Getting the best sex of my life but…

That’s all this man has to offer. I put this topic in the Scorpio forum because I believe his Scorpio Mars has me hooked. He’s a Leo sun, Scorpio rising, Virgo moon with a Leo Venus and this man is fine af! Our chemistry is out of this world. We both agree that we never had this connection with anyone before.

In a perfect world we probably will never be. I’m 33, I have a great career and no kids. He’s going to be 42 soon with two children from two different women and is a personal trainer. The sex between us is magical. But that’s all it is between us is sex. I don’t want anything more because I don’t see a future with him long term. He knows this.

Our idea of a relationship/ marriage is where we differ. He wants be polygamous. Good for him but it’s not what I want. He also has little ambition and doesn’t make enough money to support himself 100% .

Last week he told me he loved me and it threw me for a loop. I asked him what does he love about me and he told me how he thinks I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever been with, that he thinks I’m smart, funny, our connection etc. I think it’s lust and now I don’t know if I want to cut this off because I know I can’t be with him and don’t want to lead him on a further…

How is he going to make multiple women happy when he can’t even support HIMSELF, HIS 2 KIDS, AND LET ALONE 1 OTHER WOMAN? What kind of 42 year old man can’t even support himself

Like just the audacity of him to think he deserves multiple women who will support him, while he enjoys all of them and brings nothing to the table other than sex is so embarrassing. Sex alone doesn’t sustain relationships but he can have fun with it for a year or so. When the ED kicks in, then what?

He probably loves that you have a career because he sees you as a sugar mama. Cue the love bombing to close the deal

It’s wild to me that women can even get sexually aroused by losers like this 😩 Literally everything about this should have your hooha snap close like a steel bear trap

I feel like you should use protection if you don't want to be the third baby mama 🙂

With all these women and all these babies it seems as if he is using you either because he knows you have a great career and you wont ask him for money or he is using you as yet another escape from realities and responsibilities of life.

He doesn't seem reliable AT ALL. I also had the best sex ever with an athlete but learned it the hard way that money can be a big problem for people in sports and without money or a good career there is no way he can make you happy long term unless you are a millionaire and can feed him and his babies lol

There is a comedian called Jackie fabulous, one of her jokes was that no woman will tell you but the best sex she ever had was probably with a guy who had no money, no job , no passport , not even proper furniture in his house lol. So his only skill to impress women is by fucking them good :p And that women of course won't marry this guy but someone more successful and responsible in life.. realities of life 🙂

You've been dickmatized. Almost always a near fatal affliction. Good luck! 💯

suggestion for you in the future, check to see if they are financially stable and has their own place and if they are looking for a monagomous relationship before asking their dick size and performance in bed 🙂

That way even if it doesn't work out you can say that you are really trying your best to make yourself happy and that you see yourself worthy of finding someone at your level or even better.

Sex should never, and I mean like NEVER EVER, be the only real connection between two people. Forget the fact that he can’t support himself yet wants polygamy, while he has 2 children with 2 different women…like wtaf?? What are we talking about here??

Ewwwwww 🥴👎🏻

How could you let just sex decide you still want to be around this person? He sounds like a loser ~ such a turn off



“ He wants be polygamous. Good for him but it’s not what I want. He also has little ambition and doesn’t make enough money to support himself 100% .”

Also sounds like he’s going through a mid life crisis and thinks he’s God’s gift 🥴

Posted by AquaClassy
I see 🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over

U just jealous cuz you not getting the good D. Women never let women have a good thing lol

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Posted by AquaClassy
I see 🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over

U just jealous cuz you not getting the good D. Women never let women have a good thing lol

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But he just has no money, can't take her out on a nice date, lots of drama in his life with two baby mamas AND wants to be polyamorous.. so she doesn't even have the dick to herself lol. Like she has to get dick appointments with him whenever she can lol. He wants to be like ok tuesday I will give it to meghan and thursday to baby mama number 2 and saturday to virgal and tell her I love her because there is no kids crying in the background when I meet her lol

She is just 32 with a good career. She can do much much better than this.

Men with good sex skills/big dicks and no money or career act like golddigger pretty women 🙂 They have that same level of confidence lol

I know that there are rich older women who buy these men expensive gifts or offer to live together. A guy I know had a brand new Motorbike sent to his work place in a truck as a gift after just 1 date! He didn't want it though and she was furious lol. He was a psychologist.

