Love is a Weapon

Scorpions.....do any of you use sex as a weapon?. If you do you'll know what I mean, and what it feels like to do this. I tend to get explosive in the sac, so I'm wondering if scorpions use sex to seduce/control like THIS Virgo?

No, not that I know of. My rising 'alternates' for some reason between Capricorn, and Aquarius....basically, I'm searching for an outlet. Sex is good for me, but I get too carried away in it, and right after the act, I WANT to fall in love with the person. When that happens, It's hard for me to control my feelings, and I just can't help but to use them for sex.

when I explode like that it's like I've 'found a home' with this person....I never feel particularly close to anyone, and because I'm not trusting/naive, I ward people off to my amazement, but I draw people in as well....I'll be walking down the steet, and my eyes will dart at a girl, and she'll look at me, like she's 'dazed' I play around with this tendancy as well. Girls are usually always attracted to me....I'm not saying it to fluff myself up. I just can't understand it. One look, and some come over to me, and introduce themselves that's what happened with my sag girlfriend.

I just have this 'urge' to 'feel' a person, and be close with them: to know them in and out. I can't help it. I'm cold, and 'mean' on the surface, but after people've gotten to know me, they're usually shocked to know how passionate I am about things. I just don't like walking around bleeding for everyone to see; can you relate?

I have the strangest feeling that I'm being laughed at....lol I wonder why that is?

'controlled?' that's offensive....lol I wouldn't dabble in ANYTHING If I thought that I couldn't come back from it's clutches....give me SOME credit! I'm young, but I'm hardly the foolish, or foolhardy type. As for this 'controlling' bit, elaborate. I'm not sure I noticed the difference...

If you mean controlling/ed as in the way of 'I do her because I can't get enough' yeah, you're probably right, but it's virtually the same thing as you yourself stated;

"i want to fall asleep........after 25 more times!!" I don't understand what you're implying, and I'd like to.

thats selfish.

selfish yes, but I don't stop if I feel like she's not getting anything out of it. so is it REALLY selfish? I want to feel 'connected' sex is an achor for a detatched sign...

in the larger scheme, you could say that it's all relative, I'm saying 'in hindsight' after the act is done as in it came to pass already; I suppose I meant it in a more litteral way....but either way is deceitful, and selfish in 'hind sight' of course...

OMG DK and DC....

*offers a depressed laugh*

not now, my hearts not into it....I'm going to go brood....and stew in Roxi's muck...lol

Seriously you've unloaded something on me, and I'm not much of a game player; I say what I mean, and mean what I say. It's all or nothing for me.

"What did you expect from us M? Honestly lol"

nothing more and nothing less 😉

It seems 'ingenuine' to tease someone with the prospect of something, and not even do it. It's half-assed and make you out to be a sham of a person. Just my opinion on the general situation, not the people in it.

Upset? Me? Hardly....if anything you've got me thinking....I'm not roused to anger so easily.

You guys use the board anyway you'd like, seems like you've already taken the initiative.....

*VE steps outside for a smoke, to fume about things*

that's cool, but would you prefer a 'quick fix' to a 'long haul'? I don't have feelings all the time for every chick I'm with, it just 'heightens' the urge, and makes the general experience that much better; I do enjoy sex for domination, when I'm not in love, but when loves involved it becomes 'fufilling in a different way'.

grrrr....

*VE growls and storms off.....*

why do adults do that? They mitigate the younger generations feelings; yes I'm young, and that's an indisputable fact but somehow I feel like I've been 'written off' 'dismissed' actually.....what fun can be had with some one night fling? She meant nothing, and the stakes were'nt rasied so two potential mates walk off wondering what could've been, ultimately, they both end up regreting having met, for all that that means; the pain of being seperated, and not finding each other, and not being able to be with each other.

guess I'll just throw my temper tantrum somewhere else! lol....

If I'd've known that the situation would've been taken so lightly, I wouldn't have bothered. Guess, I felt a little fire in the belly....guess I got burnt in the end....and everyone wonders why Virgos keep to their own councel?

"Roxijam 6/12/2007 6:33:49 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.206

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i am just a sleaze ball. through and through.

and make no apology."

"Roxijam 6/12/2007 6:46:33 PM | ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.206

sorry."

"Roxijam 6/13/2007 4:04:48 AM

I get you plute..........

am i crazy too—?

and sorry about my coarseness above, i was having a funny turn."

😛

"you know the drill.

just lie back and accept your fate."

That was very creative I must say.

Well, for what's it worth, I think that your's and DK's exchange was one of the funniest I've seen on this site.

*what it's

What are you confused about?

Aprilbaby,

I had a theory a while ago. Astrological opposites are two different extremes of the same energy. As you see, practically it seems like true.

