How do I get a scorpio woman to notice me?

Hello everyone

Cap male here,

There's this scorpio woman who sits a few chairs in front of me at college, I'd like to meet her

The problem is we have assigned chairs with numbers and I can't really sit next to her to talk or introduce myself at all.

I don't see her anywhere else at school than this classroom, she is friends with some poeple I know (but can't ask for help because those guys already graduateda and are not at college anymore). I only know her name and her birthday (yeah don't ask about how I know that).

so I'm basically stuck here, can't find a decent way to introduce myself or even catch her attention at all without looking like a creep or something.

Being my stubborn me, I'm probably going to end talking to her straight away or bummp with her "accidentally" just to talk to her.

What else can I do? i really want to introduce myself but can't find a nice or decent way at all

Posted by CapricornLord
Hello everyone

Cap male here,

There's this scorpio woman who sits a few chairs in front of me at college, I'd like to meet her

The problem is we have assigned chairs with numbers and I can't really sit next to her to talk or introduce myself at all.

I don't see her anywhere else at school than this classroom, she is friends with some poeple I know (but can't ask for help because those guys already graduateda and are not at college anymore). I only know her name and her birthday (yeah don't ask about how I know that).

so I'm basically stuck here, can't find a decent way to introduce myself or even catch her attention at all without looking like a creep or something.

Being my stubborn me, I'm probably going to end talking to her straight away or bummp with her "accidentally" just to talk to her.

What else can I do? i really want to introduce myself but can't find a nice or decent way at all

lol. Have that courage to introduce yourself. Do it slow.. don't come too strong or she'll be turn off quickly.

Posted by AirMan
i mean dude, like are you serious? are you really interesting in a woman who may not even be interesting in you? and a scorpio one at that of all signs? and you come here asking for strangers help in how to introduce yourself to a woman? Are you a man or a mouse? heck dude. as shy as i am even i know how to approach a woman and introduce myself to them in a nice decent way without looking like a creep.

well i'm no capricorn man nor am i a scorpio. but let's just wait and see what others has to contribute here.

I'm kinda socially awkward so yeah, there's that.

I'm used to girls approaching me so I never really approach girls at all, don't want to sound arrogant but I know I'm good looking, downside is I don't even know how to approach girls because I never need to do it honestly.

If you want a Scorpio woman please be confident we smell fear 🙂

She has to pick you, you cannot choose her so be yourself and a friend so she can discover if she likes your personality oh and if you really want her make her laugh 😄

Posted by exoskeleton
dude, just say "hi" and introduce yourself. that simple.

just walk in, and be like "hi"? yeah it's not that simple, not in the middle of the classroom and all that jazz.

I know where you coming from but, no it's not that easy.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
If you want a Scorpio woman please be confident we smell fear 🙂

She has to pick you, you cannot choose her so be yourself and a friend so she can discover if she likes your personality oh and if you really want her make her laugh 😄

i really want to meet her, maybe I'll make a new friend or something, thing is... i know Scorpio women HATE being chased

and I'm really really stubborn, I want what I want, and this gets me in soo much trouble.

I don't want to ruin it because of my drive or whatever

You will need to be genuine and patient you cannot force us and if you rush us into anything we take a step back we are rebellious so don't even try it 🙂

Honestly if you want to get to know her the best way is to form a friendship those tend to last longer unless you just want to get into her panties that is the only way I would see you being frustrated. Take your time and let her see you approaching you don't just pop up out of nowhere we hate that and will cut and dry the conversation. If you are nervous approach her with sarcasm or a joke we love that 😄

Posted by Octoberbaby91
You will need to be genuine and patient you cannot force us and if you rush us into anything we take a step back we are rebellious so don't even try it 🙂

Honestly if you want to get to know her the best way is to form a friendship those tend to last longer unless you just want to get into her panties that is the only way I would see you being frustrated. Take your time and let her see you approaching you don't just pop up out of nowhere we hate that and will cut and dry the conversation. If you are nervous approach her with sarcasm or a joke we love that 😄

get in her panties?

LOL

I'm 23 years old, about to finish med school, attractive and still a virgin, if I wanted to lose my virginity I'd have done it LOOOONG ago.

I'm not religious but I'm the one-girl type of man, some would call me weird, yeah whatever...

I'm thinking on be like "Hey Hi! I've seen you before, you're friends with xxx right?" and start from there or something!