I talked to 2 other guys who were personal trainers/ ex basketball players who were really poor and were looking for sugar mamas. They couldn't get any other job. One just wanted to smoke weed all day. Other one had only fans where he tried making money off his big dick and was on dating apps all day. He was so poor he had to move back with his parents unless he found a rich girlfriend or sugar mama.

I think you should support him financially and allow him to share his wonderful gift with other women so the world can be a better place.

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Posted by AquaClassy
I see 🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over

U just jealous cuz you not getting the good D. Women never let women have a good thing lol
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Nah. I'm trying to be objective. Dude got pregnant 2 women already and op is not interested in anything serious so she should watch out, because I see pattern here 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Never mind this loser who is always championing bad behaviour of men on this site and generalizing that every woman is cockblocking another loser like him entitled to sex without nothing to show for it.

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Posted by AquaClassy
I see 🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over

U just jealous cuz you not getting the good D. Women never let women have a good thing lol
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But he just has no money, can't take her out on a nice date, lots of drama in his life with two baby mamas AND wants to be polyamorous.. so she doesn't even have the dick to herself lol. Like she has to get dick appointments with him whenever she can lol. He wants to be like ok tuesday I will give it to meghan and thursday to baby mama number 2 and saturday to virgal and tell her I love her because there is no kids crying in the background when I meet her lol

She is just 32 with a good career. She can do much much better than this.

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I’m dying 😆🤣 Your responses on this thread are amazing and so on point!! Love it!

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Posted by AquaClassy
I see 🚩🚩🚩🚩 all over

U just jealous cuz you not getting the good D. Women never let women have a good thing lol
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Nah. I'm trying to be objective. Dude got pregnant 2 women already and op is not interested in anything serious so she should watch out, because I see pattern here 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Never mind this loser who is always championing bad behaviour of men on this site and generalizing that every woman is cockblocking another loser like him entitled to sex without nothing to show for it.
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I don't follow his activity haha. I do agree with someone of his opinions ( not all), and I have to admit he gave me very good advice. So don't worry

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Take advice from level-headed dudes on this site, who are far and few on here.

At 32 if you haven’t realized the value of time, then I don’t understand when you will.

If you want to settle down and have a family with a worthy catch, since you obviously have a great career, then stop acting desperate and squandering time on deadbeats, especially personal trainers. This profession is equivalent to saying gigolo, lazy and couldn’t do anything with my life. Nowadays you can gauge a lot from what a person does. It’s akin to a useless woman saying I’m an influencer. LOL.

Posted by MarkGem
Just keep having great sex with him, duh

Then if you find someone who you love AND have great sex with, then you know what to do

Or if the sex deteriorates or the guy starts getting too annoying then tell him its over

Stop inventing future problems and enjoy what you have - you're right, it's not a perfect world

The problem is it’s rarely ever sex though, now is it? If people can keep it strictly sex and a good time, no issues. However, when they make a thread about it because a man or a woman they are sleeping with said something as inane and trivial as “i love you,” the trouble starts. That I love you would mean nothing and no thread would be created if the OP wasn’t getting the feels for this loser.

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Posted by aquarius09

Posted by MarkGem
Just keep having great sex with him, duh
Then if you find someone who you love AND have great sex with, then you know what to do
Or if the sex deteriorates or the guy starts getting too annoying then tell him its over
Stop inventing future problems and enjoy what you have - you're right, it's not a perfect world

The problem is it’s rarely ever sex though, now is it? If people can keep it strictly sex and a good time, no issues. However, when they make a thread about it because a man or a woman they are sleeping with said something as inane and trivial as “i love you,” the trouble starts. That I love you would mean nothing and no thread would be created if the OP wasn’t getting the feels for this loser.
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I told this girl I love you while she was suckin my dick first time meeting her she looked up and said I'm gonna stop if u say it again I said ok then she kept going. something u said made me remember this, maybe ur attitude reminds me of hers when I said that to her and then she ended up saying it back down the line and being the only girlI still think about and would want to manifest back.

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Must’ve been an air dominant because we know words are cheap. This Aqua stellium doesn’t take words seriously as I know how easy it is to charm weak-minded with words. They mean nothing because they can be said without thought. Actions is everything for me.

