Except for dying and sleeping with their best friend?
How do you break up with a Scorpion Woman?
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the real question is... why would you want to break up with a scorpio woman..
Posted by xr0yc3x
the real question is... why would you want to break up with a scorpio woman..
Agreed seeing as doing so would be tantamount to suicide...
lol
It seems to be nigh impossible, save for my original 2 suggestions 😛
It seems to be nigh impossible, save for my original 2 suggestions 😛
Posted by scorpio_chic
already Caj— I thought you just met this chick.. LOL
She's just like all the others :\
Well, become boring to her. Act like you don't wanna leave the house. Don't give her sex. Don't show her any attention. Neglect her, bore her, she'll be turned off in no time and you won't have to break up with her, she'll do it for you. And she won't hate you or hold resentment towards you.. she just won't want you anymore and she'll seek your replacement.
Well... being boring isn't really my thing.
I have been mean to her though, and I swear, that's how Scorpios like it.
They LOVE being treated badly, and working for their rewards/good treatment.
It boggles my frakkin' mind!
I'm not trying to be funny, lol this is just the truth. Unless you don't mind the sting, the resentment, the hard feelings that are bound to come if you break her heart.click to expand
I can handle that, piece of cake.
Posted by scorpio_chic
That has nothing to do with her being a scorpio. You just described a young, dumb bitch on the verge of desperation.
This isn't the first time I've done this to a Scorpio...
Posted by buttercupSG
i didn't get a feeling that cj you liked her too much from day one by reading your posts about her
just tell her the truth. don't play the game of being mean or distant. she may not be as pathetic as you made her sound as.
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It's not a game, I'm just a mean person.
I do like her, she's just got a lot of bad red flags and I have not seen her much recently.
He's not Lauren. Caj is a stand up human being with quite a lot going on upstairs.
Cajun
sounds like She left you, before you left her....
just tell her it is over and get it over with.
Perhaps you are meant to date OLDER Scorpios... 😉
sounds like She left you, before you left her....
just tell her it is over and get it over with.
Perhaps you are meant to date OLDER Scorpios... 😉
Posted by buttercupSG
anywayz, i still think one should be honest and not drag another's heart along by being vague/indirect. it's matter of whether you are doing the right thing. tell straight up that you want to break up and there is nothing she can do to fix it.
It would seem that obvious aye, but this does not work on Scorpios.
Fumi, I definitely think so 😛
Lauren89, I've been stung so many times, I'm practically immune to that bs
Posted by wtf?
repressed love for drama..
it comes from your leo moon..
they all sensed it..
it's like honey for bees..
immature scorpios will hunt you down..
till the day you die..
Dr Libra
Fabulous, just fabulous...
Posted by * Tasha *
"Lauren89, I've been stung so many times, I'm practically immune to that bs"
^^^ dude cajun LMFAO!!!
hahahaha. me too me too!! 😄
lol, it's always the same crap.
I swear Scorpios will say anything to hurt you, pathetic really.
yo what about that Cancer chick...?click to expand
Been out of contact for a while, looking to keep it that way 🙂
Posted by * Tasha *
^^^^^ hahaahahah god...i love it!!!!!!
Haha, what is so amusing? 😛
Posted by scorpio_chic
ON THE FLIPSIDE, this situation isn't about love at all I highly doubt there is any love involved. But at the same time, like I said she's a young dumb girl. It has more to do with age than anything. And the fact that he's acting the way that he's acting ('mean' -- his own words) says a lot about HIS AGE too and for that reason, I disagree with seavix. I think he wouldn't know what to do with a grown scorpio woman if he had one. LMAOclick to expand
I'm pretty sure the idea of "mean" you have is far from what I do.
I'm playful mean, not serious mean.
Scorpios always hold unto love or what they perceive as love, I don't think it's justified to call her stupid.
I'm sure you have done similar things in your years.
Posted by Let*It*Be
It's like ianthefish said..games.
I didn't really understand what he meant by that.
Fumi also had it right, she dumped you first, and you are simply playin tough virgo with an attempt to justify why she left you, because in reality you don't know why she did.
Wrong. She did not dump me.
Either that or what you have done to her as described above is true, you made a conscious decision to drive her away because you fell too hard and couldn't handle it.
Wrong. I was detached.
For the record and for future reference, most scorpio females would have left you in silence if treated the way you feel you think ^^that's the way they want to be treated.
Well I have been right 5/5 times thus far. So I seem to only meet the "smaller" Scorpio population it seems.
Looks like you set this whole thing up Caj...and it bit you in the ass.
lmao
You really don't know me.
Your remorse shows by the last statement where all of a sudden you describe your initial posts bragging meaness and then later describe it as "playful"
I was not bragging at all. My just a generally mean guy, in a playful way.
