@Cancerbabe
13 Years
Go Away Sags!
Why Do Sagittarians Keep Contact With Exes
Sagittarius individuals often seek closure and clarity, which can lead to occasional contact with exes. They value honesty and independence, but sometimes struggle to fully let go, resulting in sporadic communication. Understanding their need for emotional resolution can explain why they reach out even after ending relationships.
He probably has a some water in his chart (probably a cancer placement) and is feeling nostalgic and misses you.
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He's wanting some loving and exes are a great choice.
OR
saggis with little to no water get over themselves and the drama; water under the bridge so to speak. lovers can become friends very easily. they choose not to live in the past instead they will be friends with you and look to do all the positive things they did with you while in a relationship; even if it means sex. They will steer clear of the negative ones.
Posted by DMV
He probably has a some water in his chart (probably a cancer placement) and is feeling nostalgic and misses you.OR
He's wanting some loving and exes are a great choice.
OR
saggis with little to no water get over themselves and the drama; water under the bridge so to speak. lovers can become friends very easily. they choose not to live in the past instead they will be friends with you and look to do all the positive things they did with you while in a relationship; even if it means sex. They will steer clear of the negative ones.
i dont know his placement and i dont even care lol. once i lose interest there's no going back. i have never ever gone back to an ex ever. we stayed cool. said what up whenever i would see them but that's it.
plus he's got a stud looking girlfriend that he's very proud of. go away man! lol leave me alone.
Posted by silentkiller
Hmm.... How strange! Maybe he feels guilty or something?I am scorp/sag cusp, dated a cancer guy. We both messed it up, but me being the more dramatic and confrontational, I left one day and did the deleting on facebook and 'I can't see you anymore' thing.
There has been no contact between thw two of us for 2-3 months now. I, the scorp/sag, think about contacting him, because he did some Things, that I just don't understand. ... I'm not gonna lie, I still want him, but I screwed it up by leaving. Does that sag still want you? Just trying to point out, that either clearing the air or trying to get someone back, would be my motive for contacting him (If I ever did😉, but honestly I wouldn't stand a chance). But IF I decide to contact him, I would be very upfront with my motive. What does he say??I don't know... Some people just can't let go of the boost they get from when someone likes them...
Especially Guys can be kinda "weak" that way. They can't live without the constant assurance, that SOMEBODY likes them, no matter what they do. If it bothers you or in some ways hurt you that he is all friendly now, I am pretty sure, that he doesn't understand or acknowledge that.
well to be fair... girls are different than guys. so women will hold on i find and stay in contact because they want to maybe rekindle but guys i find they just want that ego boost to know you're still thinking of them. perhaps he's doing that.
i mean when we were together we broke up like 3 times. and everytime we broke up, he would do these kinda things to just stay relevant in my life. then when i dont respond he begs to come back. this time it's different because he has a lesbian girlfriend (lol) and i have a man ... there have been no contact at all. he seems to be head over heels in love with this girl (according to his instagram. yes i creep sometimes lol just cuz) so why bother me?
Just asked him to leave you alone.
My ex fuck buddy Sag started texting me almost daily, calling me "his best friend" etc. I enjoyed the banter for a few months, but rarely replied. I like him, he's hilarious, but I don't see how we could get from "nothing but sex" to "nothing but friendship". We are both in a relationship now, and last thing I want is to introduce the Sag to my Gem, or get introduced to his Leo gf.
I just asked him to leave me alone, and so far, so good.
Posted by Undine
Just asked him to leave you alone.My ex fuck buddy Sag started texting me almost daily, calling me "his best friend" etc. I enjoyed the banter for a few months, but rarely replied. I like him, he's hilarious, but I don't see how we could get from "nothing but sex" to "nothing but friendship". We are both in a relationship now, and last thing I want is to introduce the Sag to my Gem, or get introduced to his Leo gf.
I just asked him to leave me alone, and so far, so good.
i've done that initially but it doesnt seem to get through cuz a couple of months later he will hit me up just to see if i'm alive as he says it lol. i've blocked him on everything then he texts me on another number. then he emails me asking why i blocked him and what did he do that was so terrible? he just doesnt get it.
Posted by DMV
He probably has a some water in his chart (probably a cancer placement) and is feeling nostalgic and misses you.OR
He's wanting some loving and exes are a great choice.
