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Do u think we still have a chance to get back?
He said he misses me too and I asked if he's seeing someone else and he said no. He's too busy right now, he doesn't even wanna date anyone and feel pretty turn off to relationship after we broke up. He asked me, —Why do u want to— I said, —All I know right now is I still wanna be with u cause I do still love you.?? He replied, —I dunno.. Im going through hard time right now. I mean I dunno what wud happen. We tried and we tried and we tried to work things out. i just feel like we are too similar in ways and too different in other ways and it's hard because I do love you.??
I said, —yea I understand.. We should learn to cover each other's weaknesses. I do love you too and its hard for me as well here. When I say that what we had was the most passionate relationship I??ve had, I still think it's true. And when I told u all the things I love about u, it all still stays with me.??
He replied, —I know babe.. I do think you??re a sweet girl. We??re both just very hard headed and very determined to make our point.?? I said, —i know i was. that's why i told i realized the part where i did wrong. Where we both made mistake.?? He said —I know..??
After that he said he's gonna sleep and he sent this song for me, summer long by xylos. He said it made him think of me.
I contacted him on June 9 on yahoo he didn't respond. Texted him the next day he responded. He's moving out to his new apartment and said I should check it out some time. We exchanged another text and after that he didn't reply. I guess he's busy. I called him at 9 at night, he didn't pick up.
The next day he texted me, —did u call me last night— and I said, —yea just wanted to say hi. Been a while..?? He said sorry because he's busy he's just moved to his new apartment. I said it's ok. And we chatted in the evening shortly, he did talk about his work and that's it, didn't ask anything about me.
He's been going offline in yahoo a lot in the last one week. And sometimes when I go online, he wud go offline. I feel like he's avoiding me. He's been passive lately. Didn't ask anything about me when I contacted him. I just take it as he's confused with his feelings now.
I said, —yea I understand.. We should learn to cover each other's weaknesses. I do love you too and its hard for me as well here. When I say that what we had was the most passionate relationship I??ve had, I still think it's true. And when I told u all the things I love about u, it all still stays with me.??
He replied, —I know babe.. I do think you??re a sweet girl. We??re both just very hard headed and very determined to make our point.?? I said, —i know i was. that's why i told i realized the part where i did wrong. Where we both made mistake.?? He said —I know..??
After that he said he's gonna sleep and he sent this song for me, summer long by xylos. He said it made him think of me.
I contacted him on June 9 on yahoo he didn't respond. Texted him the next day he responded. He's moving out to his new apartment and said I should check it out some time. We exchanged another text and after that he didn't reply. I guess he's busy. I called him at 9 at night, he didn't pick up.
The next day he texted me, —did u call me last night— and I said, —yea just wanted to say hi. Been a while..?? He said sorry because he's busy he's just moved to his new apartment. I said it's ok. And we chatted in the evening shortly, he did talk about his work and that's it, didn't ask anything about me.
He's been going offline in yahoo a lot in the last one week. And sometimes when I go online, he wud go offline. I feel like he's avoiding me. He's been passive lately. Didn't ask anything about me when I contacted him. I just take it as he's confused with his feelings now.
But does it mean that he wants me to initiate the contact? Should I just leave him alone now? Has he moved on? What does the song mean? If he's moving on, why did he say we should meet up and I should check out his new apartment> It's like he's giving me hope that we will meet up. But I feel like he's avoiding me now. Is this one of his mind games? I'm really confused.
Please help me.. Enlighten me please.. What should I do to get back with him? Thank you!
Please help me.. Enlighten me please.. What should I do to get back with him? Thank you!
I have to admit I couldn't read everything you wrote, but I get the gist of it. my advice is to STOP. You seem to be in quite a bit of obsession. First, why did you break up? And why do you want him back? This seems to be a case of wanting him back only because you cant have him.
None of us here can answer your question, we dont know you or the situation. But we do know what its like to obsess insanely over getting a mad to return who has hurt us over and over. you NEED to step back, take a breath and LET GO OF CONTROLLING him and this process. Do you want to force him to come back or ocme back on his own?
