Do scorpio women want uncoditional love??

So my scorp gf and I had a fight because she prefered to go camping with her friends instead of spending the night with me , when we pacted that we were going to see each other that day . I decided to broke up with her cause it wasnt the first time she does this to me and when I confront her , she gets mad , she got mad , she didn't care and said "ok bye " turned around and left., I don't know if she was testing me or something , anyways she posted pics of her camping day on her instagram with her friends that day . She rarely admits she is wrong , is it normal too in scorpio women —, she is never wrong and never says she's sorry .

So yesterday I saw her cause I wanted to get her back . And she said that no couple breaks up for a reason like that , she complained that I didn't call her and that I didn't go to her house. The point is she doen't understand that I did all that things because I was mad at her . It´s like she can treat me like shyt but she wants me not to break up with her and love her like nothing happened .
Do scorpio women want unconditional love even when some of them don't derserve it—?
, and I have to add that everytime I confront her , she doesnt say a word, looks down, gets mad and leave ........ is it because her moon is in virgo—?

*UNCONDITIONAL

She sounds like an immature evil little bitch

She's controlling you and you are her puppet

Maybe she does love you but her immature scorpio brain tells her whats she's doing is ok.

Let her fcuking stew a few days.

Posted by Tinxy
Maybe she does love you but her immature scorpio brain tells her whats she's doing is ok.

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so true

Posted by thestruggle
you got an unevolved one. sounds exactly like my ex

don't show her you miss her and she will come back to you

that is if you still want that thing.

she needs to experience life more before getting into a relationship.

how was your ex?

Some good feedback here from all.

You both sound young and you both haven't handled this simple situation very well.

I can see you value someone's word so if you made a 'pact' (is this what we call it these days??) then you would hold them to it. However, relationships require flexibility. Was it really the end of the world that she chose camping with her friends over the day with you? Perhaps an alternative approach of loosening your grip on her reigns to let her go and have more freedom may reduce her rebellious streak. It sounds like you took her decision as a personal rejection. Could you not have just said 'OK, have fun at camping and I'll see you the next day or whenever' and then found something else to do with your day?

If it's a repetitive theme then perhaps a word in her ear in a non passive aggressive manner might help. If you're both unable to sit down and discuss minor issues and compromise then it does pose the question of whether you're suited or ready for a relationship.

What's your sign? I wonder if you have water placements.

Posted by thestruggle
basically felt like i was raising a child. not relationship material yet.

you have to lead by example. scorpio women will follow once they know you won't lead them off a cliff.

An unevolved scorpio's ego will always make up excuses for itself.

they have to learn through life experience.

never back down when you know she's in the wrong. apologize when you know you were wrong. don't allow hypocrisy to take place.

also, tame her in the bedroom. good luck.

Most of this is true.

Posted by AgentP911
Some good feedback here from all.

You both sound young and you both haven't handled this simple situation very well.

I can see you value someone's word so if you made a 'pact' (is this what we call it these days??) then you would hold them to it. However, relationships require flexibility. Was it really the end of the world that she chose camping with her friends over the day with you? Perhaps an alternative approach of loosening your grip on her reigns to let her go and have more freedom may reduce her rebellious streak. It sounds like you took her decision as a personal rejection. Could you not have just said 'OK, have fun at camping and I'll see you the next day or whenever' and then found something else to do with your day?

If it's a repetitive theme then perhaps a word in her ear in a non passive aggressive manner might help. If you're both unable to sit down and discuss minor issues and compromise then it does pose the question of whether you're suited or ready for a relationship.

What's your sign? I wonder if you have water placements.

I'm a virgo . I really don't want to act jealous , but when I don't act jealous , she complains too . One time she told me that her coworker gave her a special gift on her birthday and she told me .."you don't care don't you??"

Posted by Impulsv
U want her all to urself n that's unhealthy
What is wrong with going out camping with freinds
That is plan way ahead of time n u ask her to cancel on her freinds " to spend the night"
What kind of man asks that of a person they love
To cancel on her loved ones weather freinds or family. Has she ever canceled on you ?? N no no picking u over her freinds is not canceling on you first she had to set concrete plans to be with u.

she said she didn't have free time the whole week , and tells me she has to go with her friends wtf , she didn't even ask me If I was ok with it , she gave me a kiss and said "look , i have to go with my friends , we are going to the canyon , see you maybe next week ok ?"

