What makes a good gf or bf for an aqua?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by VirgowithalittleLibra on Friday, August 18, 2006 and has 9 replies.

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@VirgowithalittleLibra
19 Years

What makes all of you think "Wow, this is a REALLY good relationship"...

I'm curious to see, what specific things aquas like to find in relationships...what is that defines a good relationship for you all...be as specific as you want.

Is it freedom to hang out with your friends as much as you want?
Is it patience and understanding when you make mistakes?
Is it having complete trust in you?
Is it getting along with all your friends?

Any comments appreciated!

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Speaking as an aqua with a strong influence of capricorn and taurus I'd say 2 and 3 would be the ones I'd mots like my BF to have. That and having eyes only for me!

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@halfwaytohell
19 Years

Is it freedom to hang out with your friends as much as you want?
Is it patience and understanding when you make mistakes?
Is it having complete trust in you?
Is it getting along with all your friends?

HAHAH! Yes! I'd love all of those!

Forgive and forget is a big thing. Don't rub a mistake in my face, especially after I've already sincerely apologized.

Also, no head games. I hate it.

If you have a problem with us, don't let it fester, hope we'll notice and then explode when we don't. Pull us aside, and speak to us privately about what's bothering you.

If what's bothering you is anything like "spending too much time with friends".. I know I wouldn't be changing. Then it's time for you both to move on.

Hope that helped?

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@Mamma_Roz
20 YearsAquarius

Give me the space to be who I need to be.
Appreciate my Quirks
Be spontanious and let me be the same
Tell me how much you need/want me
Be truthfull
Trust me

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

The list appears to be expanding with every new user's comment! To condense mine a bit more I'd rate as being the topmost qualities in a guy for me to fall head over heels would be: Sincerity, Physical Attraction, Compassion, Sense Of Humour, Mutual Enjoyment of Eachother's Company.

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@VirgowithalittleLibra
19 Years

hmmm

thank you so much for all your inputs! so i guess i wasn't so off the target. i've gathered a list of things most of you like to have in your relationships:

1 - enough space to do your thing
2 - trust
3 - patience and understanding
4 - affection and words of affirmation
5 - honesty and respect when problems come
6 - no much nagging (forgive and forget past mistakes)
7 - faithfulness and loyalty
8 - friendship
9 - freedom to be yourselves
10- funny and silly moments
11- good communication
12- attraction (mental, physical, emotional)

well, seems like most of the things you mentioned are things that we would all would hope to find with somebody. however the trust issues, need for space, and the importance of friendship are factors that seem to be more prevalent in your sign than in others. very interesting...

thank you!!

VL