WHATS ON A SAGGS MIND—

My sagittarius fling decides he wants to be in a 'relationship' with another woman 2m ago. I was honest w/him about the feelings I've grown to have for him over the 2yrs but I wished him the best....and left him alone. Recently, he texts me to see how I'm doing, tells me he wants nothing, later invites me to dinner and texting holiday greetings when I know he's spending time with his girl and her family at the time.

My question to you saggs is if you've moved on...WHY must you keep popping in and out of your ex lovers lives? Just that "I want you to know that "I'm thinking about you" text.

It was nice hearing from him the first time and don't ever see myself back in the sack with him but maybe as a real good flirt. I don't want to exclude him out of my life but I want him to keep a long distance from me until I have time to heal... and for an aqua that can be a lil while.

And I thought saggs kept their distance until they knew for sure that person was totally over them?

We work for the same company but live bout 600miles apart so it was a long distance affair. But you're right he wanted to know how I was doing and I guess my feelings are just still hurt. But he doesn't have to die just not keep making me think about him every time he chirps in when I'm trying to move on.

When people reach out to past loves old feelings get stirred up and a person may think more into things than they really are.... so unnecessary.

I dont want to seem irrational but I may just have to talk to him and find out directly.

Thanks Reason

Maybe he cares about you as a person

Posted by MzSagittarius
First off, he's a man. No one knows what goes through these creatures' mind.

Lol. You got that right!

Posted by Sag89
Maybe he cares about you as a person

+1

Posted by She Devil
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When people reach out to past loves old feelings get stirred up and a person may think more into things than they really are.... so unnecessary.

i could see that

He's probably keeping you on the back burner, just in case!

Not a man, but usually there's something about the 'ex' that we cannot quite let go of. I dated a fellow sag for years and when we broke up for good I kept wondering why he wouldn't completely let go. He'd call often, drop by unannounced and would even hint at getting back together (um...NOT). However, I was curious as to why he kept ties with me despite having a string of girlfriends. He said, "There's just something about you I cannot find in anyone else."

Flattered, I was, but I never put my car in reverse.

You know, alot of Sags don't go back unless it's for a short fling or they just liked your friendship and miss it. I have guys that call me when they break up with someone or when they are about too or they are just having issues and for some reason they like to vent to me about whatever is going on. I guess I must be a good lister or something and I don't tell their secrets either. I have had so many guys tell me some of their deepest secrets that they have NEVER told anyone else and then they say to me, I'm not sure why I just told you that but you are just so easy to talk too.

Surprise! My sagg friend called me 3 weeks ago and it was so cute because I could tell that he was kind of shy or nervous when I answered. We talked like normal... mainly work. He tried to slip one of his comments in about his skills but I just talked right on. I wasn't ready for that but I did tell him I was glad he called to break the ice.

So he txt me today saying that he hope I'm not stingy in year 2012 and give him some. I told him to stop flirting with me but he says never cuz he hasnt finished teaching me lessons. I don't know what lessons he wants to teach but I learned the greatest one of all....Is that I can't do fwb because I do catch feelings.

I thought that when saggs decided to get into a relationship that it was a sure thing. I don't know what to make of it. But I didn't say ask him anything about that...i just left things open.

a sag is never a sure thing. even the venus in caps. the men are tough! theyre venus sign and age plays a huge role in how they see relationships.