Another Scorpio ....*Sigh*

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Okay, I posted a few months ago about a class I am taking and my instructor happens to be a scorpio. I have written before about not even getting past first base with any scorpio because of Scorpio's general abrassive behavior just turns me off. I could have sworn my instructor was a sagittarius or capricorn. I don't know what it is about my instructor, but I am extreamly drawn to him and very attracted to him. He is older 43 and I am 38 so the age difference is nice. He is like a magnet to me. I know he is attracted to me, you should have seen him look at me when I first walked into the classroom. He is always flirting with me when we talk outside of class. I have not seen an abrasive side of him, perhaps this one does not have an abrasive side. I could only hope. It could also be he is being politically correct for class. Well any case it is not even feasible for me to consider doing anything with him since I am in class with him until August. It is weird he has so many parallels with my own interest. Well for starters he is a chiropractor and I am going to school at the natural therapy center for massage therapy and holistic wellness. We have VERY similar ideals on religion, spirituality, fitness, wellness, and career paths. He is every ideal of someone who I am looking for in a long-term relations and not to mention he is charming, cute, funny, and he sucks me in .....like someone sucking milk out of a straw. *Sigh* I am dedicated to my studies and I don't want to jeoprodize that by messing up the teacher / student relationship. I want to in the worst way confront him about the connection and the student inside of me says "Stay Clear". There is another dynamic, he has a "gal pal" and I know he is not happy with that situation because he really is looking for something more substantial. He was so sad when this girl said she only wants to be his gal pal.

I have heard about the Pisces Woman / Scorpio Man relationship being ideal.

My previous post from months ago were from someone who wanted to stay clear of relations, however this scorpio has really captivated me, and the situation is just all wrong. How could this happen?

So from a scorpio perspective or even from a relation perspective can anyone give me feedback. The deep passion and desire for him are extreamly strong. I TOTALLY DIG HIM!!!! I have not felt like this about someone since my relations with sagittarius ....and I feel even more strongly drawn to scorpio.
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There is one thing that concerns me about scorpio. Just about every conversation with him has to do with alcohol. I detect a bit of drinking problem. Matter of fact tonight in class he mentions how he could use a drink. This concerns me for I don't really drink that much. He is of irish decent and I am not sure if that has something to do with it.

I know this scorpio has DANGER written all over him. I wish I was not so attracted to him. He turns me on in every sense. *sigh*

What would you do?

Thanks for your help.

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I'm not sure about your situation. If it feels wrong then go with your gut. Perhaps when you are done with your studies go for it. If the attraction is that strong it won't go away in a few months will it?

