why didnt she tell me?

ok so tauri broke up with my aries bff in a bathroom of a party a couple months ago. since then, she's been trying to reconcile with him but he tells her that he isnt ready. behind her back, he tells virgo that he doesnt want to be with her.

i dont really ask her "whats happening" but i felt like because we were friends that if she wants to talk she would give me the 411. i found out from virgo that tauri gave aries an ultimatum. he told her that he would take her back if he could watch her have sex with another man and than he would have sex with her. when virgo told me, i wasnt shocked. what i was shocked about is that she never told me about it. i kinda feel like ive let her into my life when she's been holding back on hers, u know? virgo told me that this isnt the first time tauri had asked her to do something like that. i got mad about that 2 because again, she never told me about it.

you can say that "well DMV, she doesnt have to tell you everything." but why tell virgo and not tell me? it comes across a bit fake to me. so ive adjusted and ive started to hold back with her.

in the past when she would tell me things about her relationship with the tauri, it was all the good stuff...almost bragging you know?! now that when things arent so rosey, i dont hear a word. when she would tell me something negative i would diagnose it and give her my opinion and be right nonetheless.

do u think she's embarrassed to tell me? do u think she trust virgo more than she trust me?

It sounds like aries lost trust in you.

how do you feel about that proposition her guy made? do you think she should leave him? She might just be worried about being looked down on. Sometimes people already know what they are going to do, and they just want other people to assure them that whatever it is, it's "OK".

Posted by jru2
how do you feel about that proposition her guy made? do you think she should leave him? She might just be worried about being looked down on. Sometimes people already know what they are going to do, and they just want other people to assure them that whatever it is, it's "OK".

i dated a tauri for about as year, so it doesnt surprise me. this guy hit on me b4 they met and he just came across as a sleazeball. i let her know b4 she dated him but she like his attention and gifts and dated him anyways. i guess she is a bit embarrassed since i called it.

i think that if she can match his level of freakiness, she should stay. if she cant then, she should cut her losses because he is going to be unhappy and cheat; relationship will breakdown. it isnt that he doesnt respect her, its that he is into a different kind of sex. she isnt really into sex, shes more into relationships.

Posted by Wynter
It sounds like aries lost trust in you.

i think there is a reason why she picks and chooses what do talk to me about. maybe virgo is better at delivering the truth than i am. virgo seems to soften things up and not really tell the whole truth, if u get my drift. virgo will decide what tell aries because virgo hates delivering bad news. so she wont give her the whole story.

by the way, i cant bring it up to the aries bec then she will know that virgo told me when she obviously doesnt want me to know.

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Posted by Wynter
It sounds like aries lost trust in you.

i think there is a reason why she picks and chooses what do talk to me about. maybe virgo is better at delivering the truth than i am. virgo seems to soften things up and not really tell the whole truth, if u get my drift. virgo will decide what tell aries because virgo hates delivering bad news. so she wont give her the whole story.

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Perhaps Virgo is trying to drive a wedge between you and aries. They do have an insinuating way about them that could promote distrust in others, if it serves some sort of agenda they have.

naw. virgo is harmless.

Posted by MzSag
Just a few questions,

How often do you an the Aries talk? Perhaps she just hasn't gotten around to telling you about her relationship.

Does the Virgo drill information out of the Aries or does the Aries naturally confide in the Virgo? Maybe you should just ask her what's up!

Are you a worrier or do you have other things going on in your life that'd make the Aries not want to talk to you? Would there even be a reason why she wouldn't want to talk to you?

How often do you an the Aries talk? Perhaps she just hasn't gotten around to telling you about her relationship.

maybe its the sag in me, but i hate talking on the phone.

Are you a worrier or do you have other things going on in your life that'd make the Aries not want to talk to you? Would there even be a reason why she wouldn't want to talk to you?

i think this is it. thank you. i started a new job where i dont have anytime for anyone really. that would make sense.

very good. i feel better now.

I agree, I think she may be embarrassed because you called it early on before she started dating him.

that's funny, i don't like talking on phone either ... didn't know it was sag thing

Where's your Mercury at? Mine's in Cap and I'd rather listen than talk.

On the phone, that is.

Posted by Wynter
Where's your Mercury at? Mine's in Cap and I'd rather listen than talk.

scorpio.


the sag in me gets bored talking on the phone. too much commitment. face to face is much preferred.

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Posted by Wynter
Where's your Mercury at? Mine's in Cap and I'd rather listen than talk.

scorpio.


the sag in me gets bored talking on the phone. too much commitment. face to face is much preferred.

+1

I like face to face because I talk to people based off of the cues they give, body language, etc.

Don't get me STARTED on texting. Seriously, I should be put on the 100 texts a month plan... unlimited is completely useless.

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That's funny cus while I prefer face to face, and hate talking on the phone, I enjoy texting because the cues are just as easy for me to read as face to face.

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Posted by Wynter
Where's your Mercury at? Mine's in Cap and I'd rather listen than talk.

scorpio.


the sag in me gets bored talking on the phone. too much commitment. face to face is much preferred.

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I'm the same way. My best friend is a Virgo. I've always noticed that he's selective in what he tells me. At first I was upset, but I never addressed it. I just realized that it's who he is. He's married to another Virgo. I actually had to talk him into marriage. They can talk all day. But play things close to the best with private info.

Play things close to the vest is what I meant lol

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Play things close to the vest is what I meant lol

yeah my virgo friend, bless her sweet heart, doesnt like to hurt the people she loves. delivering bad news is hard for her. seriously. one day i had to slap the bad news outta her.

i think it's kinda ridiculous that you would ask why a taurus would do something on the sagittarius forum.

maybe she didn't tell you because you clearly don't have a clue as ^that indicates?

Posted by caligula
i think it's kinda ridiculous that you would ask why a taurus would do something on the sagittarius forum.

maybe she didn't tell you because you clearly don't have a clue as ^that indicates?

hahaha maybe u need to learn how to read as well. i wasnt asking advice about a taurus.

so "tauri" is someone's real name? wow! that makes you an even bigger jackass. they didn't tell you because you don't know how to keep your orifices, nether regions included, shut.

Posted by caligula
so "tauri" is someone's real name? wow! that makes you an even bigger jackass. they didn't tell you because you don't know how to keep your orifices, nether regions included, shut.

hahahaha seriously lol. tauri is short for taurus