Libra man wth?!!!

sorry for the long post!
so, i met this libra man half year ago, but only started talking about 2 month ago, went on a first date a month ago, everything was great, we talk and text everyday, he usually initiate the first msg in the morning, and calls before he goes to sleep... until 2weeks ago, i guess something big happened to him at work, he was really stressed out, he briefly told me about it, and then went disappeared... not completely thou, he would still find time to text me one or two things, and reply my text pretty quickly, and still "likes" everything i post on fb, but the amount and quality of texting and calls had decreased dramatically... and then he apologizes to me about how busy he is with work and some issues, and asks me not to be mad at him... we still managed to talk everyday, but you can tell he is not proactive anymore, and i have to initiate the txt sometimes, thou he did say things like "would be nice if you could sleep over my place sometime", how i made his day, and act very jealous when my friend and i talked about other guys on fb, but none of these changes the fact that we haven't met again since his "issues", i causally asked him to meet up once and he rejected because he was busy... then i confronted him about this in a text msg, he called me right away saying he is sorry but too much things been happening, and he really wanted to see me too... and two days ago, we got into this conversation about relationship, he said he is difficult person to handle in a relationship, what if i run away in the future, he asked me if i could handle him... and yesterday i sent him a txt saying i dont think we can be friends anymore, he again called right away, sound kinda mad asking what did i mean by that, should he stop call and text me and delete my contact, and if i just give up this easily... i told him it could go either way, just not in the friends zone, he then said "arent we pass the friends stage already, friends don't kiss"... grrrrrr....
my question is, if he is as interest in me as he says, why is he acting all cold and not a single date in 2weeks? the work excuse is bs now coz i know its been solved, but he is still using it....someone pls enlightening me if he trying to withdrawal slowly, or is he just testing me to see if i'm serious?
btw, today i didn't contact him at all, and he hasn't contacted me neither.... hmmm...

ok, we dont really text, we voice... and i text more for a reason, which is not relevent to the issue...

and i am going to read that artical lol

OMG! WTH too! The guy was busy, he tries to keep contact as much as he can given his circumstances which you were informed beforehand and then you drop this passive aggressive BS, "and yesterday i sent him a txt saying i dont think we can be friends anymore".

Seriously, WTF is wrong with people? Why can't you just say what you mean and mean what you say?

If I was in his shoes, I'd be pissed off too and since the relationship is still in the early stages, I won't even bother pursuing it. It's just drama waiting to happen over and over. I have a bad feeling about this, it's like a disaster in the making. He has already gone cold and distant, not a good sign at all.

Hopefully, an honest and open communication can fix this but you're also starting to doubt things. Trust is slowly eroding. You're both unsure at this point. 😢

You write like an illiterate child and you behave like one as well.

Until you start behaving in a way that deserves pedestal status, you have no room to demand pedestal status.

Ouch ^ sizz :O

Hello rocky 🙂

Hola

How are you? Ok I may doze off to sleep, but I had to check in since I hadn't heard from you. Always great to see your posts, still as funny yet insightful as ever haha.

Same old. Been busy with work and stuff.