Family Compatibility

By looking at my family's signs, would you say we all got along?

Me: Taurus (April)
Mom: Aries (April)
Dad: Leo (August)
Sister: Cancer (July)
Brother: Aquarius (February)

Out of all of the signs above, who do you think I argued with most? Least?

lol...that's true to an extent. I'm not familiar with earth, wind, and fire signs, but I'm the only earth sign in my family, aren't I?

Hey, earth, wind, and fire....now I know how that group got their name! 🙂

I argued most with my Mom - Aries.
Got along most with my Brother - Aquarius

Hee-Hee Peach I already know your answer 🙂

Just by my looking though I would have said your mom since you are both in the same month.

you got it, Karima!

but we get along great now.

My brother and I teased the hell out of each other. But I think we also bugged the hell out of each other, too. We knew we could get away with it with each other. My sister was too moody and would be the first one to tattle on anything me or my brother did. My brother and sister are 1 year apart and fought relentlessly. When they fought, I stayed out of the way.

One time, we were outside riding our go-carts and my sister cut my brother off and he flew out of his go-cart...he got mad, got back on his go-cart and chased her down the street (we lived in the country) and bumped her off the road. You could see her fly out of the go-cart and the go-cart still puttering along down the road. Next, you saw my sister pick up a big rock and throw it at my brother and it hit him, can't remember where. My sister froze still for a few seconds, not realizing what she'd just did and then she sprinted toward the house and my brother followed. My sister was FAST. She ran in the house, and locked her bedroom door...but not soon enough. My brother was right behind her and grabbed her baton and was about to hit her with it when it came full force with the bedroom door! They had a lot of explaining to do.

and then there was the time that my sister tried to poison my brother by putting epsom salt in the Kool-Aid...

That's true about detaching. My brother would do that when things bothered him. I was the one who sensed something was wrong with someone in the family, so I was the one who tried to play the psychologist in the family. The only one who really ever opened up to me was my brother...now we're all pretty open with each other. everyone now sees why it was so easy for me to call people on their shit and not have any qualms about it.

Mom - Gemini
Older sisiter - Taurus
Younger sister - Sag
Brother - Libra
Me Scorpio

I had ups and downs with all of my siblings. I am ok with my older sister and my brother but my younger sister we still need to work on that...I think the last time she pissed me off I think she learned how far to take me.

But you never know.

My mother was-libra/scorpio cusp
Dad-aqua
Brother-aqua
Sister-taurus
Step sister one-taurus
Step sister two-virgo
Stepdad-gemini

I got along mostly positive interactions with the aquas,the full taurus sister and I would have no holds barred battle and literally beat the crap out of each other but we also were extremely close probably due to that.Neither ever really got the upper hand on each other and it would always be back and forth on who did more damage lol.The gemini stepdad is the only one who there wasn't an up to the relationship,we hated each other and it was fake when we did seem to get along,kinda just put up with each other.Libra/scorp mother was a love/hate thing but not as intense as the taurus sister but didn't heal or fix anything after all these years either.Theres still a bit of termoil underneither the surface for her.

I also have a cancer and pisces/aries cusp sister but they're alot younger than me so we didn't grow up together or anything,kinda more of an auntish type relationship with them.More protected,more willing to spoil them and little to no arguementive stuff.

Theres fire and water in my family..I don't get on with water..apart from my brother and I like all 3 fires apart from Sagi..he's ok to an extent I guess..can't have him in large doses although he's very funny..

How you doing Cap? whats your scorpio saying? is he back..i vaguely remember you saying something along the lines of him calling you a few weeks back

Cap: Yeah I guess only you would know the answer to that. Use your intuition. I know you guys have it and its pretty strong. Well at least he apologised for whatever he did. Does he sound geniune to you? Its hard to tell actually with Scorps..we say things with such conviction..but that could also be used in a bad way..how was he when you guys were together?

LOL @ Cap, scorpio, virgo..LOL..

I am with the Scorpio. And he's utterly adorable..he has a capricorn moon and is so sulky and child like..so cute..Calls me about 5 times a day. I see him twice a week. Sometimes he spends weekends at mine, but I am busy at the moment and I won't allow him to do so. He can kick and scream as much as he likes..lol..

MM, how do you meet so many men?

Lol @ HP. I don't go out looking for them..somehow I always have someone I am talking to..through social circle etc..but thats all I do..talk, unless something develops..With the Scorpio..well its different isn't it..because we knew each other when we were young and now we have some unfinished business to attend to..LOL..Its so nice to see that chemistry still exists..I care about him immensely.

I went to see him last night just to drop off a letter he needed for today. We talked for about 4 hours!!!..He gets all deep and emotional..I tried to crack a joke to cheer him up!...bless him

i'm a scorpio sun/cancer moon.

mom: cancer sun/scorpio moon
dad: leo sun/sagi moon
sister: sagi sun/pisces moon

i only get along with mom - everyone else is a douche who i have no respect for.

