she injoyed the last book sooo much here is another. in my travels it was given to me and i know she would take care of it like she did the other book. i also mentioned i know she stopped by and dropped off the old book and im sure she wanted to see me, but i was out of town. couple other things i mentioned were of the spiritual nature and that i had seen another round of Rob Thomas who we saw back in Dec 09. signed with love virgo66. i figured she is home during the day and would get the mail and her bf would never know. how wrong i was.





And you do realize that if she ever decides to take legal action against what could DEFINITELY be perceived as stalking and harassment on your part, that your ip address has been logged on a GOVERNMENT WEBSITE? Searching the housing records of her current BF?

Seriously. That's just fucked. :/


For your own sake, just let this go.

Good luck to you 🙂
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Haha, agreed!
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i didnt play any games with her while we were together so im not sure what you are referring to. i think you should reread some posts about the type of things this girl says about me to other people. i not really concerned about whether she wants me back, its not about her its about me and whether i would even want her back. i havent spent hardly anytime compared to the energy she has spent talking to my female friends about me. i havent stalked her, talked to her texted her nor called her in 6 months. so stalker isnt even on the list. vengeful psycho is overboard. you could catoragize her as that for some of her behavior but even that would be a stretch. i think your over reaching in your assessment. i wouldnt worry too much about me, i came here to ask questions about her behavior.



It's one thing for you to come here and ask questions BUT it's another if you would go look up for her bf's address and send her a book. If you already have a libra and if you keep on saying that you don't want to be with the Sag girl anymore SO WHY REALLY BOTHER? And why would you waste your time over something that you don't want in your life anyway? This is why most people here are telling you that what you speak is not what you really feel, you don't wanna admit it that you still want Sag girl but your actions speak for it...

You've started this post in March so just the thought of her and annoying her is really a waste of time. Better focus with your libra girl instead.
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i have already answered these questions in past posts on the why's. but i will add and sum up in one post for you. our relationship was very short, only 4 months, we really did not have a chance to get to know one another. what she recieved from me was the three forms of love,(spiritual, physical and emotional), in bits and pieces. she was not the type of girl who does anything in bits and pieces especially in the love department. because of outside pressures on her situation and mine, we really didnt have a chance, now that i look back. based on her conversations with my female friends she has indicated because of my no contact with her, that she would like to be friends again. since the physical and emotio
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