The drinking thing.... *sigh* every single scorp man I know has a huge alchol problem. HUGE. And I know quite a few. 3 off the top of my head have been to jail several times due to dui's. Water signs in particular are prone to addiction. I've read Scorps choice of addiction is the drink. *shrug* I know I've lost control a few times because it felt good to let go of control and relax. I let it go to far. I don't drink but once a blue moon anymore. It's not good for me to "let go" I become a emo mess when I drink. Imagine all the Scorp intensity that is built up and suddenly released all at once.... not pretty.
But my Scorp male friends either don't give a shit or they are full blown alcholics cuz they get wasted every single time they drink. I'm talking black out drunks. I think it's due to what I said before. Letting go feels good but it's not. Scorps need our control to keep us sane.
But maybe he's like me and realized before it was too late that drinking is a dangerous path to take for him. I'm of Irish and German decent so drinking is in my blood but letting go of control isn't cool. Maybe do a little detective work and find out a little more about it? Scorps are violent extream drunk. Oh the things I've witnessed!!
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Wow what kind of class is this that you know so much personal info about your professor & that he announces to the class that he needs a drink? LOL "It could also be he is being politically correct for class." That doesn't seem very politically correct πŸ™‚ at any rate, I'd wait until after your time in that class is over before confronting him on the connection. Big messes could occur if you start any type of relationship/friendship with someone who's responsible for passing out a grade to you. He has the power to pass/fail you which is why its never good to mix business with pleasure.
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pisces-dream: dont'. please dont'. think of your career, don't mess it up.
no matter how they come across sweet and insecure and sensitive. they are all control freaks, ALL OF THEm honey, take my word, and sooner or later he will use anything to get control over you if he feels he's losing control (and with us pisces women, if not the doormat kind, and we're not, very often they feel they can los grasp of control), he will go for it and use his power as a techer. I know it might sound catastrophic, but please listen to me and stay away, sweet, nice, just smile but dont' go any further before you are happily and suiccessfully over with your class.
the, when all it's done, be free to act as you please.
I have learned that the more you follow their "rules", while apparently pleased, they secretly despise you for being week.
so just be yourself, but after the class.
personally, I dont' trust any of them. too much crap too mnay times too similar among them. but this is subjective, I think.
the one thing I bet is objective is that, i say it again, if something goes wrong (and very often goes wrong according to some mental process of theirs that you'll never get to know or undertsand) they will use any , whatever, slightest bit of information you give them in the "nice beginning phase", against you.
keep this in mind. and good luck
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Hmmmm about the drinking.....my Scorp claims to be against excessive drinking but my friends husband used to work with him & said that he drank like a fish. A few weeks ago he was going through something & called me a couple times drunk. I'd never seen that side of him before & within the last couple weeks I know that he's went through a large bottle of vanilla absolute. This doesn't seem like new sudden behaviour to me so I'm thinking....he's been hiding in a closet with a bottle all of this time that I've known him. Sneaky Sneaky!
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really, ginger? libra/scorpio cusp here, and i'm such an ANGRY drunk! i made my mom cry on my 17th birthday last year. me, the angry drunk, and my mom, the EXXTRA-sensitive drunk. so NOT a good mix! it sucks so bad too because i'm such a lush, i LOOOVE whiskey! maybe it's the irish in me, but i can never pass up a drink when it's offered to me. i try not to drink at family gatherings, because i know my mother will say something to set me off. and when i'm drunk, when i get pissed off, there is NO stopping me. don't get me wrong, i'm not an alkie or anything, i'm only 17, i just like alcohol a lot, that's all.



I really hope that's sarcasm πŸ™‚
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Oh man black out drunks... my Scorp gets drunk til he blacks out. Oh sorry, correction, he would get drunk till he blacks out, once upon a time. I don't want to speak too soon, but on my birthday this year in February, he blacked out and I was so mad that he got to that point that I threw water on his face until he made sense.

So finally he gets up and he wants to get down, his boxers are around his ankles, and I nudge him with my foot cause I was mad (I swear it was light) but the boxers being his ankles (and me not seeing them there) he fell on his face. He hit the guitar amp he bought me from my bday (the corner of the box) and his nose still has a scar. It's still healing... he was bleeding and so drunk that while I cleaned him up he made fun of me for being sensitive. I didn't even get mad, I found it funny cause I knew it wasn't him, this was the other guy that takes over when he's feeling like an ass hole. LOL Since then the only time I think he may have gotten that drunk again is St. Patty's day when he lost a shoe (I wasn't there to witness, but I saw the ad his friends posted up on craigslist about it... "Have you seen me or my shoe barhopping on st paddy's day?").

I just think it's incredible, he's the complete opposite when he has reached that drunken point. Then just like that *snaps fingers* he's back! Fully comprehensive, and not drunk at all. Weirdo...

LOL got me a winner.

My opinion Miss Dream... Wait. I agree with the rest of the ladies. Forbid that something happens between you two that doesn't sit right... you never really know a person at first. Then you're in a sticky situation. Give yourself the option to disappear in case sh% t hits the fan.
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Oooo Ooooo *raises hand* I think I know! Does that mean that at the beginning when all is nice, lovely & wonderful & they sit & listen attentively & get you to open up & reveal all of these things about yourself, those things that you revealed will later come back to haunt you when the honeymoon is over & they need ammunition to back up some crazy idea that they have about you & how you're out to do them wrong somehow?
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"Haha. I think the honeymoons come and go. You get several of them, but there has to be drama first. It's their life force."

Oh how exciting (/exausting)...