Hey I said IF don't quote me on that....Hmmm idk if I believe you but if it's true then that's great they should have more men with self control in this world 🙂


No you say it like that then she will make it quick that's what I would do I would be thinking ok and your point of making small talk would be?? Be direct don't ask it should be like "Hi my name is ****** I think I've seen you outside of school before we have the same mutual friends ******** I just wanted to introduce myself to you then say a joke to make her laugh and keep her engaged 🙂

Practice in the mirror if you have to you can do it!

Posted by Impulsv
Exactly that way!!!
I let u in a little secret
Scorpio likes shy and awkward, so the pressure is off.
Just be u!

Lol I hope you're right, might as well meet a new friend I guess, I just don't want to come off as a creep, I NEVER approach women, but I've to right?

I don't want to appear like a Don Juan try hard or something, I worry too much I guess

Posted by Octoberbaby91
Hey I said IF don't quote me on that....Hmmm idk if I believe you but if it's true then that's great they should have more men with self control in this world 🙂


No you say it like that then she will make it quick that's what I would do I would be thinking ok and your point of making small talk would be?? Be direct don't ask it should be like "Hi my name is ****** I think I've seen you outside of school before we have the same mutual friends ******** I just wanted to introduce myself to you then say a joke to make her laugh and keep her engaged 🙂

Practice in the mirror if you have to you can do it!

Ok, first of all. I don't really want to come off as an a.... so If I've before not thanked you guys (girls 🙂) enough for your input it's just my socially awkward personality showing through.

so yes, thank you scorpio women for your advice 🙂

you give me too much credit, it's not about self control, it has more to do with the fact that I'm so shy.

I was blessed with a nice face so it makes up for it I guess, but yes... I'm to shy when it comes to girls, everything else not really.

I'll do it, I have nothing to lose.

again thanks alot

Posted by AirMan
i'm shy too when it comes to girls and i'm fortunate to have a handsome face to make up my shyness but it's like i say, sometimes in life you have to take risks even if it means be the first to approach people. when it comes to shy people like us, my suggestion is to wait patiently to catch her off in private. you know, like when no ones around. then approach her.

I'll go with the flow, when I feel the instinct... the right moment, I go for it

you're right, we've to step up our game

I hate being shy tho, it's no use for relationships

Just do a triple axel. She'll be yours.

Do you know for certain that she's a Scorpio?

If she definitely is (a Scorpio), I'd suggest you catch her eye, smile, and quietly say "hi". Then ignore her for a bit. She'll be intrigued and annoyed at the same time, and make it her mission to find out why you seemed keen but are now giving her the cold shoulder.

We like mysteries - don't make it too easy - but also ... and please don't take this the wrong way ... no crazy stuff that you Caps are known for - I work with one and she is nuts.

Posted by CapricornLord
Hello everyone

Cap male here,

There's this scorpio woman who sits a few chairs in front of me at college, I'd like to meet her

The problem is we have assigned chairs with numbers and I can't really sit next to her to talk or introduce myself at all.

I don't see her anywhere else at school than this classroom, she is friends with some poeple I know (but can't ask for help because those guys already graduateda and are not at college anymore). I only know her name and her birthday (yeah don't ask about how I know that).

so I'm basically stuck here, can't find a decent way to introduce myself or even catch her attention at all without looking like a creep or something.

Being my stubborn me, I'm probably going to end talking to her straight away or bummp with her "accidentally" just to talk to her.

What else can I do? i really want to introduce myself but can't find a nice or decent way at all

to answer the topic question: you need to exude sexual magnetism. walk like you own the place.

Posted by AirMan

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Posted by CapricornLord
Hello everyone

Cap male here,

There's this scorpio woman who sits a few chairs in front of me at college, I'd like to meet her

The problem is we have assigned chairs with numbers and I can't really sit next to her to talk or introduce myself at all.

I don't see her anywhere else at school than this classroom, she is friends with some poeple I know (but can't ask for help because those guys already graduateda and are not at college anymore). I only know her name and her birthday (yeah don't ask about how I know that).

so I'm basically stuck here, can't find a decent way to introduce myself or even catch her attention at all without looking like a creep or something.

Being my stubborn me, I'm probably going to end talking to her straight away or bummp with her "accidentally" just to talk to her.

What else can I do? i really want to introduce myself but can't find a nice or decent way at all

to answer the topic question: you need to exude sexual magnetism. walk like you own the place.

now what a horrible way to go about getting a woman to fall for a man. i walk like i own the whole wide world and that ain't how i get women. sure some may find that a turn on, but for a shy man who walks like they own the world doesn't impress women much at all. like i said last night the guy has to step up his game.

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lol it's like the video. the guy looks like the shy type, helping men build confidence. 😄

well at least he's helping out.

Challange her; Start getting on her nerves!