Step Dad- Cancer
Mom- Virgo
Me- Scorpio
Sister- Scorpio
Brother- Virgo
Brother- Taurus

Cap: he probably left because he had to work things out for himself. I know when I go into reclusive mode, I don't want to explain anything to anyone. People are left wondering what on earth happened..Its awful I know but its just the way we are programmed...We feel we don't need to offer any explanation. However, I will say this, Scorpio men are more emotional and forthcoming with their feelings towards their object of affection than scorpio women. I am really not that affectionate but you can't not be with this guy around..he's there holding your hand, constantly telling you how much he cares..With his capricorn moon, I can see some capricorn emotional traits too...

I give you an example, my pisces friend was with her Scorpio guy for 2 years, they were engaged and 1 month from marriage, he decided that he didn't want to be with her anymore..I detected the relationship deterioating over the last 6 months but pisces decided to just go with the flow. Sometimes you have to take the bull by the horn and demand an answer..she didn't do that..1 month from marriage and he disappeared..no explanation whatsoever..to this day he hasn't told her why he wanted to split. She was distraught..It was the not knowing that got to her the most..Your Scorpio sounds similar..But at least he's apologised and also is making the effort or asking you back. He's obviously worked out what he had to in his head...but if and when you do speak to him, try finding out what it was that kept him away...I am sure if he cares about you, he will offer you an explanation.

I say go with your instinct..Scorpio guys do go with emotion and instinct a lot..I know mine does..He completes my sentences for me..it gets a tad irritating but its also very sweet..to know what each other is thinking without saying..

Whatever happens, I wish you the best of luck..hope it all works out for you.

🙂

Well I certainly don't want to impose my opinion...but unfortunately I am!..lol..Theres no excuse for him to just disappear without a word, maybe other things did take over his life..but at this moment in time, he seems to be making a huge effort. I know how you must feel but I really think at least talk to the guy and see what happens..I think he actually wants to tell you what happened..and by you not asking him or not forcing him to, is making him even more comfortable in telling you..Open communication. It seems you do still have feelings for him..Don't take the fatalist approach. Sometimes you have to take destiny in your own hands...

But having said all that, you seem to have your head screwed on properly, and nobody out there (not even me!) can know your situation better than you...I wish you all the best..Do you think he deserves a second chance? He obviously hasn't forgotten you!..

You seem cool Cap..I am liking you!..lol

You guys are totally meant to be together...Wish I had a magic wand to make it all better for u...lol..sorry I have just been to the pub at lunchtime..have had a few beers..so feeling all happy and loved up!..lol

In all honesty, I know how you feel..I would definitely not want anyone making a fool of me..or taking advantage..I think you are owed an explanation at least..and you should let him do that..but I mean it when I say he hasn't forgotten you...We just don't forget anyone we were intimate with or had feelings for at some point..Were you affectionate towards him when you guys were together? Obviously the last thing I want to do is raise your hopes...but I do see a of glimmer light at the end of the tunnel there..lol..

Hey HP! I say that all your family members have strong personalities based on there signes. So when you get along, everything is wonder but when there's an argument, it can be really heated. Oh yeah, having an aries, leo, and aqua underneath the same roof, there's bound to be some fire 😉

Heres mine:

Capricorn (me)
Pisces (Mom)
Capricorn/Aquarius cusp (Step-dad)
Gemini(Bro)
Gemini (Bro)
Virgo (Bro)
Virgo (Bro)
Cancer/Leo cusp (Grandma)
Saggie(Other grandma)
Virgo/Libra cusp (Great Grandma)

I already know the answer to whether or not we get along (when we are all together) .... Hahaha, we get along like fire and water.

my good friend's family looks like this:

him, father (aries)
son (aries)
daughter (aries)
son (aries)
wife (scorpio)

=)

"Oh yeah, having an aries, leo, and aqua underneath the same roof, there's bound to be some fire"

Hey, Cappy! Oh yes, we all have very strong personalities and we're all very close now, but we did have our moments. My mom and me were the "door slammers" in the family. My sister was the mean one - she'd throw things at my brother. She tried to drown him in the swimming pool once, and tried to run him over with her go-cart.

THIS IS HOW THE STRUCTURE OF THE ARGUMENTS WERE:
Me(Taurus)/Mom(Aries)
Dad(Leo)/Brother(Aqua)
Sister(Cancer)/Brother(Aqua)

My cousins lived down the street from us and they were like family to us, so they'd get in the mix too as far as arguing:

Twin Male Cousins(Taurus)/Me(Taurus) - this was always interesting
Male Cousin(Capricorn)/and my sister - they didn't get along, still really don't

S-wreck: i would jump ship if there were that many Aries in my family.

LOL..But he DID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!..THERE LIES YOUR ANSWER

Hey JD. Your family knows there's more than Libra and Capricorn in the zodiac, right? 😉

funny! i'm laughing...

of course, the rum is helping....

Eeeeeeeeeow @ rum...