Has anyone dated someone much younger?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ScorpioChica on Friday, June 14, 2013 and has 45 replies.

Is Dating Someone Much Younger Healthy

Dating someone significantly younger can work but may involve challenges such as differing life stages and expectations. It's important to consider emotional maturity and compatibility. Open communication and mutual respect are key to navigating age differences successfully.

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@jessgoogoo
13 YearsLibra

i have, and it really depends on how old you are, I`m 29 and dated men that were in there very very early 20`s, one that was 18, i robbed the craddle there. However most of them were not even close to experiencing some life experiences they needed to, so i got tired of it and felt almost like a mother to them..

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@jessgoogoo
13 YearsLibra

Posted by starlover
It's much more different with the younger man/older woman to the other way around cos men take longer to mature, so yes there could be difficulties in waiting for them to catch up.

Sexually though its wonderful as men peak young and women when older, so if you are looking for a lover i would say yes!

+1

so true.

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@LionGirl
13 YearsLeo

I'm dating a guy 3 years younger than me...and that is already proving to be somewhat of a struggle. Not any real issues, but I can just definitely see where we are different in levels of maturity. But that's part of what I like about him. Then again, we are also at that pivotal age of young adulthood, haha, so we're both still trying to become mature...

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@geminidude
13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by starlover

Posted by geminidude
Dating a cougar 20 years older than me, do damn good. Age is just a number, am getting the best of my life.

Woohooo!! 😄 How long have you been with her...what is her sign?

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I know her for 5 years and we become intimate for more than a year. Her sign is Aquarius in third deccan and I am Gemini in third deccan. Had doubt once whether she had an orgasm just by having a conversation between us.

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@beautifulsoul74
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Age really is only a number and sorry to say...maturity is subjective. So to say either sex is more or less mature than the other is...immature! ?Simply put, relationships are about what you're ultimately looking for regardless of connections.

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@ScorpioChica
14 Years

Well he's a Pisces & I've known him for 3 yrs. We've been getting closer since the beginning of June, no sex yet but he's extremely passionate just by the make out sessions 😉 being a scorpio with so much scorpio in my chart, I want to sting him & devour him! But the age thing was kinda a factor

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@capgirl69
13 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

My Scorp guy is 12 years younger than me and it hasn't been an issue really.

There are a few things that have come up now that we are living together:
1) money. Specifically talking about money because he's never discussed finances with anyone.
2) I have a 9 year old, they get along well, but he is not used to having a child around, and it hasn't been easy for him seeing my "mommy" personality and reconciling that with my carefree single self.

But he's very mature, more mature than some I've dated that are my own age.

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@ScorpioChica
14 Years

Posted by starlover
Okay, just an observation of mine 😄

Once you have been consumed by a younger man, be warned ~~ you may become addicted and go back for more and more and more and more......you get the picture?

AND we want to hear ALL the details

😉
haha

Well I took advantage of him last night & imo he's not up to par with me...he's been chasing me all day ugh 😢

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14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by starlover
It's much more different with the younger man/older woman to the other way around cos men take longer to mature, so yes there could be difficulties in waiting for them to catch up.

Sexually though its wonderful as men peak young and women when older, so if you are looking for a lover i would say yes!

I don't understand if they are immature and not ready for you why did you love them

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@ScorpioChica
14 Years

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Give the chap another go. He'll be bringing his best moves next time. He's got to make up for coming short first time around (pun intended). Girlfriend you are so beautiful you would scare the Hulk's wee wee into submission first go around. Look at you? You are sexxxxay. LOL

Thanks but I'm not interested in him touching my body ever again lol he's not tall enough to ride this ride again

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@ScorpioChica
14 Years

Posted by ReyAzteca

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Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Well at least he wasn't a Virgo.

Ha my ex of 8 1/2 yrs is a Virgo, with a Venus scorpio like myself, I miss his penis at times

Fixed it for you. 😛

Lmao hey when ur with someone that long u tend to become accustomed to a routine

That "is" a long time, so that's understandable. 🙂

WAH WAAAAH WAAAAAH WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

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Um u do know I'm a woman, therefore I can be feminine, not a Pisces guy

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@capgirl69
13 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by capgirl69
My Scorp guy is 12 years younger than me and it hasn't been an issue really.

There are a few things that have come up now that we are living together:
1) money. Specifically talking about money because he's never discussed finances with anyone.
2) I have a 9 year old, they get along well, but he is not used to having a child around, and it hasn't been easy for him seeing my "mommy" personality and reconciling that with my carefree single self.

But he's very mature, more mature than some I've dated that are my own age.

That's rare tho, and what's up with all these younger men and their erectile dysfunction problem..??

