Another Scorpio ....*Sigh* (Page 2)

Hmmmm... well the more you act uninterested the more he'll grapple for control he felt he had over you earlier. Ya know when you were all moony over him 😉 J/k

He wants that feeling of power back because it strokes his ego. Power is delicious to a Scorp. Lord how we love it. Just think of our massive egos and controlling natures. Oh yeah. Power is what we crave 😛

He's probably trying to figure out what changed between then and now and what he can do to put it back the way things were.

GS - He will never get it back.... 😛 So funny .....this almost like a chess match. ooooooo I love nothing more than a competition. 😛 j/k

"well the more you act uninterested the more he'll grapple for control he felt he had over you earlier. Ya know when you were all moony over him "

Okay ....another update. I was leaving class early because I needed to get ready for work. Scorp teacher comes out and pulls me aside and says "I need to talk to you". So we step outside of the class and he tells me ...."look I have a client who is looking for a massage therapist, can you work with her?" I am flattered and stumped ......I said why yes I can work with her, I will be in the clinic next week but can make an exception and meet her here on Friday or Saturday. I am just confused because with a classroom full of therapist ....why is only referring me when there is a classroom full of other therapist? Well I do know I am a very good therapist 😛 I am just wondering am I reading more into this .....is he doing it because he likes me ....or because he knows I am good therapist? He has not even worked with any of the other students or given them a shot.

The good news is we have 7 more weeks of class with him. As much as I don't want to be crazy about him ....I still him ...yes I will admit it ....I think he is still great. What do I do when our seven weeks are up?

So Gingerscorp ......yeah he still has that damn power ...I will surrender and amit it. *Sigh* 😛

PD

LOL PD. It's ok it happens 😉


Well before you drive yourself nuts analizing WHY he picked you out just be flattered that whatever it is he has the confidence in you that you do a good job 🙂 That's a good thing.

It seems he is enjpying the back and forth thing between you two...... as much as you are. Personally I'd never engage in such a game unless I wasn't interested. I'm sure the same goes for him.
7 weeks huh? Turn up the heat sister!! Maybe you can land you a Scorp!

Well we are on the countdown ginger .......So weird ...thought I would be so excited.....but it is more like .....eh. I don't know but it feels like this crush is loosing its fizzle for me. I have three more classes with him. There are still a few things about him that annoy the heck out of me. Maybe it would be different if I saw him outside of the classroom....or maybe not. I have decided to not do nothing. I don't chase. So per what you said ...either do scorps so maybe we are on a loosing end. lol So maybe this is where it dies. I have been joking with him about a subject via text. He actually responded which I found interesting so from what I read you scorps don't like texting or phone use. Maybe we will just be friends ....and I am fine with this.

I am taking my grandmother to see him for a chiropractic visit. He suggested I come with her. I don't know why he would say this ....but perhaps I would learn something new.

I was talking to one of the mentors at my school asking about students dating "the staff" and he said it is a HUGE no-no on the staffs side. Staff is not supposed to frantanize with students at least until we graduate. I of course did not tell him about this scenario ....I just asked the question out of generalization.

Well that is my update. Who knows ....this may be my last post ....or maybe not .......to be con't.

PD

P.S. I am not seeing Aries any more, but he still has his gal pal. Maybe this is why he is loosing my fizzle for him. que sara sara.

Okay Scorps ....HELP!!!!!

I had class today with scorp, wow ....all torn up thinking class will end soon. What do I do——— Just when I don't think I am interested in him .....it starts all over again. Gawd I hate how he has this power over me. I feel so helpless— What would you do in this situation—

PD

LOL Just let him know that you'd like to be able to come to him if you need to ask any questions after class is over. This opens up a dialog and it opens the door for you two to continue to see each other. It doesn't come across as too needy or overly chasey (is that a word?)
Anywho... he may be waiting for the time to pounce also. We like to be unpredictiable and shock people. It's a sinful pleasure 😉

It wouldn't even be out of whack to ask him out for a drink (you said he likes to drink right?) But only ask him once and then make him chase. By asking him once you gave him the hint that you are willing to see him outside of the classroom.

You have to find a balance between not being too availible and not being overy evasive. Hard to do I know but we don't want push overs but we don't want flakes either.

It seems often that you find yourself powerless over a crush/infatuation.



Perhaps, that is the only thing you really need to know.

Well Gingerscorp ....bad news. He is staying on and teaching at the school further. They are pretty firm on staff not frantanizing with students. I have no intention to even get him in trouble. 😢

PD

Posted by P-Angel
It seems often that you find yourself powerless over a crush/infatuation.



Perhaps, that is the only thing you really need to know.

P - I thought about this statement all day today. It makes plenty sense. Thank you.🙂

PD

Well today I took my grandmother and my aunt to see the doctor for a visit. 😛 I also got adjusted........wow now it was my turn for him to have his hands all over me ......I must say I kinda liked it. 😛 Okay ... tells self think good thoughts.....think good thoughts. 😛

PD

Okay Scorpios .....I need your take on this. I had my last class with Scorp teacher yesterday. So everyone had left and I was gathering my stuff and we were talking .....I have always told him about my fitness regime. So he knows I like to run ....blah blah ......So I was telling him how I am in the pool now and I am loving my workouts. I have lost 21/2 inches around my waist line from swimming. So he says that is good ....that has to better than running......We are too old for running. He than proceeds to talk about my boobs ....he says that has to hurt .....what do you do—? I was a bit taken back, I could not believe we were having a conversation about my boobs. Geee.....now that is the crass scorpio I know. Do you think he totally let down his professional guard. It was a bit odd. What was his point? Was he really just trying to give friendly advice ....or did he want to just talk about my boobs— Yes .....they are larger than average .....but gee.

I honestly did not think I would pursue this venture with scorpio, he always has me guessing to what exactly his intentions are. Who knows maybe he was giving free physcial fitness advice ...—?

I have to get back to writing my research paper ....I would love to have your take on this.

Thanks!

PD

hey, girlfriend!

Hello Scorp Superior!!! How is life—

PD

Okay .....I did it Gingerscorp ....I let Scorp know that I was interested in doing something on a social level since class is over. So he says he would be interested. 🙂 I know I should not be surprised. The thing is I have so much going on, this week so it may be a bit, but at least now I put it out there.

I know sounds bad, but I actually have a few prospects in men. I don't think it is ever good to put all your eggs in one basket. I am interested to explore if there really is chemistry there with scorpio. He does seem like he would be a fun guy to hang with any way. So I will post when we go hang out.

PD

BTW - Gawd damn him ....I had to be the initiator. I don't usually like to play that role, but if I want to explore I got to put out the intention. *sigh*