Bi-female scorpio

i always wondered if horoscopes or love matches change if they were in reference to gay couples. anyone out there know a good gay horoscope webpage to look at for gay scopes?

the only thing that i saw in the book shops about gay scopes that was about lesbian astrology....
quite interesting to..never seen anything like this before no idea about web sites
sorry mate

I don't know any gay horoscope sites, but maybe you can help me understand this scorpio woman.
She is married (to a man), but her and I have had the strangest relationship for the past year or so. It's highly charged, electric,
overwhelming. Obviously, I'm a female. I've pretty much let her know how I feel by telling her that I feel an intensity between us, but she doesn't respond one way or the other.
I don't get rejected, but I also don't get information. She's very seductive in the most subtle way. But she can also be very cold. I really have no idea
what to do with her. I think I am in way over my head, even though she's the one that's married. Any insight into the mind of a scorpio female that may go both ways?

Leiana,

I also wanted to mention your frankness about your sexuality..
dont take it the wrong way just wanted to say it as a compliment to you that you are open about who you are I like that,not many people do this these days

what star sign are u? are you a scorpio too?

if you were asking me, I'm a gemini. But her chart and my chart are very compatible.
For example,Her moon is in gemini and my moon is in pisces.

In answer to your question bi-fem, there is a site that does talk about gay relationships according to astrology.

The site is: http://home.naxs.com/micheleb/ariescor.html

Hey Leina,
I sent you email read it

Topaz,

I am suprised big time!!! I am gemini myself and my moon is in pisces too,
I've experienced something powerful with two scorpios twice
very madful..you can go deep and loose the light in the tunnel..not sure if you can understand what i am saying..but i hope that you do..
chilligem

yeah - it's like nothing I ever experienced before
I really don't know how to deal with them - that's why I
tried to get some insight from the person who wrote this post

hey topaz
do u have any non private email address i can write to? but please DONT give out your personal one
if its ok with you?

thanks chilligem

hey there. ok...i have two ideas. from my experience, scoripions like me...like challenges and intrigue. when i begin a new relationship regardless if there is sex involved, i do not hold back at all. moderation is not our strong suit, and we have a tendency to jump past the b******* and go right for the good stuff of having a close, passionate, trusting relationship. sometimes, this gets us into major trouble, when we realize that the person is not exactly who we thought they were. in terms of this woman...has she had any prior experience with other women? i would say that she probably leans toward you because something in you is very intriguing. maybe she doesn't even know her feelings for you. i would say that you should ask her directly if she is attracted to women. and i would say that yes, you might be in over your head...but, the risk is usually worth the rewards with a scorpio, even if it brings pain afterwards....on a lighter note, i am intrigued by your relationship and i don't even know you. scorpios have a tendency to keep things secret even when they know how they feel. so, i say just ask her...she has got to come clean sometime. give me more info...if you want more thoughts.
Leiana

another thing....she may be bored with her current relationship and may try to use you to create some drama. even if she is bi-curious, keep your emotions in check...as mostly straight girls are always risky when giving your heart to.
Leiana

thanks for the website....
aloha,
Leiana

Hey Leina read ur email I sent u email ok

Its from chilligem

Thanks a lot I got ur reply I'll reply back ok
kisses gem

chilligem- i didn't get your email. will you send it again?

I am writin one to u hold on for a bit babe ok i'll send dont worry

oh, sorry...haha. um, i am just curious, what is your screen name in reference to?
aloha,
Leiana

I dont have a screen name cant be bothered to create one its just chilligem I guess I sent you email now ok :-)

chilligem, i sent you email....
aloha,
LEIANA

LEIANA:

Thanks for the insight from a scorpio girl.
Here is the deal. I wrote her a letter 2 weeks ago, sent it to her telling her
how I feel (not the L word)...just that I feel our association is extraordinary
and that I've never had a life experience that comes close (we have known each other for almost 2 years)
and letting her know that I'm not sure where she's coming from (that she remains a mystery to me).
I also included a the CD by Puddle of Mud (title is Come Clean)...so your words are very interesting.
Anyway, since then, she has refused all phone and e-mail contact - no matter how much I apologized via e-mai
these past 10-11 days. Finally, I phoned her and said I wanted to talk to her, so I can quit bugging her. She said, "that's
a good idea". And then said she was busy and she'd e-mail me - but she hasn't e-mailed me (told me 3-4 times she would shen I got her on the phone,
but each time did not follow through).
So my final e-mail to her was that I was getting it and that I would stop bothering her and
that I would be available to talk if or when she decides she wants to. Since then, no word from her.

I don't know what happened and why she's mad at me. We've been playing this back and forth game for almost 2 years.
I just want to know where I stand with her and what this relationship is about. And I feel like being honest
about my feelings to her. But I just got iced out.

What on earth should I do and what do you think is she really feeling and finally, will she ever forgive me for
sharing my feelings, and wanting her to share hers?

Please help if you can.

Oh, I wanted to add that I wrote her a letter because in the past few weeks,
we had gotten more intimate in our conversations over the phone, but still talking about
mundane stuff...it's just like the chemistry is there, but we never go there. So, I didn't want to be the person
who doesn't stay real. So, I wrote her a letter because I want to let her know what I'm
feeling, and at the same time, not sure of how she's feeling. I have no problem if she just told me
that there was nothing there - then I would know it's all in my mind and to just deal with her on the level that it is,
not the level I think it is. But, she just won't tell me what the level actually is...I
don't understand why she won't come clean and just tell me where I stand.

And I really am clueless on why she has refused all contact now. It makes no sense.

i am so sorry for the hurt this woman has caused you....it must have been pretty shocking to all of a sudden have no contact with someone you had been so close to for so long.

i would say that she freaked out...maybe she found herself feeling things she wasn't ready to deal with and decided that repression and denial were the best ways to go. i really have no idea why she would refuse contact, if you and her were so close. had she any idea that you were attracted to other girls? or is this a first time thing for you as well. somehow straight people, who are questioning/experimenting with intimacy levels between friends always have a freak out period when they begin to think to themselves, "what does this mean about me?" "am i gay?" and then they run like hell in the opposite direction.

for me..in high school all of my friends were like, you are in love with this girl (my best friend at the time) and you don't even know it...i was in such denial, and got really angry when they would say s***. but, after a little time...i came to accept the idea and actually am quite proud to be the way i am .....but, for some people the thought of being a homosexual or a lesbian scares the crap out of them.

in terms of this woman: i say give her some space....and try and understand that sexuality is a scary, thing and very individual....but, i also think you deserve to have an explanation....so keep pushing until it is no longer constructive for you to pursue a friendship with her. i just don't know what you should do...but maybe my comments could provide some insight into what she was thinking....scorpios feel things extrememly deeply and for a long time. i am sure she is way too attached to you to let you go....good luck, and let me know if i can help with anything else. also, i would love to have an update....if you want.
aloha,
Leiana

Yes, Leiana, sexuality is a very big issue. I was talking with a friend today and I said, 'you have no choice about your sexuality, the only thing you chose to do is be true to yourself or not'. We were talking about how shunned people can get when others find out they are gay. It never stops hurting but if you can deal with your sexuality it means homophobic people have no power over you.

Its hard isnt it. Your post bought back memories for me when i realised that the 'special' feelings i had for one of my friends was, err, more than friendship! I still remember the exact moment when i realised i was gay...

I try to explain to people that sexuality is so much more than just sex. I also believe that you are a personality or a human first rather than just a 'gay' person. People should be taken on face value for who they are and the qualities they have, not who they sleep with. 🙂