I don't know if you??ve read my other posts but I??ve just realised that I'm inlove with a scorpio. I'm really happy right now, I'm like smiling for no reason all the time.
However, I can't help but feeling maybe I should have chosen another sign... LOL
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Hi Ladies .....thank you all for the advice. It has been well received and I think I will wait. You are absolutely right, my career is far more important this flirting crush. This will also give me an opportunity to see more of him as each time I am around him, he reveals just a bit more. It will also give me an idea of his love of the drink, and decide if this is something I even want to get entangled with. Your post are scaring me to think that most Scorps love their booze. *sigh* I am not against drinking don't get me wrong. Alcohol is just not my focal point in life, and I don't center myself around it. I really am very health minded and am doing my best trying to keep my life in balance. This is one thing I find odd about him....he is in the health profession and I would think he would be the same. Than again it is not uncommon to drive by a hospital and see nurses and doctors smoking. Controlling ....hmmm I don't know how I feel about that. The scorps I have known on a friendship basis can be very manipulating I do know this much.

Each time I have told myself .....focus on career ...focus on career ....than he pops up with something of interest of mine and my interest in him peeks all over again. I don't know if I am paranoid or over analyzing so much, but part of me wonders if he has stalked me on the net. I find it interesting his conversations with me are about the things I love...i.e. favorite authors, spirituality......It is almost like he knows EXACTLY what gets my attention. I would hope that we simply share common interst and nothing more.

To answer your question, our class size is very small. There are only 5 students. So the setting is intimate and small. I do agree with you that some of the things he has said are a bit unprofessional .....like talking about drinking all the time. He also told us about what he thought was his girlfriend is now his gal pal. Telling your students about your relations is definately not professional. *Sigh*

Even after all this I am very drawn by him and I cannot put my finger on it.

Thank you again, and I will keep you all posted.

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"Is there such a thing as a "being on a honeymoon with a scorpio"? There's just something about that phrase that doesn't sound right to my ears."

I don't think so. The beginning is hell because we do the testing thing. If you can handle us like that from the start then we start to soften up.... a little. I've been known to tone the testing down for a while and then throw one out of the blue to see what kind of a reaction I'll get. It's really immature and stoooopid. But hey pass it and I'm in it for the long run. We want to know that when the going gets tough you aren't going to run.
Actually when we start to trust you and stop the testing we can become quite predictable and boring. I love routine. It makes me feel secure.
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Posted by Gingerscorp
"Is there such a thing as a "being on a honeymoon with a scorpio"? There's just something about that phrase that doesn't sound right to my ears."

We want to know that when the going gets tough you aren't going to run.
Actually when we start to trust you and stop the testing we can become quite predictable and boring. I love routine. It makes me feel secure.



This is one of the most admirable qualities of a Scorpio. πŸ™‚

PD
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Posted by warholian
"I don't know if I am paranoid or over analyzing so much, but part of me wonders if he has stalked me on the net."

You're not paranoid. Scorpios are the "investigators" of the zodiac (to put it nicely).



Haha my homegirl is a Scorpio... she used to tell me she's doing "research."

E.g.- I love Lady Sovereign... I have been researching her and so far took 3 pictures with her, got 2 autographs from her, and seen her in concert 209483 times... we're friends now... LOL
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Okay, I was in class today and a girl was making racial jokes and I asked her to stop because I was getting offended. I am of latin decent and they were mexican jokes. I don't think she intended to cause any harm however I just wanted her to stop. So my instructor proceeds to tell her to stop, and it almost seemed like he was trying to stick up for me as he proceeds to tell her how she should watch her behavior in a professional setting. I dunno maybe I am reading way more into it ...could be I am a pisces. LOL Can scorp guys get protective, or was he being politically correct and doing his teacher duty?

I just dig this scorp guy. I honestly think the feeling is mutual. I have him until August. August seems so far away.

Here is another thing about this scorp guy. He has hooked me up with inexpensive quality supplements. I call his office today to order and asked him to bring a product to class and he answers normally "Dr...... office" I than tell him "Hi, this is (name)" and it was like his voice totally changed......like how you doing ...lol He has done this twice. Again maybe I am reading more into it.

