Sagittarius - fight with Capricorn

My opinion is to have more confidence and be secure with your relationship. You can't control another person. Who cares if she likes him, he might just be flattered. He's gonna tire of this quickly, if you keep it up.

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

Sooo she expected to be quiet and not to communicate her concern to him or dump him?

Isn’t this called ‘rrlashionship’ because 2 people are learning each other’s likes and dislikes and see if they can deal with it or change themselves in order to be happy together?

If I must keep quiet and deal with it I will eventually blow up! If she communicating her concern to him and he CARES about her - shouldn’t he LISTEN?

Otherwise how is him caring about her different from him not caring about her? 🤷‍♀️

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

Sooo she expected to be quiet and not to communicate her concern to him or dump him?

Isn’t this called ‘rrlashionship’ because 2 people are learning each other’s likes and dislikes and see if they can deal with it or change themselves in order to be happy together?

If I must keep quiet and deal with it I will eventually blow up! If she communicating her concern to him and he CARES about her - shouldn’t he LISTEN?

Otherwise how is him caring about her different from him not caring about her? 🤷‍♀️

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I said why that’s it. I did not say anything about expectations.. but certainly he’s not acting like he cares about what she thinks. Isn’t that obvious? Isn’t it a question whether they really are serious or are actually in a relationship? Why the hell is this directed at me? I just said she should understand as a Capricorn.. she’s upset cuz he’s acting like they aren’t serious.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

Sooo she expected to be quiet and not to communicate her concern to him or dump him?

Isn’t this called ‘rrlashionship’ because 2 people are learning each other’s likes and dislikes and see if they can deal with it or change themselves in order to be happy together?

If I must keep quiet and deal with it I will eventually blow up! If she communicating her concern to him and he CARES about her - shouldn’t he LISTEN?

Otherwise how is him caring about her different from him not caring about her? 🤷‍♀️

I said why that’s it. I did not say anything about expectations.. but certainly he’s not acting like he cares about what she thinks. Isn’t that obvious? Isn’t it a question whether they really are serious or are actually in a relationship? Why the hell is this directed at me? I just said she should understand as a Capricorn.. she’s upset cuz he’s acting like they aren’t serious.

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It’s not directed at you. It’s a line of thoughts written down. And Cap in my experience loved to be told what to do so he wouldn’t have to think...

Just saying...

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

Sooo she expected to be quiet and not to communicate her concern to him or dump him?

Isn’t this called ‘rrlashionship’ because 2 people are learning each other’s likes and dislikes and see if they can deal with it or change themselves in order to be happy together?

If I must keep quiet and deal with it I will eventually blow up! If she communicating her concern to him and he CARES about her - shouldn’t he LISTEN?

Otherwise how is him caring about her different from him not caring about her? 🤷‍♀️

I said why that’s it. I did not say anything about expectations.. but certainly he’s not acting like he cares about what she thinks. Isn’t that obvious? Isn’t it a question whether they really are serious or are actually in a relationship? Why the hell is this directed at me? I just said she should understand as a Capricorn.. she’s upset cuz he’s acting like they aren’t serious.

It’s not directed at you. It’s a line of thoughts written down. And Cap in my experience loved to be told what to do so he wouldn’t have to think...

Just saying...

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You quoted me.. just saying 😉and about stuff I didn’t say. Ummm nope that’s your ex husband not Caps. Caps usually hate to be told what to do.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PuzzlePieces

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

Sooo she expected to be quiet and not to communicate her concern to him or dump him?

Isn’t this called ‘rrlashionship’ because 2 people are learning each other’s likes and dislikes and see if they can deal with it or change themselves in order to be happy together?

If I must keep quiet and deal with it I will eventually blow up! If she communicating her concern to him and he CARES about her - shouldn’t he LISTEN?

Otherwise how is him caring about her different from him not caring about her? 🤷‍♀️

I said why that’s it. I did not say anything about expectations.. but certainly he’s not acting like he cares about what she thinks. Isn’t that obvious? Isn’t it a question whether they really are serious or are actually in a relationship? Why the hell is this directed at me? I just said she should understand as a Capricorn.. she’s upset cuz he’s acting like they aren’t serious.

It’s not directed at you. It’s a line of thoughts written down. And Cap in my experience loved to be told what to do so he wouldn’t have to think...

Just saying...

You quoted me.. just saying 😉and about stuff I didn’t say. Ummm nope that’s your ex husband not Caps. Caps usually hate to be told what to do.

