how to go forward

When I was younger, I had a libra bf. I moved and only seen him a couple times after that. We both got married and had families, etc. Two years ago his wife died. (RIP) LAst year I left my husband. My libra friend found me on facebook. We became friends again and he would call me when he was having a hard time, someone to talk to, and be supportive. We talk about our past and our history. He really is like a best friend. Recently, we started to become romantically envoled agaon. Going on dates, holding hands, kissing, that kind of stuff, not sex. I am beginning to develope stronger feelings for him again. He is great, but everytime we have a date or hang out, its like he goes mia after, I dont get it. This weekend will be 2nd year of his wifes death. I just don't know if i should put a stop to the dating part. He is a libra and I am an aries. How do I do this, and what do i do?

"He is great, but everytime we have a date or hang out, its like he goes mia after, I dont get it."

MIA for a day or longer?

I always found that MIA shit really strange after a date, sex or no sex.

Wtf are you guys doing? Contemplating? Scared of feelings/responsibility for any emotions you conjure?

If I hadn't already seen proof otherwise with the ones I dated, I'd swear they had vaginas with some of the behaviors, gawd.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
I always found that MIA shit really strange after a date, sex or no sex.

Wtf are you guys doing? Contemplating? Scared of feelings/responsibility for any emotions you conjure?

If I hadn't already seen proof otherwise with the ones I dated, I'd swear they had vaginas with some of the behaviors, gawd.

LOL I used to do that if I'm not really into the guy. I just didn't care much and forgot about them TBH.

Posted by AesmaDaeva
"He is great, but everytime we have a date or hang out, its like he goes mia after, I dont get it."

MIA for a day or longer?

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about a week, but, then again, he works long hours during the week, 60-70 hours heavy equipment operator, so it could just be that he is tired during the week, I usually hear from him on weekends. He has 4 young children as well, I suppose I could just be being selfish about him not keeping in contact.

Oh he has a lot on his plate. 😢 Well at least during weekends he contacts you. I'd be worried if he'd just contact you during work hours then nothing when he's at home then avoids contact during weekends too.

That happened to a friend, turns out, the leeb was cheating.

^^^^ yes, he is very busy guy, and he is amazing, I feel lucky to get what time I do.

I just dont know how I should take it, I mean, will he want to move forward in his life? IDK, well, I guess I will just have to wait and see.

Posted by araeis2014
^^^^ yes, he is very busy guy, and he is amazing, I feel lucky to get what time I do.

I just dont know how I should take it, I mean, will he want to move forward in his life? IDK, well, I guess I will just have to wait and see.

Eh what? OFC he would want to move forward in his life. Are you wondering if you're going to be a part of that? We can't answer that unfortunately, that's something you two need to discuss.