I suggest you take some serious inventory of your relationship to see why you did break up and was it working for you. Good luck!!
None of us here can answer your question, we dont know you or the situation. But we do know what its like to obsess insanely over getting a mad to return who has hurt us over and over. you NEED to step back, take a breath and LET GO OF CONTROLLING him and this process. Do you want to force him to come back or ocme back on his own?
I suggest you take some serious inventory of your relationship to see why you did break up and was it working for you. Good luck!!
Posted by BigGirlPanties
I have to admit I couldn't read everything you wrote, but I get the gist of it. my advice is to STOP. You seem to be in quite a bit of obsession. First, why did you break up? And why do you want him back? This seems to be a case of wanting him back only because you cant have him.
None of us here can answer your question, we dont know you or the situation. But we do know what its like to obsess insanely over getting a mad to return who has hurt us over and over. you NEED to step back, take a breath and LET GO OF CONTROLLING him and this process. Do you want to force him to come back or ocme back on his own?
I suggest you take some serious inventory of your relationship to see why you did break up and was it working for you. Good luck!!
We broke up because we've been fighting constantly and he asked for a space. We didn't meet for 3 weeks. Then we met the following week. When we met, we had fun, we got wasted and i got emotional at night. I poured my heart out to him that i was afraid to lose him. I was crying. I was being an emotional wreck because i felt he's been acting distant and less affectionate towards me. I know scorps pulled away sometimes. I know i should've just let him be, i knew what i had to do but i let my emotions took control of my actions.
The next morning, he went cold at me. We were in the same room we barely talked. When I opened a topic, he he responded but that's it. I tried to be affectionate but i got nothing from him. He couldnt even look at my eyes, i think he's afraid he's gonna hurt me. Then at night, he said i maybe confused with the way he's acting but all he knows at that point was he wanted to take things slow but i seemed to want to come full force and he couldnt give me that at that point. I told him i didnt feel loved. I told him i just need reassurance from him by showing me he still loves me. All his actions towards me been telling me that he's fallin out of love with me. Maybe he's just confused with his feelings and maybe i think too much. Shortly, i packed my stuffs and i went cold towards him. He went outside and asked me "SO i guess we're done now?" and i said, "Yes.". And i regretted it i said that.
I wanted him back because I knew i made a mistake. I am crying now as i am writing this to you and i am in so much pain with the break-up. I realized i made a mistake by being an emotional wreck
I forgot to tell you the reason why we'd been fighting constantly. He's been jealous and suspicious towards me this entire time. I was patient and I assured him this whole time. I never cheated on him. Until on March, I found a message from his ex sending a "kiss" icon on his phone. and he told me his ex has been flirtatious with him but there's nothing between them.
SInce that my insecurity kicked in. He went outta town in April for 2 weeks for studying a language (work purpose), and during those 2 weeks, everytime i called him during dinner time he never picked up but he would texted me instantly after i called. I just thought that's pretty shady. He called me every night at 11 after he went back.
Then in may, he's asking for a space cause we've been fighting constantly over his jealousy and mine. But i still assure him that i never did cheat on him. I've been loyal this entire time.
SInce that my insecurity kicked in. He went outta town in April for 2 weeks for studying a language (work purpose), and during those 2 weeks, everytime i called him during dinner time he never picked up but he would texted me instantly after i called. I just thought that's pretty shady. He called me every night at 11 after he went back.
Then in may, he's asking for a space cause we've been fighting constantly over his jealousy and mine. But i still assure him that i never did cheat on him. I've been loyal this entire time.
omg...it was like travelling through time cos you got your months muddled!! i liked the predictive opening lol. soz. jus sayin
it all sounds way too intense. i would run a mile from someone as emotional as you seem to have been. i'm not being mean but you sound way too needy and he seems to have the impression that he's got you on a string because of it....hence the i want to fuck you comment. that's sposed to 'flatter' you in some way without giving you hope of anything more than sex.
why are you even concerning yourself with his behaviour. he's obviously a dick and he's obviously an insecure dick too. what's it to him who you're talking to or seeing and why does he need to check up on you??
do you want to be with a man like that—
why are you even concerning yourself with his behaviour. he's obviously a dick and he's obviously an insecure dick too. what's it to him who you're talking to or seeing and why does he need to check up on you??
do you want to be with a man like that—
Hey Rigor 🙂
Yes i realized i was an emotional wreck (I hate being a Pisces)for the last 2 months before we broke up. Any guy would run!! 😛 But that was my mistake.
