Sag's ADD In Dating...

I'm a Sag Moon and I notice how quick I move on from getting heartbroken. It's really strange. Me and my ex-best friend who is a Gem always used to have a saying that we are too shallow to stay down for long.

As soon as one girl screwed me over,in this case my semi-ex cap gem mooner; I found other gals to be interested in very quickly.

Even when I was the prototype for Napoleon Dynamite in high school (BTW filmmakers you owe this dude some royalty checks for profiting off my pain and humiliation in school) I always had crushes on at least 4 different girls.

If one girl rejected me, I moved onto the other crush. Which all of them did reject me, but that is ok,I unintentionally got even at our class reunion when my appearance was drastically different. Then they wanted my digits and I politely told them to stick it where the sun doesn't shine.

I used to hate having ADD in all areas of my life. But now I am especially grateful to have ADD in dating. It's saved me from a lot of heartache in dating. Having more than one dating option when single is a true blessing. As you feel less pressure to have everything be easy peasy on the date. Since at least if that one screws up, you always have another one.

BTW I feel like Sag Moons get a bad rap in relationships. I think given the right raising from parents like I had, we can be faithful in a relationship. I'm faithful 100% and hell I dont even playfully flirt when I'm exclusive with someone. Now I ain't gonna BS ya either, when I am SINGLE, I'm a huge John Mayer type (but leave his racism out and the fact he is a douchebag for kissing and telling) A gentleman never kisses and tells.

When I'm single, I am always upfront with girls about dating other ones. And that I have no problem with them dating other dudes until we have the "Are we going to be exclusive?" talk.

The only time I'm a commitment phobe is when it comes to marriage. I take marriage very seriously and rather get it right the first time than the second one. I have to be with someone going into 5 years AND they have to be over 30 years old for me to even have a serious discussion about marriage.

Anyhow, are there other fellow sag mooners that suffer from dating ADD when single?

Sag moon is not so great on girls, it makes them look like horses 🙂

Im an aries girl, with aries moon, super crazy about a sag male with sag moon...
Unfortunately we dont live in the same country, but for years now we have stayed in touch and the connection between us is out of this world.. He says he has never known a female as long as he has known me, lol! I guess that has got to do with what you describe 😉
But I have not once rejected him, or lied to him or anything like that... he LOVES to get my attention and he has now said that if I didnt live awefully far away that things would have been different between us. And he is planning to come and see me next month after years of not seeing each other... I guess that gotta count for something, or what do you think sag? :-)

Ps. He is in his 30??s and has never lived with any girl, only dated plenty 😉

Haha I was just kidding, but sometimes you can see the horsey resemblance!

You're right it's a bad analogy. For some reason I only seem to get on at night anymore and that is always when I'm half-awake. So my thoughts aren't fully there.

I think the better analogy would be Hank Moody from Californication. Minus the drinking and drugging though. Like him, I casually date due to having been hurt before. So I am super cautious and screen whatever girls I am dating before getting attached to them.

However, the other difference between me and Hank Moody is he pines over a whining, cheating, hypocritical ex. I guarantee you if a girl I loved cheated on me, there is no second chances. She is already in the past. I'm faithful so I expect the same in return.

I'm not horsefaced. Yes, BTW I'm of the dude persuasion. I do have a little bit of a babyface which makes me look ten years younger than I actually am.

I once read that baby faces attract the bad-girl type. That seems to hold true for me as I do attract them more than I attract the good girls. I don't pursue the bad girls they seem to find me. BTW when I'm talking about bad girls I mean ones who have substance abuse issues, mental problems and the inability to say no to a c--k when they are taken.

Bad girls are great for sex, but nothing more in my experience. I've noticed female sag moons are super attracted to the bad boy type for relationships. I could understand that for a fling or f-buddy, but an actual relationship is pretty stupid.

I dont mean to hate on girls with sag moons, but it just seems like the ones I've seen confuse good screwing for love. Good sex is an important component of attraction, but to make that the only thing you have going for each other will make the relationship a disaster.

I dont mind party girl types if they're genuinely nice underneath. I would rather have a girl who treats me decently and is there for me at the end of the day rather then one that's good for only one thing.

Posted by AriesCrazyAboutASag
Ps. He is in his 30??s and has never lived with any girl, only dated plenty 😉

Same here lol

Nice!