Posted by Impulsv
Ok so she made concrete plans to hang out with n a camping trip just opened up
Last minute n she decided to go there.

yes

Posted by Impulsv
U want her all to urself n that's unhealthy
What is wrong with going out camping with freinds
That is plan way ahead of time n u ask her to cancel on her freinds " to spend the night"
What kind of man asks that of a person they love
To cancel on her loved ones weather freinds or family. Has she ever canceled on you ?? N no no picking u over her freinds is not canceling on you first she had to set concrete plans to be with u.

it hurst because you get ready to see someone I , I drove 45 minutes from where I live just to see her , I bought a new jacket and new pants just to look better but she had other plans

Posted by Impulsv
Ok so she made concrete plans to hang out with n a camping trip just opened up
Last minute n she decided to go there.

how would have you reacted?

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Posted by frankperez

Posted by Impulsv
U want her all to urself n that's unhealthy
What is wrong with going out camping with freinds
That is plan way ahead of time n u ask her to cancel on her freinds " to spend the night"
What kind of man asks that of a person they love
To cancel on her loved ones weather freinds or family. Has she ever canceled on you ?? N no no picking u over her freinds is not canceling on you first she had to set concrete plans to be with u.

it hurst because you get ready to see someone I , I drove 45 minutes from where I live just to see her , I bought a new jacket and new pants just to look better but she had other plans

Frank u need to tell her just this. If she can't understand the I did right by dumping her.

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I second that. However, it might come across as 'whiny' and we tend to see whiny as clinging and therefore weak. It depends on your dynamics. Maybe she's just more independent in her choices and wanted to go on the trip. Had she mentioned it earlier or before you set out then it would have been more palatable for you.

What are your other placements?

Venus in Scorp?

What are her placements?

I really don't think it's as big a deal as you make out. I think you're just pissed off and put out which is 100% understandable.

I'd advise looking at her intention and motive.

Was it a spur of the moment trip which she thought you'd be ok with or did she think 'fuck you' I'm going and let's see what he does or says about it.

Either could be the answer but I say look at motive because she could be walking over you and doing this because she's inconsiderate or she might not realise the impact on you because you haven't told her. Young or immature Scorps can be arseholes!

Posted by FrostAndBite
You both sound like idiots.

+1

Why didn't you go camping with her? Was that not an option?

Posted by frankperez

Posted by AgentP911
Some good feedback here from all.

You both sound young and you both haven't handled this simple situation very well.

I can see you value someone's word so if you made a 'pact' (is this what we call it these days??) then you would hold them to it. However, relationships require flexibility. Was it really the end of the world that she chose camping with her friends over the day with you? Perhaps an alternative approach of loosening your grip on her reigns to let her go and have more freedom may reduce her rebellious streak. It sounds like you took her decision as a personal rejection. Could you not have just said 'OK, have fun at camping and I'll see you the next day or whenever' and then found something else to do with your day?

If it's a repetitive theme then perhaps a word in her ear in a non passive aggressive manner might help. If you're both unable to sit down and discuss minor issues and compromise then it does pose the question of whether you're suited or ready for a relationship.

What's your sign? I wonder if you have water placements.

I'm a virgo . I really don't want to act jealous , but when I don't act jealous , she complains too . One time she told me that her coworker gave her a special gift on her birthday and she told me .."you don't care don't you??"

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Give the man a break guys....you know that this is soooooo a Scorpio trait. Lol ha ha ha ha Scorpios are complicated partners and the push/pull is a part of the relationships that they actually WANT. I would love to tell you when it subsides, but mine is still happening. I guess its a compliment of sorts that the Scorp finds the partnership worth the trouble of push/pull, because it's because the Scorp believes that they are more affected by the relationship than their partner is. Most Scorps have themselves convinced that in a committed partnership or potentially committed partnership, they care more than the other.

I've relegated to let my man believe that he cares more than I do. Lol ha ha ha

Because on the other hand, they're turned off by the thought that the other COULD care more. From Scorp point of view, your summation of the value of the relationship is either underestimated, which by default makes them the relationship champion...or it's over estimated which makes you an idiot from their perspective.

Posted by MsTeeq1974

Posted by frankperez

Posted by AgentP911
Some good feedback here from all.

You both sound young and you both haven't handled this simple situation very well.

I can see you value someone's word so if you made a 'pact' (is this what we call it these days??) then you would hold them to it. However, relationships require flexibility. Was it really the end of the world that she chose camping with her friends over the day with you? Perhaps an alternative approach of loosening your grip on her reigns to let her go and have more freedom may reduce her rebellious streak. It sounds like you took her decision as a personal rejection. Could you not have just said 'OK, have fun at camping and I'll see you the next day or whenever' and then found something else to do with your day?

If it's a repetitive theme then perhaps a word in her ear in a non passive aggressive manner might help. If you're both unable to sit down and discuss minor issues and compromise then it does pose the question of whether you're suited or ready for a relationship.

What's your sign? I wonder if you have water placements.

I'm a virgo . I really don't want to act jealous , but when I don't act jealous , she complains too . One time she told me that her coworker gave her a special gift on her birthday and she told me .."you don't care don't you??"