OR
saggis with little to no water get over themselves and the drama; water under the bridge so to speak. lovers can become friends very easily. they choose not to live in the past instead they will be friends with you and look to do all the positive things they did with you while in a relationship; even if it means sex. They will steer clear of the negative ones.
i dont know his placement and i dont even care lol. once i lose interest there's no going back. i have never ever gone back to an ex ever. we stayed cool. said what up whenever i would see them but that's it.
plus he's got a stud looking girlfriend that he's very proud of. go away man! lol leave me alone.
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talking about his stud looking girlfriend is showing that you care. writing this thread is showing that you care. Or are we just living in the past?
Yik, that's stalking. If someone still contacts me after I asked them not to do so, it will freak me out. It happened in the past and usually I didn't reply. If I did, it won't be funny for them, cause I could be extremely blunt. I'm a Sag rising after all 🙂.
Perhaps you've been too gently in your replies (at least by Sag standards) and this enabled him to continue. It's up to you, I think.
Posted by DMV
He probably has a some water in his chart (probably a cancer placement) and is feeling nostalgic and misses you.OR
He's wanting some loving and exes are a great choice.
OR
saggis with little to no water get over themselves and the drama; water under the bridge so to speak. lovers can become friends very easily. they choose not to live in the past instead they will be friends with you and look to do all the positive things they did with you while in a relationship; even if it means sex. They will steer clear of the negative ones.
i dont know his placement and i dont even care lol. once i lose interest there's no going back. i have never ever gone back to an ex ever. we stayed cool. said what up whenever i would see them but that's it.
plus he's got a stud looking girlfriend that he's very proud of. go away man! lol leave me alone.
talking about his stud looking girlfriend is showing that you care. writing this thread is showing that you care. Or are we just living in the past?
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lol u cute. i care to an extent. i just wanna know why he wants to keep popping up. ive said to leave me alone but wont smh
Damn pesty Sags
Posted by arietteheart2
My cancer ex is doing the same thing to me.
maybe it's a guy thing lol
This is more of a Cancer trait. Really weird to see a Sag coming back...
I ended friendships with 2 Sags and neither of them reaches out...
Posted by Ssasy
This is more of a Cancer trait. Really weird to see a Sag coming back...
I ended friendships with 2 Sags and neither of them reaches out...
well this was a relationship.. so maybe that was a diffrence? i dont know i've never ever gone back to an ex. i'll say hi if we ever run into each other or sometimes i walk by. depends on how much i cared for the person lol
Posted by Wynter
Damn pesty Sags
yeah, what an asshole. how dare he want to be friends.
Posted by arietteheart2
My cancer ex is doing the same thing to me.
ditto.
Have you come out and asked him why he is still friendly with you? Maybe you should just tell him how you end relationships. that way he doesnt get it twisted.
that is, if you really dont want him contacting you.
Now, if you do carry some kind of flame for him, thats cool. you arent the first person in the universe to do that.
If you want to rekindle something, he's clearly opened the door.
Posted by DMV
Have you come out and asked him why he is still friendly with you? Maybe you should just tell him how you end relationships. that way he doesnt get it twisted.that is, if you really dont want him contacting you.
Now, if you do carry some kind of flame for him, thats cool. you arent the first person in the universe to do that.
If you want to rekindle something, he's clearly opened the door.
but i have! lol i've told him even when we were ending that once i am done i'm done. you're pretty much dead to me. sorry if it's harsh but that's just how i am.
i tell him every time he contacts me until i just dont even respond anymore.
and no rekindling. i'm good with my leo man. 🙂
Posted by Cancerbabe
lol certain ones....Last year i was here crying about my sag ex who left me... and since then, i've left him alone. He wanted to keep in touch and i just didnt. I'm the type that when it is over for me, it's completely over. No keeping in touch. No friendship. NOthing.
But it's been a year and since then, he's tried to reach out at least every couple of months just to see how i'm doing.
He even stopped by my place unannounced 5 months after the fact just to bring the shit that i gave him. Like really? lol
Recently just a couple of days ago i get a text from a random # and this person wouldnt tell me who it was but it turned out to be him.
Just go away man!
So Sags, why the need to keep in touch with ex's—
you are a CONQUEST now. the ultimate one. his "stud girlfriend" just for show.
