CONFUSED BY MALE SCORPIO

its a very long story...

i cant tell if he really does care about me... or is just manipulating me into getting something out of me...
what are some signs to tell the difference?

all i am interested in is a friendship, im in a relationship and have been since i met him.. and have always made that clear to him...

i help him out with any issues he has with girls he goes on dates with etc, even try to hook him up with my friends...
but sometimes if he asks me to hang out, which he knows i cant, and i say no... he will snap on me....

i dont know what to think, or how to even repsond... usually he will apologize soon after.. but hes been snapping on me alot lately...

i dont want to sound naive here... i just want to make sure i know whats going on, so i can approach him properly without hurting him or myself...
since he has been disrespecting me.

i know... but why does he keep asking, when he knows darn well that i wont??

it's like hes asking for a reason to get angry at me.

normaly i would be blunt, and normally i am.......... but the last thing he said to me was to back off, and that im annoying and hes sick of being used for my entertainment...

so i dont want to push him...

last time i pushed with a cancer, it ended horriblyy...


so, i dont know wut to do

Posted by bluemoon2
but sometimes if he asks me to hang out, which he knows i cant, and i say no... he will snap on me....

Yeah... when he asks you out or to hang out, don't decline.

**yeah word to the wise...dont ever decline...but he will decline you in a heartbeat...he marches to the beat of his own eccentric drum

That could be true... However everytime we go out and I take my gfs with... As soon as we leave he immediately texts me bout how pretty they are and then talks about them non stop to me.... And the last time I told him I couldn't chill.. And confessed my honest reason why... He snapped saying : interesting, maybe I should treat u like every other girl then... I'm not banging u so I really see no reason to talk to u anymore. Then when I told him I'm not like any other girl he talks to and he knows this... He said: right lol girls are easy u play the nice guy card ur in then ur out.. U were hard to crack tho.. So u got boring.!

Ever since that convo he's Been very snippy with me..
Anyways... I'm sorry lol I don't know where I'm going with this anymore lol

Oooooh I knooooo!!! But it's so hard to cut him off!! I enjoy talking to him!! He's become a part if my life in a way

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
Oooooh I knooooo!!! But it's so hard to cut him off!! I enjoy talking to him!! He's become a part if my life in a way

Would you date him if you weren't in a relationship?

Look, MAYBE if you didn't


- tilt you head to the side, exposing your neck
- while lying atop his work area in a mattress-kitten-like pose
- batting your eyelashes seductively like a wanton fucktard
- ensuring you make physical contact with him as often as possible,
especially with breasts or "accidentally" flipping hair in his face
- and then looking back over your shoulder at him as you walk away

...maybe he wouldn't think you were such a tease.

( Maybe? )

My bf is an Aries... And he doesn't Like the guy... Which is why I haven't hung out with him one on one in over a year...
Would I date him?? Honestly I don't know.., I'm more attracted to our cat and mouse friendship than I am to him.. And I'm not the type of girl he goes after either.., he cares alot about his appearance, I'm very laid back in that department,

I also haven't so much as touched the guy... I keep my arms crossed when I am around him... Except one night at s club with my friends... I did give him a hug hello and bye.. But that's been it in the entire year we spent talking

Haha well.., last year is when we first met... And we talked alot for almost 3 months... And then he snapped on me outa the blue.. And completely cut me off... Then rumors got around to my bf that me and him were dating... Which we wernt... Anywho ... I still tried to message him because I didn't wanna believe the rumors and I didn't understand u he'd blow up at me like that... I was being naive yes... And stubborn.. Anywho a year later he comes back and apologizes... And we been on good terms for about a year now.. Until now

And yeah it sounds like he is done.. It's been 4 days already ..

So I guess that means I met him 2 years ago.. Wow time flys

Yes... I'm playing with fire... I think alot has to do with me trying to replace my male cancer bestfriend of 8 years with this guy...
I try to be completely honest with my bf about what goes on with the other guy so there's no surprises like what happens last time... And it's why I don't want to chillnone on one with him either.., saying this now tho it's no winder the scorp is pissed.. I'm trying to juggle both without upsetting anyone... 😢

Ouucchh... Never thought of it that way....

Yes but on all fairness... I didn't think he liked me that way until you guys told me..... I only started to be suspicious now... So all this time I'm thinking he's Kool with being friends since he didn't lead me to believe otherwise

Posted by ellessque

you like getting your aries boyfriend worked up over it.

you really don't want it to stop, do you?

The Scorpio Eyes see it clearly.