Op we just don't want you wasting even a day with someone who you can't build a long term relationship with because you need your brain to focus on finding and eliminating better candidates that will make you very happy. And this relationship you had with this guy can be useful in your elimination process because you learned more about what you like in sex. Now you seem to understand it's a good time to leave this guy and focus on finding someone who fulfills all your criteria to make you completely satisfied. In sex AND all other areas 🙂 Of course you are beautiful and fantastic and men wants to have sex with you but sex alone won't ever make you satisfied.

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Posted by nanochip
How is he going to make multiple women happy when he can’t even support HIMSELF, HIS 2 KIDS, AND LET ALONE 1 OTHER WOMAN? What kind of 42 year old man can’t even support himself
Like just the audacity of him to think he deserves multiple women who will support him, while he enjoys all of them and brings nothing to the table other than sex is so embarrassing. Sex alone doesn’t sustain relationships but he can have fun with it for a year or so. When the ED kicks in, then what?
He probably loves that you have a career because he sees you as a sugar mama. Cue the love bombing to close the deal
It’s wild to me that women can even get sexually aroused by losers like this 😩 Literally everything about this should have your hooha snap close like a steel bear trap

but you are still single and we all know why 😂

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Baseless assumptions. I’m not single and haven’t been in a long time

Sucks to be wrong and look like a dumbass doesn’t it 😖 oops

It was a good try though…. Don’t worry - maybe next time you’ll get something right ☺️

I got out of a long term relationship about a year ago and wanted fun. I knew him for about 6 years now as he was my trainer back then and we just so happened to reconnect. Our chemistry is wild but that’s all it is - just a strong physical/ sexually chemistry and it’s been the best sex of my life. Someone said I’ve been dickmatized - and yes I think I have been lmao!

They say the broke ones have the best D and I couldn’t agree more 😭😭😭😭 I never saw him as someone I would pursue long term. Just a good time. He always tells me that he can’t believe that I’m giving him the time a day and that along should make me run the other way. But now hearing him profess his love to me (I don’t know if it’s the truth) it’s a bit much. I have feelings for him because I care about him but I have no desire to be with him long term. Too much baggage.

I’ve learned so much from his sexually he really brought the ho* out me! Lmao! Like things I’ve never done before… I’ve experienced with him. He makes me feel so comfortable and at ease with him. We have somewhat a connection outside of the bedroom as he would call me from time to time and we spend hours on the phone. Now I don’t know if I need to cut this off because of how he feels knowing I don’t want to be with him. Or do I stay because of the good sex. Either way I need to let it go eventually 🥲

Cherish it for the good sexual experience, passion and lust, but don’t make something else out of to. Unfortunately, all the good lovers are usually no bueno otherwise. And boring and dull guys have their act together but provide no passion 😏

It’s difficult to find all that in one person, otherwise I’d settle long time ago 😎😝

Posted by virgal_perfectionist
I got out of a long term relationship about a year ago and wanted fun. I knew him for about 6 years now as he was my trainer back then and we just so happened to reconnect. Our chemistry is wild but that’s all it is - just a strong physical/ sexually chemistry and it’s been the best sex of my life. Someone said I’ve been dickmatized - and yes I think I have been lmao!

They say the broke ones have the best D and I couldn’t agree more 😭😭😭😭 I never saw him as someone I would pursue long term. Just a good time. He always tells me that he can’t believe that I’m giving him the time a day and that along should make me run the other way. But now hearing him profess his love to me (I don’t know if it’s the truth) it’s a bit much. I have feelings for him because I care about him but I have no desire to be with him long term. Too much baggage.

I’ve learned so much from his sexually he really brought the ho* out me! Lmao! Like things I’ve never done before… I’ve experienced with him. He makes me feel so comfortable and at ease with him. We have somewhat a connection outside of the bedroom as he would call me from time to time and we spend hours on the phone. Now I don’t know if I need to cut this off because of how he feels knowing I don’t want to be with him. Or do I stay because of the good sex. Either way I need to let it go eventually 🥲

Leo put OP in the pretzel position and she has lost all common sense 😂😂😂

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Posted by MarkGem
Just keep having great sex with him, duh
Then if you find someone who you love AND have great sex with, then you know what to do
Or if the sex deteriorates or the guy starts getting too annoying then tell him its over
Stop inventing future problems and enjoy what you have - you're right, it's not a perfect world

