Attention All Scorpio's

What is it about that someone that makes your heart beat faster, fills you with the anticipation until your next meeting, monopolizes your every thought with what you feel when you are with them? Fills you with a want to be with them almost obsession...what does it for you? Can it be something as simple as a smile from afar, a scent, a look? A feeling you just can't explain? What triggers those feelings for you?

What is it about that someone that makes your heart beat faster, fills you with the anticipation until your next meeting, monopolizes your every thought with what you feel when you are with them? Fills you with a want to be with them almost obsession...what does it for you? Can it be something as simple as a smile from afar, a scent, a look? A feeling you just can't explain? What triggers those feelings for you?

i read some that it's the connection? the look?


scorpios? input?

For me, its the conmection. I feel connected on a soul level. And as long as you stay the same as I think you are, it doesnt go away. If I was wrong about you, the connection fades when I discover whatever that misconception (that is also a serious issue for me, ie insecurity, clinginess, we) the connection fades.

Posted by Skykomish
For me, its the conmection. I feel connected on a soul level. And as long as you stay the same as I think you are, it doesnt go away. If I was wrong about you, the connection fades when I discover whatever that misconception (that is also a serious issue for me, ie insecurity, clinginess, we) the connection fades.

Said perfectly. (except I don't mind the clinginess).
If you want to be on the Scorpio's radar:
Be bone-deep sincere
Be painfully authentic
Have little to no ego
Don't give your affections out left right and center
Don't flirt with anyone. ever.

And in our darkest moods - it happens because we put our vulnerability out there and it got stamped on. Or, quite commonly we enter deep bouts of resentment towards the superficial and dog-eat-dog nature of life.
Or usually we just enjoy the deep emotion, it's equivalent to having a back massage

do scorpio like to see a lot of emotions from someone they like or do they like to see someone always in control and does not appear emotional?

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Posted by mooncancer
do scorpio like to see a lot of emotions from someone they like or do they like to see someone always in control and does not appear emotional?

There has to be a balance. I don't want to see someone I like be overly emotional, but I also don't want them to be a robot either. I will say though that someone who is able to keep control of their emotions all of the time can intrigue me like no other. I want to try to figure them out, figure out what is going on inside of them. It drives me crazy if they have control like that, because it makes it much more difficult for me to "read" them.

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Yep yep yep. And we LOOOVE mysteries. Anyone who can keep us from figuring them out has us hooked. Thats not exactly easy to do tho...

Connection a must! On a emotional,mental & physical scale. Isn't that the way..clingy may have the opportunity to capture your heart but do you ever find the one who challenges you on every level imaginable is the one who captures your attention..aside from the connection, the emotional, the mental, the physical.aside from the awesome moments, the undeniable mental stimulant and the hot as hell physical..its the one who leaves me guessing that seems to have my undivided attention? Anyone on this page?

Must be the scorp in us...(Swish of my tail!)I must agree with all these being a definite factor.Someone..yes! Who can engage my full attention while deep in conversation about anything and everything..someone with a strong sense of who he is, and what his goals are. the confidance of a man who can make me want him all the more. intelligent, serious when necessary but make me laugh my a $ $ off! Someone who, just the thought of makes you smile and makes you wonder why? Does itsometimes seem this " someone" comes with a mental view of must have attributes that are not easily come by?..ever place your standards so high you've found yourself solo & everyone you know wonders why especially the opposite sex?! I think its the random,the spur of the moment, the one conformable to me & my needs yet strong enough to lead the way and "I" willingly follow—!!! (rarity!)Did I just admit that?!!!

Scorporella and Missscorp, yes, exactly ^.^

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Who can engage my full attention while deep in conversation about anything and everything..someone with a strong sense of who he is, and what his goals are. the confidance of a man who can make me want him all the more. intelligent, serious when necessary but make me laugh my a $ $ off! Someone who, just the thought of makes you smile and makes you wonder why? I think its the random,the spur of the moment, the one conformable to me & my needs yet strong enough to lead the way and "I" willingly follow—!!!

He can look at me and make me melt, because he will give me this intense look, but there will be this light of knowing in his eyes, and then throw in this mischievious smile and I'm a goner. I want to know what it is that he knows. I want to know what has him so mischievious. He challenges me intellectually. We can get into some very deep conversations and he really makes me think.
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Haha my Taurus does this quite well. Have to love that he takes the lead and I don't have any choice but to follow. lol And he doesn't really do that mischevious look, but he'll say something or do something that totally makes me want to know more, deeper, all the details, and then look at me like 'what?' and not have anything else to say on it. lmao

Skykomish-the one who captivates us and is not EVEN aware of it..makes them all the more sexy! Even when you always have to be the leader he will have you walking side by side..with him...his charm, the undeniable attraction...make your heart just skip a beat!

Posted by missscorp
Skykomish-the one who captivates us and is not EVEN aware of it..makes them all the more sexy! Even when you always have to be the leader he will have you walking side by side..with him...his charm, the undeniable attraction...make your heart just skip a beat!

Oh yes. A knockout but not cocky.

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Posted by Skykomish
For me, its the conmection. I feel connected on a soul level. And as long as you stay the same as I think you are, it doesnt go away. If I was wrong about you, the connection fades when I discover whatever that misconception (that is also a serious issue for me, ie insecurity, clinginess, we) the connection fades.

Said perfectly. (except I don't mind the clinginess).
If you want to be on the Scorpio's radar:
Be bone-deep sincere
Be painfully authentic
Have little to no ego
Don't give your affections out left right and center
Don't flirt with anyone. ever.

And in our darkest moods - it happens because we put our vulnerability out there and it got stamped on. Or, quite commonly we enter deep bouts of resentment towards the superficial and dog-eat-dog nature of life.
Or usually we just enjoy the deep emotion, it's equivalent to having a back massage

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I AGREE WITH ALL OF THE ABOVE.