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sheesh i hope not because i have no desire to entertain it at all. i'm happy he moved on. he made a choice now leave me alone!
Posted by Cancerbabe
i tell him every time he contacts me until i just dont even respond anymore.)
You respond to him every time he contacts you?
No wonder he's not leaving you alone.
Posted by Cancerbabe
Recently just a couple of days ago i get a text from a random # and this person wouldnt tell me who it was but it turned out to be him.
But it turned out to be him. And how did you find this out?
Did you contact him to find out if he sent the random text?
Posted by Cancerbabe
i tell him every time he contacts me until i just dont even respond anymore.)You respond to him every time he contacts you?
No wonder he's not leaving you alone.
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i responded maybe a couple of times just to say stop contacting me then i havent and he still does.
Posted by Cancerbabe
Recently just a couple of days ago i get a text from a random # and this person wouldnt tell me who it was but it turned out to be him.But it turned out to be him. And how did you find this out?
Did you contact him to find out if he sent the random text?
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i asked who it was because i didnt recognize the number and they wouldnt tell me at first then finally admitted it was him
Posted by silentkiller
He's fucking with your head. Douche. He needs some attention.no🙂. I dont see it that way 🙂. he wants her now. too late...
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could be both! 😐 i dont care as long as he stops contacting me.
Posted by aquavita
you are a CONQUEST now. the ultimate one. his "stud girlfriend" just for show.
Posted by silentkiller
He's fucking with your head. Douche. He needs some attention.no🙂. I dont see it that way 🙂. he wants her now. too late...
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Hmm ... I have to agree.
I wouldn't be surprised if the contact began around the time the LEO snagged her-- or at least got more frequent.
Definitely.
le Conquest. 😈
Posted by aquavita
you are a CONQUEST now. the ultimate one. his "stud girlfriend" just for show.Posted by silentkiller
He's fucking with your head. Douche. He needs some attention.no🙂. I dont see it that way 🙂. he wants her now. too late...
Hmm ... I have to agree.
I wouldn't be surprised if the contact began around the time the LEO snagged her-- or at least got more frequent.
Definitely.
le Conquest. 😈
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lol you guys dont miss a thing... ya actually it was around that same time lol i posted a photo of me and my leo on instagram and that same night, the sag decided to show up unannounced. 😐
Posted by aquavita
you are a CONQUEST now. the ultimate one. his "stud girlfriend" just for show.Posted by silentkiller
He's fucking with your head. Douche. He needs some attention.no🙂. I dont see it that way 🙂. he wants her now. too late...
Hmm ... I have to agree.
I wouldn't be surprised if the contact began around the time the LEO snagged her-- or at least got more frequent.
Definitely.
le Conquest. 😈
you dirty leos🙂 u see a catch from miles away. but this also is cancer /leo i think mentioned. anyway...
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ya he's a cancer/leo cusp or did you mean that i am a cancer he's a leo? lol
next time, dont even do that. just let him fade away into the sunset
Posted by DMV
next time, dont even do that. just let him fade away into the sunset
i thought i did but he keeps popping up
Next time he pops up, don't respond to him at all. Don't acknowledge, reprimand, question, rebuke, rebuff, refuse, warn, whatever you've been doing.
Stay dead silent.
ya i've been silent for months now. he just doesnt get it. i say something he doesnt get it. i dont say anything he still contacts. lol
Na you're still communicating with him, you and he were texting just 5 days ago.
Um, sorry...a couple days ago, not 5
I was re-reading your opening post and saw 5, my bad
Well, anyway. Just cut him off and he will leave you alone.
the only thing i said was who is this? lol
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lol certain ones....
Last year i was here crying about my sag ex who left me... and since then, i've left him alone. He wanted to keep in touch and i just didnt. I'm the type that when it is over for me, it's completely over. No keeping in touch. No friendship. NOthing.
But it's been a year and since then, he's tried to reach out at least every couple of months just to see how i'm doing.
He even stopped by my place unannounced 5 months after the fact just to bring the shit that i gave him. Like really? lol
Recently just a couple of days ago i get a text from a random # and this person wouldnt tell me who it was but it turned out to be him.
Just go away man!
So Sags, why the need to keep in touch with ex's—