Give the man a break guys....you know that this is soooooo a Scorpio trait. Lol ha ha ha ha Scorpios are complicated partners and the push/pull is a part of the relationships that they actually WANT. I would love to tell you when it subsides, but mine is still happening. I guess its a compliment of sorts that the Scorp finds the partnership worth the trouble of push/pull, because it's because the Scorp believes that they are more affected by the relationship than their partner is. Most Scorps have themselves convinced that in a committed partnership or potentially committed partnership, they care more than the other.

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You thought that was harsh? Hardly.
We don't all want or need the push/pull.

Posted by frankperez
So my scorp gf and I had a fight because she prefered to go camping with her friends instead of spending the night with me , when we pacted that we were going to see each other that day . I decided to broke up with her cause it wasnt the first time she does this to me and when I confront her , she gets mad , she got mad , she didn't care and said "ok bye " turned around and left., I don't know if she was testing me or something , anyways she posted pics of her camping day on her instagram with her friends that day . She rarely admits she is wrong , is it normal too in scorpio women —, she is never wrong and never says she's sorry .

So yesterday I saw her cause I wanted to get her back . And she said that no couple breaks up for a reason like that , she complained that I didn't call her and that I didn't go to her house. The point is she doen't understand that I did all that things because I was mad at her . It´s like she can treat me like shyt but she wants me not to break up with her and love her like nothing happened .
Do scorpio women want unconditional love even when some of them don't derserve it—?
, and I have to add that everytime I confront her , she doesnt say a word, looks down, gets mad and leave ........ is it because her moon is in virgo—?

When a Scorpio woman wants a man, the man will KNOW and FEEL it. Yours sounds like a very selfish and immature one (lots of them out there). I'm sorry to say you are not the man for her, because if you were...you wouldn't be questioning it. Why the hell would you want a woman who treats you like shit and with disrespect anyway? Move on. She has.

Posted by frankperez
I'm a virgo . I really don't want to act jealous , but when I don't act jealous , she complains too . One time she told me that her coworker gave her a special gift on her birthday and she told me .."you don't care don't you??"

oh boy... sounds like you got yourself a grey lizard scorpio.. yuck.

You are much better than that. Be glad you dumped her, or you will have nothing but headaches... Never play the grey lizard game. Squash it and move on.

@MsTeeq1974....you don't know jack shit about Scorps. Your failure with one that you whine about justifies that statement.

You guys are right , I think I have to move on and forget this woman , as you say when scorpio is really in love , I will know it .

Posted by frankperez
You guys are right , I think I have to move on and forget this woman , as you say when scorpio is really in love , I will know it .

Oh for fcuks sake

Are you fcuking kidding meee or what

You need a slap dude

The douche bags in this site don't know the whole feckin story we don't know you or her

How fcuking dumb r u mofo

GTFO

Seriously

Posted by frankperez
You guys are right , I think I have to move on and forget this woman , as you say when scorpio is really in love , I will know it .

You won't know shit about it

I hide my feelings from everyone even myself
What if this immature bitch is the same ?

Have you asked yourself that

Go onnnn runnn away she obv needs a real man who can put her in her place one with sticking power

Bye fcuk boy

Posted by LetltB
@MsTeeq1974....you don't know jack shit about Scorps. Your failure with one that you whine about justifies that statement.

Whine? Failure? ha ha ha ha ha...ok. So here it is again, if Scorps aren't seen in the light of glory, you have those who will sting rather than discussing. Sting away...hell, I don't know you in reality. So, yea...do you Boo.

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by MsTeeq1974

Posted by frankperez

Posted by AgentP911
Some good feedback here from all.

You both sound young and you both haven't handled this simple situation very well.

I can see you value someone's word so if you made a 'pact' (is this what we call it these days??) then you would hold them to it. However, relationships require flexibility. Was it really the end of the world that she chose camping with her friends over the day with you? Perhaps an alternative approach of loosening your grip on her reigns to let her go and have more freedom may reduce her rebellious streak. It sounds like you took her decision as a personal rejection. Could you not have just said 'OK, have fun at camping and I'll see you the next day or whenever' and then found something else to do with your day?

If it's a repetitive theme then perhaps a word in her ear in a non passive aggressive manner might help. If you're both unable to sit down and discuss minor issues and compromise then it does pose the question of whether you're suited or ready for a relationship.

What's your sign? I wonder if you have water placements.

I'm a virgo . I really don't want to act jealous , but when I don't act jealous , she complains too . One time she told me that her coworker gave her a special gift on her birthday and she told me .."you don't care don't you??"