Posted by mooncancer
do scorpio like to see a lot of emotions from someone they like or do they like to see someone always in control and does not appear emotional?

While in a bloomin relationship(the get to know you phase)I will admit too many emotions displayed too soon can be a total turn off, too much to soon comes across as clingy. I want to be challenged mentally,leave me guessing with endless thoughts to my imagination that loves to roam about wildly..Like the peeling of an onion, I want to discover one layer at a time.Now if time has passed and I don't get any emotion from you at all it can also be a turn off, I may feel the need to further investigate (its in our nature)but ultimately grow bored and walk away, unless you've captured my heart..I will "try"(key word) and be patient(not our nature!)if we are not profgressing forward(even at a slow pace) your wasting my time.We always are in control or attempt to be, its when we're happiest. When I'm not in control - feel out of control..make sense? But I need someone strong,masculine that can in a sense take a lead and let me drop my guard and relax because I know I'm well taken care of =)

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Posted by mooncancer
do scorpio like to see a lot of emotions from someone they like or do they like to see someone always in control and does not appear emotional?

While in a bloomin relationship(the get to know you phase)I will admit too many emotions displayed too soon can be a total turn off, too much to soon comes across as clingy. I want to be challenged mentally,leave me guessing with endless thoughts to my imagination that loves to roam about wildly..Like the peeling of an onion, I want to discover one layer at a time.Now if time has passed and I don't get any emotion from you at all it can also be a turn off, I may feel the need to further investigate (its in our nature)but ultimately grow bored and walk away, unless you've captured my heart..I will "try"(key word) and be patient(not our nature!)if we are not profgressing forward(even at a slow pace) your wasting my time.We always are in control or attempt to be, its when we're happiest. When I'm not in control - feel out of control..make sense? But I need someone strong,masculine that can in a sense take a lead and let me drop my guard and relax because I know I'm well taken care of =)

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Amen sistah. Don't get clingy on me, but don't be a stone wall either. Yep, we are contradictory by nature ^.^

Damned if you do & damned if you don't! If you can read our minds, everything will be just dandy!

OMG! Eye contact! Eye contact...it says so much with no words...I think its damn sexy....with the right eyes...of course 😉

Posted by missscorp
OMG! Eye contact! Eye contact...it says so much with no words...I think its damn sexy....with the right eyes...of course 😉

Yeah I notice you guys like to have a lot of eye contact. Why is that?

@2012 wan elaborate more on "Don't give your affections out left right and center"

To the spelking police....hahaha!

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Posted by missscorp
OMG! Eye contact! Eye contact...it says so much with no words...I think its damn sexy....with the right eyes...of course 😉

Yeah I notice you guys like to have a lot of eye contact. Why is that?

you should know by now! 🙂

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I asked him the other day. He said he sees hope and ambition in my eyes. They're bright with excitement of life. Or something to that affect. I've never looked a guy straight in the eyes and kissed him until I met my scorpio. Now I look him straight in the eyes all the time. They're so intense. Like firey copper. It's amazing 🙂

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Posted by missscorp
OMG! Eye contact! Eye contact...it says so much with no words...I think its damn sexy....with the right eyes...of course 😉

Yeah I notice you guys like to have a lot of eye contact. Why is that?

They say eyes are the window to the soul. Scorpios want to see the real you, want to see the you that's hidden deep down. Eye contact is one way to do that. But, when you make eye contact with someone you are in love with, it grabs you by your insides and shakes you up, leaving you weak in the knees and begging the Divine to make that moment last. We want someone we can be weak with, and eye contact with the right person, can make us weak. And we love them all the more for it.

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I asked him if he felt like he was staring into my soul. He said no. But I do agree that to look into someones eyes does show your strength or weakness to them. I do feel weak in the knees when I look into his. I'm not really big at looking at people in the eyes so this is all new to me. Just looking excites me, but even more that fiery intensity just captivates me

OMG!!!Its sooo true!eye contact speak more then words sometimes. Its just one of the many languaes of love. I can feel love for someone and when making eye contact with them omg! The feeling just undescribable...we are always searching and one of the first places we will go to find the answers are your eyes...

Posted by missscorp
OMG!!!Its sooo true!eye contact speak more then words sometimes. Its just one of the many languaes of love. I can feel love for someone and when making eye contact with them omg! The feeling just undescribable...we are always searching and one of the first places we will go to find the answers are your eyes...

when you're doing the eye contact, is it always of love or just curiousity? how can you tell when a scorpio is in love already basing on the eye contact alone?

Eye contact...with me it can be a number of different reasons....I can be searching for truth..investigating! when I'm with someone I'm into..its a way of communication where words are uneccessary, I can speaking to you on different levels of intimacy depending the situation..I can be seducing in which case you'll know it..when scorpios love, they love deeply. We love our space & our private time but also genuinely love to be loved and love to be in love..don't take matters of the heart lightly

I was thinking back to what totally captivated me from the moment I met the man who stole my heart..it was a look...a deep eye connection we shared for a very brief moment where words were not even necessary...like a soulmate you meet from afar...definitely a yes! If someone makes eye contact with us and we find them undeniably attractive they manage to capture our attention but only that very special one can capture our heart..what's up scorpios...how do you feel about this?

Posted by missscorp
I was thinking back to what totally captivated me from the moment I met the man who stole my heart..it was a look...a deep eye connection we shared for a very brief moment where words were not even necessary...like a soulmate you meet from afar...definitely a yes! If someone makes eye contact with us and we find them undeniably attractive they manage to capture our attention but only that very special one can capture our heart..what's up scorpios...how do you feel about this?

i like hearing stories like this! the eye contact and connection!