Translation: You've been stung with silence and OUCH!! that smarts.. just my opinion of course.click to expand
lol
Trust me, the Scorpio sting is completely useless against me.
Posted by passinatescorp
To cajunspirit, I think your just fool of yourself, but Im probably sure you'll admit to that. By the way, what is your sign?
How do you believe I fooled my self?
I'm a Virgo, Scorpio kryptonite.
Posted by passinatescorp
I meant, I looked up your profile and you can tell you think your the shit, am I right?
Your english confuses me a bit.
Yes, I am confident and arrogant.
Are you making a personal attack?
Posted by jade_dragon
Why are people giving Cajun shit for wanting to break up with a girl?
It's not like he did anything bad to her, he just isn't feeling it (the relationship).....
Why does it seem like some of you guys are taking it personally or something??
Weird.......
Thank you jade... I was honest, upfront, did not lie or cheat.
Apparently men can do nothing right...
Posted by passinatescorp
It takes alot for a person to admit that they're arrogant, or admit to their faults. But that's a whole other post.
So how do you believe I have fooled myself?
Because it seems as though you are suggesting I have fooled myself into believing I am "the sh*t" when you think otherwise.
Posted by passinatescorp
That's not what I meant, sorry if im not grammatically correct, it's just that, im at work, so im trying to type as fast as i can before someone catches me, lol. Anyways, in your pics, you just have this "yeah i look good" and it seems like your a womanizer, but that's just my observation, I could be wrong. There's nothing wrong with having confidence, but being cocky is another thing.
Ah, I see and being a typical Scorpio, you will reserve any comments on just how attractive you find me 😉
As for the womaniser talk, I get it from women all the time. But it is so far from the truth.... *sigh*
Posted by seavixen2
Caj...
red flags ARE NEVER a good sign, regardless of what sign they are! Listen to your gut.
The push/pull, disappearing acts, silent treatments are tough and baffling~not "all" scorps do it...but apparently, you've got YET another one that does...
I think your best bet is just be honest, direct, short and to the point. Some women will try and woo you back if you mean something to them, but just move on and don't look back. I hope it goes well for you.click to expand
Yeah, I know. But the directness had no effect. Scorpios are obsessive and persistent remember?
This is the 4th Scorpio I've dated, young and immature. I honestly tire of it, young Scorpios live in a bubble and it is a big turn off.
Why must I be chastised for my decision to end a relationship?
Is it not normal?
Would it not be worse to allow the relationship to go on with resentment festering in the background?
Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
Must be the typical immature Virgo thing. They never admit when they are wrong, and are stubborn as hell; just like we Scorpios.
Ciao
I do admit when I am wrong, I told her I was wrong for what I did to her.
What immaturity are you referring?
I decided to end a relationship, how is that immature?
Posted by scorpio_chic
You're missing the point boo. I highly doubt anyone here cares whether you left her, why you left her or if she left you. That is all irrelevant and no one was giving you a hard time about wanting to leave her alone. I say it's better to stop wasting her time NOW than to let this drag on. We have little tolerance for people who are a waste of our time.
Yet you made implications of lacking maturity on my part, reference to my age and suggested I would not be able to deal with an older Scorpio, or any for that matter.
Nobody really cares that you want to end the relationship. But all that "mean pride" bullshit is what is irritating the most because it's insincere. And we despise the superficial. Everyone else thinks you're 'confident' but your boasting and bragging tells me different. Confidence speaks for itself.
What "mean pride"?
I am proud of who I am and I am very sincere. I have no reason to be otherwise.
Leave that crazy girl alone. You'll be doing her a big favor and YES I think she's stupid because you said it yourself.. you treat her badly and she comes back for more. That's not exactly an 'intelligent' thing to do. Both of y'all are on the same immature shit. That's why she's not letting you go and that's why YOU'RE posting threads about her online.click to expand
Clearly your understanding of mean is a far cry from my execution...
This is usually the case, fear not.
Posted by valeria25
OHhhhhh I had to go peek at CJ's photos! 😄
CJ!! SOOOO HOT! 😄 😉
(off topic cause I got distracted) LOL
😄!!!
*Blushies*
How do you break up with a Scorpion Woman?
change country. the only possible way. they - socprio women and men - will obsess over you and stalk you for decades.
change cell number , too. it helps.
change country. the only possible way. they - socprio women and men - will obsess over you and stalk you for decades.
change cell number , too. it helps.
Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
See Cajunspirit, don't take it personal; you're being too defensive!
Well seeing as the trend of the thread totally went off the topic course and began to focus on me, it was only natural to see your post in a similar light.