My cousin also observed us having a conversation outside of class and she picked up on that he kinda was over friendly. I really like him, and I think he likes me but I am just not sure.

Are scorp guys that easy to read?

PD

P.S. I just recounted ...I have him until the first two weeks in September. I need to find someone else to date or hang with ....to get my mind of him. What is a girl to do?

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Scorps are protective people but in all honesty he was probably trying to keep order in the class. There may have been more behind it but Scorps take being in charge seriously. So....

It's hard for a Scorp to be comfortable around people so the fact that he's relaxing his voice and being more friendly is a good sign πŸ™‚

I'd really advise to watch your actions when it comes to male suitors if you are indeed interested in this Scorp. If he likes you he'll be keeping a close eye on you.... more then you know. Scorps are very judgmental so be careful not to have too many male "friends". He'll chalk that up you being flakey and untrustworthy. Not that you shouldn't do what YOU want to do but I'd watch your actions closely. We are SO possesive. Probably the most possesive out of the zodiac. If he has any intentions for you he's going to be watching like a hawk. It's not fair... but darn us Scorps!! We're impossible. πŸ˜›
Maybe some light flirting with him and building up your relationship without going overboard will get you through? *shrug*

Oh and as to the girl joking.... it was rude period. BUT Scorps admire people for being tough and thick skinned and if you are interested in him be aware that we tend to have twisted and dark sense of humors. Check out the Bastards thread on the Astrology board. That cracks me up. I love that stuff. Poking fun at ourselves or other people's sensitive points is kinda a Scorp thing. Not that we're mean... it's just our sense of humor. We don't shy away from taboo stuff in fact we seek it out. We're a weirdo bunch πŸ™‚



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Thanks Gingerscorp....... πŸ™‚

The only reason I would seek others is because we have this whole teacher / student thing going. It is wrong for me to do anything. My only motivation is pure distraction. I adore him, but it is wrong ethically. Do you think he would make a move prior to the class being over? This is so weird for me to be taken by him so strongly. I don't even have any scorpio in my chart. I honestly have NEVER even dated a scorpio or even been romantically smitten by one. I am beginning to wonder if he is a scorpio / sag cuspy .....I am always drawn in by Sag men. When I first met him in March I could have sworn he was a Sag. He just looks very sagittarius.

Do you think he knows I am attracted to him? He is so sweet ....he said he loves my curls...*blushes*

Gawd, I really hate having this crush. Only if he knew what I think about ......and it is not about Anatomy and Physiology. *Smiles*

PD
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Oh I'm guessing that yes he knows. πŸ˜‰ It's hard to keep things from a Scorp. We are observers. Plus we have super big egos so even if you were only casually flirting he'd probably think you were into him. LOL
As to him making a move. I can't say for sure. We like control and try try try to practice self control BUT all that passion has to boil over sometime. Maybe if you were to find yourselves in a more intimate setting then I could see him letting go and "slipping".

"He is so sweet ....he said he loves my curls...*blushes*"

It's rare for a Scorp to compliment people. We only say nice things if we really mean itπŸ™‚


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Oh I'm guessing that yes he knows. πŸ˜‰ It's hard to keep things from a Scorp. We are observers. Plus we have super big egos so even if you were only casually flirting he'd probably think you were into him. LOL
As to him making a move. I can't say for sure. We like control and try try try to practice self control BUT all that passion has to boil over sometime. Maybe if you were to find yourselves in a more intimate setting then I could see him letting go and "slipping".

"He is so sweet ....he said he loves my curls...*blushes*"

It's rare for a Scorp to compliment people. We only say nice things if we really mean itπŸ™‚




Well we have not had a solid opportunity to be alone....prolly a good thing but a frustrating thing too.
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hi PD, am a scorp male...
well, so just a lil warning, to be honest i would say hold your horses.... err.. yea.

like ginger mentioned, we are good observers, he for sure (if hes any good)already knows (has sensed) that you dig him. And its scorpio nature to prod and prob and find everything about you.... and at times only because he knows that you dig him. And for that he would just use a bit of his immense reserve charm... which might make you believe that hes indeed into you.

