Ex lovers ~~

Scorpios and their ex lovers..

Do you ever give up or let go completely of your loved ones ?? Can you love more than one person at the same time ??

What are your views and thoughts on that ? Feel free to share your insights 🙂 we know you don't let go so don't hide.

Posted by tiziani
I knew a Scorpio.

Drove her second fiance crazy and right out of her life.


With constant mentions of her first.

seriously?? so she lost them both ! * sigh*.

!! Scorpions are so great at hiding dark secrets ! I"m sure mine still love his first girlfriend too ! apparently he will always love her ! complete him when they were like 16 ! they are still great friends..not sure if he will ever get over her ! apparently they will never be again and it is best to kept as FRIENDS ! He also asked me to trust him and not get paranoid ! why do they do that ?? I said to him " well i'm sure if she brakes up with her boyfriend you will be down on her feet" ...him " NO i won't be , we are never going to be again , we are no good for each other "..he mentioned the word" soul mate" too... maybe this is his issue !! I know she moved on and NOT feel for him in that way anymore....he also said i let her ruin many of my relationships and when i saw her crying over his boyfriend i knew it was time for me to move on.....will he ever ?

My friend scorpion.. i know she will always the thing for her ex of her ! ..she has a new man now but i know she never loves her the way she did with the ex ! ...my two other scorpions as well ! they are exactly the same !! never completely let go

Posted by ConfusedScorpio
I don't think I'll ever be able to love several persons at the same time, because when I like someone I become totally blind to what's around me. I can only see the person I like. Although, I've never been in love (most of the time, it's infatuation that never goes anywhere because I get rejected somewhere along the line).

As for letting go, once I've moved on, I never looked back. I don't spend hours cherishing the past and past "lovers". I'm just done and that's it. Yeah, I'm curious to see what they're doing with their lives but that's pretty much it. I don't miss them nor do I miss the time we spent together. Of course, they're a part of my past, but once it's over, I just don't care anymore and I completely cut any contact I might have with them. They're just gone and only the memories remain. I've never returned to an ex lover or taken back an ex lover. I don't live in the past.

Yes, once the break up/rejection happens, I have a very very hard time dealing with it but once I'm ready to move on, it's like this person is completely erased of my memory. Like nothing ever happened and this person never existed. They'll never have my heart again.

is that your gemini moon talking ? my moon is Aquarius and i'm very similar to yourself.

Posted by xdimplez
From what I have encountered:

They never let go of their past loves that they give their heart to. They have trouble letting people in and putting down their defenses, so that when they finally do... They give them their all. Put it this way , if you can get a Scorpio to say I Love You , then you have the key to their soul. So when things hit the fan and the relatio ship ends, it's devastating. They don't say fuck that im done, although it appears so... They keep going on in their lives still holding on to that person in their life. It's not to say that they can't move on or can't live another. Ofcourse they can, they just love them differently from the other one. Same passion and intensity though if they really love you . But the person they gave their heart too will always have a place in their heart. Always

well put. So if you are dating one then you can be rest assure that your Scorpio will always have his heart for an ex of his.. Either accept it or walk away 🙂

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Posted by Neurotoxin
All mine are like Star Wars action figures that someone's collecting. They get out into those little plastic and cardboard packages and put up on a shelf somewhere.

Yeah...I know they are there, heck I might even take one of the packages down and take a look. But they aren't for playing with anymore, and you don't open the package.

Haha I love this analogy!

:: star wars theme song starts playing in head ::

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+1

Posted by tiziani
I knew a Scorpio.

Drove her second fiance crazy and right out of her life.


With constant mentions of her first.

I would've left too. This is something they do, which makes one wonder why continue to talk about someone so much who you're longer with. Unresolved issues? Miss them? Regret? They also have a big problem with holding onto the past just as much as cancer and pisces and some of them especially the men don't know how to let go of these ex's. They ruin their own relationships themselves with their own behavior from what their exes or whoever did to them. Can't move forward if you keep looking back.

I don't think they ever really do. It could be 10 + years later and they can go on over every slight their ex has done to them. Remarried and everything.

I love one person at a time. I don't move on to the next until I feel or know that our relationship has run its course.

as for talking about exes when your with the new partner, that is something you grow out of when you start to know your self.

^^ great insights . What's if he keeps contacts and remain best friends with her and they go out /catch up twice a year.. According to him they could never be again and he truly loves her as his best friend.. Now is that rest assuring? LoL . They were together since he was 16.. She could be his first love.. They dated for a few years .. He was out with another girl for another 4... Then he got together with me...He got back together with the first after me only for a bit.. He pushed her away.. She's now wih another man for a few years now... He then got together with me again ! Now telling me to trust him as him and her could never be again.. !! What a mess hahaha !! I know he loves me no doubt.. I want to be his one and only and I am not so sure how I will feel about him seeing her twice a year! Ofcourse I trust him. It's more his inner feelings I don't trust.. I know I can get a little worried about them but at the end of the day if he runs off with her or do anything behind my back! He will never see my face again ! He never talks about her though.. So that doesn't annoy me .. I am not worried about the one he was with for 4 years . I know he has nothing for her but hateful feelings... It's his first love... I am uncertain of .. Let's just hope my love is enough for him to not do stupid things 🙂

Posted by IrresistableScorp
You learn from the past. *shrugs*

Just because you talk about someone doesn't mean you still have feelings for them. Sometimes its just conversation.