I am just giving my generalized opinion over Virgos that I have known!!!! The good and the bad characteristics. Of course Virgos are highly intelligent, but most of the ones that I have met, have that arrogant stubborn attitude, when it comes for them to admit when they're wrong. An immature thing!Too me that is the biggest and most annoying flaw they have, because they tend to close on themselves selfishly and usually, I have noticed that whenever they don't want to admit that they made a mistake and that they know they were the ones that did the mistake, they tend to pull away and ignore you. That's just extremely rude and coward! What the hell, why not admit your mistakes and fix up the situation. It's not like because you've made a mistake, that means that you're weak. No, on the contrary, we all make mistakes, and if you admit your wrongs, then you'll be much respected and understood, don't you think?
Yes, what you are saying is true.
On your part, if you say that you admitted your wrong doings to her, then you must be more mature. A good thing!
Unfortunately, I don't know what you did to her. I would have to see her side of the situation too.
No, I am not calling you an immature person and actually you did a mature decision by breaking up with a troubled relationship!
Logically, what's the point of being in a relationship were, all you get is heartaches, headaches and coldness(NO LOVE). I would get the hell out too, even if I adore that person.
It old her everything up front more or less, point blank.
And she still wanted to be with me. Said she enjoyed everything about the relationship, truly amazing.
I was just generalizing over most Virgos that I know. And to make it clear and not create confusion; because I have met Virgos that arrogant, and don't like admitting their faults, does not mean that all of them are like that!
Much respect, and all I'm doing is just giving my point of view, and I don't want to offend anyone. =)
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Thank you for clearing that up and sharing.
Posted by ladymacbeth
How do you break up with a Scorpion Woman?
change country. the only possible way. they - socprio women and men - will obsess over you and stalk you for decades.
change cell number , too. it helps.
My first Scorpio ex is abroad and still obsessed/obsesses over me 😐
Posted by passinatescorp
Having relationships with a few scorpio girls give you an ego booster?
Nope
Posted by passinatescorp
My first Scorpio ex is abroad and still obsessed/obsesses over me 😐
^Man what did these crazy broads do to blow your head up (not literally of course)?click to expand
She told me she is lonely there, has no friends. Emails, calls, tries to convince me to add her back on Facebook.
No matter how many times I told her I don't want to be her friend, she still persists.
You Scorpios talk tough and put on a strong front, but you're all weak underneath. Weak and Pathetic when in love.
Posted by CajunspiritPosted by passinatescorp
Having relationships with a few scorpio girls give you an ego booster?
Nope
Posted by passinatescorp
My first Scorpio ex is abroad and still obsessed/obsesses over me 😐
^Man what did these crazy broads do to blow your head up (not literally of course)?
She told me she is lonely there, has no friends. Emails, calls, tries to convince me to add her back on Facebook.
No matter how many times I told her I don't want to be her friend, she still persists.
You Scorpios talk tough and put on a strong front, but you're all weak underneath. Weak and Pathetic when in love.click to expand
True, cajun.
you do not deserve scorpio love.
find someone you enjoy kicking your ass... making you want to run after her... because she doesn't give a damn for you
much happiness with such!
interesting. like reading "diary of two psychos." one can't accept fault/blame (virgo), the other does nothing but blame (scorp) and two huge egos are at the center. at the end of the day, whomever's cross is bigger wins.
how do you break-up with any fixed sign? die.
1. be nice. you don't have to be rude/mean. in fact, being rude causes confusion and makes us want to know more. WHY do you hate me?...that's right, you don't so be nice.
2. be honest. we'll brood over lies and eventually figure out the real deal which will really piss us off. i mean, you can't get away with playing us for a fool...don't make us seek revenge.
3. be clear. explain why it's not working for you. we'll pledge to change but hey, we're fixed. if we wanted to change we would've done so already...avoid being manipulated.
4. be in control. vulnerability can be a turn-on for both of you...keep your hands to yourself.
5. be fixed (die). once it's over, it's over. period...so die bitch or we'll kill you.
if you've done this, you've CLEARLY explained in a mature manner why you two can no longer be together so don't answer phone/texts/emails. any positive signs from you will be misconstrued as an "in" and depending on our level of hurt/desperation, we may not simply walk through an open door...we'll sledgehammer our way through it.
with scorp, it will be relentless so "die" before they "kill" you/themselves with crazy antics.
so yes, cajun you have to die...figuratively. luckily, virgo is very good at this so polish your cross, erect it in your virgoan desert, climb atop and just die. you'll be happy playing martyr and she'll eventually tire of stinging herself. win-win.
how do you break-up with any fixed sign? die.
1. be nice. you don't have to be rude/mean. in fact, being rude causes confusion and makes us want to know more. WHY do you hate me?...that's right, you don't so be nice.
2. be honest. we'll brood over lies and eventually figure out the real deal which will really piss us off. i mean, you can't get away with playing us for a fool...don't make us seek revenge.
3. be clear. explain why it's not working for you. we'll pledge to change but hey, we're fixed. if we wanted to change we would've done so already...avoid being manipulated.
4. be in control. vulnerability can be a turn-on for both of you...keep your hands to yourself.