So dont "fall" for him so strongly yet, until he lets ya know in so many words or almost a definitive action, i would say dont jump the gun. We can be quite direct, and if he isnt falling for you, that might hurt.

so just be careful..take your time, dont be overtly flirtatious.. that might just tick him off (if you are too easy).. but play your cards well, and if he means it, he would definitely make a stronger move πŸ™‚

good luck PD
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Update::::::

Okay so I had class with scorpio tonight. So part of my schooling is getting clinical hours in massage which means we have to have willing subjects who help. Well......guess who has volunteered to my subjectβ€” I did not even put it out there that I was interested in working with him...and there are other students but he wants to work with me. I am a bit hesitant to work with him ...because following good ethical guidelines we should not be working on ppl whom we may have sexual attraction. That is my goal ...to follow the standards....since I know the ethical rules, it will help me stay focused on the task. He must understand I am serious about my education .....and the study. I hope he realizes this.

It is interesting ...he kinda hints around what he is doing this weekend. He is doing a car show this weekend .....I think that is my cue to go, but I am not going to be like the other students ....and follow like a puppy dog. lol

It is funny he tries to give me a hard time in class and I throw it right back to him....lol It is funny but I kinda think he likes it .....I thought he might find me to be a smart alec .....πŸ˜›

I just don't get him .....if he is intersted in me .....why doesn't he just admit it? Why beat around the bush? Than it is out in the open. That is what is driving me crazy .....coz we both know. Ah well ....I can play this game for as long as he wants. I am fine whether it is all one big game and leads no where ......if it leads somewhere .....you will see fireworks from colorado ....I gurantee ...ay camba!!

I am going to continue to pretend ......I don't know anything ....la de da.....la de da πŸ˜›

PD

P.S. He did compliment me on my hair tonight ....he told everyone in class how he loves my hair. *embarassed look*

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Ooooo Scorps like flirty banter. Even if he does think you're a smart ass that's not a bad thing in our book. We tend to be smart asses ourselves and we love it.

A Scorp admitting that they like someone before they are SURE you like them back won't happen. Call it a power play if you will. I'm not gonna lie... it kinda is but it's also a little bit of being protective of our hearts and ego πŸ˜›

It sounds to me like hes testing. Throwing out the bait to see if he can hook him a Fishie πŸ˜‰
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Ooooo Scorps like flirty banter. Even if he does think you're a smart ass that's not a bad thing in our book. We tend to be smart asses ourselves and we love it.

A Scorp admitting that they like someone before they are SURE you like them back won't happen. Call it a power play if you will. I'm not gonna lie... it kinda is but it's also a little bit of being protective of our hearts and ego πŸ˜›

It sounds to me like hes testing. Throwing out the bait to see if he can hook him a Fishie πŸ˜‰



Well Ginger ...that is just great ....so than that is the way it will have to be with this scorp ....playing lots of games ....as fish women ......we tend to like traditional courtship .....even with our strong heads. I will report how our session goes. Dear gawd help me ....I will have an almost naked scorp on my table ........I will just close my eyes and not look. lol πŸ˜›

PD
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Posted by Prince_Pisces
you should have sex with him Pisces_Dream, cause then you'd get an A+ in his class πŸ™‚ LOL.



lol .....I already have an A+ in his class ......I am a smarty pants πŸ˜› ....he could also fail me. 😐 Yikes!!!! What can I say ....I just want to have sex with him .....and not even for the grade. πŸ˜› Becoz I am one of those 30 somethings with a high libido.....*Sigh* annnnnd .....he is hawt hawt πŸ˜›

PD
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Posted by Prince_Pisces
you know. . .thinking about it, if a teacher ever came onto me, id have sex with them LOL, even if they were ugly. . .good grades without the work? im in πŸ™‚ LOL!!!!



lol.....I think because it is soooooo tabooo ...u know student dating teacher ......that is what I think is hawt. I get these visual thoughts .....mmmmm hmmmm .....Pisces and their wonderful imagination .....πŸ˜›

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Okay, So I called Scorpio at his office phone today to schedule our session. He is so funny ....he answers the phone all professional and than I say "Hello Dr._______ this is (Pisces_Dream)....and his voice goes from professional to ......a sexy Hiiiiiiiiiiiiii kinda of like "Hi how are you doinβ€”" It is funny, it makes me smile when he does that. So we are going to work together this Thursday. I will have to let you know how that goes. Ohhhhh dear please help me. *sigh*

I am going to a music festival this weekend with some friends. I would totally love to invite him, but I am just not so sure it would be appropriate. We share same taste of music. I know my friends would love him.

