Weekend with my Libra ex

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LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWD HELP ME

Basically in about 3 weeks time I'm due to go to a festival with my libra ex boyfriend. Basically, this is a situation that I cannot get out of. We are going as a large group. The guy is the best friend of my best friend and everybody (including friends of friends: his friends, my friends) will be camping together.

I don't know what to expect. I don't know how to react. After we broke up I didn't think this would still be happening but he called the other day saying he can't wait to catch up and talk and stuff.

I really don't want to catch feelings for him again because it will throw me off again. Why is he looking so forward to it when my inital plans were to stay away and do my own thing.

What is he playing at ?

just what
ergh no i can't

any tips? I know Libras are charmers and I don't want to fall for it again
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Posted by tiziani
He probably called ahead to get rid of the awkwardness. That's all. When you don't want to catch feelings for someone... you won't.



I thought so too. But I will. I always do with this particular guy. Maybe it's because ivenever had feelings for anyone apart from him but everytime he pops up or he is mentioned my heart sinks again and again. And whenever I think I'm over him my heart quickly reminds me that he was the best thing that ever happened to me. You're right though, think it was to get rid of the awkwardness but it wasn't really awkward with us before hand
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He probably called ahead to get rid of the awkwardness. That's all. When you don't want to catch feelings for someone... you won't.



I thought so too. But I will. I always do with this particular guy. Maybe it's because ivenever had feelings for anyone apart from him but everytime he pops up or he is mentioned my heart sinks again and again. And whenever I think I'm over him my heart quickly reminds me that he was the best thing that ever happened to me. You're right though, think it was to get rid of the awkwardness but it wasn't really awkward with us before hand



I want him but can't have him


If I were you I would just tell myself everyday that I want them. It makes me less vulnerable.


At least then your head and your heart will be saying the same thing, and you'll be more prepared.

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He probably called ahead to get rid of the awkwardness. That's all. When you don't want to catch feelings for someone... you won't.



I thought so too. But I will. I always do with this particular guy. Maybe it's because ivenever had feelings for anyone apart from him but everytime he pops up or he is mentioned my heart sinks again and again. And whenever I think I'm over him my heart quickly reminds me that he was the best thing that ever happened to me. You're right though, think it was to get rid of the awkwardness but it wasn't really awkward with us before hand




If I were you I would just tell myself everyday that I want them. It makes me less vulnerable.


At least then your head and your heart will be saying the same thing, and you'll be more prepared.

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I want him but can't have him so what's the point in that ?
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Posted by DMV
treat him like any ol other friend. i think hes just trying to be friendly



Lord knows I've tried tried tried but when we've were as close as we used to be , I've been finding it impossible and a normal
Conversation always seems to escalate Into flirting and reminiscing about the past. I'm the kinda person who either have people IN or OUT of their lives, no limbo or inbetween. I tried to cut him out but came straight back in. I deleted him off every social network but he got upset and offended. I don't understand the sticking around that he's doing. It's hurting
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I say don't sweat it. Maybe something nice will happen.



Maybe but highly unlikely and this is what I'm afraid of. I don't want to get hurt again and I don't want all the emotions flooding back. I haven't properly been able to let go (curse my Scorpio Venus)

I can't even think of one nice thing that could happen. I'm petrified. This guy still gives me butterflies
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mmmm butterflies...i miss those
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ooo i didnt read that you still have feelings. Well, madam, your screwed literally. Pack some nice lacy underwear 🙂




Play through the pain!
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why deny those loving feelings. Just face them. head on. Sit round that hot campfire and let the embers fly round your face as you stare into each others' eyes.

then meet at the tent at 2am and say "take me."
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ooo i didnt read that you still have feelings. Well, madam, your screwed literally. Pack some nice lacy underwear 🙂




Play through the pain!



why deny those loving feelings. Just face them. head on. Sit round that hot campfire and let the embers fly round your face as you stare into each others' eyes.

then meet at the tent at 2am and say "take me."
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That would be nice but won't it hurt when I snap back into reality and realise he's not mine anymore? Because even to this day I still believe he's mine ;( (in a non possessive way lol)
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ooo i didnt read that you still have feelings. Well, madam, your screwed literally. Pack some nice lacy underwear 🙂




Play through the pain!



why deny those loving feelings. Just face them. head on. Sit round that hot campfire and let the embers fly round your face as you stare into each others' eyes.

then meet at the tent at 2am and say "take me."