5. be fixed (die). once it's over, it's over. period...so die bitch or we'll kill you.
if you've done this, you've CLEARLY explained in a mature manner why you two can no longer be together so don't answer phone/texts/emails. any positive signs from you will be misconstrued as an "in" and depending on our level of hurt/desperation, we may not simply walk through an open door...we'll sledgehammer our way through it.
with scorp, it will be relentless so "die" before they "kill" you/themselves with crazy antics.
so yes, cajun you have to die...figuratively. luckily, virgo is very good at this so polish your cross, erect it in your virgoan desert, climb atop and just die. you'll be happy playing martyr and she'll eventually tire of stinging herself. win-win.
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
True, cajun.
you do not deserve scorpio love.
find someone you enjoy kicking your ass... making you want to run after her... because she doesn't give a damn for you
much happiness with such!
Haha, thanks, I'll try 🙂
Posted by valeria25
Wow. The guy really just wanted to break up with the girl because he saw "red flags"; he still likes her but he doesn't want to be with her. Wants only the best for her, it seems.
Why the hostility towards him? And wishing him ill-will? Does he deserve that? I'm trying to see what's wrong on his end, but if he hasn't cheated, then that's the best I could hope for any man to give respect to any woman who wants to walk away "clean".
I know it's hard for a lot of women to accept that some men just aren't for them. And vice versa. It's really hard, and it's painful, knowing that that man, you think you had gripped beneath your fingers would *never* want to leave. Or vice versa. What am I missing?
The logic in my head imagines them all reminsicing on breaking up and how they felt and lookie here is a guy asking how to break up with one, let's flurry him!
Posted by aquilascorpiusfemina
I'm glad that what I wrote was cleared, Cajun!
Super 🙂
And don't judge all Scorpios. I don't chase when a relationship is over and I just look forward(as a matter of fact, they have chased me). I have learned to be strong headed and not follow my
heart; to let go!! I just Focus on me, I love me!!hehehe, who's gonna love me better than myself??ME!!!!
Heehee 🙂
By the way, still, my best friends have being Virgos; they have being the only ones that I can trust! I love how they are, even with their flaws, like we all have!
=D
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Awesome
Posted by hikoroPosted by valeria25
Why the hostility towards him? And wishing him ill-will? Does he deserve that? What am I missing?
Well. Caj's ex was a Sag who did many things that did not please him: smoking, drinking, flirting with other men in his presence. She even cheated on him but he forgave her. Caj always mentioned/complained about her habits on the boards but despite of this, he loved this Sag girl. At the end, she broke up with him.
Some insight was given to me from a Pisces of all people.
I recall the Sag used to always blurt out "Well break up with me!" which always confused me.
When she broke up with me, the next day she said " I did not think you would allow it".
So the Pisces suggested that she told me she had a boyfriend when she did not, much like the other times to get an emotional reaction.
Now, as you all should know, such things are utterly ineffective on a Virgo.
What some people may be alluding is to the fact that more often than not, young Virgo men or lower Virgos tend to fall in love/love/ prefer problematic women in order to fix and perfect them. It feeds the Virgo's arrogance and a Virgo with a Leo moon like Caj, imagine. On the other hand, they will reject the good girl. Even Sorti mentioned this on another thread. Most of the Virgo men I have met have gone through this phase.
Yes, this Scorpio had problems too, trust me.
I had no zeal to fix them though.
I think that this is more of the Leo moon speaking and not the Virgo, a Leo moon needs and desires drama and if none exists, then there is no excitement. Regardless, I don't see leo and scorpio as being compatible anyways. Leo needs to be worshiped and Scorpio does not care much for that.click to expand
I was actually thinking about that some time after. I need to be told I am attractive and she always hesitated or straight out never stroked my ego.
Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by hikoroPosted by buttercupSG
* a person with compassion and empathy would try everything he/she can to "minimize hurting" someone likes/loves him/her
Cajun has been honest and admitted that he is horrible with empathy. So....
Which is fine.. So at the same time, he and everyone else should understand why we're not being understanding or empathetic of HIM. 😉
I am not looking for empathy.
I made a simple topic with a jeering statement.
Typical Scorpios choose to dig deeper or make randon statements, when a pertinent question was asked.
I don't think we're being mean or attacking him like everyone is saying. LOL We're women with opinions. He came to share his story & this is our feedback, these are our opinions.click to expand
There were many statements and implications that I am immature, wrong, unjustified and foolish for doing what I thought was for the best.
I did not lie, I did not cheat, I did not build her up and break her down. I told her everything plain as day.
