How to make my fantasies become a reality

Good morning scorpios
I arrive to your domain for advice. Lately I have been visiting to dark places sexually, in fantasy (nothing TO crazy) and I want to act out these things with my scorp man.

What's the best way to go about asking him for this, I feel nervous and scared to have these craving.

Any and all advices are much appreciated!

Posted by rainbowdance
Good morning scorpios
I arrive to your domain for advice. Lately I have been visiting to dark places sexually, in fantasy (nothing TO crazy) and I want to act out these things with my scorp man.

What's the best way to go about asking him for this, I feel nervous and scared to have these craving.

Any and all advices are much appreciated!

Your dark fantasies....
Would they involve somethinnnnnnnnnng like this—?

Posted by starlover
HOW dark
How DARK?

😆

Demonically possessed sex, likely.

As if to say, her fantasy is actually with a demon. Her Scorpio would become possessed by the demon, which would become an incubus or
succubus incarnate. Perhaps both her and her scorpio man become possessed by these demons allowing them to do their thing.



Is that it rainbowdancer?

Or would you much rather tell him that you love him but you want to choke him. A much lighter fair, of course.

Posted by busyeyes88
@FB. Lololololololololololololo What is yr sun sign? Are you indeed scorpio?

No. I am MrFirebird.

Are you, indeed, busyesyes88? (note, you misspelled the first yes)

Be certain, there is a price. Not cheap.

Posted by starlover
Mr F......you have given me an idea of what to put on my Christmas list....that knife could come in quite handy



As a Scorp, i would try most things, but draw the line at incest, animal sex (poor Rover) and Morris dancing, especially Morris dancing, those guys are the sons of Satan, i swear

It's the temptation to commit suicide, isn't it.

Posted by rainbowdance
Good morning scorpios
I arrive to your domain for advice. Lately I have been visiting to dark places sexually, in fantasy (nothing TO crazy) and I want to act out these things with my scorp man.

What's the best way to go about asking him for this, I feel nervous and scared to have these craving.

Any and all advices are much appreciated!

Don't ask. Just do. If it's not his cup of tea, he'll let you know.

Talking about sex (e.g. what you're going a do, want to do, need to do....) is just....meh.

Firebirds, choking is certainly in my realm of desire , but. demon possesion—?? No, but I want to be completely and totaly possessed BY him lel 🙂 you naughty scorp want all the detail 😉

Posted by capricornmoon
He won't let you poop on him sweetie.

GOD NO 😱 what about the other though? Pee yes.

I want exhibition, lite torture........ toys, clamps, whipped, resist sex, etc...... like I am confessing you all........ I am so embarrass 😢

Posted by rainbowdance
I want exhibition, lite torture........ toys, clamps, whipped, resist sex, etc...... like I am confessing you all........ I am so embarrass 😢

Wait, u want him to pee on you? u want torture? toys, resist sex, like being forced? you want him to force you, like rape? God I love you lol

Posted by nov13thscorp

Posted by rainbowdance
I want exhibition, lite torture........ toys, clamps, whipped, resist sex, etc...... like I am confessing you all........ I am so embarrass 😢

Wait, u want him to pee on you? u want torture? toys, resist sex, like being forced? you want him to force you, like rape? God I love you lol

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Yes. I am such nervous to admit it bc I grew up in very religious house hold and it is "bad" so it has to be secret......

I NEED it, not only want........

Posted by rainbowdance

Posted by nov13thscorp

Posted by rainbowdance
I want exhibition, lite torture........ toys, clamps, whipped, resist sex, etc...... like I am confessing you all........ I am so embarrass 😢

Wait, u want him to pee on you? u want torture? toys, resist sex, like being forced? you want him to force you, like rape? God I love you lol

Yes. I am such nervous to admit it bc I grew up in very religious house hold and it is "bad" so it has to be secret......

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You grew up in a WHAT household? I swear, this just keeps getting better and better......U wanna wear your lil innocent "church outfit" to bed? Sorry, im so sorry, that was inappropriate hehehe but trust me, unless he's one of those "square" scorpio types, not sure if they even exists BTW, he'll be more than thrilled to help you with your dark fantasies....have fun 🙂

Posted by rainbowdance
I NEED it, not only want........

