Ever Single?

Just want some insight from some Sag's ...u all intrigue me lol. So are you guys ever totally single? I mean no ex on the side, no new boo or taking breaks etc you know all the excuses people use to see other people. Are you guys ever just by yourselves for more than a day or 2? Is someone always waiting in the wings—

This was just a question I had in general about Sag's people based on what Ive observed with friends, friends of friends and people I dated. They're phones are always lighting up or they are always intersted in someone.. just wondering.

To answer your question, yes we are. I think as Saggies we tend to go through these periods where "alone time" is what we need especially coming out of a long relationship. Some of us, so much, that many consider us loners. As an independent sign, we are not afraid of being alone like some are.
Myself, I've been single for 2.5 years...but keep in mind I was coming out of a 16 year marriage (with him almost 19 years since the age of 18) so these past few years of alone time is exactly what I needed to sort of "cleanse" myself and really get to know me as me, not me "with that guy". It is only now that I am starting to hit the dating scene. But even so, 2.5 years later, I am still enjoying my single status and have the mindset that if I meet someone and it doesn't move to anything serious, so be it...if it does, it does...
I also have a Sag girlfriend (birthday 7 days before mine and let me say we get along like 2 peas in a pod) and she was single for 4 years (sporadic guy friends here and there) it was only just within the last 6 months she finally met this guy and her first real solid boyfriend.

could sag men be different?

It's funny that you bring this up because I was just thinking about this and I NEVER AM! There is always one or two people who are still in love with me, wheater Im single or not. (Not to be like that) but it's true. I don't know what it is lol

It feels like I'm never single too. There is someone in the prospects 9/10 times.
I'm not a player, I just crush a lot. 😛

But really. I like to keep a backup.

Id like to hear about these sag male family members as well... it seems like the sag's I know are technically "single" but always have backups so its funny u guys say that. So is it like a restless single.. or are u perfectly happy "crushing" lol —

LOL exactly

Posted by Dynamite Parfait

Posted by brianafay
It feels like I'm never single too. There is someone in the prospects 9/10 times.
I'm not a player, I just crush a lot. 😛

But really. I like to keep a backup.

Yes. This is one of the reasons why I always stay friends with (most of) my exes.

You never know when you'll have a dry spell and need to call for "back-up"

*cough*

😛

click to expand

You girls are terrible 😛

There's this interesting book for men about being alone ... can't remember the title, but it talks about how sometimes very successful people take time away from having a "significant other" so that they can better devote all their efforts to some other productive task. I remember how I never dated in HS, even though some pretty cute girls would ask me out. I also made perfect grades and went to college on full scholarship ... so there may be some truth to that book. Anyway, there was just one problem back then though; I was always lonely.

Now, much less ambitious ... haha, and not turning down invitations from ladies anymore ... well, not unless it's because I'm busy w/ another 😛

Why's that? So he can get owneddddddd

Lol "apply liberally" totally my motto

I am a loner Saggi female for the most part. Even when I am in a relationship, I need my space and like to do my own thing and not be questioned on what I am doing and when I am doing it because if that does happen, the relationship will end really quick. I usually offer information about what I am doing but if someone I am with starts drilling me then it won't last. I know a few men that would love to be with me and who are in love with me but, I keep my distance from them. I get so involved with work and working on projects at home that I just don't spend the time to be in contact with alot of people. I would definately say I am a loner Saggi!!

My younger brother is a Sag and he's been single for over a year now. He's been focusing on his music, and says chicks are too complicated to do both. lol

I think it really depends... on the Sag..

It does. Sagi's are just generally hard to pin down. They are creative spirits who have a lot of interests and love their freedom. At least, that's what I've observed in those I've known.

Saggies, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. 😉

Wow reading everyone responses makes me feel so normal now 😄. I honestly thought I was weird for being like you guys are saying but now that I see that most Saggs are like that makes me feel better lol. We are definitely never mentally single, me too even if I like someone I always have "that someone" in my head or that "cute guy I just met" in my head. Even in a relationship my mind still wanders and thinks about that "someone".