Sagittarius and relatonships

So Saggys are a bit infamous for being wanderers, how do you all view relationships and commitment? Do you find it comforting or suffocating and restricting?

I dont that sagi's are wanderers. I think that before they settle they want to make sure that they are with the right person. My moon is in Sagi...therefore the way I manage my emotions are pretty much those of a Sagi...maybe even more...I personnally always feel like I need to take a step back when it comes to a relationship...it seems somehow that I never know if I have made the right decision!

Posted by gemtaur
All Air signs + Saggie = following

Helium balloon (me) + relationship

If I truly love you, I'll give you the string hoping you'll hold onto it for life. I'll always be a balloon though, never fully rooted in the ground and you need to understand and respect that.

If you deflate my balloon, I'm gone.

Deflating can take different forms depending on the sign.

Libra - lack of fairness/lack of freedom
Gem - boredom/lack of freedom
Aqua - boredom/lack of freedom
Saggie - lack of freedom & independence

Then you've got to factor in the "grass is always greener on the other side" syndrome which is usually what all Air sign/Saggie "wandering" is about. The more significant Earth placements the better. If we're lucky it lessens with time and experience. What a life.

Just my .02

That actually makes a lot of sense. Thank you for your insight =) The reason I ask is Sagittarius especially if they are on the cusp of Scorpio seems to be my best match. The one thing I find unsettling about Sagittarius is how uninhibited they can be sexually. What I mean by that is they are willing to get it on with someone fairly quickly.....I'm not sure why but it really bothers me. I think it's probably a bit of jealousy on my part lol.

Posted by gemtaur
It might be jealousy on your part.

Another thing to think about is that Saggie is a Fire sign, we're all about action (I'm Saggie rising) first, (consequences later). It doesn't mean our feelings aren't genuine at the moment, and remember that's how we express deep emotions, through action. I have a Fire moon as well and I can tell you, I'd much rather SHOW you than tell you even though I'm a Gemini!

Back to the "at the moment" part...This is what you need to focus on. If he cares about you, he'll wait until you're comfortable, foregoing his need to express STAT. You need to ensure that it's not a momentary thing and you do that by making him wait it out. But I wouldn't get all suspicious by the quick pace, it's just how we are and we're naive enough to think everyone understands (which might be why he hasn't bothered explaining his behaviour lol).

Just channel your Aries and you'll be fine 😉

Thanks Dynamite! I feel the same way reading your stuff. Do you have any Aqua in your chart?

I don't think I was clear enough lol. It's not the way he acts towards me It's the fact that he's had sex with so many people in the past that bothers me lol. I have slight issues with jealousy and possessiveness I guess lol. When I think of him I'm like HE'S MINE NO ONE ELSE CAN HAVE HIM!!!!! But I remember that Sagittarius folk don't like that at all so I calm down. I haven't really talked about it with him much. I don't mention it because I don't want him to feel like I'm trying to be controlling lol.

I've never been this jealous in my life lol. It's just like you guys are so free and share your bodies with people so willingly and are flirtatious. My guy is also ridiculously good looking. I feel threatened by it I suppose. My natural instinct is I want to be in control(my Scorpio coming out). But I know I need to let him feel free so I back down on this sort of thing and keep it to myself. We get along so well besides this. We've known each other a long time but I can't help but feel the fires of jealousy plume up whenever he talks to another guy or talks about guy's he's dated in the past. I suppose it's more my issue and not his.

A little jealousy doesn't hurt lol I kinda like it when a guy can be a little jealouse. Very little though. In a humorous way. Not possessive and scary and it's super serious. As long as you're not pulling him away from anything then it's all good. When it's just the two of you he'll enjoy you huging and holding on tight I'm sure. Being possessive in bed is always good too 😉

Posted by Dianasart
A little jealousy doesn't hurt lol I kinda like it when a guy can be a little jealouse. Very little though. In a humorous way. Not possessive and scary and it's super serious. As long as you're not pulling him away from anything then it's all good. When it's just the two of you he'll enjoy you huging and holding on tight I'm sure. Being possessive in bed is always good too 😉

He does love being held ha ha ha. He really is amazing I just have to cool it. You Sagys know how to make someone feel amazing lol. He's very warm and accepting and he's more or less aware I have jealousy issues and he just told me a few hours ago how much he appreciates me working on it. He also is extremely intellectual and philosophical which I love.

