why this aries guy leaves the room when I walk in

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So this Aries. I liked him and I thought he liked me, but he went from extremely attentive to a ghost. I told him that I wasnt interested in a booty call. We hooked up one last time and i heard zip from him. BET. I followed suit and never contacted him. I dont chase. He eventually commented on a few of my Facebook posts but I didnt take it serious. I acted as if he fell, off the face of the earth. He commented on my posts but I didnt on any of his. If he wants to play a game, im not interested. I feel like if I have shared one thing about myself and you turn around and act brand new, im done with you. Dont try to make me look dumb.

There was a party a few weeks ago and I decided not to go. He went and asked my friends about me all night. Even tried to get them to shed some kinda light on if I was sad about him. But they didnt. He ended up hovering over them all night and then eventually left.

fast foward to tonight. He shows up at the party and he sees me and almost hesitates to come in. Hes saying his hellos and b4 he could almost get to me, I get up to throw away my plate. He runs me down to give me a hug and im cordial and friendly. Then he proceeds to rub my ass. Eww I give it no reaction.

He stays in one room that im in and then leaves to go to another. I notice and go to the bathroom which is next to another room where he is at. I sit down waiting for the bathroom. He grabs his cup and leaves lol. I use the bathroom and go back to the first room. He is in there. I see him out of the corner of my eye. He watches me. Then he leaves the room. Granted im not going out of my way to make conversation with him. Im bubbly and enjoying everyone else around him.

So I notice again that he leaves the room again. So I try one more experiment.

hes standing outside and I go out there and join the conversation. The conversation turns toward me and my thighs. Hes trying to insert his way into it but I kinda block him out. He waits and then, again, he leaves the room. This time, he leaves for good.

so, why do you think he cant stand to be in, the same room with me? Is it because I dont acknowledge him?

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So this Aries. I liked him and I thought he liked me, but he went from extremely attentive to a ghost. I told him that I wasnt interested in a booty call. We hooked up one last time and i heard zip from him. BET. I followed suit and never contacted him. I dont chase. He eventually commented on a few of my Facebook posts but I didnt take it serious. I acted as if he fell, off the face of the earth. He commented on my posts but I didnt on any of his. If he wants to play a game, im not interested. I feel like if I have shared one thing about myself and you turn around and act brand new, im done with you. Dont try to make me look dumb.

There was a party a few weeks ago and I decided not to go. He went and asked my friends about me all night. Even tried to get them to shed some kinda light on if I was sad about him. But they didnt. He ended up hovering over them all night and then eventually left.

fast foward to tonight. He shows up at the party and he sees me and almost hesitates to come in. Hes saying his hellos and b4 he could almost get to me, I get up to throw away my plate. He runs me down to give me a hug and im cordial and friendly. Then he proceeds to rub my ass. Eww I give it no reaction.

He stays in one room that im in and then leaves to go to another. I notice and go to the bathroom which is next to another room where he is at. I sit down waiting for the bathroom. He grabs his cup and leaves lol. I use the bathroom and go back to the first room. He is in there. I see him out of the corner of my eye. He watches me. Then he leaves the room. Granted im not going out of my way to make conversation with him. Im bubbly and enjoying everyone else around him.

So I notice again that he leaves the room again. So I try one more experiment.

hes standing outside and I go out there and join the conversation. The conversation turns toward me and my thighs. Hes trying to insert his way into it but I kinda block him out. He waits and then, again, he leaves the room. This time, he leaves for good.

so, why do you think he cant stand to be in, the same room with me? Is it because I dont acknowledge him?



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so, why do you think he cant stand to be in, the same room with me? Is it because I dont acknowledge him?



I'm speaking from experience. I went through this with an aries guy. Yes, it's a game. The reason why he pulled away after sex, probably didn't have anything to do with you. If it was about that, he wouldn't commented on anything that you had on facebook.

He asked his friends about you because he was curious about you. He wasn't hearing from you. So, asking someone else that you know let's him know what's going on with you.

That hug and grabbing you was showing how much he missed you and also part of the game. You wasn't speaking to him, so this was attempt to reel you back in. Then he leaves you, to see if you will follow. You did. You said it was a experiment, but that's what he wanted. It may not have been chasing to you, but it was chasing to him. Even when they discussing your thighs, you jumped in the conversation when he was there. He left after that because he got what he wanted. Checkmate.