Posted by buttercupSG
to val, jade and cj -
the reason that many folks here found cj's posts distasteful is not because he wants to break up, it's his ATTITUDE (now i'm just being fair so don't piss off at me now i have nothing against you cj lol). it's the OH SHE IS SO WEAK I KNOW HER BETTER THAN SHE KNOWS HERSELF OF COURSE I"M VIRGO CJ WHO ELSE!!! SHE HAS OH GOD SO MANY FAULTS I'M NOT SAYING THAT BUT I TALK LIKE I"M NEAR PERFECT I CANNOT EVEN SEE WHY IT WAS NOT RIGHT TO USE HER WEAKNESS AGAINST HER BY BEING MEAN TO HER LOL.
well cj himself says he is arrogant and mean so don't blame me i'm not taking sides i'm simply fair 😛.
I could predict her and read her thoughts from the time we started courting. I am very familiar with the Scorpio woman's thought patterns and familiarity breeds contempt.
I never suggsted I was perfect at all, where in the hell did you pull that from?
Oh and I only recently mentioned her having faults. Me saying "Red flag" means it is something I do not approve of... not a fault persay. Fault is a strong word.
now being arrogant is one thing. being arrogant and mean while trying to break up is another. it shows a person's true color if you ask me. where is the empathy? any compassion towards a girl who you once felt something? even just a tiny little bit? a person with compassion and empathy would try everything he/she can to hurt someone likes/ove him/her. if cj your ex sag came here talking about how pathetic you were while she was trying to get rid of you, how would that make you feel? you indeed sounded unkind.
I did try, but it seems impossible with a Scorpio woman, to get her to part.
I told her how I felt, what I wanted and what I had been thinking, yet STILL she persisted in suggesting we stay together.
That's the whole reason for this topic!
Which has gone so astray...
we all complains about our ex or current but not everyone uses a degrading tone. and that says something about the person.click to expand
You see tones in my writing? Amazing.
About time caj i was waiting for u to see the light lol. welcome back my brother don't mind the hate of scorps they talk about virgos being arrogant u can see theirs in this thread. Like someone can't break up with them or not feel them any more. Well this happens to scorpios a lot bc i haven't meet a scorpio male or female that did have a sad story about how there ex did them dirty. In fact when i see a scorp in the back of my head im wondering what sad story will they tell me. So i can feel sorry for them. Back to the point tell one of her deep secrets that should do it.
anyone as perfect as my ex Virgo. But he blew it!! And I am very sure of that he will never meet someone as close as *I* was to him.
I still see him online occasionally, but I will NEVER instigate anything again. The decision he gave is final for me.
The irony of Virgo man is, that he DOES linger on his old relationship. It's like punishment to himself more than anything else.
In his rational mind, he likes to believe on being capable to abstract feeling. It is attached to your flesh as it is to ours, my dear friend.
It is *OK* to still care,
But do care responsibly...
you owe her closure
I still see him online occasionally, but I will NEVER instigate anything again. The decision he gave is final for me.
The irony of Virgo man is, that he DOES linger on his old relationship. It's like punishment to himself more than anything else.
In his rational mind, he likes to believe on being capable to abstract feeling. It is attached to your flesh as it is to ours, my dear friend.
It is *OK* to still care,
But do care responsibly...
you owe her closure
It is not about WHY he wants to break up, it is about HOW he needs to break up. And I'm saying again...
If you want to break up with a girl, Get your guts together, be kind, direct, upfront, and tell her 'it is Over!'.
DRAW the line!
Tell her, I wish you well. You need to move on. That's the best I can do by being honest and direct. And please, do not try getting in touch with me again, because that will not change my feelings for you.
She might get emotional, swear, cry, throw a tantrum (that's what guys think!), but she might laugh and stay cold (that's what I think she will do!).
You may get a stinger or two, but it will be short and clean thereafter.
Because SCORPS have their prides. We don't want YOU if you DO NOT want us anymore...
so no dragging tactics please... to all the guys who wonder how to break up with a scorp girl.
If you want to break up with a girl, Get your guts together, be kind, direct, upfront, and tell her 'it is Over!'.
DRAW the line!
Tell her, I wish you well. You need to move on. That's the best I can do by being honest and direct. And please, do not try getting in touch with me again, because that will not change my feelings for you.
She might get emotional, swear, cry, throw a tantrum (that's what guys think!), but she might laugh and stay cold (that's what I think she will do!).
You may get a stinger or two, but it will be short and clean thereafter.
Because SCORPS have their prides. We don't want YOU if you DO NOT want us anymore...
so no dragging tactics please... to all the guys who wonder how to break up with a scorp girl.
Stop taking her calls.
Buy a handgun.
Hide.
Vary your sleep schedule.
You have a decent likelyhood of surviving till she finds someone else.
Buy a handgun.
Hide.
Vary your sleep schedule.
You have a decent likelyhood of surviving till she finds someone else.
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
Now coming to the weak underneath, I know at two occasions, when my ex VIRGO told me it is over, I said, OK... and it was over for me. But then he used to call me after 3 days as if nothing happened. I took him back. Then he played these, I'm totally with you, I am not with you pathetic games, which kept me puzzled.