Make sweet sweet friction with her! *Speaking stricktly as a Leo*

Can any excess cockiness or arrogance you think will get you anywhere.

Be the creep that you are; Let your freak flag fly.

Scorps are vulnerability junkies.

Let her peg you.



😄

Speak straight from your heart, but make sure to keep it a bit casual first.

It's a kind of unexplainable magic that you suddenly feel when you start speaking from your heart. I think it's called confidence.

And this is coming from the most introverted, socially awkward and insecure kid you'd ever meet.
People always used to tell me to just 'be myself' and I was like no.. 'Myself' is a weird awkward kid. "When I am being myself, I'm different than other people being themselves".

I always wanted to be the dominant asshole you know? Always trying to change myself.
But guess what, now I'm dating such an amazing Scorpio girl that I genuinely like, and I made it possible by being myself and speaking about my real interests without shame, and surprisingly she really enjoys it - remember that it takes the right person too. Honesty lasts the longest.

Do you really want to get involved with a Scorpio woman? The most evil sign going lol. Once you get to know her there is no turning back. She gets comfortable with you and takes off her mask you are tree trunked things will never go back to it once was. Scorpios can deny it all they want but they have two sides to them a public side everybody sees and the private side which only people close to the Scorpio see.

The private side of the scorp you will see the emotional side something you don't see when she has her mask on.

Posted by Stihl46
Do you really want to get involved with a Scorpio woman? The most evil sign going lol. Once you get to know her there is no turning back. She gets comfortable with you and takes off her mask you are tree trunked things will never go back to it once was. Scorpios can deny it all they want but they have two sides to them a public side everybody sees and the private side which only people close to the Scorpio see.

The private side of the scorp you will see the emotional side something you don't see when she has her mask on.

and you love that *evil*. huh.

The one in my life is screwing up her BFs life I seen a picture of her and him that was taken not too long ago he looks like butter. What stress does to a man's body it shows and its all from her, like I said he never looked like that before he met her. Must be the butters to live in fear that your girlfriend can ruin your career he seen how vindictive she is. He loses his job he's tree trunked his house will be gone he will take a good financial hit. He may work in a separate department than her but the same corporation she will screw him over and sting the butter out of him.

The physical damage he's done to himself I have to laugh my ass off I think to myself good luck with that buddy you are tree trunked. Him attracting another woman if he dumps the Scorpio will be next to impossible.

She won't look at me if she sees me she pretends I'm not there I just laugh. It will be hard for her to find another man she's lost her sex appeal I guess her unhappiness is taking a toll on her. She isn't a head turner like she used to be. For myself I know what she has on the inside you see the emotions and vunerabilty of a Scorpio woman its hard to forget.

I'm not mad at her she sure went through a lot of trouble to get revenge on me which back fired on her making her look bad. She will never live down the reputation she's given herself the people she works with will never look at her the same way. Lose trust with the people you work with it will be very tough to be in the place she works.

Stinging a crab man does nothing she stung herself I'm so farther ahead now I'm happy. If she ever comes crawling around I won't kick her to the curb.

I personally like strong intense men. Men who know what they want- NOT COCKY, confidence and yes, there is a difference. I mostly like guys with a calm cool demeanor. Aren't you cappies that way anyway? I don't know.


Idk, I heard that's due to my Scorp Mars so who knows.

Don't listen to me.

Also,preferably one who is not interested in having sex with me right when they meet me (any takers!? lol)

Posted by Stihl46
Do you really want to get involved with a Scorpio woman? The most evil sign going lol. Once you get to know her there is no turning back. She gets comfortable with you and takes off her mask you are tree trunked things will never go back to it once was. Scorpios can deny it all they want but they have two sides to them a public side everybody sees and the private side which only people close to the Scorpio see.

The private side of the scorp you will see the emotional side something you don't see when she has her mask on.

While I agree,

not all sides are created equal!

So don't take that to heart OP (:

Some are good,some amazing, some are awful, some need to mature. LIKE ALL SIGNS.

But yes, many don't let people see that "other side."

She has that, trust me.

OP is back


didn't think this was going to get that many replies lol,

So to answer a bit.

By "game" I meant not standing idle and waiting for something to happen, not that I actually go around acting like something I'm not, probably the word has negative connotations and should've avoided the term I guess.

Posted by Rabbit
Fucking amateurs.

Yeah, says the one who didn't figure out how I learned about her sign huh... lol 😉

Thanks for your insight and all girl/guys

But I'm afraid I found out she's taken, I'm not going any further with this. Nobody likes a homewrecker, moving on.

Good day and thanks again!