Awww thank you. I've managed to keep his attention for over a year straight so I think I'm doing pretty well. He's very tactful and he knows how to say something to me so I'll listen and not get pissed off. He's also a Sagittarius moon and Capricorn Ascendant. He's been faithful but he is a natural flirt without knowing it. I spoke with him about a few things and I had to explain to him what jealousy feels like lol. It's a foreign concept to him.

Nope I have yet to get bored lol. Most importantly we laugh about our differences and respect them. He says all the time I remind him of a Samurai because of how intense and strong I am.

I don't think saggis are wanderers. My ex hubby is one - you couldn't have found a more faithful man. Now that we've split he's sticking his sausage into every plate of mash but hey, it's his life after 14 years being in a relationship.

My friend is a saggi female. She's also incredibly loyal and faithful and I'd fall over backward with a feather duster up my ass if she ever cheated on a partner, it's just not her way. Mind you, she's a bit of a committment phobe nowadays after being cheated on.

Another male friend of mine, also a saggi - he's not the type to cheat. But he is the type to not commit.

What about a Scorpio Sun Sag Moon? Anyone have any helpful insight on those?

I am a Saggie female and I have never cheated on any man I have dated. I can handle someone having a little jealousy but alot well, no way, that will shut me down and push you away. I like my space to do as I please yet, I want to settle down with someone who is willing to give me that space. Never interigate a Saggie because they will give you nothing and will back off. If you just let them be them, they will give you the world and will not hold back on telling you what is going on with their life and how they feel and what they want but, never read between the lines with a Saggie because there is none. They say what they mean even if they don't mean how they say it.

I am a sag/scorp cusper: I have never cheated in any relationship I have been in. I am always loyal to my man but once he crosses me, I'm gone. I do know what I want and WHO I want rather quickly. I find myself able to see substance and character in people right away. Not sure if its a Sag thing or just me. I am a bit jealous in relationships but don't show it all the time. I am intense in love and like a man who is not showy, talkative or flowery in speech. In my current relationship, my Virgo guy does not come on strong. He is quiet and unassuming but he shows how he cares for me in his consistency. He calls me every night, asks how I am and my family are. He spends his weekends with me. What he doesn't express in words he is quite able to show me in other ways!

My brother is also a Sag.. he is very outgoing and loves attention. But he is very happily married to a Cancer lady for 15 years. He has never cheated on her and does everything in his power to make her happy.

im a sag and ive never cheated on the one boyfriend that i had..i never even looked at another man when i was with him. Once im in love, im committed and loyal. im also a jealous and possesive bitch who can be your best friend or worst nightmare...

im also a scorpio moon

I do find that many of the Sagittarians I know are quite flirty or not very committed....
But many of them are born under the third Decante of Sagittarius.
More of a communicative part of the sign than philosophical.
I am a very loyal person and a little possessive. (Scorpio in Venus)
So, I find that I am a little different from other Sagittarius females.

I have a Cancer moon, which might be why I love long-term relationships.

I can't stand flirting, mostly because I feel it takes too much effort. It's fun initially, but I can't take it for too long until I start saying "okay, let's get serious."

Once in love a Sag is very true & loyal regardless of their past. It was all experimentation to them. When they love, they love hard but they need you to set the rules. So don't be afraid of letting him know what your expectations are. It's how you do it. Make it that it is what you need rather than attack him for flirting etc... If he feels the same, he'll give % 100.

Totally agree with Mistery