Will I ever hear from her again?

Ok,imma Aquarius & about 3 weeks ago an old friend from way back in middle school reached back to me on Facebook...back then I know for a fact she had a HUGE crush on me..but,most girls did so to me she was no different...not to sound mean or anything...but anyway we talked for hours IMing on the chat our 1st day in touch,over the next two days we talk over the phone..but b4 I went all stalker on her & went though her FB stuff & found her YT account and everything..just so I can see what kinda person I was dealing with..I liked her ALOT...& I wanted her to be MINE..which must be my Aries moon speaking.....to me,when something or someone interest me or w/e,I want to make sure I have the greatest chance at receiving it/them....sooo I told her EVERYTHING..she wasn't bothered or freaked out she just said she wanted to take it slow & that maybe us meeting up & hanging out she would maybe want to get into a relationship with me.I asked if she was "talking" to anyone else,she said yes..b4 I came into the picture...she said she only been with two guys in her whole 19yrs of dating..after hearing that..it urged me to want to pursue her even more,over time..i kinda slipped back into old bitchy habits that I used to use on my old girlfriend just to see if she could handle it..I wanted to make sure b4 I went all out to pursue her,that she could even put up with me...& SHE COULD,I couldn't have asked for a better mate for myself..looks,intelligence,tolerance..she had it all...but one day,she asked if I could send her a picture...now i KNOW im not ugly,but for wutever reason,I wanted her to see me in person first,she had BIG problem with that..& we argued a little about it..im not sure if it was a BIG issue with her personally..but it wasn't with me,I just didn't want to do it....one day we text & she basically told me,this was too much for her...that she didn't want to be in a relationship right now & with he school,new job,& her moving soon,I was too much of a hothead for her & she didn't want that extra me to deal with...........we agreed that she was right & that was ok with me.The nexst day,no call NOTHING....I wait for 3 days,NOTHING...I try contacting her through the only phone she had (her sisters) & I could get through...I had blocked her on FB because I got pissed off at her ignoring my call one time,so that was outta reach as well..it's been 3 almost 4 weeks...NOTHING.

I want to move on,but theres a strong feeling telling me dnt give up..idk wut to do...

Good chance if you unblock her she might talk to you again, but you'd need to give it time. You kinda did a no-no when you argued with her during a stressful time. I know for me when I'm stressed as it is and someone makes me emotional (sad or mad) I don't want to deal with them because, well, what's the point? And if I have a peave about something like her wanting a pic, if you don't yield to that simple thing of what I want then I'll feel like you don't think I'm worth it. It's just one little picture. Are you really that adament about her seeing you in person that you would start an argument over it? Come on...that's the kinda stuff sagis hate. But don't worry, that's just how you are. If shes the right one she'll come back. I suggest you swallow your pride and unblock her, but don't contact her for a while. Give her time to breathe and get settled.

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She's a sagg..& yeah I unblocked her..the first couple of days of no contact..it's so weird..i can usually let ppl go so easily..but my heart wont let me.....but yeah happykitsune thats the same thing she said..but I always question if what somebody says,is actually what they meant..was she just telling me that just to cut me loose,because she really didn't like me..or...idk maybe im thinking too much lol..I mean i kno she gotta lot goin on..but geesh i felt she could've at least called or SOMETHING to let me know where we stand...I guess all i can do is continue waiting..i guess...............

Yeah that is a little odd that she didn't let you know where you guys stand... for me I can't stand leaving things up in the air. I don't think she'd do that to cut you loose. And if she did then you don't need to be deal with someone whos immature like that anyway. Besides sagis are blunt. We'll tell you if it's not working out. You may have drove her away if you were "clingy" in her eyes though... the more you try to hold on the farther we run.

And yes what she says is what she means. Again, we will tell you how it is so just accept it 😛 Hmm so let's see how long you can play the waiting game 😄 Did she ever tell you straight up that she liked you?

Posted by DUNCE


one day we text & she basically told me,this was too much for her...that she didn't want to be in a relationship right now & with he school,new job,& her moving soon,I was too much of a hothead for her & she didn't want that extra me to deal with...........we agreed that she was right & that was ok with me.

You agreed with what she told you. What part of this didn't you understand?

Posted by DUNCE




The nexst day,no call NOTHING....I wait for 3 days,NOTHING...I try contacting her through the only phone she had (her sisters) & I could get through...I had blocked her on FB because I got pissed off at her ignoring my call one time,so that was outta reach as well..it's been 3 almost 4 weeks...NOTHING.

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The next few days you didn't recieve any contact from her. Ummmmm.....what did you expect?

aries moon or an aries venus is tooo fast for me. too impulsive, tendency to be hot headed.

she probably felt like you were too fast for her and she probably felt smothered.

in aries moon fashion, you got a wee bit insecure and blocked her because she hadnt talked to you. i knew a fish with a venus in aries and he was the same way.

id say that after 4 weeks, i wouldnt count on her calling.

your aries moon doesnt sit well with "defeat." you see her pull back as a challenge and you want what you want. but what you want is what you cant have.

i agree with carbon, if we like someone..we will find a way to come back in their lives.

Posted by happykitsune
Good chance if you unblock her she might talk to you again, but you'd need to give it time. You kinda did a no-no when you argued with her during a stressful time. I know for me when I'm stressed as it is and someone makes me emotional (sad or mad) I don't want to deal with them because, well, what's the point? And if I have a peave about something like her wanting a pic, if you don't yield to that simple thing of what I want then I'll feel like you don't think I'm worth it. It's just one little picture. Are you really that adament about her seeing you in person that you would start an argument over it? Come on...that's the kinda stuff sagis hate. But don't worry, that's just how you are. If shes the right one she'll come back. I suggest you swallow your pride and unblock her, but don't contact her for a while. Give her time to breathe and get settled.

i agree happy. some saggis dont care to fight or argue. there are saggis with aries placements who like that kind of stuff.

shoulda sent that picture.

Why would act like that?

Posted by DMV
shoulda sent that picture.

Yeppers.