Careful of your "NEEDS" because "the price" of your dark lusts is NOT what you need.
If you have an addiction, sooner or later, you will discover that the fix does not satisfy your cravings.
(Like the addiction to smoking, one cigarette isn't enough, you need another, then another, then another.
Sooner or later you are smoking 40 cigarettes a day and you wonder how and why you ever found yourself
in such an awful state.)

Then come the days of torments, DARK unbearably bitter, often unspeakable, torments.
Ignorants will laugh, but I've seen it. The pain of desires unappeased are far less than the pain the follows satisfaction.

Thanks all !!!!!!

Scorpios do you ever feel insatiable? A hunger that can never be satisfied —

I'm am now working the courage to bring these matters to my scorp!

Bid me good luck 😛

Advice still welcome. Curiosity....... scorps.... what's the crziest thing you wanted?? Am I crazy my self?!?!? 😱

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by rainbowdance
I NEED it, not only want........

Careful of your "NEEDS" because "the price" of your dark lusts is NOT what you need.
If you have an addiction, sooner or later, you will discover that the fix does not satisfy your cravings.
(Like the addiction to smoking, one cigarette isn't enough, you need another, then another, then another.
Sooner or later you are smoking 40 cigarettes a day and you wonder how and why you ever found yourself
in such an awful state.)

Then come the days of torments, DARK unbearably bitter, often unspeakable, torments.
Ignorants will laugh, but I've seen it. The pain of desires unappeased are far less than the pain the follows satisfaction.

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Firebird, I find me being fearful of just this occurring !!! Smart man. So do u recommend to leave this "need" unappease?

Posted by starlover
Mr F......you have given me an idea of what to put on my Christmas list....that knife could come in quite handy



As a Scorp, i would try most things, but draw the line at incest, animal sex (poor Rover) and Morris dancing, especially Morris dancing, those guys are the sons of Satan, i swear

Starlover, are trying as you said "most things" typical for for you now or do you settle down into "normal" sex now ??

And what can u tell me of this Morris dance hmmmm

Posted by rainbowdance

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by rainbowdance
I NEED it, not only want........

Careful of your "NEEDS" because "the price" of your dark lusts is NOT what you need.
If you have an addiction, sooner or later, you will discover that the fix does not satisfy your cravings.
(Like the addiction to smoking, one cigarette isn't enough, you need another, then another, then another.
Sooner or later you are smoking 40 cigarettes a day and you wonder how and why you ever found yourself
in such an awful state.)

Then come the days of torments, DARK unbearably bitter, often unspeakable, torments.
Ignorants will laugh, but I've seen it. The pain of desires unappeased are far less than the pain the follows satisfaction.

Firebird, I find me being fearful of just this occurring !!! Smart man. So do u recommend to leave this "need" unappeased?

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I suppose you are just going to have to find out.

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by rainbowdance

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by rainbowdance
I NEED it, not only want........

Careful of your "NEEDS" because "the price" of your dark lusts is NOT what you need.
If you have an addiction, sooner or later, you will discover that the fix does not satisfy your cravings.
(Like the addiction to smoking, one cigarette isn't enough, you need another, then another, then another.
Sooner or later you are smoking 40 cigarettes a day and you wonder how and why you ever found yourself
in such an awful state.)

Then come the days of torments, DARK unbearably bitter, often unspeakable, torments.
Ignorants will laugh, but I've seen it. The pain of desires unappeased are far less than the pain the follows satisfaction.

Firebird, I find me being fearful of just this occurring !!! Smart man. So do u recommend to leave this "need" unappeased?

I suppose you are just going to have to find out.