We both made mistake in this relationship. He was actually a wonderful guy before we started fighting constantly, and before I got very confrontative and emotional towards him of course. And i was a very nurturing, patient and understanding woman towards him. But somehow, our ego kicked in and we became very hard-headed at each other. Taking each other for granted.
what's it to him who you're talking to or seeing and why does he need to check up on you??--> jealousy nature of a scorpio?
Yes i realized i was an emotional wreck (I hate being a Pisces)for the last 2 months before we broke up. Any guy would run!! 😛 But that was my mistake.
We both made mistake in this relationship. He was actually a wonderful guy before we started fighting constantly, and before I got very confrontative and emotional towards him of course. And i was a very nurturing, patient and understanding woman towards him. But somehow, our ego kicked in and we became very hard-headed at each other. Taking each other for granted.
what's it to him who you're talking to or seeing and why does he need to check up on you??--> jealousy nature of a scorpio?
I did send him an email last night as my last attempt, since he's been very passive for the last 5 days (I would assume it's the "pulling away" attitude of a scorpio when he's confused). Telling him how i feel and how i've been doing self-introspection for the last 3 weeks and trying to see where things went wrong. I did point out the things that's been bothering him as well (his jealousy and suspicion towards me over my colleagues and my facebook male friends).
I did say at the end of the email, "As I am writing you this, I don't want to put pressure on you. I am just trying to be genuine and sincere on what I feel. I'm trying to make this work for us by realizing all those things. I do have my boundaries. You do what you feel is right. If you??re confused or hesitant, it's alright. Take all the time you need. But if you can't give us another chance again, I understand. I accept it. I'm just trying to do my part here."
It's all up to him now, but i do have my time. I'm not gonna wait forever for him. I did my part.
I did say at the end of the email, "As I am writing you this, I don't want to put pressure on you. I am just trying to be genuine and sincere on what I feel. I'm trying to make this work for us by realizing all those things. I do have my boundaries. You do what you feel is right. If you??re confused or hesitant, it's alright. Take all the time you need. But if you can't give us another chance again, I understand. I accept it. I'm just trying to do my part here."
It's all up to him now, but i do have my time. I'm not gonna wait forever for him. I did my part.
Quit obsessing. This guy is treating you like you're not worth anything. Scorpio or not, you deserve better than to be around when he feels like it. Don't pay attention to his words, watch his actions. And go get yourself busy with something else. If its meant to be, it will...... "If you really love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours. If it doesn't, it never was, and it wasn't meant to be"
He messaged me on yahoo. This is what he said, —So I got your email. Well, I can't really talk much about it now. Just wanted to let u know I got it. it's nice... i just guess i don't know how to react. maybe i just need to think about it a while or something. just kinda feel like it's the same things we talked about before. or that was my immediate reaction anyway.??
I said, —Yea, it's alright. I told u what I wanted to say. well... i haven't really talked about it like that way. i mean at least not all these points and everything i've been wanting to let u know. It's fine. Just take your time.??
Then he said, brb he's gonna make a skype meeting.
So, we??ll see??_ I feel nervous honestly.
I said, —Yea, it's alright. I told u what I wanted to say. well... i haven't really talked about it like that way. i mean at least not all these points and everything i've been wanting to let u know. It's fine. Just take your time.??
Then he said, brb he's gonna make a skype meeting.
So, we??ll see??_ I feel nervous honestly.
