What the..??

Don't know if anyone remembers but not too long ago I was having some problems with a scorpio girl from my past. She was elusive as hell and would prefer to communicate only via text messaging.. We were supposed to get together when she was in town about a month ago but again.. she was elusive and sadly nothing came of it. Then, out of the blue, she texts me early this morning with: "wish I would've gotten on you when I was there..." (exact words of the text). Now, first thought in my head was - is this a joke?? She blew me off at every possible turn when she was in town, knowing full well I wanted to see her and all the sudden this? WTF? Scorps, is there logic to this or should I erase her number from my book and forget her for good?

She knows I have a thing for her so it's really starting to look like she's trying to f**k with my head on purpose.. just never thought scorps were capable of this..

I'm starting to think scorps are alot more sinister than I originally thought. Maybe not all of them.. just the ones I i've come across recently.

So a scorp can act like this even if I haven't done anything to offend them? I have no problem at all getting her out of my life permanently I just never expected her to stoop to this level.. someone i've known since elementary school..

Then again, you know her better than I do. Did you call her on this behavior?

No, I didn't respond and not going to.

Do we have an "o"?

Maybe she's with someone else, and when the main guy stops showering her with attention, she looks for the next best thing...

I'd be in her face in a minute with exactly your words, "Is this some kinda joke? You know I made every effort to see you. Tired of the games.........call me when or if you ever figure it out." The End

I agree with Roxi and Emergem SRG. Ask her about her true intentions. The reason I say this is because you seem to be really serious about her and its not right that she is doing this to you.

No, i'm not going to give her what she wants. There are plenty of fish in the sea.. she's going to have to accept that she may not be the only one.

It's really simple, if she wants me, she can say so over the phone or in person. If she wants to play games, she can go to hell.. I don't bow before anyone.. no matter who they are.

Yeah, what's with the mind-games and puzzles? Especially when you haven't talked for awhile. Words are powerful and can be so mis-interpreted. And sadly, the wrong way too. It's always better to be real and up-front and just tell it like it is..

I'm starting to think the same thing Roxi..

yeah, strangely I always read that chicks mature much faster than guys.. but all the girls I know that are my age -- (22-23) are immature and quite honestly interested in things I cared about when I was 18. I'm just saying, there are few girls my age that actually know what they want..

yeah, strangely I always read that chicks mature much faster than guys.. but all the girls I know that are my age -- (22-23) are immature and quite honestly interested in things I cared about when I was 18. I'm just saying, there are few girls my age that actually know what they want..

Hey, I'm mature for a 207 year old woman so you have a point there 😉

Nah, just kidding. All jokes aside, maturity depends on the person. Gender has nothing to do with it. Hey, I feel wiser now then I did a year or so ago. Someone else may feel the same in a year but I feel quite different. So it really depends on the person.

Roger that..

"It's really simple, if she wants me, she can say so over the phone or in person. If she wants to play games, she can go to hell.. I don't bow before anyone.. no matter who they are."

That is kind of a cop out, I wouldn't start a confrontation or leave things open ended, I would reply with a simple..."You may have, you may not have...either way you didn't make any effort to see me. Don't come to me with should have or could have, do or don't."

If you get confrontational and question the person you do end up giving them more power in the situation because you are allowing yourself to be dependant in the resolve on their explanation or answer. If you leave it alone and do the whole "if she wants to she will" thing then your not giving in or relinquishing any power but you are also not asserting yourself which isn't really good.

Nah, the biggest mistake would be to continue dwelling on this. I just have to accept the fact that people are full of shit and like playing games..

I may want to date older women but how do I know they want to date me? Maybe you guys can give me a few pointers as i'm fairly new to this.. 🙂

So long as they aren't all crinkly........

I've been dealing with chicks my own age so long I need to change up my strategy. It can't be the same.

No problem meeting women.. meeting the right woman isn't easy though.

So it's true then, most older women go for younger guys??

Whatever P

It depends on the person 😉 Younger can be just as good as older women. It just depends on who you meet, where you meet them and what your standards are.

Sometimes a person standards can be their own downfall too. Not saying that this is your problem, but tis something to think about.