But for me, the physical doesn't have to be the "perfect" looks, instead I need to find him physically attactive regardless of the society standards (not Ken boy for me, thanks)
"But sometimes you get around someone you've known for awhile and BAM! Suddenly you find them attractive when you'd never noticed it before. But it was their humor/intellect/kindness that wore down on you unknowingly."
I agree...
To be honest, I usually fall for someone I have know for a while, rather than a random stranger...
Im in love with a guy in THE most unsexual way ever, he?s a pisces. I dont want to find him sexually attractive, because it would destroy everything. He doesnt know i love him, so its ok, i just like looking at him when he?s talking about weird stuff and thinking about how much i love him and that he has no idea!!
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Here's the Q: Ever been in love with someone but not physically attracted to them?
From what i've noticed...most people don't even get to the InLove stage without some base attraction and at least a lil HOTWET you know?
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-tot