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He is:

Sun Capricorn 3° 48' in house 10

Moon Taurus 24° 44' in house 2

Mercury Capricorn 16° 3' in house 11

Venus Aquarius 2° 35' in house 11

Mars Scorpio 17° 45' in house 8

See ANY who likes to be told what to do? Lol

However...

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Posted by Gemitati

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by PuzzlePieces

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

Sooo she expected to be quiet and not to communicate her concern to him or dump him?

Isn’t this called ‘rrlashionship’ because 2 people are learning each other’s likes and dislikes and see if they can deal with it or change themselves in order to be happy together?

If I must keep quiet and deal with it I will eventually blow up! If she communicating her concern to him and he CARES about her - shouldn’t he LISTEN?

Otherwise how is him caring about her different from him not caring about her? 🤷‍♀️

I said why that’s it. I did not say anything about expectations.. but certainly he’s not acting like he cares about what she thinks. Isn’t that obvious? Isn’t it a question whether they really are serious or are actually in a relationship? Why the hell is this directed at me? I just said she should understand as a Capricorn.. she’s upset cuz he’s acting like they aren’t serious.

It’s not directed at you. It’s a line of thoughts written down. And Cap in my experience loved to be told what to do so he wouldn’t have to think...

Just saying...

You quoted me.. just saying 😉and about stuff I didn’t say. Ummm nope that’s your ex husband not Caps. Caps usually hate to be told what to do.

He is:

Sun Capricorn 3° 48' in house 10

Moon Taurus 24° 44' in house 2

Mercury Capricorn 16° 3' in house 11

Venus Aquarius 2° 35' in house 11

Mars Scorpio 17° 45' in house 8

See ANY who likes to be told what to do? Lol

However...

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Not my experience including my dad not just guys I’ve dated or had relationships with.

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Posted by PuzzlePieces

He doesn’t want to be told what to do! You as a Cap should understand that😂

Sooo she expected to be quiet and not to communicate her concern to him or dump him?

Isn’t this called ‘rrlashionship’ because 2 people are learning each other’s likes and dislikes and see if they can deal with it or change themselves in order to be happy together?

If I must keep quiet and deal with it I will eventually blow up! If she communicating her concern to him and he CARES about her - shouldn’t he LISTEN?

Otherwise how is him caring about her different from him not caring about her? 🤷‍♀️

I said why that’s it. I did not say anything about expectations.. but certainly he’s not acting like he cares about what she thinks. Isn’t that obvious? Isn’t it a question whether they really are serious or are actually in a relationship? Why the hell is this directed at me? I just said she should understand as a Capricorn.. she’s upset cuz he’s acting like they aren’t serious.

It’s not directed at you. It’s a line of thoughts written down. And Cap in my experience loved to be told what to do so he wouldn’t have to think...

Just saying...

You quoted me.. just saying 😉and about stuff I didn’t say. Ummm nope that’s your ex husband not Caps. Caps usually hate to be told what to do.

He is:

Sun Capricorn 3° 48' in house 10

Moon Taurus 24° 44' in house 2

Mercury Capricorn 16° 3' in house 11

Venus Aquarius 2° 35' in house 11

Mars Scorpio 17° 45' in house 8

See ANY who likes to be told what to do? Lol

However...

Is he really that over controlling to you until he gave up?

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He is a history.

And no he wasn’t controlling at all.

I don’t even remember what is this was all about.

Telling someone what to do doesn't sound like a good start. I mean is he your boyfriend?

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Posted by Capygirl01

If you asked a Sagittarius who says he’s serious about you to not follow a specific girl who clearly has a huge crush on him and constantly talks to him and he blocks her but then a couple days later unblocks her and starts following again, what is your opinion?

Thanks for the advice so far! So...update it’s not just any girl this girl thinks she is in a relationship with him as well..and when he’s distant to me unfortunately I feel as if he’s texting her to get his ego stroked. She’s also asked to come see him. We talked and I told him it’s crossing the line and honestly if the tables were turned he wouldn’t like it. He said he wants to take care of it on his own..in 1-2 days. He texted me 2 days later she was still in the picture nothing new had happened so I ghosted him. I’ve already talked enough at this point I don’t know what more to say. I feel bad for ghosting but honestly I just feel like he really does not care about how I feel regarding this. He hasn’t texted or even tried to call. He still likes my photos on social media (not that means anything but just giving you guys details) but no contact. I want to clear the air..but honestly at this point it’s been 2-3 days since I ghosted and I feel like shit being the person to come back now esp cuz I did nothing wrong. What should I do?

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You both think you’re in a relationship with him? Why would you want to deal with this? The sag is feeling controlled which is not a good situation with a Sag. Caps can be pretty controlling. Who came first you or the other girl?