Sagittarius woman being mean to me in public but super nice in private, what gives?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by TheLizWiz on Wednesday, September 1, 2021 and has 8 replies.

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@TheLizWiz
5 Years

I have this Sag lady at work who teases me so much in public and borders on being really mean. Will even stir the pot and get me trouble by saying to a muscular guy "oh I think (my name) says he can beat you down good".

Then in private she is super nice to me and won't leave me alone.

WTF man.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

You’re probably an easy target. But tell her she’s being mean. Open your mouth and talk if you don’t like being treated like that.

And tell her to quit trying to start shit at your job and that she seems like drama. That may get her to quit if she actually likes you.

Sag are usually people pleasers who don’t realize they are hurting your feelings, so speak up and stop acting scary, before you get beat up 😎

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

And what do you say back and what is your body language when she comes for you like this?

Why are you even letting her say this type of stuff without sticking up for yourself?

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@MissMmm
4 Years

Posted by TheLizWiz

I have this Sag lady at work who teases me so much in public and borders on being really mean. Will even stir the pot and get me trouble by saying to a muscular guy "oh I think (my name) says he can beat you down good".

Then in private she is super nice to me and won't leave me alone.

WTF man.

I have a friend like this and she ain't Sagitarrius. I am a Sagitarrius myself. So, this friend of mine acted the same as your "friend" did, she even do her rolling eyes when she sees men flirting with me. You know what I did? I dumped her, get her out of my friend zone. We only talks about WORK where there will be no friendship involved. I don't like her giving me the confusing vibe, it's like she hates me but wearing a mask and pretended to like me. That is a negative vibe, avoid like a plaque. As a Sag, I would say we are playful but not at a point to hurt someone. I would do what your friend did if I hate you.