My Scorpio roommate's friend wants to stay with us for a couple of days for the Fall semester. She told her roommate that it's was okay, but she needed to talk to me about it too. Her friend lives about 30 or 45 minutes away from her college and she doesn't want to have to drive home after class.
I understand that and all ? but I'm concern about the fact that there will be three of us in a one-bedroom apartment :O
I'm really unsure because my Scorpio roommate and I and already had an argument about how messy she is ? if the other girl is messy, I refuse to clean up after two grown woman!
Am I wrong for feelings this way? I haven't really given her an answer yet as to whether or not I'm cool with her friend camping out here.
Hahaha, I think I will start having personal space issues -- moreso then I already do.
Well, my roommate (she's my best "female" friend too) really gets on my nerves when it comes to situation like this. She says yes to shit too quickly then she comes to me after the fact.
She is a "yes" person but she doesn't think first UGH!
She's already given her friend the go-ahead ... so how can I say no 😢
Yeah, thats what I'm afraid of too. The fact that my Scorp roommate and I have already had an argument (she still lazy but not as lazy as she was before the arguement) but I think we may have more with a third person on board.
I don't know my roommate's friend -- I only know her by name. She will not be moving in, just staying with us until the semester is over, for a couple of days.
Yeah, I'm thinking that if I do say yeah, she will have to pay ... or do the dinner thing -- geee weezzz, I would feel SOOO bad for suggesting that though 😢
A semester is 15 weeks, so it won't be very long.
Maybe, I'm making too big a deal of this, but I just have a feeling the three girls will be hell.
Yes, she a bit messy. I hate to say that because we are good friends, but I don't like her being that way. Why? Because I will not be her roommate forever, if she rooms with someone else, they may not be as cool with her as I am. Unless, they are messy too.
I guess I feel this way because about two months ago, she had issues with one of my guy friends paying me a visit late at night. She was going to bed and we were not going to disturb her -- he's not even my boyfriend, just a friend.
But, because of some issues in the past (which have been resolved) she told me that he can't come around and if he did, she would have to be present. That wasn't fair.
So I guess I can't break the little deal that made two months ago 😉
"I don't know my roommate's friend -- I only know her by name. She will not be moving in, just staying with us until the semester is over, for a couple of days."
How many days will she be taking a class that she has to spend the night 5 days a week, 2 days a week or what? is what I was trying to say
EG, "LOL - scorpionlady I give you TWO SECONDS in that situation before you'd kill someone!"
LMBAO.......right I am having a enough of a problem with my T man coming over and spending the night.
He comes through the door I be like wash your hands before you go in the fridge....LOL he be like damn baby can I get in the door first....LOL
I had a roommate (Aries) about two years ago and it lasted all of 4 months and I told her I needed my space and it was either she leaves or our friendship was going to end. I am still friends with her
"I guess I feel this way because about two months ago, she had issues with one of my guy friends paying me a visit late at night. She was going to bed and we were not going to disturb her -- he's not even my boyfriend, just a friend.
But, because of some issues in the past (which have been resolved) she told me that he can't come around and if he did, she would have to be present. That wasn't"
I remember when I was rooming with my Leo gf and she did not like the guy I brought over. She was like I don't like him and I don't want him in my house? A month later I left. If I am paying rent then I have a right to invite anyone I choose.
Why should your roommate have to be present unless something went down that was not right?
I had a roommate (Aries) about two years ago and it lasted all of 4 months and I told her I needed my space and it was either she leaves or our friendship was going to end. I am still friends with her
Yes, I understand the "personal space" thing more then anything right now.
My roommate is unemployeed right now so she is around the apartment nearly 24/7 ... not unless she goes to the docter (for silly reasons), or go to get something to eat.
She says she looking for a job, but she's not looking hard enough to me ... she spends more time doing other things, like gaming.
Haha, I came home early once bcause I forgot my lunch. She told me that she will be out looking for jobs from 9am to 3pm. Haha, I go home at like 10:00 am, I see her playing something on PS2 LOL!!! When she saw me she turned really pale ... turned off the game and left -- she did tell me "bye" 😉
Why should your roommate have to be present unless something went down that was not right?
Its a long story SL, she doesn't trust me with him and vice versa. Honestly, I think she is afraid that she will catch us "in the act" and that will not happen because we are friends.
Hahaha, the scoprio is my best friend, so I guess those conversations about being "horny" (darn I say it), got her wheels turning. So he thought my friend and I would "get it on" and I kept telling her that it wouldn't happen.
"Its a long story SL, she doesn't trust me with him and vice versa. Honestly, I think she is afraid that she will catch us "in the act" and that will not happen because we are friends.
Hahaha, the scoprio is my best friend, so I guess those conversations about being "horny" (darn I say it), got her wheels turning. So he thought my friend and I would "get it on" and I kept telling her that it wouldn't happen."
'But, because of some issues in the past (which have been resolved) she told me that he can't come around and if he did, she would have to be present. That wasn't fair.'
tell he to go find a job,get off her lazy ass and find her own lay for the night,instead of being jealous of you getting men making a bootie call late a t night !!!
Okay, well here's the situation -- I don't like it, but this is whats happening. My roommate's friend promised to either buy dinner during the time she's there or pay. we will be able to switch it up for the time being, but she will do one or the other.
I guess thats okay because it will only be from September to the end of December but I will let her know that I can't stand a nasty bathroom and that needs to keep clean -- no grossness!
However, now that this is going on, I think its only fair for me to invite my non-female friends over and just advise my scorpio roomie to chill out.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
My Scorpio roommate's friend wants to stay with us for a couple of days for the Fall semester. She told her roommate that it's was okay, but she needed to talk to me about it too. Her friend lives about 30 or 45 minutes away from her college and she doesn't want to have to drive home after class.
I understand that and all ? but I'm concern about the fact that there will be three of us in a one-bedroom apartment :O
I'm really unsure because my Scorpio roommate and I and already had an argument about how messy she is ? if the other girl is messy, I refuse to clean up after two grown woman!
Am I wrong for feelings this way? I haven't really given her an answer yet as to whether or not I'm cool with her friend camping out here.
Hahaha, I think I will start having personal space issues -- moreso then I already do.