The problem is it’s rarely ever sex though, now is it? If people can keep it strictly sex and a good time, no issues. However, when they make a thread about it because a man or a woman they are sleeping with said something as inane and trivial as “i love you,” the trouble starts. That I love you would mean nothing and no thread would be created if the OP wasn’t getting the feels for this loser.
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I told this girl I love you while she was suckin my dick first time meeting her she looked up and said I'm gonna stop if u say it again I said ok then she kept going. something u said made me remember this, maybe ur attitude reminds me of hers when I said that to her and then she ended up saying it back down the line and being the only girlI still think about and would want to manifest back.
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Must’ve been an air dominant because we know words are cheap. This Aqua stellium doesn’t take words seriously as I know how easy it is to charm weak-minded with words. They mean nothing because they can be said without thought. Actions is everything for me.

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All 3 air signs can be fickle. But Libras are the ones most likely to commit out of the 3.

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Posted by nanochip
How is he going to make multiple women happy when he can’t even support HIMSELF, HIS 2 KIDS, AND LET ALONE 1 OTHER WOMAN? What kind of 42 year old man can’t even support himself
Like just the audacity of him to think he deserves multiple women who will support him, while he enjoys all of them and brings nothing to the table other than sex is so embarrassing. Sex alone doesn’t sustain relationships but he can have fun with it for a year or so. When the ED kicks in, then what?
He probably loves that you have a career because he sees you as a sugar mama. Cue the love bombing to close the deal
It’s wild to me that women can even get sexually aroused by losers like this 😩 Literally everything about this should have your hooha snap close like a steel bear trap

but you are still single and we all know why 😂

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Haha He might have his Lilith in Taurus like me. I have had sugar mamas who showed me with gifts and stuff.

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Posted by aquarius09

Posted by waitdo

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by MarkGem
Just keep having great sex with him, duh
Then if you find someone who you love AND have great sex with, then you know what to do
Or if the sex deteriorates or the guy starts getting too annoying then tell him its over
Stop inventing future problems and enjoy what you have - you're right, it's not a perfect world

The problem is it’s rarely ever sex though, now is it? If people can keep it strictly sex and a good time, no issues. However, when they make a thread about it because a man or a woman they are sleeping with said something as inane and trivial as “i love you,” the trouble starts. That I love you would mean nothing and no thread would be created if the OP wasn’t getting the feels for this loser.
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I told this girl I love you while she was suckin my dick first time meeting her she looked up and said I'm gonna stop if u say it again I said ok then she kept going. something u said made me remember this, maybe ur attitude reminds me of hers when I said that to her and then she ended up saying it back down the line and being the only girlI still think about and would want to manifest back.
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Must’ve been an air dominant because we know words are cheap. This Aqua stellium doesn’t take words seriously as I know how easy it is to charm weak-minded with words. They mean nothing because they can be said without thought. Actions is everything for me.
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All 3 air signs can be fickle. But Libras are the ones most likely to commit out of the 3.

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Pfft. Libras are the most fickle, confused and have no prob committing short term because they will latch onto anything in fear of loneliness. They aren’t quality whereas Aquas are slow to commit but once we do, you have us for life and the most sane and reliable of the air signs.

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Posted by MarkGem
Just keep having great sex with him, duh
Then if you find someone who you love AND have great sex with, then you know what to do
Or if the sex deteriorates or the guy starts getting too annoying then tell him its over
Stop inventing future problems and enjoy what you have - you're right, it's not a perfect world

The problem is it’s rarely ever sex though, now is it? If people can keep it strictly sex and a good time, no issues. However, when they make a thread about it because a man or a woman they are sleeping with said something as inane and trivial as “i love you,” the trouble starts. That I love you would mean nothing and no thread would be created if the OP wasn’t getting the feels for this loser.
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I told this girl I love you while she was suckin my dick first time meeting her she looked up and said I'm gonna stop if u say it again I said ok then she kept going. something u said made me remember this, maybe ur attitude reminds me of hers when I said that to her and then she ended up saying it back down the line and being the only girlI still think about and would want to manifest back.
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Must’ve been an air dominant because we know words are cheap. This Aqua stellium doesn’t take words seriously as I know how easy it is to charm weak-minded with words. They mean nothing because they can be said without thought. Actions is everything for me.
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All 3 air signs can be fickle. But Libras are the ones most likely to commit out of the 3.
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Pfft. Libras are the most fickle, confused and have no prob committing short term because they will latch onto anything in fear of loneliness. They aren’t quality whereas Aquas are slow to commit but once we do, you have us for life and the most sane and reliable of the air signs.

