Sagittarius and resentment or grudges

Ok I'm moving on from the sag, but this week on a daily basis I'm reminded of what I did to end her trust in me, anything I say she reverts back to what I did, earlier I had the kids for a couple of hours and the 8 yr old girl asked if I would be tucking her in to bed and I said I couldn't tonight because I had to see a friend (kids still don't know about us splitting) she burst in to tears saying I'm never there anymore, it broke my heart but I comforted her and took them home, I said to the sag, she is a little upset and........... Door slammed in my face! I said via text I was willing to tuck her in to bed and she said no, what have you said to her, you caused this hope your proud!! So I get this 3 more times off her, I said put out differences to one side, forget about us and the past and be there for the kids.

So I phone sag's mother about something different and who answers the phone but my daughter! I said what was she doing there and she said mummy took us here for the night after I left!!! So I get questioned about parenting and wanting to make sure my girl is ok but she sends the kids to her mothers regardless of the upset, I find her selfish to extreme levels when she has a new man, I know because she pulled the same stunts while we were seeing each other!

So question is why is she holding on to so much resentment? I want to move on but I keep getting dragged back with this reminder of the past, by the way she has her period at the end of the week so it explain the anger a little ( her mothers words not mine! )

Are these your biological kids? Have you adopted them?

Saggis with venus in scorps can hold on to pain. She may have been fine beforehand, but something triggered that response.

if these arent YOUR kids, id remove myself from the situation. All seems so messy 2 me.

Hi DMV the youngest is mine but the other 2 are not, I've brought them up as my own since they can remember, I can't leave them, I cannot describe the bond I have with them, I have 3 kids and that's not going to change regardless of what mum and dad are doing.

I don't know what's triggered it, she is definately holding on to the pain, it's been pretty vicious from her this week and I'm getting a bit battle scarred here!!

Is she still holding on to the pain so she can make me suffer? Or does she still have feelings for me? To be honest my feelings are shot, I can't see me ever getting back with her now

Tough situation. I empathize. Well, her feelings are fleeting ya know. She probably wants you to feel how she feels. But dont put up with that. Tell your baby mama to chill.

Ohh aquavita, classic case of no one listens to you so you have to repeat your drivel twice?! I sympathise with you

You got some issues to share? let it all out maybe someone will help

no good spouting your scolded crap on my thread go and start a new one with the title "I have issues"

Yes aquavita, hilarious