Mayve he enjoyed having you on his hook.
Either way... CAJ,
perhaps you DID tell her that you DO NOT want to be with her anymore, which I highly doubt that you were upfront and clear about it to your current/past Scorpio, which I would highly recommend you to do!
I was Fumi-kins, trust me.
Direct, blunt and bland as day.
She still kept asking "if I love her", "if I care about her" and to "give her more time to find someone else".
My previous experiences show, that if you give them a slight bit of hope, they will continue to pursue you.
"I know you care! I know you love me" blah blah blah, and they go with that.
In my opinion, You still like the attention of your ex Scorpio. She invested in her studies, which involved moving away from you. She never could have forgotten about you, because she never broke up with you -- I mean mentally... she had found the perfect man in you. The Gemini guy was just senseless fling to get over you.click to expand
She gave it up to him and now regrets it dearly. I totally cut her off.
She still can't find it in her to admit that I am right and that really pisses me off.
Everything I told her about the people around her came true and she still tells me I was wrong, ugh.
So I disagree, it is not weakness when you still love the person you were with.
Posted by FUMRedFairy_tales
The irony of Virgo man is, that he DOES linger on his old relationship. It's like punishment to himself more than anything else.
In his rational mind, he likes to believe on being capable to abstract feeling. It is attached to your flesh as it is to ours, my dear friend.
True, but this last relationship is not one of "those" for me.
you owe her closureclick to expand
Trust me she has it, in addition to which, she cut me with a razor. So she had her consolation prize of "hurting me back"
Posted by virgoking
About time caj i was waiting for u to see the light lol. welcome back my brother don't mind the hate of scorps they talk about virgos being arrogant u can see theirs in this thread. Like someone can't break up with them or not feel them any more. Well this happens to scorpios a lot bc i haven't meet a scorpio male or female that did have a sad story about how there ex did them dirty. In fact when i see a scorp in the back of my head im wondering what sad story will they tell me. So i can feel sorry for them. Back to the point tell one of her deep secrets that should do it.
LOL
I dislike words that contain "pathetic".
Sympathetic, Empathetic, ugh!
Posted by satori
But Cajun, I will say that I understand why you want to end things with the Scorp but what I don't get is what you ever saw in her to begin with? I've read some of your posts about her and it seems you had already made up your mind about her from the start and all you ever did was complain about her vices. You're a smart guy. What gave you the impression that this Scorp would be any different from the others you dated?
Well, I did not want to generalise as I normally do. Thought she could be different and possibly better than the rest by miles.
So I gave her a chance.
Posted by jade_dragon
I remember those discussions of Cajun's Sag ex......what I find interesting is that those convos never turned into an extravaganza of name-calling and passing judgment.
Unlike this one.....
It amazes me how insecure Scorpios are, on the whole.
Cajun:
SOME of the advice in this thread is actually pretty good. I would just take a very direct (and immediate) approach, like Fumi suggested.....
Don't let it drag on for too long.....
🙂
Trust me, it's a done deal 🙂
Posted by sikkario
Stop taking her calls.
Buy a handgun.
Hide.
Vary your sleep schedule.
You have a decent likelyhood of surviving till she finds someone else.click to expand
LOL!!!
e>Posted by CajunspiritPosted by virgoking
About time caj i was waiting for u to see the light lol. welcome back my brother don't mind the hate of scorps they talkabout virgos being arrogant u can see theirs in this thread. Like someone can't break up with them or not feel them any more. Well this happens to scorpios a lot bc i haven't meet a scorpio male or female that did have a sad story about how there ex did them dirty. In fact when i see a scorp in the back of my head im wondering what sad story will they tell me. So i can feel sorry for them. Back to the point tell one of heRrdeep secrets that should do it.
LOL I dislike words that contain "pathetic". Sympathetic, Empathetic, ugh!click to expand
me and u both caj it must be a virgo thing or sum thing, what they call sympathetic i call it dressing up the truth to each his own blahhh
Posted by seavixen2
ok.....
How accurate this is..I don't know. It comes from the book "Astrotwin's Love Zodiac"
Breaking up with Scorpio:
"So you want to end things. Best of luck, because it won't be pretty. He/she will obsess over you for years on end. Scorpio men/women bond at the soul level, so when you leave him/her, it will feel like you've ripped out a piece of her insides. Even if you break up because she won't commit, or you're sick of waiting, it doesn't matter. She will still blame and resent you in some way.
She's the Queen of the 'curtain call," so don't be surprised if she comes back a few months later, attempting to charm you back. Do not, we repeat, do not have sex with her. If you sleep with her, you're done. This gal uses sex as a weapon. She'll make sure she gives you the lay of a lifetime, at once punishing you for leaving her and making it impossible to get her out of your system. The powerful oxytocin "bonding hormone"will add another 5 years to your relationship."