He's feeling good right now, because he got what he wanted. He'll be back around.

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He also said something really hurtful towards me to my friends at the party I didn't go to. He told them that I made him feel TRAPPED. Nevermind he was the one talking about how compatible we were and making sure that he was still on my mind. He always initiated heavily.

that hurt me. Why would I ever react to him? He's untrustworthy.



how are you trapping him?
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eh, hell if I know. But how he feels is how he feels.
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so, why do you think he cant stand to be in, the same room with me? Is it because I dont acknowledge him?



I'm speaking from experience. I went through this with an aries guy. Yes, it's a game. The reason why he pulled away after sex, probably didn't have anything to do with you. If it was about that, he wouldn't commented on anything that you had on facebook.

He asked his friends about you because he was curious about you. He wasn't hearing from you. So, asking someone else that you know let's him know what's going on with you.

That hug and grabbing you was showing how much he missed you and also part of the game. You wasn't speaking to him, so this was attempt to reel you back in. Then he leaves you, to see if you will follow. You did. You said it was a experiment, but that's what he wanted. It may not have been chasing to you, but it was chasing to him. Even when they discussing your thighs, you jumped in the conversation when he was there. He left after that because he got what he wanted. Checkmate.

He's feeling good right now, because he got what he wanted. He'll be back around.

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Yeah I dont see that as chasing but interesting that he does. Kinda delusional. 2 people who had history cant handle being in the same room? Especially the guy.

I mean if he saw things like that so would the 2 other guys I had history with would think that. As a scorpio, its interesting youd say that. One of the 2 is a scorpio and he always thought like that. You entered a room and hed swear that shit was a sex invite.

I knew a libra guy who always left a party or house when I showed up. It became so obvious I eventually called him out on it. Come to find out he carried a torch for me but since he couldnt and wouldn't make a move, leaving was the only option.
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I think he left because he felt ignored.



I'm only saying this because the same thing happened to me by an aries guy. Only he grabbed all over me and was kissing and sucking on me. We had a fight prior to that and hadn't been speaking to each other for a month. What you described, is what he did. It's a game. Or it could be the way that he is.
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hes an insecure little boy. Fix it Jesus.
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I think he left because he felt ignored.



I'm only saying this because the same thing happened to me by an aries guy. Only he grabbed all over me and was kissing and sucking on me. We had a fight prior to that and hadn't been speaking to each other for a month. What you described, is what he did. It's a game. Or it could be the way that he is.



hes an insecure little boy. Fix it Jesus.
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Exactlyyyyyyyyy.... It's mostly to get a reaction out of you. I asked my dad about it. He said that's what it was. The aries guy did that to me more than once, but when I started ignoring his games he approached me and told me that I didn't have to avoid him. Lol. Ain't that some shit, but you was speaking to me. I guess he thought I was going to chase him. Someone caught him looking at me when I walked pass him like he was there and said he looked mad and started shaking his head up and down like..okay. I don't play games. Little girls chase, grown woman leave. He saw that I caught on to it, so he stopped.
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I add, he is also looking for an even more insecure women to play along with.



Exactly. That's usually who they end up with. Two insecure people make a great couple.
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i went through that with a Leo, Scorp, and a Sag...i gotta stop feeding the pig.

My aries friend told me that the reason he kept leaving is because he felt uncomfortable. He didnt know what to say to me because i wasnt the type to accept any ol response. he was going to have to come correct or not come at all. He is probably more used to women just forgiving and forgetting. But DMV doesnt operate like that. I deserve a better explanation for his behavior and he knows it.

She also said that he probably withdrew because he didnt know of any other way to end it before it got to serious. He does infact have alot of his plate and realized that he didnt have room for me.

completely understandable.
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I add, he is also looking for an even more insecure women to play along with.



Exactly. That's usually who they end up with. Two insecure people make a great couple.



i went through that with a Leo, Scorp, and a Sag...i gotta stop feeding the pig.

My aries friend told me that the reason he kept leaving is because he felt uncomfortable. He didnt know what to say to me because i wasnt the type to accept any ol response. he was going to have to come correct or not come at all. He is probably more used to women just forgiving and forgetting. But DMV doesnt operate like that. I deserve a better explanation for his behavior and he knows it.

She also said that he probably withdrew because he didnt know of any other way to end it before it got to serious. He does infact have alot of his plate and realized that he didnt have room for me.

completely understandable.
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I agree. It is understandable.