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I dunno about that, I have a relative that dated an Aquarius and welp, it didn't last long. And he has multiple baby mamas. Is it perhaps that the Libra man hurt your feelings? It's okay to admit it. Because I've hurt a lot of women's feelings, but this was them projecting their romantic/sexual fantasies/infatuation on me because I look like their type. And I never really got to know them like that because I've rejected all of them.

Posted by virgal_perfectionist
That’s all this man has to offer. I put this topic in the Scorpio forum because I believe his Scorpio Mars has me hooked. He’s a Leo sun, Scorpio rising, Virgo moon with a Leo Venus and this man is fine af! Our chemistry is out of this world. We both agree that we never had this connection with anyone before.

In a perfect world we probably will never be. I’m 33, I have a great career and no kids. He’s going to be 42 soon with two children from two different women and is a personal trainer. The sex between us is magical. But that’s all it is between us is sex. I don’t want anything more because I don’t see a future with him long term. He knows this.

Our idea of a relationship/ marriage is where we differ. He wants be polygamous. Good for him but it’s not what I want. He also has little ambition and doesn’t make enough money to support himself 100% .

Last week he told me he loved me and it threw me for a loop. I asked him what does he love about me and he told me how he thinks I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever been with, that he thinks I’m smart, funny, our connection etc. I think it’s lust and now I don’t know if I want to cut this off because I know I can’t be with him and don’t want to lead him on a further…

The chemistry works because you are physically attracted to the guy. Notice how you pointed that out. His Scorpio Mars conjuncts in Scorpio ascendant which probably signifies he has sex appeal. Any Mars aspects the ascendant will give a person sex appear. Rather it's Trine, Conjunction, Square or Opposition. Ofcourse with the conjunction being the strongest. The Square and Oppositions are a close 2nd. What is your venus and mars and ascendant? Because that could be telling the story.

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Posted by virgal_perfectionist
That’s all this man has to offer. I put this topic in the Scorpio forum because I believe his Scorpio Mars has me hooked. He’s a Leo sun, Scorpio rising, Virgo moon with a Leo Venus and this man is fine af! Our chemistry is out of this world. We both agree that we never had this connection with anyone before.
In a perfect world we probably will never be. I’m 33, I have a great career and no kids. He’s going to be 42 soon with two children from two different women and is a personal trainer. The sex between us is magical. But that’s all it is between us is sex. I don’t want anything more because I don’t see a future with him long term. He knows this.
Our idea of a relationship/ marriage is where we differ. He wants be polygamous. Good for him but it’s not what I want. He also has little ambition and doesn’t make enough money to support himself 100% .
Last week he told me he loved me and it threw me for a loop. I asked him what does he love about me and he told me how he thinks I’m the most beautiful woman he’s ever been with, that he thinks I’m smart, funny, our connection etc. I think it’s lust and now I don’t know if I want to cut this off because I know I can’t be with him and don’t want to lead him on a further…

The chemistry works because you are physically attracted to the guy. Notice how you pointed that out. His Scorpio Mars conjuncts in Scorpio ascendant which probably signifies he has sex appeal. Any Mars aspects the ascendant will give a person sex appear. Rather it's Trine, Conjunction, Square or Opposition. Ofcourse with the conjunction being the strongest. The Square and Oppositions are a close 2nd. What is your venus and mars and ascendant? Because that could be telling the story.

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I agree. The chemistry is intense. We are strongly attracted to each other. It’s like fire between us. Very interesting take on his mars and ascendent his sex appeal is up there I must say.

I have a Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini and Leo ascendent. I wonder if that means anything more?

Posted by CAPZPRIME
idk the real question is ? why whould you have sex reccurently with someone you dont have a future ?

its like your escort boy falled in love with you because i dont see the difference between personnal trainer and escort boy?

thats weird why you didnt take a female personnal trainer ?

Honestly for fun? I never had a casual sex partner. Always had serious relationships. I want a break from dating seriously. Feeling a void, possibly. But hey, you live and your learn.