getting attention

do any aries try to get someones attention via someone else,their friends etc,
for example sending text messages to someone,that is supposedly not from them but the contents of the message would cause a reaction,that would make the person who recieved it mad or jealous ,and you know it could only have something to do with the aries you know
geminifox,did something like this happen to you when you split with your lover a while back i know you said you phoned him once and he mentioned another womans name?

do any aries try to get someones attention via someone else,their friends etc,
for example sending text messages to someone,that is supposedly not from them but the contents of the message would cause a reaction,that would make the person who recieved it mad or jealous ,and you know it could only have something to do with the aries you know
geminifox,did something like this happen to you when you split with your lover a while back i know you said you phoned him once and he mentioned another womans name?

No, I personally do not participate in those type of activities. I feel that when this type of behaviour (I call "game playing") is happening, it is most likely due to the person being insecure with him/herself otherwise, the actions of the person will be upfront and honest.

No, I personally do not participate in those type of activities. I feel that when this type of behaviour (I call "game playing") is happening, it is most likely due to the person being insecure with him/herself otherwise, the actions of the person will be upfront and honest.

Players !!!!!!

My ex aries showed up at my place of work w/ another girl (we were only separated for about 2 weeks, then). At first, I pretended not to see him, at which I noticed he was looking for me.

Bastards:-)

What an asshole, Truth .. you're better off without him.

Mr. Right is out there just waiting to run into a woman who knows how to treat her man .. he'll find you 🙂

Thanks P...you rock!!

yeah i do know he has played me with one of his exes , does she realise that i wonder ,actually he didnt get the response he expected from me,i dont want to be like his other women

Well, I guess there's a perfect somebody for everybody and I'm not one of those perfect somebody for the Aries, then, if this is a normal trait.

It would happen one time, and one time only ... because the moment he did it, or said it .. swim away.

i will admit to doing this. its childish i know; i know i know.. but its all about getting an reaction from you. sorta...

in my instance; i would totally flirt with other guys and look like im having the TIME of my life when i'm near the guy i like.. i wish i could stop... but i cant.

It is disrespectful, childish, and it is very unappealing. Well put.

The thing that gets me is that why would you want to be in a relationship if all you're going to do is try to score points with other men? You either have your fun and be a kid forever or you commit to the bigger, more important picture.

How's this for getting attention...

So, I went out w/ yet ANOTHER aries (geese, I can't shake em'!) Anyway, we had a great time. We talked and talked and talked. We met up at 8:30PM for dinner and didn't leave the restaurant until 12AM. It was a pleasant evening w/ no pressure or discomfort...just really good conversation.

He calls me the next day (I'm thinking it was to say he had a great time and hoped we could get together, again, soon). But instead, he starts the conversation with "Hey, what's goin' on tonight." I go, "what do you mean? You want to know what I'm doing tonight?" Then he says, verbatim:

"OMG, I'm so sorry. I dialed your number by mistake. I have a friend in town from Mexico. She just moved down there with her boyfriend, and we were supposed to meet up tonight and hang out. I meant to call HER, but I have all these numbers in my cell phone that don't have names attached to them, and I thought I was calling HER. But you know what, I had a REALLY great time with you last night. It was A LOT of fun!"

I'm like "Oh (?) Ok, same here. Take care," Of course thinking how it sucks that my name isn't even attached to my number in his cell (leo pride!) Now, maybe he did call me by accident, and i'm reading into this too much (huge possibility). But the whole thing was kinda weird, especially for him to go into detail about his friend who moved to Mexico. I mean, why not just say "Oh, sorry...I dialed the wrong number."

My male friends seem to think it's a game to get me interested. Or to see if I am already interested. If that's the case...that's too bad. He just lost a shit load of kudos!

What do y'all think? I mean, i really did have a nice time. I'm not looking to jump into another relationship, but i'd definitely be friends and hang out w/ him. I just feel like I'm COMPLETELY dense when it comes to the opposite sex, esp. the Aries man LOL!!

who knows, g-fox. I'm over it...don't have time to wonder. i'm pissed that i'm even giving it a second thought:-)

see ya!

yes truthseeker sorry to hear that you and your aries are apart....its been a while since I been on DXP but when I was you guys were so happy. Why are people filled with so much drama and games?

truthseeker, I'm an Aries man and it doesn't make any sense to me either. If I had to bet, I'd guess he really did dial the wrong number, and was caught off guard when you answered. It's up to you to read into that as far as you're willing to. Otherwise, if this isn't the case, and your male friends are indeed correct, I have to say that would be one really lame-ass game to pull.