Sounds pretty accurate... but being a Virgo man with Capricorn Rising, I'm immune 😛
it's true seavix. i think you/someone posted something like this before?
similar things happen with taurus but manifest in different ways which is why your only out is to figuratively die. we can't rekindle a romance with a dead guy so where it's harsh and it hurts to be ignored, don't give. ANY wavering on your part puts you back at square one.
i mean think about it. it's difficult for us to change. it's a process that takes time and unfortunately, a lot of relationships end in a wishy-washy sorta way.
the WORST thing that someone could do is ignore me after a break-up. it will rip my heart out. there will be so many tears and aching resentment but for a guy who doesn't want me, the best thing he can do for me is to die...figuratively. when i get clear of the pain, we might actually be friends but i have to make the change first before we can engage in a healthy manner. i'd say the same goes for scorps. without the figurative death...
breakup toxicity goes from scorpio taurus leo aquarius with scorps being POTENTIALLY the most destructive (to their mates). a scorpio will set out to destroy you. a taurus will destroy herself.
just my two cents.
similar things happen with taurus but manifest in different ways which is why your only out is to figuratively die. we can't rekindle a romance with a dead guy so where it's harsh and it hurts to be ignored, don't give. ANY wavering on your part puts you back at square one.
i mean think about it. it's difficult for us to change. it's a process that takes time and unfortunately, a lot of relationships end in a wishy-washy sorta way.
the WORST thing that someone could do is ignore me after a break-up. it will rip my heart out. there will be so many tears and aching resentment but for a guy who doesn't want me, the best thing he can do for me is to die...figuratively. when i get clear of the pain, we might actually be friends but i have to make the change first before we can engage in a healthy manner. i'd say the same goes for scorps. without the figurative death...
breakup toxicity goes from scorpio taurus leo aquarius with scorps being POTENTIALLY the most destructive (to their mates). a scorpio will set out to destroy you. a taurus will destroy herself.
just my two cents.
Posted by buttercupSG
well i can tell you the same that i'm familiar with virgos they are everywhere lol just like you think you are familiar with scorps so i can pull anything from what i think i know just like you think you know scorps of course right? lol.
I don't "think" I know, I do know.
and regarding "familiarity breeds contempt", as someone else points out earlier, it's obvious that you are more attracted to girls who are not as attacted to you. your other posts about cancers and ex sag also supported this point of view. there is nothing wrong with it. many ppl are like you. but that's usually how things work in this world. you get what you give. you get what you give to the ones you are less crazy about from those you are crazy about.
You have quite some audacity to speak of these other relationships I mentioned, without anything more than surface level knowledge.
That Sag and I made a year together, the longest relationship I have been in. Stop speaking out of your ass.
btw, i give you credit that you indeed only recently started mention your scorp having "red flags" you do not approve of. it's an obvious improvement from the many posts where you complained about the list of things you didn't approve of your sag ex for sure. it's admirable for such a change in a short time.
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Much like a Libra or Scorpio, I was in love and allowed myself to let things be. A mistake I am not intent on making again.
oh yes... cajun is an enigma where u either love him or u hate him... unless ur someone like me and thinks the whole thing is just funny.
he tends to rub me the wrong way a lot of the time as well but i don't dislike him. he sure is smart but he's also an arrogant 21 year old male. i expect nothing less.
oh, btw caj, u CAN convey tone through writing if ur talented at it, which u obviously are! u have a way of eliciting strong emotional responses from ur readers. i don't know much about u but i hope u hone this skill and do something truly productive with it... and get real paid!
off topic, i know, sorry :p
he tends to rub me the wrong way a lot of the time as well but i don't dislike him. he sure is smart but he's also an arrogant 21 year old male. i expect nothing less.
oh, btw caj, u CAN convey tone through writing if ur talented at it, which u obviously are! u have a way of eliciting strong emotional responses from ur readers. i don't know much about u but i hope u hone this skill and do something truly productive with it... and get real paid!
off topic, i know, sorry :p
Posted by buttercupSG
anywayz, i do wish you best of luck. you do have a heart so let it shine!
Thank you kindly, sweetie 🙂
Posted by ninjamu
oh yes... cajun is an enigma where u either love him or u hate him... unless ur someone like me and thinks the whole thing is just funny.
So long as it is not negative, I am content 🙂
he tends to rub me the wrong way a lot of the time as well but i don't dislike him. he sure is smart but he's also an arrogant 21 year old male. i expect nothing less.
Proud too 🙂
oh, btw caj, u CAN convey tone through writing if ur talented at it, which u obviously are! u have a way of eliciting strong emotional responses from ur readers. i don't know much about u but i hope u hone this skill and do something truly productive with it... and get real paid!click to expand
I had no idea, honestly.
