Tell me more about Saggs

Ok. So I was casually dating a Sagg from the same company (different location) last year and basically we just stopped talking..more of his decision because I guess I seem to be a needy/clingy type. I am a capricorn by the way. Anyway, so one day I signed up for unlimited text messaging plan and decided to text everyone "Happy Thanksgiving. I'm happy you are my friend..bs bs bs..." and he replied and ever since then we have been emailing each other and he started to sending me sweet/cute/flirtatious msgs. So he's doing all the flirting and I'm just replying to it like a friend. So does this mean he's interested again? I'm actually looking for something serious and I don't want to waste time to something not going anywher. This man is 31 and I'm 27...he knows I can be attached easily...shouldn't he have known the first time around? why is he flirting again. He's pretty conservative and I know he liked what he experienced with me when the lights were off. Do you guys think he just wants a little something something?

Thanx Fumingli_scorp! That sounds like him.I'm not clingy at first, but when I start feeling comfortable in a relationship, I start getting more possesive and clingy. I guess he is attracted to me again because I don't have my 100% attention on him. He's actually one of my options and then there's also a Capricorn man that I can not figure out!

It is really the capricorn guy that I am having problems with, but since I have been hurt before (by a libra

I blocked him from my AIM and gmail and I deleted his #s from my phone (and no, I don't have them memorized cuz I only called him once). I know it sounds dramatic, but I gotta be selfish and do everything I can to forget about him.

no he didn't do anything bad at all, besides feed me BS lines. I just know that if I have his number or I see him online that I"m going to want to talk to him. So I just rather not have it....

is that too much? Should I unblock him? I'm an AIM whore. I have AIM on my phone. He's online all the time too

yes yes thanks! I should really start hanging out with the Sagg again. He hasn't asked me out though, he just flirts thru email. Well, I kinda docked when I saw him last time I went to his location (at work) lol. I had to pick up something, but I just felt awkward cuz I haven't seen him for awhile, and since he would be my boss if we were to work at the same location, I don't want other coworkers to know...so should I let him ask me out? or should I initiate something like, "SO you want to grab a drink after work?" His location is a block away from my apt which is really convenient. hahah or should I have him do all the chasing and not do anything?

yah no expectations seems to work. so i will let him do all the work

capris: I'm a Sag female and I haven't wanted to settle down until I was getting into my mid 30's. When I was in my twenties and early thirties there was no way I would of settled down. I also know a few male sags that didn't settle down until their late 30's. We like to flirt and tease and joke around but if he really wanted you he would have you. I usually get the man that I want but, getting what you want is not always good for you. The conflict with him being your boss will probably keep him away. It may be exciting for him with the emails and fun but he may fear of losing his job. I have dated men at my work before and when I was at work, I would joke around and stuff but, I never showed that I was dating them and kept it light.

I was just recently been disappointed or lead on by a capricorn and now I'm trying to date at least two guys at a time. I mean just dining and wining...(not being a slut) ...yah know. He's just one of my options right now and trying to stay in the game so I don't get played again. ANyway, I'm the one who tries to hide that we know each other, I haven't heard from him and I havent contacted him either. Yah I think i just want to have fun w/ him. I dated him before and he was kinda boring. I Just liked the thrill of hiding it from co-workers and I just like the attention right now. 🙂

Your Sag was boring....wow, I don't know any Sag that is boring. That's weird. Well, have fun with it but, don't take it too seriously. Good luck!

Yah...well I thought he was. He didn't have much to say. We only talked about work, but I had fun with his friends. Maybe cuz it was really obvious that I was interested and I'm 4 or 5 yrs younger than him. We just kinda made out most of the time.

Capris- I agree with Sweethearts in the way that you shouldn't take the flirting too seriously. I too am a sag, and can tell you from experience that flirting to a sag is for fun. I don't feel that flirting is directly linked to wanting a relationship. It's a way of joking and relating to another person. If you're not getting any kind of reaction from your sag guy, try just being bluntly open with him. I think he'll appreciate your honesty. You may want to try to candy coat it a little, because although sag people seem to be very tough on the outside, they're actually quite sensitive and he will be quick to just say "forget you" if you burn him badly enough, and aren't even in a relationship with him. I'm very willing to write people off if I don't know them, and they hurt me in some way. Also, another thing to remember about a sag is if they get bored, they won't pay attention. So if you show no interest because you're busy playing hard to get, forget sagittarius.

yah.. thanks TruSag!So I should just keep flirting and have fun with this huh? I actually just realized that I'm having fun dating. I guess I'm going to hold off on wanting a relationship until I figure out who works the hardest....

I actually saw him at his location today, and we talked for a bit with a little flirting 🙂 That is what he likes to do right?

Thanks archer! That's exactly what I'm doing 🙂 I thought it was going to be awkward when i saw him yesterday cuz we kinda just stopped talking last yr over a stupid/small argument. I just said hi and joked around with him for a little bit and he reciprocated 🙂

Archer! I totally agree with you on make it seem like, "no I don't like u in that way." WHen he started flirting I didn't care. I thought it was just a friendly hello, ANd yes, he knows I have self respect. Once he made a comment about how I have a dirty mind on myspace...and I replied back with "haha..don't blow my innocent cover!" I said this cuz we have coworkers on both of our friendslists. He replied again with ..don't worry...happy VDAY! Muah!"

Yah I'm totally having fun and also cuz I have 2 other options. So ..that should keep me occupied