+1 Especially if you initiate the conversation. Like seriously, what the many f*cks.....?

Once an ex is out of my life, that would include the mourning period, I never let the person back in. There is only one person in my life even after 5 years, I think of him occasionally. Still, under any circumstance, even if he'd promise me heaven on heart or lay out his empire underneath my feet, I wouldn't want him back. I remember the aggravation he caused me more than the good things he's probably done for me. The bad cancels the good, so no thank you to exes.

I think for the most part that once a Scorpio loves someone, they always will no matter what. We never really do forget. We give so much of ourselves and put our whole hearts into our relationships, so it's easy to see why. We move on, but forgetting is the hardest part of all.

My Scorpio friend recently got back together with one of his exs. He always mentioned her and I was not surprised. According to him she has always been the one he was connected to and no other girls can compete...!

@ impulse! Wise words ! Sorry I totally forgot about this thread.. I do believe that Scorpio can't let go untill they have given it their very very best in the relationship .. I know I can't that's why I can't let go of him either.. Spiritual deep soul connection is almost impossible to let go. I feel like there's a string between our soul and it will only get stronger the next time we meet again .. I should cherish the connection that we have rather than trying to cut it right .. 🙂

Posted by SunTauVenGem
... well put. So if you are dating one then you can be rest assure that your Scorpio will always have his heart for an ex of his.. Either accept it or walk away 🙂

Too general a statement here.

Love them, but over them. I hope, for their sake.

Give up? No...through the good and the bad, I try to make it work. Some shit is just not meant to be, thus we have to LET GO. Even as much as it hurts sometimes.
Let go completely? Never... I can't erase memories (good or bad). So, they will always be a part of me.
love more than one person at once? No...when there is an initial attraction to someone I may be interested in I block out everyone else subconsciously. Thus, there will be no second person to begin with. This is just how I am with all females I am interested in, whether it develops into "love" or not.

hope that was insightful.

Posted by ryu8
Give up? No...through the good and the bad, I try to make it work. Some shit is just not meant to be, thus we have to LET GO. Even as much as it hurts sometimes.
Let go completely? Never... I can't erase memories (good or bad). So, they will always be a part of me.
love more than one person at once? No...when there is an initial attraction to someone I may be interested in I block out everyone else subconsciously. Thus, there will be no second person to begin with. This is just how I am with all females I am interested in, whether it develops into "love" or not.

hope that was insightful.

Very well said. I am the exact same way. I also block out everyone else subconsciously when I like someone. I've never had a crush on two people at one time. When I am captured by someone, I don't have eyes for anyone else.

Posted by ScorpioSerenity

Posted by ryu8
Give up? No...through the good and the bad, I try to make it work. Some shit is just not meant to be, thus we have to LET GO. Even as much as it hurts sometimes.
Let go completely? Never... I can't erase memories (good or bad). So, they will always be a part of me.
love more than one person at once? No...when there is an initial attraction to someone I may be interested in I block out everyone else subconsciously. Thus, there will be no second person to begin with. This is just how I am with all females I am interested in, whether it develops into "love" or not.

hope that was insightful.

Very well said. I am the exact same way. I also block out everyone else subconsciously when I like someone. I've never had a crush on two people at one time. When I am captured by someone, I don't have eyes for anyone else.

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True true. I totally agree even as a taurus. I believe we are the same that way. Idk though, scorpions r known to go back to their ex"s... ESP if they know it was them who were at fault... my good friend scorpion just got back with his one n only after dating different girls... It Must be the death-rebirth thing......

Posted by SunTauVenGem

Posted by ScorpioSerenity

Posted by ryu8
Give up? No...through the good and the bad, I try to make it work. Some shit is just not meant to be, thus we have to LET GO. Even as much as it hurts sometimes.
Let go completely? Never... I can't erase memories (good or bad). So, they will always be a part of me.
love more than one person at once? No...when there is an initial attraction to someone I may be interested in I block out everyone else subconsciously. Thus, there will be no second person to begin with. This is just how I am with all females I am interested in, whether it develops into "love" or not.

hope that was insightful.

Very well said. I am the exact same way. I also block out everyone else subconsciously when I like someone. I've never had a crush on two people at one time. When I am captured by someone, I don't have eyes for anyone else.

True true. I totally agree even as a taurus. I believe we are the same that way. Idk though, scorpions r known to go back to their ex"s... ESP if they know it was them who were at fault... my good friend scorpion just got back with his one n only after dating different girls... It Must be the death-rebirth thing......

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or libra mars in the 7th house possibly.

i can completely let go of anyone. i have better things to focus on with my feelings and time.

and yes, you can love more than one person at a time. i think it's human. we're not naturally programmed as ppl to let love lie with only one being.

Posted by Sasori701
i can completely let go of anyone. i have better things to focus on with my feelings and time.

and yes, you can love more than one person at a time. i think it's human. we're not naturally programmed as ppl to let love lie with only one being.

Do you have any air in your chart? It sure seems like it.

Posted by Stinger Baby
had to go back to stinger for this little time. work computers SUCK. i will be sasori again when i go home.

anyway, i have aquarius rising. i think that's about the only air i have. is that a bad thing to you?

...hmm....fire —??

im a mix of water and earth. what is sag? i got some of that in mercury.