Aquarius Women...Controlling—

Just curious...lately, i've been noticing a little bossiness that's making my inner scorpio feel the urge to react at times. EX: we had a movie day, while watching the movie on the Laptop..she still had the TV on and just so happens another movie was on that I like. She saw me briefly looking at it and said "Don't watch this TV, watch this.." and proceeded to watch me to make sure I wasn't peeking back at the other movie. Or if she thinks i'm sleepy, she'll tell me to sit up..not ask but tell me. Of course, I lay there but I'm wondering..is this common?

Well, you Scorpio men just seem like guys that need to be controlled. Maybe you did something to piss her off, but she didnt surface it up so she's trying to control you.

Posted by DazedScorp
Mack...where have you been?

And to answer the OP, my Aqua ex was like that with me...

Work's been kickin my ass man, don't have the time to slack off I usually do..Seems like I always got a deadline now lol. Anyhow, did that have any direct result on her being your ex? Cause I know if mine keeps it up, that's where she gonna be. I don't like people telling me what to do...

Well, you know dudes like us ain't with all that BS so safe to say you know where this is goin...Lol. As soon as I noticed it, I cringed on the inside...

Posted by iloveyouthatway
Well, you Scorpio men just seem like guys that need to be controlled. Maybe you did something to piss her off, but she didnt surface it up so she's trying to control you.

How do we seem like we need to be controlled? That's a new one...

Posted by ScorpioMackin
Just curious...lately, i've been noticing a little bossiness that's making my inner scorpio feel the urge to react at times. EX: we had a movie day, while watching the movie on the Laptop..she still had the TV on and just so happens another movie was on that I like. She saw me briefly looking at it and said "Don't watch this TV, watch this.." and proceeded to watch me to make sure I wasn't peeking back at the other movie. Or if she thinks i'm sleepy, she'll tell me to sit up..not ask but tell me. Of course, I lay there but I'm wondering..is this common?

Ask her what she is afraid of.
I think control has a lot to do with fear. IF they are controlling, (whoever "they" may be) it is they
who are in fear. on the other hand she may think you are a baby boy and she is playing momma.
Are you a momma's boy?

Lmao..Nah, not really the momma's boy type...

Sounds like my sisters ex roomie. She told me to go to bed the other night and then proceeded to shove me into my room. She's very pushy

Posted by happykitsune
Sounds like my sisters ex roomie. She told me to go to bed the other night and then proceeded to shove me into my room. She's very pushy

Lol..That's hilarious!

Posted by ScorpioMackin
Lmao..Nah, not really the momma's boy type...

Aha! You're a momma's boy in denial and it's a turn-on for her.
You see... a momma's boy in denial cannot change his ways because he refuses
to admit that he is a bona-fide momma's boy. You know a momma's boy always smiles
to please his momma because he knows if momma is unhappy, momma's boy is gonna
get a whoopin'. Yeppers, Yo ass is grass and she's gonna smoke it and mellow out.
Then the cycle starts all over again. You got the smiles so bad you have to show off
that silly grin to the world. I triple dog dare you to invite your momma to read what
you're writin' here. I bet she'd rip you a new one after that. Probably laughin' all the
while. - which gives me an idea....... get a video of you and her where you tell her that you'z "da man"
of the house and her response, your rebuttal all the way through when she's got you on yer knees.
then post it on youtube. Be sure to tag the clip with the word "Jackass" so world find it easier
when they watch the Jackass movie clips. Do that and, you'll get yer balls back.

Lol

Lmao...U obviously aren't able to read people that well playboy. Stick to lookin at pictures of cars homie..advice isn't for you dawg...smh Next!

Posted by ScorpioMackin
Lmao...U obviously aren't able to read people that well playboy. Stick to lookin at pictures of cars homie..advice isn't for you dawg...smh Next!

LMAO...!!!!!!

(younger less evolved me many moons ago) When I like someone I would get maternal which translates over to others as being bossy (something I learned much later on through maturity). I gotta really love you to care enough to say anything b/c as an Aqua if I don't care I'll let you do what you wanna do which inevitably fails, being that your both young she has to evolve away from that kind of love style . Also it was may way of testing his manhood, push back a little, tell her to shut the fuck up (she'll cry about it like she's appalled but secretly love you for it LOL)

Posted by beccy
aqua females are bossy FOR SURE!
they are really like that, every fucking one of them.
they think they know better.
no matter what it is about.
and I'll promise you, that aqua chick is never going to be able to understand your feelings.
these bitches are cold as ice. shallow, bossy, know-it-alls, superficial....
well, just my experience.

The only bad trait I've seen was that little controlling thing. Which was very minor..I was just surprised that she said that. Like who tells someone not to watch this but instead watch that and the peeks to make sure they're watching the right thing...smh. She's nothing I can't handle though..she'll get over trying to control me or leave..one of the two...*shrugs shoulders*

My mother is an Aqua. I don't know about bossy-I think I have an edge over her in that area-but she surely is stubborn. When she's fixed on something she goes for it and none of the consequences matter if it's something she wants. Oh, and she's very controlling. When we all go out as a family(aunts, cousins, uncles etc) she HAS to be the one to lead the pack, despite how little direction she has. We all be going around in circles following her, and if anyone else suggests to go this way, or do that, she pouts and acts as if she's ready to go. I HATE that.