That would be nice but won't it hurt when I snap back into reality and realise he's not mine anymore? Because even to this day I still believe he's mine ;( (in a non possessive way lol)
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nope. Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man.
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I'm gone give you some virgo board advice....don't go!!! 😉



This is the last thing i'm going to do because I've been looking forward to this for SO LONG!

I can understand why you would suggest that but no: I'm a sag girl who loves her festies and I've super excited for this ! It goes against my principles 🙂
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It's really a joke...if this guy was a virgo and you came asking for advice,that's what they'll tell you..hahaha ...🙂 enjoy yourself..
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Posted by RainDancer88
So.

My ex is a libra. 7 years. from 17-24 years old. I couldn't quit him. Thank GOD he quit me.

In my experience, we were engaged and giiiiiirl, we were in deep. (in so may ways lol)

I became his wants and needs, I new after we were apart that it would only take one good fuck to win him back -- and I did multiple times -- but in the end, he said he realized how much better I was without him and it made him hurt. At that point I told him to grab al his shit and leave because I wanted best for me and him. We spoke one deeply after our breakup. One time I asked him if he could come fuck me without talking and leave. He said yes initially but then called o say "no."

IMO - Libra can sense us. They know good and damn well if they invite an ex that some see ing will happen. THIS IS ALL HE WANTED FROM ME. And I wanted it worse. These were 'common occurrences. "Let's go camping" -- aka let's bone hard -- I am done.

A Libra man will drain you in the best way. STILL to this day I think of him but refuse to give in -- I know if he wanted me, he would come to me -- as he has came to you. If you love him than LOVE HIM good tonight. MAKE IT WORK. DO not allow your pettiness to derail a good thing. But if you feel like you are being used than do not participate.

A libra is the only man who managed to break my heart and I wouldn't trade it for the world. Sag + Libra are a good match.



I love this boy to the moon and back and would do anything and everything to make him happy since hes been through a really rough time. But I know this is next to impossible. As much as an optimmistic person as I am, he's doing better off without me but i'm breaking without him but I'm not going to tell him that. it upsets me so omuch to know his life has improved since he's left me but i'm has gone down the drain. but i love him and only want to see him happy so i guess i'm damned if i do and damned if i don't

it will be interesting to see him again and interesting to see how i react aha. Last time I was drunk and ended up screaming and crying to him. we both didn't know why. aha awks
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First time in my life I am dating a sagittarius woman. And it is the best thing happening in my life. ( im a libra male) . I know its too short to say something like this, but I just said it! I can feel something special
.a beautiful chemistry, and she is helping me to be a better man and to be happy. Why is she doing this to me?! I have no idea! I needed help, I was in a crazy dark mood since a couple months ( something insane and horrible.. ) and she is the only brave woman who approached me! lol. Love her
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Posted by muwik
First time in my life I am dating a sagittarius woman. And it is the best thing happening in my life. ( im a libra male) . I know its too short to say something like this, but I just said it! I can feel something special
.a beautiful chemistry, and she is helping me to be a better man and to be happy. Why is she doing this to me?! I have no idea! I needed help, I was in a crazy dark mood since a couple months ( something insane and horrible.. ) and she is the only brave woman who approached me! lol. Love her



3 Cheers!

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Posted by muwik
First time in my life I am dating a sagittarius woman. And it is the best thing happening in my life. ( im a libra male) . I know its too short to say something like this, but I just said it! I can feel something special
.a beautiful chemistry, and she is helping me to be a better man and to be happy. Why is she doing this to me?! I have no idea! I needed help, I was in a crazy dark mood since a couple months ( something insane and horrible.. ) and she is the only brave woman who approached me! lol. Love her



Dude, I'm a Virgo and I completely agree with you, they are amazing, i'm a better guy for it.