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Next time his jealousy is aroused why not wrap your arms around his neck, give him a huge kiss on the cheek and explain to him playfully that the guy he is jealous of doesn't hold a candle to how hot (or whatever) your Scorp is. /blockquote>
I should have known this better.
Posted by Skykomish
Quit obsessing. This guy is treating you like you're not worth anything. Scorpio or not, you deserve better than to be around when he feels like it. Don't pay attention to his words, watch his actions. And go get yourself busy with something else. If its meant to be, it will...... "If you really love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours. If it doesn't, it never was, and it wasn't meant to be"
Yeap.. that's what i'm tryin to do now. I'm not gonna contact him. 🙂
Posted by IntriguedScorp
The best way to mitigate jealousy is to laugh at if there is absolutely no basis for it. Taking it seriously and wanting to talk about it adds to the drama.
Next time his jealousy is aroused why not wrap your arms around his neck, give him a huge kiss on the cheek and explain to him playfully that the guy he is jealous of doesn't hold a candle to how hot (or whatever) your Scorp is. Jealousy is often a cry (for the involved) of insecurity. Give security and none of the drama will happen. 🙂
I wonder if our chart could help or affect things in our relationship... Or if there's something I need to know about him or us based on both charts.. Thanks! 🙂
Me:
Rising Sign is in 05 Degrees Capricorn
Sun is in 18 Degrees Pisces
Moon is in 11 Degrees Libra
Mercury is in 03 Degrees Aries
Venus is in 21 Degrees Aries
Mars is in 25 Degrees Aries
Saturn is in 28 Degrees Scorpio
Uranus is in 17 Degrees Sagittarius
Pluto is in 04 Degrees Scorpio.
N. Node is in 20 Degrees Taurus
Him:
Rising Sign is in 20 Degrees Sagittarius
Sun is in 02 Degrees Scorpio
Moon is in 01 Degrees Virgo
Mercury is in 19 Degrees Scorpio
Venus is in 21 Degrees Scorpio.
Mars is in 25 Degrees Scorpio
Uranus is in 15 Degrees Scorpio
Jupiter is in 07 Degrees Leo.
Saturn is in 10 Degrees Virgo.
Neptune is in 16 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 17 Degrees Libra
N. Node is in 26 Degrees Virgo
i was kinda being sarcastic when i said about him being jealous cos obviously he's jealous due to insecurity or whatever. i was just saying that he has no right to feel that. you're done and if that's what he wants, he has to let you move on. by the sound of it, he doesn't know what he wants and so he'll keep you dangling while he makes up his mind. please don't send him any more emails and give him the time of day cos it will get you nowhere. ewwww....sag rising in itself would have me running for the hills. all the male saggies i've known have stalker tendancies and their 'love style ' involves a lot of putting the other down so they are in a position of control. don't give it to him cos he doesn't deserve it.
he knows where you are and he knows how you feel. now he knows he can 'take his time' and continue to fuck you around with your blessing!! you're beating up the wrong person here!! i know you're fishy but the female fishies i know are more than capable of standing their ground when push comes to shove...it just takes them some time to get there.
he knows where you are and he knows how you feel. now he knows he can 'take his time' and continue to fuck you around with your blessing!! you're beating up the wrong person here!! i know you're fishy but the female fishies i know are more than capable of standing their ground when push comes to shove...it just takes them some time to get there.
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
by the sound of it, he doesn't know what he wants and so he'll keep you dangling while he makes up his mind. please don't send him any more emails and give him the time of day cos it will get you nowhere. ewwww....sag rising in itself would have me running for the hills. all the male saggies i've known have stalker tendancies and their 'love style ' involves a lot of putting the other down so they are in a position of control. don't give it to him cos he doesn't deserve it.
he knows where you are and he knows how you feel. now he knows he can 'take his time' and continue to fuck you around with your blessing!! you're beating up the wrong person here!! i know you're fishy but the female fishies i know are more than capable of standing their ground when push comes to shove...it just takes them some time to get there.
Honestly, I don't really know what's going on his mind right now. The mystery of a scorp? The unpredictable scorp? Or wait.. maybe he's treetrunking with my mind right now.
