confusion about scorpio male

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I am dating a scorpio male and it's been about 3 months now, he is very affectionate and treats me how I want to be treated but I feel confused and like I still think about my ex every now and then and miss him at times but know he isn't good for me. He is trying to get me back and I feel bad for missing him because my boyfriend treats me so well but I cannot help it and don't want to make the wrong decision. I love and care for them both so that makes it even harder for me and don't want to hurt either but either way someone will be hurt. My ex is an aquarius and the reason we broke up was over a stupid argument turned ugly. We didn't share the same opinion so he put me down for it which hurt me then he tried to say sorry but I didn't care to hear it I was so mad and just fed up cause before that all we did was argue and things were going well for a little while then that happened and all I could think was I don't need this disrespect and pain. I started talking to the scorpio male about a month after and we met up at the movies and didn't feel a connection at first but I tried talking to him more and he asked me out again and then we started talking more and finally felt a connection. He does get on my nerves sometimes and I feel bad for being moody with him and feel he deserves someone who won't get like that but he gets that way too, just not as much. I feel like I don't know what to do and should have just stayed single awhile to figure out what I want out of life. I also feel I am stupid for even having to think about this though because he does treat me so well...
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Posted by Quantum
You're not over your ex.

Frankly I'm surprised this Scorp dude hasn't picked up on that yet.

Get over your ex before you get serious with anyone else.
I had thought I was over my ex but with circumstances of us having mutual friends I eventually had to see him which brought back feelings but all the pain I had felt after the breakup made it easy to ignore him even though he was still in my mind at times. I had wanted to be friends or at least civil but obviously that didn't do well for me. I have told him before how I felt and he was understanding but wanted to stay because he has so far treated me good I just can't help but think back to the past being a crab -.- I feel I shouldn't have dragged another heart into this and really don't wanna hurt anyone especially him considering he hasn't hurt me I just feel it's also unfair to stay when I think of my ex

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Posted by Ellycakes
Do you really care for this man or do you only like him because he does the right things and his presence keeps you from feeling lonely?

If it's the latter, don't be in a relationship for superficial reasons. Especially with a water sign. They'll have a sense about something being up and it'll stir up trouble eventually.

Remove your ex from the equation. If he didn't want you and wasn't around, would you still want to to be with the Scorpio because you genuinely like him and see a future with him?
I really do care for the scorpio, In fact I care about them both and wish I didn't have to hurt either but someone will end up hurt and myself included because it does pain me to hurt others. The scorpio is very sensitive and I love that about him but I do also find myself getting moody with him a lot lately and I don't know why. I don't like his driving so get aggravated a lot when in the car cause he doesn't take driving seriously sometimes and his mom passed 6 years ago in a bad car accident so that worries me more about his driving and I cannot stand seeing him cry when he's upset but it's always because when I get upset about things and tell him to leave me alone like give me my space he gets all sad and thinks I am gunna leave him or something but I just want my space till I calm down. I did wanna be with the scorpio the whole time and still feel I don't wanna leave and hurt him but it's not fair to think of my ex and feel like I lie to myself when I say I don't miss him. My ex and I have been broken up almost 5 months now and he's the type who has pride so certainly didnt come running to me. It took time but we were gunna be friends and then would always end up in an argument about me leaving him due to his disrespect and then stop talking then it would happen again and he finally just said he wanted me back and was just mad about everything and didn't know what to do
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
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Posted by Reincarnation
Why do these Cancer broads always post a wall of text?

Whatever, I do what I want


Well that's obvious.....

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it's a phrase from south park :p but care to explain how that's obvious ? I am confused about my feelings and am allowed to be...I am just looking for advice on here not criticism 🙂
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These kinds of situations breed predatory "Nice Guys".

Don't breed predatory Nice Guys.

I don't quite follow what you're saying.


Basically you create douche, cheating, no longer nice guys because you are dragging your shit into a fresh relationship so you can start a garden in tainted soil.
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If I guy hears the "You're a nice guy, but..." enough times, he's just going to start believing "Nice Guys finish last" and turn into that creep who's always there looking for an opportunity to prove how nice he is with some white knighting.

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Posted by Plagued
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Posted by Quantum
These kinds of situations breed predatory "Nice Guys".

Don't breed predatory Nice Guys.

I don't quite follow what you're saying.


Basically you create douche, cheating, no longer nice guys because you are dragging your shit into a fresh relationship so you can start a garden in tainted soil.
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His ex cheated on him and he treated her like gold, I would never cheat on him. Rather just break up. He is still a nice guy after her and shows me affection and attention. I am just going to stay with him because he treats me well and always has from the beginning if I see changes though I am out depending on how bad. I get moody so understand his moodiness but if he were to put me down I wouldn't deal with it and will just have to focus on myself for awhile again.
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Lemme guess...Cancer?
yess maam
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Yes!! "clingy cancer" not out of your relationship with the aqua more than a month and already got yourself s scorp boyfriend ("rebound").

Let the poor scorp go... He's a rebound and you know it. You should not be using him as an emotional crutch to get over your ex. I can't stand people who do this. It's a sign of weakness. Typical crab!!!
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Honestly before the aqua I stayed single 2 years after a bad experience with a Gemini. I thought I was over the aqua but when I seen him at a mutual friends the feelings came back and I thought I could force myself to move on but that didn't work out so well. I'm only 22 and not trying to play games or hurt people I just got myself into something I have to figure out on my own was just looking for guidance not criticism but thanks