Give the man a break guys....you know that this is soooooo a Scorpio trait. Lol ha ha ha ha Scorpios are complicated partners and the push/pull is a part of the relationships that they actually WANT. I would love to tell you when it subsides, but mine is still happening. I guess its a compliment of sorts that the Scorp finds the partnership worth the trouble of push/pull, because it's because the Scorp believes that they are more affected by the relationship than their partner is. Most Scorps have themselves convinced that in a committed partnership or potentially committed partnership, they care more than the other.

You thought that was harsh? Hardly.
We don't all want or need the push/pull.

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In general and yes, you are right, there will be exception to the norm. Hence, the way you responded to my post shows that you've obviously done some inner work to balance out how you express your needs. Much respect.

Posted by MsTeeq1974

Posted by AgentP911

Posted by MsTeeq1974

Posted by frankperez

Posted by AgentP911
Some good feedback here from all.

You both sound young and you both haven't handled this simple situation very well.

I can see you value someone's word so if you made a 'pact' (is this what we call it these days??) then you would hold them to it. However, relationships require flexibility. Was it really the end of the world that she chose camping with her friends over the day with you? Perhaps an alternative approach of loosening your grip on her reigns to let her go and have more freedom may reduce her rebellious streak. It sounds like you took her decision as a personal rejection. Could you not have just said 'OK, have fun at camping and I'll see you the next day or whenever' and then found something else to do with your day?

If it's a repetitive theme then perhaps a word in her ear in a non passive aggressive manner might help. If you're both unable to sit down and discuss minor issues and compromise then it does pose the question of whether you're suited or ready for a relationship.

What's your sign? I wonder if you have water placements.

I'm a virgo . I really don't want to act jealous , but when I don't act jealous , she complains too . One time she told me that her coworker gave her a special gift on her birthday and she told me .."you don't care don't you??"

Give the man a break guys....you know that this is soooooo a Scorpio trait. Lol ha ha ha ha Scorpios are complicated partners and the push/pull is a part of the relationships that they actually WANT. I would love to tell you when it subsides, but mine is still happening. I guess its a compliment of sorts that the Scorp finds the partnership worth the trouble of push/pull, because it's because the Scorp believes that they are more affected by the relationship than their partner is. Most Scorps have themselves convinced that in a committed partnership or potentially committed partnership, they care more than the other.

You thought that was harsh? Hardly.
We don't all want or need the push/pull.

In general and yes, you are right, there will be exception to the norm. Hence, the way you responded to my post shows that you've obviously done some inner work to balance out how you express your needs. Much respect.

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Š Loads of inner work! I know what you mean with the push/pull. Exhausting. I need emotional stability. Pisces moo

^^^ Pisces moon ”

Posted by thestruggle

Posted by AgentP911
^^^ Pisces moon ”

you need a cow.

btw op is a troll if you havent caught on yet

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Yeah, I saw your other post about someone having 3000 Instagram followers etc. Everyone gets accused of being a troll at least once in their life on here.

I told you before. I'm not a lesbo so no cow for me.

I'm not so sure a bull would be good. Too narrow minded and stubborn but I'm seeing a bull this weekend so we'll see how it goes.

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Posted by AgentP911
^^^ Pisces moon ”

you need a cow.

btw op is a troll if you havent caught on yet

Yeah, I saw your other post about someone having 3000 Instagram followers etc. Everyone gets accused of being a troll at least once in their life on here.

I told you before. I'm not a lesbo so no cow for me.

I'm not so sure a bull would be good. Too narrow minded and stubborn but I'm seeing a bull this weekend so we'll see how it goes.

pisces moon on a scorpio = swinging pendulum. bipolar in the purest sense. IME

so i don't blame you for wanting a taurus.

but better off with a mutable sun/fixed moon. pisces/taurus or pisces/scorpio.

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Disagree entirely on me being bipolar or exhibiting any bipolar traits based on astrological placements or any other factors. It might have been your experience so I can't comment on that. You seem to have it in for this combination regardless. A bit like my dislike of Cancerian males!

I don't want a Taurus. If a fella was ok and he was a Taurus then no problem.

Pisces Moon needs emotional stability so perhaps a fixed moon would provide that and a mutable sun gives a nice bit of flexibility.

Emotional stability for me equates very simply to someone doing exactly what they say they will do. So you know where you are with them. Reliable. Not necessarily a rock, maybe more of an anchor. Knowing their feelings won't change. This doesn't have anything to do with mistreating or disrespecting anyone. If you can calm or still the Pisces Moon waters then you're a winner.

If you can't calm them, or more to the point, if you stir them up then this is when you will experience the 'unstable' or 'unbalanced' trait, and yes, it might probably seem bipolar to you but I would think if you're at that level then there's no hope in the relationship. Instead, you'll probably receive a constant cycle of emotional shit.