Guys...

Guys I need to know why is it that when women treat you really sweet and kind you walk all over her but when she becomes mean, nasty and distant you chase her?

Ladies you can chime in if you want 🙂 ya know I can't leave my girls out...

The same question could be asked about you ladies.

I'm always nice until I get a reason to be nasty...sometimes I think I am too nice to early. Which then leads to misconceptions about my "niceness" and men try to walk on me. Which is when my evil twin surfaces...

*shaking my head* I just don't understand men.

Most of the time when men meet me they think I am "ice-cold" and distant. But then when they break through the ice and I become "me" they think "i got her now and proceeds to stomp over my heart and feelings" and then when i resurface I come back out with horns. THEN it's too much for them. Then "I'm mean and cold-hearted"! Go Figure...

"Many men find fun in the challenge of the chase. We try to believe that the meanness is just a front and if we can get through it, we will find the 'sweet' woman behind the mask...lol"

ah...so then they can walk all over the mean ones too.

Why do people always feel the need to act a certain way to attract people and/or drive them crazy? Just be yourself...it's much easier...

i totally agree wheel because I am naturally a nice person. I treat people exactly the way I want to be treated. It has failed a lot of my relationships though because I am very nice. I am not a pushover but I love to make my man happy. What the hell is wrong with that? If a man can't appreciate that then its his loss. I do have a friend that treats her man like total shLt and he loves it. Men can be so backwards

I am both! I try not to be a bitch up front because that is really not me. UNLESS you give me a reason to be that way. I like to treat men nicely but when the bitch does come out. Please go for cover! And I will not physically harm anyone but honey it is not nice when my "twin" surfaces.

im scare of you karima...LOL

AB! LOL! That is the inner me! But please believe me when I say...I am definitely a force to be reckoned with! I hate being a bitch. I want to be nice to people...well to men. Bad Boys want Good girls...they think we are freaks...

God knows where they got that from "Devil Horns" appearing 🙂