Thanks for informing me.
valeria25: maybe ur looking at him too subjectively and through rose-tinted glasses. maybe ur arrogant as well so u strongly identify with him therefore u can't see it. i'm not taking jabs i'm just trying to come up with rational reasons why u may not see it clearly... or at all in this case. ur right, he is confident but he is also arrogant. he openly admits this, and if he can see it, why can't u? someone got an e-crush or what? *wink wink* haha, i'm just teasing u.
Who wouldn't have an e-crush...CJ's HOT!! Same eyes as the young Doc on Grey's 🙂
Posted by sweethearts
Who wouldn't have an e-crush...CJ's HOT!! Same eyes as the young Doc on Grey's 🙂
Heeeheehee *naughty grin* 🙂
Thanks!
oh man! just wanted to let you know that i read this post and i understand what you are going through very well (as you already know). good luck with everything man!
i haven't spoken with my scorpio #1 many days now....left her last 3 messages hanging, because i am determined to take as much time as i need to before (and if) any new contact is ever necessary...and have left thing very clearly with scorpio # 2 (who i never officially dated or even kissed, thanks to miss scorpio 1 getting back in my life) a while ago...and even though she doesn't seem to be over things completely, even though nothing other thand dates came up from it...i have no issues with her.
it is scorpio # 1 i need to watch out for....we dated for months on and off as you know and i DO like her and feel very attracted to her still, but her inmaturity and lack of communication and perhaps even commitment...left me with no choice but to let things go...again. sad, because i had more hope for us too... we can talk for hours and i don't find anything wrong during those time. i swear her adorable face and ways does not match her crazy and inmature behavior sometimes...really. perhaps that is why i felt so confused at times. when we are together is like everything is back or continuing...but when we are apart, she goes back to her inmature ways...and selfish moments. i got tired for a bit. i needed a break.
it might have to do with their level of maturity bud. i met some wonderful more mature scorpio women here....perhaps young scorpios for the most part (but not always) need a bit more experiences in life before they know how to deal with certain things....you know. just a thought.
it's hard friend...because i feel the connection. but when i remember some of things she has done lately...her inmature ways and all that crap...i just feel unsure again. i think now its pretty much a matter of time again. time will show me many things. stay focused and remember everything...the good and the bad...it will keep things in perspective and allow you to see the big picture to keep things real within you.
also, study the 'maturity' leve concept with them...it might be a fact for the most part...if you know what i am trying to say...elaborate your thoughts a bit before you can make any next moves in that area again and keep whatever findings and facts you found out in mind...for the next time.
all the best.
truthseeker.
i haven't spoken with my scorpio #1 many days now....left her last 3 messages hanging, because i am determined to take as much time as i need to before (and if) any new contact is ever necessary...and have left thing very clearly with scorpio # 2 (who i never officially dated or even kissed, thanks to miss scorpio 1 getting back in my life) a while ago...and even though she doesn't seem to be over things completely, even though nothing other thand dates came up from it...i have no issues with her.
it is scorpio # 1 i need to watch out for....we dated for months on and off as you know and i DO like her and feel very attracted to her still, but her inmaturity and lack of communication and perhaps even commitment...left me with no choice but to let things go...again. sad, because i had more hope for us too... we can talk for hours and i don't find anything wrong during those time. i swear her adorable face and ways does not match her crazy and inmature behavior sometimes...really. perhaps that is why i felt so confused at times. when we are together is like everything is back or continuing...but when we are apart, she goes back to her inmature ways...and selfish moments. i got tired for a bit. i needed a break.
it might have to do with their level of maturity bud. i met some wonderful more mature scorpio women here....perhaps young scorpios for the most part (but not always) need a bit more experiences in life before they know how to deal with certain things....you know. just a thought.
it's hard friend...because i feel the connection. but when i remember some of things she has done lately...her inmature ways and all that crap...i just feel unsure again. i think now its pretty much a matter of time again. time will show me many things. stay focused and remember everything...the good and the bad...it will keep things in perspective and allow you to see the big picture to keep things real within you.
also, study the 'maturity' leve concept with them...it might be a fact for the most part...if you know what i am trying to say...elaborate your thoughts a bit before you can make any next moves in that area again and keep whatever findings and facts you found out in mind...for the next time.
all the best.
truthseeker.
truthseeker --
you don't sound very mature to me by leaving the Scorpio woman's 3 messages hanging.
What's with guys and ignoring a person?
Can't you live up to your responsibility of communication yourself?? Is that how you resolve your relationship problems by just not responding?
Can you define immaturity please? What do you think she is doing that irritates you?
you don't sound very mature to me by leaving the Scorpio woman's 3 messages hanging.
What's with guys and ignoring a person?
Can't you live up to your responsibility of communication yourself?? Is that how you resolve your relationship problems by just not responding?
Can you define immaturity please? What do you think she is doing that irritates you?
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