Agree or Disagree

My fb friend posted this and I forwarded to my guy(a Sagg) since we were just talking about this very issue.

Msg: "There's no such thing as the perfect soulmate". If you meet someone and you think they're perfect, you better run in the other direction Cos your soulmate is the person that pushes all your buttons, pisses you off on a regular basis, and makes you face your shit".



I mean of course you don't want to be with someone who pisses you off everyday, but for the most part I find this to be true, my sagg was saying how I have a smart mouth and he doesn't like a lot of the things I say and he get pissed when I say certain things and I feel the same way with him sometimes. Like I told him a relationship is about communication and compromise and if I pissed you off or upset you let me know cause that might be something I can change and work on and I would like the same with you. I like for a man to make me face my shit and not let me run over them because in my past if you give me an inch I will talke mile so I think in relationship you need someone who will not be a door mat and who will let each other know the error of their ways.


Funny thing I txt this message to him this afternoon becuase like I said we just talked about this and he replied

"You are always trying to be right"
True I like to be right and proved my point but when I am wrong I acknowledge that.

He also said " There is some truth to that, but I will never tell you"
He know it makes sense but he doesn't want to give me the pleasure of being right Lol.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Unless you're a teenage girl, the idea of a 'perfect' anything is silly, outside of moments.🙂

Agree 🙂

Posted by ImpressMe
Scorpdiva??_

I like this Sag. He keeps you on your toes and vice versa never a dull moment.

I remain neutral or on the agree or disagree thing??_lol

I know never a dull moment, I couldn't get bored with him if I wanted too and vice versa.

Elly your post was great

I enjoy harmony

Now that I've actually read the op, I also agree scorpdiva, that at times I will also take a mile.. And it's good to have the other person aware of this while I am working to fix it in myself.

I never liked anything perfect. There is no such thing. Since we are humans we kinda lost the oportunity to be perfect right at birth. And I could never care for someone who is pushing my buttones, that's just mind game to me I am not a fan of that. But someone who knowes just to listen and nod when I am ranting about anything that got me angry at that moment, and who knowes to tell me: ''you know just next time try to react in a different way'', without judging me and ad to all that emotional deepenes and passion would be soul mate for me. But this what Elly wrote: "Now they guy I'm with, it's so easy, so normal. It just flows. It's natural. There's passion, connection, emotional depth."-someone like that would be perfect soul mate for me.

Elly I realy like all of your post's and at the first sight I was thinking that you are pisces you just have all this gentleness in every post I was so surpised when I have read that you are scorpio 🙂

I also agree with Ally, I like for things to just flow and run smoothly but the person in question I was talking about we have been dating for a year and a half so we already had our time where things were calm and flowed at the beginning of any relationship you see the outter part of that person but to stay together you have to love the inner and outter parts of that person which is not going to be all roses. I know with me I don't want drama or a person to put me down or pissed me off all the time NO we would not be together if that is the case, but please be the men that can handle a women like me and let me know when I am wrong and not always let things run smoothly for fear you will make me upset when I am unfair or out of line.