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PS, I think you would be wise not go down the road your "Dark" desires would have you go. And I would encourage you not to.
But it's your choice. Should you decide to so, and things start getting a little crazy, remember how much better it was when you didn't know.
There are some things that are better left, unknown than to have the knowledge and the confusion, perhaps even intense emotional hurt
that comes with it, should the relationship dissolve and evaporate like a tear drop on the hot desert floor.
Once that genie is out of the bottle. It's hard to put it back.
Again, your choice.

mr. FIrebird shouldnt you be out on a ledge somewhere? youre f*cking depressing.........All she wants to do is take her sexual desires to the next step.....you must be playing devils' advocate or sumthin lol no way you are serious, in anything you say

Posted by t4y
I don't see how all of these things can be good in a relationship. I mean I understand the kinks but they are not healthy at all. I even think that this is the culture that is being thrown upon us women lately with all the hype with 50 shades of grey. They are trying to sell that being beaten up and put on a degrading situation during sex by men is "cool"... I literally can not take that and I am sorry if I am disrespecting the OP. Don't understand how women can go out and about saying how empowered they are and when it is behind the walls, let themselves be dominated this way on the most degrading way ever...

Who are you tell the another woman how to get her sexual rocks off? The nerve...and what is "normal"? what is "healthy"? There goes one of those "one tree hill" answers again...Not all of us are into "All my Children" - "guiding light" sex...... your point is pointless.........The only thing unhealthy is actual rape and child molestation... other than that whatever turns two consenting adults on is "healthy" enough...If its not healthy and normal enough for you dont enter their bedroom.......OP, go nuts 🙂

Posted by t4y
I am not telling her anything. Just expressing my opinions.... no need to be so butthurt about it

im not "butthurt"...im stating my opinion as well...which the OP didnt ask us to begin with....She didnt ask me or you whats normal sexually....she just wanted to know how to bring this up to her scorpio boyfriend

Posted by t4y
A woman that calls herself a dominatrix can't be perfectly sane hehehe but yeah thanks for explaining. I knew my comment would raise those answers, but just because we are so concerned with respecting each others sexuality that any and every twisted thing that comes into peoples mind during sex is becoming acceptable.

But yeah I am out of this topic :O

today is my period day, I get my male-period day once a month (my scorpio male b*tch fit) ...any other day I would just shake my head and move....what DAFUQ gives u right to say whats acceptable and what isnt in others' bedroom? The nerve.......beat it princess

tomorrow I might say sorry for telling you to beat it lol but today im not in the f'ing mood

Posted by t4y
I don't see how all of these things can be good in a relationship. I mean I understand the kinks but they are not healthy at all. I even think that this is the culture that is being thrown upon us women lately with all the hype with 50 shades of grey. They are trying to sell that being beaten up and put on a degrading situation during sex by men is "cool"... I literally can not take that and I am sorry if I am disrespecting the OP. Don't understand how women can go out and about saying how empowered they are and when it is behind the walls, let themselves be dominated this way on the most degrading way ever...

Hello friend, it ok, I do not feel disrespected. Thnx for your input, though I have not known of 50 shades of grey— I say before that this was an embarrassment of topic for me, so I understand and expect for maybe some people to see your view point on my matter. My scorp is very respectful i demand that and would not tolerate anything of less. Does it make sense- maybe I am seeing sexual relationship as separate entity from romantic relationship? I am highly educated female with multiple degree and know many languages (English not my first, clear....), I won't ever settle into abusive relation ship. This is just a desire I wish to explore, it does not say anything about my self confidance I do not feel.

I not sure if that makes sense??

Sorry everyone for to much information, and sorry it turned into big thing.

Thx munchkin and nov13thscorp for havin my back, also to Starlover.

I now have another idea for a Scorp thread bc I am feelin confuse about my feelings toward this matter !!

I don't want my scorpion to become turn off by my wants to explore this realm ­

Posted by t4y
@rainbowdance I am sorry I did not refer to you personally. I was just talking about women that let themselves into that situation when they don't really know what they want. But it seems like that you know what you want. I am sure your scorpio won't get turn off by any of this. So yeaj go ahead wih your fantasies. I am sorry if I semed like I was judging you. Here is a place where everyone can share everything about astrology and other matters so.
It really shouldn't turn into a big thing :X

No no no! I have total understand. You definately cause me to have new ideas about the matter so I am appreciating your post and for making me see another view point!!!