scorpios and depressed mood

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by tribalyinyang on Tuesday, April 11, 2006 and has 8 replies.

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@tribalyinyang
20 Years
hi, I have a question. I know scorpio, we're pretty close, but he goes though these depressed mood phases where he completely shuts everyone out, doesnt talk to any, no one at all. How come he does this? and when he goes in to these moods i dont know what to do! should i completely leave him alone? i dont want to completely leave him alone cause i dont want him to think i dont care about him....but at the samee time i dont want to annoy him. i really dont know what do to when he does this! please help, im begging for asnwers thankyou


*worriedd pisces*
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@juwanapla
20 Years1,000+ Posts
You should just let him get through it himself. If he needs to talk things out, whatever his problems are, he'll come to you. I hate it when I need my alone time to think and everyone feels they need to come to my rescue. He sounds like a very private Scorp that likes to work his problems out on his own.
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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts
Leave him alone..its the best thing..we need our space during this time..Even the nearest and dearest can't say or do anything to help..just let it be..he'll snap out of it just as quickly as he got into it.
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@tribalyinyang
20 Years
okay well thank you all. it helped. and i do think that he'll snap out of it as quickly as he snaped into it. thank you πŸ™‚
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@juwanapla
20 Years1,000+ Posts
"but should i absolutly leave him alone?like not even a friendly hi?"

A friendly Hi is saying, "Hi! I'm still here if you need me". Hi! is great. Just don't pester him. If he is in a depressed or a 'thinking state' which I like to call it, he wants and needs to be alone. If you feel you need to help him out during his brooding time, that's good for you, you are a good friend. BUT, he doesn't need it. Just let him be. He'll come to you when and if he needs your help.
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@juwanapla
20 Years1,000+ Posts
I don't mean to come off as sarcastic, but you sound very co-dependent. I felt alot like you do for a while because of a man. I found a book called 'codependent no more' by Melody Beattie. It changed my life. If you just read the first chapter you can relate.

Again, not to be sarcastic, just try it. I don't even know your sign. This is advice from one woman to another. πŸ™‚