So I will report back. πŸ™‚

Ciao,

PD
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Okay I had the session with scorpio today. What can I say ....hawt hawt .....*sigh* I did very good and was on my best behavior. He was fun to work with.....there were even some moans and groans ....not sure what that is about. He gave me great feedback how he said my motions were strong but soft. He kept trying to be my teacher ...telling me it is all about getting comfortable with the human body. I said it is not a problem with me, because I find comfort in my own body. He definately enjoyed the massage. *Smiles* I also know for a fact there is an attraction without a doubt.

I also found out that scorpio is going to the music festivel. I will have to see if we run in to each other. I really do hope to see him.

I also found out his exact birthday. He is a Scorio sun, scorpio moon, scorpio venus ....*sigh* I also now understand why he is drawn to me.....his VI house is in Pisces (Sexuality) and VII in aries (relationship).

My prominent chart looks like:

Asc Sag
Sun Pisces
Moon Aries
Venus Cap
Mars Sag

PD
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Okay I was badddddd this weekend. 😐 I never did see the scorpio this weekend at the music fest. Maybe it was a good thing ....because I was out of control. I have been so serious about my work, studies, working out and I really think I just needed to let loose this weekend. No pun intended. πŸ˜› I am really feeling good about my fitness life and have been really satisfied on how I look. Yea, I look pretty darn hawt. πŸ˜›

My hormones have been out of control since scorpio has come into the picture. As I mentioned wayyyyyy in the beginning .....I have to stay focused on my studies. I don't know maybe I am rationalizing what I did ....but I had a little fun this weekend. *Blushes* I met this aries 9 years younger than me that I spent the weekend with. It was nothing more than a nice rendeavouz of sexual fun. I exchanged phone numbers with Aries, but I don't really plan on seeing him again. It was almost like a relief.....because now I don't feel like this desperate need to have sex with scorpio .....regardless of how much I still want to. It was like all this pent up frustration ...all released. πŸ˜›

I just realized how much I really like Scorpio. I know it sounds crazy. I remind myself that I am not in a committed relationship with scorpio and besides he has a gal pal he hangs with. So in a sense ......I have found fun boy to hang with. πŸ™‚ So I almost feel like I needed this to happen with Aries because I really want to see what happens with scorpio. I must admit with him ....I am finding emotional attachment in a weird sense. It actually scares the crap out of me....to even allow myself to become that vulnerable with someone.

So that was my weekend .....lots of booze, blues, dancing, and surprises.

PD
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Okay .....well I have decided to continue to play with Aries. It has been fun and definately unexpected. Want to know something after releasing all this pent up sexual frustration .....scorpio did not look as good as he once did. LOL Don't get me wrong I still think scorpio is hawt however it is too dangerous to get involved with the teacher. Who knows what will happen happen when we finish class together in 12 weeks. Aries is fun, just as sexual as me, and there is some relief to know that neither of us are not looking for anything serious. Aries is definately not

I had this conversation with my friend. I told him that it is amazing when you have all this pent up sexual frustration ....love ....sex look very different. He says well PD ....we are all animals to the core. Soooooo true.

