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heavy heart and remembering Aqua advice
Good advice and very comforting........... Thanks!
Posted by starwarsare you a little biased you Virgo sun, Aqua ascendant 😉
aquas (and virgos 😛 ) are the best advice givers!
I don't know many Virgos (or get along with them usually lol) but I do have one Virgo friend who always definitely has great advice and my Virgo manager is the bomb. 😄
Posted by BlackMambathats actually how I think of it! it's almost like you know it's just for comfort, but it helps you cope with the fact that they aren't there anymore. Kind of like it helps numb what pain is there from there absence. It reminds you of hope, and then just like you said, something better may come along to where we are able to fully let go. it's definitely uplifting. Makes me feel better every time I tend to fall/become sad.
"Not now, but not never" is comforting as you flow into another person's arms. I guess it can help mitigate the pain and longing...gives you hope...until someone else shows you even a better life...a better reality...
its hard for us to completely cut off a person so this is a better way of dealing with it i think
Posted by starwarsYES to both 😛
aquas (and virgos 😛 ) are the best advice givers!
Posted by BlackMambaAww CC you just warmed my cold heart. you DO like Aquas.Posted by starwarsso then you agree they have zero integrity, integrity means being yourself at all times, not as consequences of others actions! If all they're playing at is a facade than there is no integrity. No honesty.No realness.Posted by BlackMambawhat does being messy have anything to do with giving advice? aquas are more complicated than virgos but manage to give great advice too.Posted by starwarsI'm sorry, but i disagree wholeheartedly. How can you give advice when you are such messy people. Why would anybody take advice from individuals who don't live their word. Who have zero integrity.Posted by BlackMambayou always manage to make me laugh, I love crabs. 😆Posted by starwarsyou guys really do see yourselves in a different light than most people see you don't you?
aquas (and virgos 😛 ) are the best advice givers!
how can you give advice, when you have zero understanding of the human spirit?
we're sane, observers and analytical.. that'd make great advisor
im truly confused.
as I told you before, with virgos they will let you believe whatever you think of them. you think they have zero integrity? they wont live their word, would have zero integrity and zero human spirit.
they are nothing like what you've described but if that's how you perceive them, that's what you gonna get
how can anybody take advice from individuals with zero integrity or fake persona. Advice or words mean nothing unless that person can back it up and has actually lived it. How can you live anything if you're not living an honest life. If you pretend/lie as to who you are because they see you a certain way. lol
and AQUAS are nothing like Virgos. Please stop that. Aquas have a huge sense of self. Yes they can be cold, but they are fixed. Not mutable. So they hold their truths very close.
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@BlackMamba That's why you need to snap your pinchers on them- then they can't detach 😆
But i get the bond thing, i have looked back over the years at people who have been in my life and wonder how it is that they don't really "know me" I love that detach thing at times.. not so much at others.
I will say, Crabs are great at forcing us to feel/bond, even when we don't want to.
*grumbles*
But i get the bond thing, i have looked back over the years at people who have been in my life and wonder how it is that they don't really "know me" I love that detach thing at times.. not so much at others.
I will say, Crabs are great at forcing us to feel/bond, even when we don't want to.
*grumbles*
Posted by starwarsWhy are the Virgos I know ditzy and weird. One of them is a blonde so that may have a lot to do with it.
aquas (and virgos 😛 ) are the best advice givers!
Posted by GreyWizlmao HUSH LET ME DO ME
aww poor baby!
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