Help! Never dealt with a Scorp before

Hey, I'm new here and I am hoping you could help me.

I just started dating this great guy. We have been together for about 3 months. He is a Scorp with an Aqua rising and oddly enough I am an Aqua with a Scorp rising. (they say opposites attract). Add to the fact that both of us are born at the beginning of our particular signs which from what I hear makes our personality traits almost exactly by the book to what our signs say they should be.

I have never dealth with a full scorp before. This man is so different from what I am use to.
He is extremly silent but very affectionate when we are together.
He can hold my gaze longer than I can hold his. He has the most magnetic eyes I have ever seen. (I'm attracted to eyes)
He is stubbornly willfull when he decides something and that also includes sex. If he is not interested he cannot be seduced. (very frustrating)
He is also very romantic. He remembers the little things like dates and special occasions. He actually had to remind me at first as to when our 1st month anniversary was.(I don't really put stock into the month anniversaries but he does)

We are slowly geting use to eachother and feeling eachother out, but here is the problem. We have had 2 fights and each time we have fought about something it has been more or less miscommunication and misunderstanding. We will both apologize and then its like there is a huge wall between us. He becomes extremly distant and will not be affectionate (verbally or pysically)for a while, and that leaves me feeling very unwanted and unloved. Which depresses me and makes me want to run for the hills and find abother man. (Thats the Aqua in me to move quickly on to the next man.)

We have both said the L word to eachother and I think we both mean it so I don't want to give up on him over a few bad fights, but I need to know how to talk to him and make him understand that his actions after a fight are going to cause major problems. There are bound to be fights in any relationship and I just don't know if I can handle being put in emotional time out each time waiting on him to warm back up again.

Please give some advice.

aww, hi! welcome =)......You could always go with honesty. Telling him how you really feel, put in a nice way. Tell him it makes you hurts you alot.

It makes you feel uncared for & hurts you alot**

agreed Dancing Bread. no scorpion will change paths ever. it sounds like you two are off to a good start though. "We have both said the L word to eachother and I think we both mean it so" --anyone who said that is an ok pair i think--
yes he meant so, love is no joke for the scorpion man.

But can you really fall in love with someone that quickly? I guess you can if your involved with a scorpio man..lucky you!..

I say give him his space after you've had a fight, let him re-adjust to "being friends again" scenario..he'll come back to you in his own time..patience my dear is a virtue!..we expect it in others but don't have it ourselves!..lol..yes complicated mess..

of course you can fall in love with a scorp man that fast. since i could see the mirror, i was inlove.

LMAO hunni remember jump off of the white horse you came strolling in on...(joke) lol

haha...I'll see you tonight, meeting up with some friends, i will be back in an hour tops ok? ... already gone!

Welcome Roz

Scorpio's love honesty.

yes we do it love that honesty!

mmmhm and we can detect a liar a mile away...

Yes we can..fake, liar, game player..its our x-ray vision..we can see right thruuuuuuuuu you..

no one is verylivly tonight are they?

hey M&M, im back

juicy went to a club for the night

i am on and off right now.
making dinner

Fatal attraction? LOL