So I will post if anything changes ...but I am going to play with my ram for now ....grrrrrrrrrrrrrr πŸ˜›

PD
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Posted by Archer
Posted by Ginger Scorp
ginger- "A Scorp admitting that they like someone before they are SURE you like them back won't happen. Call it a power play if you will. I'm not gonna lie... it kinda is but it's also a little bit of being protective of our hearts and ego"




lol, thts soo not true for the scorp I know.. right now

he is scorp sun and rising.
and he is Very sure and Verbal abt his feeling,, though he knows pretty well, I dont have 1/10th of the same for him.
... he says.. "I will wait,, I know you 'll come around"

.. cute thing.. actually his confidence in US, makes me slightly more confident of it working. Maybe he sensed tht I am not into it and he is living for both of us, atm.

nice guy,,,, though his intensity scares me,, so he backs off and then back.

was telling this to 'FumiRedFairies' and she said .. "we are like tigers,, when run fastest and then take off to get back to form.." (cant trot like a horse).. hahaha.. smoooch to her.. loved her analogy
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I love that archer ....run like tigers.....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr πŸ˜›

AA - Yes ....animals we are.
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Okay so i just read most of this thread, PD, very interesting story on events! anyways i wanna blab a little about my situation πŸ™‚ im a pisces btw.

I started hangin with a scorpio boy i knew for 2 years but never hung out with. we had been trying to make plans for like 2 months but basically hed just text me to come party every weekend.
so friday night we finally hung out, i went to his friends cabin for the night, we barely spoke to eachother, got drunk, i slept alone on the couch.
i then went to a party with him the next night.were the last ones awake at like 5am and things get foggy but we basically laid around and cuddled and made out. went back to his house at 9am, slept, woke at noon and had an immaculate cuddle session in his bed for 4 hours. (as a piscean i am seriously a cuddle connessiour (sp) .. do scorpios like cuddling? im talking pelvis' and sexxy shit like that) whatever anyways.

we then didnt stop texting all day, and all the next day. these text messages would probably want to make a person dieee they are so freaking cute. anyways, so i HAD to go over there that night. we watch a movie, like, touch eachothers arms and bellies and whatnot. i ask for a kiss goodnight.. blah blah blah he leaves for werk in the morning, kisses me again.

so then he takes me to dinner 2 nights later. were like holding hands having a great time. i am telling you his eyes are RIDICULOUS. at dinner we would all of a sudden stare at eachother and seriously, i swear i can feel something like emanating from his eyes.. theyre big, veery dark brown. i totally get the scorpio stare now!
OKAY
so im extremely confident in this situation. i have NEVER felt so comfortable with someone. we first hung out alone 6 days ago and out of the six have hung out 4. but what sucks is that i came on this board 2 hours ago and have been reading what you all have to say about scorpios and honestly im so scared now. control? manipulation? expectations from him? im scared of the future, because i am definatly opening myself up to him 100% . i dont want to get hurt :\

i was told a year and a half ago that he was into me but i didnt do anything about it. will this help the situation? ive been on his mind for a while.. maybe why he is treating me like a freaking princess. any scorpios have some input on... whatever?

thankss
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That's strange Archer... hmmm maybe his moon is a more social and open moon?
I'd rather have someone I really like walk away from me not knowing how I feel then to spill that I like them and possibly be rejected. I have a Scorp moon and mercury though so maybe I'm a bit more secretive then most.


LOL @ Catfaces! Don't be scared!!! If the guy has liked you for this long then yes it helps. It sounds like he's into you. As a Pisces you will be a little more in tuned to his moods which is where the "bad" stuff mostly comes from. The best thing you can do is be yourself and ask him to accept him as you are. We dont like fakers and phoneys. We WILL find out the truth eventually and there is nothing worse then having to LOOK at someone we find fake. IT's that bad.

Are we cuddlers? Personally I'm not. In fact I don't like to be touched unless I invite you to touch. But you said "pelvis" cuddling and such and that is a different story πŸ˜› Sex sign and all that jazz ya know.
I would let him intiate *most* of the touching and cuddling. Scorps hate being smothered but at the same time if you don't act like you are in complete heaven when he is cuddling and touching he may take it wrong. Complicated people we are. *shakes head* Actually we can make anything you say into a personal insult because we are (surprise surprise) quite sensitive under all that venom we like to flash around πŸ˜›
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Okay so i just read most of this thread, PD, very interesting story on events! anyways i wanna blab a little about my situation πŸ™‚ im a pisces btw.