He's been passive lately and yes Rigor the moment I sent him that email, I knew I should be ready not to contact him and be ready for the worst possibility.
But for the love of god, I really miss that hot passionate treetrunking session. Oh I??ll be damned??_ :p
Well, the main reason for me to sent him that email was just to show him what I feel, the self-introspection part on my side, and pointing out the things that's been bothering him, genuinely. if he does take advantage of it, well, there's nothing much I can do about it. I did tell him I have my boundaries and I do have my limitation.
Lol.. had a a sag sun ex before. Geez??_ he's such a cheesy player and I am ashamed I fell for it. Up until now, after 5 years, he comes around just checking up on me and I could just play it by the heart what he's gonna do. Mine didn't put me down, he just loves flirting with all these bitches around him. Altho I don't judge all sag males are like this..
stalker tendancies and their 'love style ' involves a lot of putting the other down so they are in a position of control. --> ain't thaain't that should be the scorp traits??
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
i was kinda being sarcastic when i said about him being jealous cos obviously he's jealous due to insecurity or whatever. i was just saying that he has no right to feel that. you're done and if that's what he wants, he has to let you move on. by the sound of it, he doesn't know what he wants and so he'll keep you dangling while he makes up his mind. please don't send him any more emails and give him the time of day cos it will get you nowhere. ewwww....sag rising in itself would have me running for the hills. all the male saggies i've known have stalker tendancies and their 'love style ' involves a lot of putting the other down so they are in a position of control. don't give it to him cos he doesn't deserve it.
he knows where you are and he knows how you feel. now he knows he can 'take his time' and continue to fuck you around with your blessing!! you're beating up the wrong person here!! i know you're fishy but the female fishies i know are more than capable of standing their ground when push comes to shove...it just takes them some time to get there.
Are u a scorpio yourself, Rig?
One question.. why can't I bloody post the picture for my profile? Keep failing for the 10th times now.. And no im not exaggerating??_
yeah i'm a scorp CB and i also can't upload new pictures...can only use ones that were on before the site went down. don't know whassup!!
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Hi R1g0rM0rT1s
Glad to see you feel like writing.
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@ op
This is nothing that a few bottles of Captain Morgan can't fix.
Hi R1g0rM0rT1s
Glad to see you feel like writing.
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@ op
This is nothing that a few bottles of Captain Morgan can't fix.
soooooo scorpio 😛
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First week: I didn't contact him. He did contact me on yahoo on June 25, said hi and said he's thinking about me and asking where I am. I was out having dinner with friends. And that was it. I contacted him 2 days later, we chatted a bit and he turned this chat into another drama by accusing me again.I stayed calm and I did in my power to assure him that I never cheated on him. I even told him that the reason I contacted him is because I still care about him. I never contacted my exes before, no matter how much I missed them. I just never felt like this with him. I ignored him and he called me. It was really calm nothing like the words he said on yahoo, which stung me real bad. On this week, he asked whether Im seeing someone else or talk to someone else, and I said no, because I didn't.
Second week: He contacted me on May 31, and he went mad all over again at me, accusing me and bringing everything in the past. He said, —if u felt half as crazy as I am now, you would be contacting me like I am now.??. I said, —I did, but u keep accusing me when I contacted u last time and you??re doin it now. How am I suppose to do—. He still asked about whether I talk or see someone else after we broke up and I said no. Shortly, I ended up changed the topic and we talked about other stuffs. At the end of convo he said, —maybe we should get together some time.?? I said, —sure.??
I contacted him the next day, we didn't talk long. Just a short 10 mins convo.
Third week: He contacted me on June 5, we talked for 2 hours. I was talking about my work that involved my boss?? client which was a male, he sounded jealous but he didn't go mad at me. I just knew he was jealous. Then he said —brb??. When he came back, he was like —I wish u were here to treetrunk me now. I'm horny.?? I replied, —?_ I miss you.?? I didn't wanna respond to that, I didn't want us ended up as FWB.