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How did my post get tied to erectile dysfunction?
lol.
Mine does not have an erectile dysfunction problem. Just FYI. lol. Feeling a need to state this here.

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@ScorpioChica
14 Years

Posted by Stinger Baby
keep moving. he doesnt even have sense enough to humble himself. pisces and their frail egos... smdh.

its bad enough he didnt know what he was doing and wasted your time. now instead of trying to come correct so maybe he could possibly be able to prove he's not a fluke, he wants to talk shit, lie and brag about other women. call the bluff quick, or this is going to be a reoccurring theme. every time he wants to pull you back, this will be his method. he'll figure it worked the first time so why not the next. i dont know why pisces try to run from the fact that they too mess up and dont always know what they think. i guess this is their method to try to keep ppl interested....sad.

let him go to those other broads that 'want' him so bad. after his 'wham bam thank you maam', they'll be too ready to throw him back. you, go find your BOOM!!... not little firecrackers.

I really tore into him last night up until 3am, I felt bad but he provoked me after I told him continuously to stop texting me, oh well he likes it I love it 🙂 I think I'll keep him around to entertain me when I'm bored, yes I know that's wrong but he asks for this behavior by being such an insecure attention whore, plus he has a motorcycle ha!

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@shellshocker
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by ScorpioChica

Posted by ReyAzteca
you're talking about a very feminine sign,but that works very well if you meet a pisces man who has balanced his divine feminine with his divine masculine

Well he's a whiny lil b#tch, immature, trying to make me jealous past 2 days talking about other chicks wanting him, blah blah blah.. he doesn't realize I don't care & already have a scorpio in my radar

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sounds like a Pisces male...

The first time with my Pisces I told him it was satisfactory and could have been better... just because he pissed me off, haha! I lied, so what

Soooo mean but it just makes them try harder. Strange, the Fish

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@tamara
19 Years1,000+ Posts

?? Persecutory delusions
?? Delusion of reference
?? Grandiose delusion

Finding out "who" would mean proof that:
-There are no hidden cameras;
-No one is living inside anyone's computer and taking over their keyboards;
-No one is hacking accounts to steal your chick lit or selling messenger convos to TV shows and movie writers; and
-You are average and have no special powers or abilities.

Being stalked for real is one thing, but believing everyone from here has resources allocated to you to track you, watch you, and go as far as to commit burglary to get to you is over board, irrational thinking. The aforementioned are just a miniscule sample of the beliefs that are clearly false and that indicate an abnormality in content of thought. Yet, you will hold firmly to those beliefs, regardless of evidence to the contrary, with no regard for the welfare of the innocent people you harrass, stalk malign with your libelous drivel.

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@tamara
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by tamara
?? Persecutory delusions
?? Delusions of reference
?? Grandiose delusions

Finding out "who" would mean proof that:
-There are no hidden cameras;
-No one is living inside anyone's computer and taking over their keyboards;
-No one is hacking accounts to steal your chick lit or selling messenger convos to TV shows and movie writers; and
-You are average and have no special powers or abilities.

Being stalked for real is one thing, but believing everyone from here has resources allocated to you to track you, watch you, and go as far as to commit burglary to get to you is over board, irrational thinking. The aforementioned are just a miniscule sample of the beliefs that are clearly false and that indicate an abnormality in content of thought. Yet, you will hold firmly to those beliefs, regardless of evidence to the contrary, with no regard for the welfare of the innocent people you harrass, stalk and malign with your libelous drivel.

We'll start at day one
Back dated royalties
compo
ta.🙂

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You could contact Martin McDonagh and demand payment from him, since he supposedly (according to you) 'wrote' the script for Seven Psychopaths from our messenger convos last year. You never explained how he got the words from our conversations a year ago and wrote them into a script that was completed 5 years ago.....The TARDIS?

"McDonagh revealed in a 2008 interview with the Stop Smiling magazine: "I've got a couple of film scripts that are ready to go. I'm not going to do anything with them for a couple of years, until I've traveled and had some fun. But there's one called Seven Psychopaths; if I do another film, that??ll be it."

Maybe he hacked you too! 😕

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@tamara
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by everevolvingepithet

The song is about an alcoholic who blames the piano for his crap playing and singing. He blames everything and everyone else, but never himself. The singer is in essence, trying to free himself of any responsibility in how his music/playing turns out -much like you accusing innocent people of wrongdoing, so you don't have to address your role for the conditions in your own life.

There are two very big differences between the song and your accusations though:

-The song doesn't hurt or harass anyone.
-As ridiculous as the lyrics get in the song, they are brilliant and coherent.....