I started hangin with a scorpio boy i knew for 2 years but never hung out with. we had been trying to make plans for like 2 months but basically hed just text me to come party every weekend.
so friday night we finally hung out, i went to his friends cabin for the night, we barely spoke to eachother, got drunk, i slept alone on the couch.
i then went to a party with him the next night.were the last ones awake at like 5am and things get foggy but we basically laid around and cuddled and made out. went back to his house at 9am, slept, woke at noon and had an immaculate cuddle session in his bed for 4 hours. (as a piscean i am seriously a cuddle connessiour (sp) .. do scorpios like cuddling? im talking pelvis' and sexxy shit like that) whatever anyways.

we then didnt stop texting all day, and all the next day. these text messages would probably want to make a person dieee they are so freaking cute. anyways, so i HAD to go over there that night. we watch a movie, like, touch eachothers arms and bellies and whatnot. i ask for a kiss goodnight.. blah blah blah he leaves for werk in the morning, kisses me again.

so then he takes me to dinner 2 nights later. were like holding hands having a great time. i am telling you his eyes are RIDICULOUS. at dinner we would all of a sudden stare at eachother and seriously, i swear i can feel something like emanating from his eyes.. theyre big, veery dark brown. i totally get the scorpio stare now!
OKAY
so im extremely confident in this situation. i have NEVER felt so comfortable with someone. we first hung out alone 6 days ago and out of the six have hung out 4. but what sucks is that i came on this board 2 hours ago and have been reading what you all have to say about scorpios and honestly im so scared now. control? manipulation? expectations from him? im scared of the future, because i am definatly opening myself up to him 100% . i dont want to get hurt :\

i was told a year and a half ago that he was into me but i didnt do anything about it. will this help the situation? ive been on his mind for a while.. maybe why he is treating me like a freaking princess. any scorpios have some input on... whatever?

thankss




Wow ....hot tamales cat face!! πŸ˜‰

Yea
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sorry ...hate when I get cut off argghhhh

CF - What I was saying is ....regardless of his zodiac try to live in moments of pure bliss with him of intimacy and affection. He sounds real sweet. If you like him a lot ....take it slow ....just like any relationship regardless of his zodiac sign live in the moment and not in the future. So do as I say not as I speak....lol πŸ˜› I am a pisces it is our natural tendancy to want to know the whole picture and out come of situations ....it becomes difficult to live in those moments of joy when we focus on what the outcome will be in a situation. Does that make sense?

I wish you the best of luck with your scorp.

PD
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Okay here is an update......

So in class I have not really been paying any "special attention" to Scorpio. I have not been as interactive. It is almost like he is looking for a way to grab my attention at every turn. The funny thing is the more I ignore him ...the more he tries. lol I have even begin to ignore his stares. It is strange it is almost like he wants our classroom conversations to be just me and him. He is always asking me questions directly and my opinion about what I think. He does not do this to the rest of my classmates. I imagine it seems kind of strange to my classmates. He pays attention to everything I say. He says did you know that Rogaine will make a man develop ED (erectial dysfunction). I said out loud "Note to self, don't date balding men who use Rogaine." He was very interested in this comment. HA As if he would be surprised I would be a sexual person. My gawd look at me....I am a sexy beast....ha

Here is a good example:

We were in class last week. We had this damn hard test on the Nervous System. So I suggested to him, why don't we have an open book test. He asked ME directly "Is this what you want to do?" He did not ask our class he asked me as if I were the boss. lol "So I say sure, why not ....you remind us it is about the 'building blocks' of our career." So the rest of my class was so relieved. We have 10 more classes with him. I will be interested to see what happens next. lol

So I just cannot get past the fact he is my teacher, and he has a gal pal ...he needs to ditch. πŸ˜› I still find him attractive, however my eyes are more wide open. It is amazing how blurry eyed we can be when we have pent up sexual frustration.

I am still entertaining Aries. I will admit we don't have a million things in common other than we have great sex, we agree politically, and we have fun together. I don't know if I can get past the smoking thing. I don't usually date men who smoke. 😒

PD
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