Astrological opposites have same thinking system but have different outlet.

Sun, Moon and Risings have different effects on personality. Just because you are sun sign Scorpio, it doesn't yet mean you will look like one.

Naw, Roxi, I wouldn't run away from ANYTHING; How could I wake up and look myself in the eye if I did?. I needed to 'expand' a little and needed some time to take in what was said. I wasn't in a joking mode, I was getting passionate and i got lost in the storm, becuase you we're taking a lighter side on the colder facts of life. but yeah, there's nothing WRONG with a one nighter....I just can't think of it as that 'passionless' I mean, yeah, I can, but I aw, forget it! I can't pin the feeling down, it'd just be fucked up if that we're the case, and where in the hell did all this idealism come from?!! lmao I'm usually more accepting towards reality.....damn, I REALLY felt some type of way about that.....? dammitt, stop gettin' all soggy VE, get it together.....

Roxi do you REALLY think that's what life boils down to? A series of one nighters? Do you remember ANY of those one nighter's anyway? I suppose I'm looking at the whole journey as oppossed to one alcoholic-induced fuck-fest, not to say I wouldn't be willing.....I'm torn about the whole thing is all....

AP:Virgo and Aries aren't astrological opposites though.

AP, they SHOULD be....*VE throws a rose at AP and flashes a grin* lol 😛

I've usually liked all the aries I've met: some are annoying but all details aside, they've never bothered me....they we're definitely the Fire to my Air.....think it makes MORE SENSE to call Virgo the Air sign that Libra can't fufill....

Naw, I wasn't saying you we're loose either! I was asking you about....why another person would use another person so....viscariously/carelessly.

All I know is MY FEELINGS had best not be toyed with, becuase there will be HELL to pay....I don't like showing my heart than getting it torn/played with, and I'm just fine with keeping it in the ice chest.

One thing I am intolerant to is having my feelings toyed with. this situation 'transforms' me into a fire-breathing hell-beast, and I won't rest untill you're heart is smashed like mine, then I'll move on like you didn't even exist. I've just given my heart out to the family I loved, and the girls I wanted to 'commit' with, the others didn't matter.... I'm attracted quite strongly to women, but I'm not going to wear my heart on my sleeve, It's nice for a guy to know he can tug on a decent looking lady. I'm a charmer and it's easy for me to do it, but the sex thing is more often than not synonymous to love for me. I wasn't told that, It was just 'natural' for me to be that way......but I'd be only 'half-honest' if I said I wasn't guilty of 'back-slidding of the tracks' and into a 'hole' lol there are times when the will is strong, but I just push those feelings under the surface.... I'm trying not to be hypocritical, but life once again forces a rift in my beliefs....Guess part of growing up is realizing that things aren't as 'straight and narrow' as we thought they were in adolecence....I'm A FREAKIN PRUDE!!!!!! DAMMITTT!!!!! lmao

Being a Virgo is just more work than what was covered in the seminar/manual lol

I wish I didn't feel so strongly about this Roxi...it's such a fuckin' pain....why can't I just be a he-hoe and be done with this shit!? lol I give up, from now on, it's a new chick every day of the week!....my motto/philosophy is 'I love 'em then I leave 'em'! Chivalry's dead anyway, it's not like it's my job to take care of the girl!.

I GET THE POINT. OKAY, BASICALLY VE WANTS SOMETHING INTENSE AND MEANINGFUL(LOVE) EVERY TIME HE HAS SEX WITH THE ONE HE IS IN LOVE WITH. BUT ROXI KNOWS FROM EXPERIENCE THAT IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WHERE TWO PEOPLE ARE IN LOVE, IT DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN IT HAS TO ALWAYS BE THIS "INTENSE, MEANINGFUL" EXPERIENCE WITH THAT PERSON, IT CAN ALSO JUST BE RANDOM AND CASUAL..EVEN IF YOU ARE IN LOVE.

I'M ONLY VE'S AGE..I LEARNED THIS TODAY ACTUALLY..MAYBE IT'S BECAUSE MY VIRGUY IS 3 YEARS OLDER THAN ME AND INDIRECTLY TAUGHT ME =P

I ALWAYS HAVE THESE RANDOM DISCOVERY MOMENTS. YOU LEARN SOMETHING NEW EVERYDAY. =)

What you said about using the idea rather than the act is unfortunately for guys my idea of a laugh when i've had too much to drink and somebody won't stop bugging me. It's bitchy in the extreme, when i like a guy i'm not a tease, i'm pretty straightforward.... but when i don't.. even in the slightest... i am a serious headfook and my god do i play games.

hahaha again with the censors, i need to stop fucking swearing so much

People use to hurt .. the weapon is irrelevant.

Show me the love.