Posted by ellessque
if you are trying to replace him with the cancer it will never work.

two different personalities. the crab will get pissed off and curl up in it's shell and retreat. the scorp's stinger will swell and look for a release. keep it up and the release may be your aries boyfriend. 😢

Actually, if you piss him off REAL bad
the Aries and Scorpio will become good friends

of each other

not you.

well i sent him a message the other night... it was a very calm and fair message i think.... i kept it closed ended.... didnt get a repsonse, altho i wasnt expecting one.... and he deleted fb...
and has in his msn name : 2 more days, wow that went fast,.. its gunna suck leaving all this behind...

and im dying to askk him where hes going... but i told him id give him his space.. u have no idea how hard this is for me to not PUSH lol

ummm...if he's not your man why are you giving it so much energy anyway...im just saying...lol, i would laugh at old dude and give him the duces and tell him to grow up and call me when he does. 😉

CONGRATULATIONS:

It seems to me you got to his heart somehow.

BEWARE:

It was through manipulative means
whether you are self-aware of it or not.

That can only mean one of two things:

1 - He will forget all about you completely
as if you are NOTHING but a manipulative whore
knowing that someday love will humiliate you
( it's the one thing manipulation can't get, keep
and allow you to enjoy - it will humiliate you.
You will will puke it up once given, just like
a bulimic does with the food that humiliates her.)

2 - He has not yet embraced that you are a manipulator,
greedy for attention - and who would pit him against
your boyfriend just for the fun of knowing it was
all about you.

PM me his email. I'll talk to him for you and
just let him know what a f**ktard histrionic you are
and I PROMISE YOU I can deliver what you ask me to

- continued friendship
- him being a stranger

However, I won't give you what you "want"
which is a boy who is wrapped around your
little finger. If you even get him here,
it is only so that he can suck your blood.

Okkk see what the hellz!!
So we talk again but faster and faster he gets snippy... So I say... I don't like this new u I'm
Seeing 😢

And this is what he responds:
Its not even the new me.... more like old me... Its too much work trying to be nice. I'm really really not, to b honest. The only reason I didn't wanna fuck mris was cuz I thought u 2 were playing a game with me, so I thought I'd play back. With you, I'm sry, but the truth is I get bored. So when there's no drama in my life I start shit to entertain myself. So yeah, If you don't wanna talk to me anymore that's cool.

?

so what happened now Lil.ladie.taurus?
had the two of you stop talking?
what's treetrunk and butter?
kinda new to this forum

what happened next? lol after he blew up on me, i gave him a week of space, messaged him again.... and he was alittle distant at first, then came at me full force, messages me every day, when i was going to go on vaca he said he was going to miss me..... saying im one of a kind....
hes been cool... he talks to me about girls he thinks is pretty alot now...which i love talking bout... and he actually for the first time says that i make a good friend.

so i think we are cool

also today we went to the mall, and a lady at a kiosk asked if i was his wife.....he said no, my friend! and after we walked away... he was FUMING..... his face immediately turned red and clenched... and he was muttering under his breathe.... i told him to relax, that the girl was just being respectful.... and hes like: no! wife? really? do i look like the type to settle down?" lol i was laughing and said.. look, she was probably just trying to figure out if u were single, so she asked that to be respectful.
he then smiles, and says : yeah ur probably right...
i aksed if he felt better now.. and he said yes, alittle

lol he made it very clear today when he introduced me to his brother that im his friend aswell ... so i dont think him liking me is an issue

Don't overanalyze the world of Scorpios. It isn't fair to you. You may want to fill in the blanks of what you are thinking but did you ask yourself yet if you will be okay if you think and think and think and don't get a response from that person?

I honestly think it isn't fair to blame yourself because you were confused by a Scorpio in your life. Obviously you don't feel blame is in your heart to give to people in the world, but you don't want to be hurt by tidbits you learn as you analyze the situation.

Unless that person is up front and straightforward with their words, that person is letting you think whatever you want, and are going to say in the end, YOU thought whatever, or YOU did this to yourself. It is only fair to you to not put the horse in front of the cart on any personal relationship, friendship or otherwise, "What is good for the goose is good for the gander."

If they back off from non-confrontational, fair-minded, polite and caring conversation, and won't open up, then seriously you did your best to be your best to that person and cannot blame yourself.

We hung out yesterday afternoon.... And I haven't heard from him yet which is nit like him... I usually do when he gets home...
This is not good 😢 but the bull in me can't let go!!

Maybe I should go to the gym lol be productive

Impulsv : are u talking bout when he blew up at me before.... Or when he got mad at the kiosk lady assuming I was his wife?! Lol

Well, when he said I was unique he didn't cine out and say it, when we hung out he was going on about how he doesn't have friends except for his close friends because they are an obligation etc
And I agreed with him... And then later that night I told him that if he was tryna hint that he won't stick around I understand... And that's when he said : you're alright. Your a unique individual.

Okay lol im sorry I'm being very blind here aren't I... He said he doesn't like to keep friends