How to push away Taurus man?

He has a newly wed wife who is my friend but he's still after me. He's always been after me before he got married to my friend . I was attracted to him before I knew about my friend . I'd never mess with my friend's man so I was back away and changed my number. My friend knew what was up before they got married because everytime she called me to visit her, the guy kept hanging around me, giving me hugs and ignored her. She was hurt , especially her pride( a Leo woman) . So I disappeared to keep my friendship and her happiness. I found a nice Aquarius guy and has been with him nearly 2 years now. I don't want any troubles from this Taurus but he's so persistent. My friend called me the other day and she looked very hurt. I felt really bad but I want to see my friend still. The problem is if I see her , he'll know my whereabouts for sure. I love my friend and want to see her but now she asks to break up our friendship. I feel so depressed. Am I selfish? How am I going to solve this? The Aquarius boyfriend doesn't know yet but he's so worried to see me sad and losing my appetite. Why why I have to lose my friend? Why doesn't she want to solve this with me? Why she wants to cut me out of her life? I have never meant to take anything away from her. I always back down and leave her with everything she wants. I only want friendship. Now she wants to take this away too because of her pride being hurt? (she told me!)

I'm second decan Scorp if that helps.

Thank you for your reply,Mizaru . I like the cute avatar you have . Did you ever watch anime "Muka Muka Paradise" ? It's a strory about dinasours and magic :
My Leo friend isn't the best friend in the world but she was with me when I was at the lowest point of my life so I always remember it with gratitude. She's a good person at heart though she always wants everything in her own way so since we were little, I always give in things that she demands , including people we've a crush together. She's also insecure about her body weight and has not had much luck in love. This guy is everything to her. She even gave up her university education (despite my advice not to!) to move in with him, play the housewife, plan the wedding. Her wedding was near my final graduation date I still remember. I understand how she feels and I honestly could give up more for her if I could . I really need to find a way to save our friendship instead of just cutting her away so easily. Believe me that I've no problem of cutting friends off and disappear for good. However, this friend is one of the special people in my life. I know I sound pathetic here!

BellaBulleautiful, I've said that. The guy is more persistent. He even told his wife to sign the divorce paper and they've just got married for 6 months! My friend asked me to talk him out of this silly infatuation and I did. He told me that I was a "coward" . I've no idea what he meant. Just because I dropped him for my friend? He's not the only guy in this world but my friendship with her is important. Now they still live in the same house but seperate beds. She said that she might have to give him the "seperation" that he asked so he can think through things (his words!) . Why does taurus do this? I thought you guys are stable , slow -moving in love but loyal and will stick with your partner through thick and thin—

Mirazu , thanks. I'm trying . She invited me for dinner tomorrow. I'll see if there is a chance to repair the friendship.

Nah, I leave him alone but my friend doesn't believe me and wants to end the friendship. I should have changed thte title to "How can I repair my friendship?" instead of this title. I don't care about the Taurus and I don't want to throw drama tantrum/fest like you said. He went so low that he would tell my boyfriend that we used to date? what the hell does that mean? I only talked to him because of my friend . But maybe it's time for me to cut both of them out of my life and call a police to file a restraining order on him. It's just her who told me not to that. I'll see how the dinner goes and decide the next step.

pigeonpie : Yes thanks. It isn't a game to have a score. I value friendship and I'm grateful for what my friends have done for me. If it's always "cut and dry" like material values or how much worth the friend is to keep in contact with them, it's be quite sad. Between, I didn't try to generalise all Taurus like this so please taurus women don't have to overeact at my post. I know most of you are wonderful . Just like leo women.

I know exactly what you're going through. It's hard to get rid of a Taurus once they've fallen madly in love with you. And according to the astrology books, Tauruses are fatally attracted to Scorpios - which is kind of scary. But anyway, i actually had to move out of town to get away from my Taurus ex-boyfriend. That was the best thing I did. I'm not painting all tauruses with the same brush, but they can be very hard at letting go once they've "staked their claim on you."

He found me because my careless friend still have my number and we do have mutual friends . In fact, lots on Facebook and other social network. Yeah, I moved to a different city as well but for my work and study, not because I was a "coward" like he said 😛

No I only want to talk to my friend and we've done so safely for 2 years . The happiest ever with my Aqua boyfriend. Till the Taurus found me. Do you actually read my post, cutiebullie? Why is it always the woman at fault? I'm not the third person here. He's trying to destroy my friendship and my life with someone else. Geez! I'm not dramatic like Taurus neighbour who just hit his wife and controlling her about whoever she meets. In fact, I'm saying he's the third wheel here and yeah, I'll sue him if he tried to stop me when I walk back home again or coming to my office to "talk" or sending love message to my house!. Seriously, the most posessive and crazy man I've ever met!

I didn't even know he exist anymore till he sent me roses to the house!

Cinnamon Girl, I used to think taurus guys would be suitable for me but this experience proved otherwise. I'm trying to stay away from anyone who wants to "stake a claim on me" . Capricorn or Virgo are much better for me I think. And Air sign like Aqua or Gem will give me the freedom 🙂

This is exactly what I've been posting on here about the Taurus/Scorpio relationship but everyone wanted to write me off as Taurus bashing. Every Taurus who has come into my life has either acted creepy around me, stalked me or stared at me for long periods of time. I don't know what's up with that. Once again, I'm not saying that all Tauruses are like this but the ones that I've encountered have all been this way. It's like I put them in a trance or something. I really wish they'd stop acting this way around me. I don't want to intimidate anyone or make anyone feel uncomfortble, but Tauruses tend to become these weirdos around Scorpios.

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Cinnamon Girl, I used to think taurus guys would be suitable for me but this experience proved otherwise. I'm trying to stay away from anyone who wants to "stake a claim on me" . Capricorn or Virgo are much better for me I think. And Air sign like Aqua or Gem will give me the freedom 🙂

Exactly. I don't understand why some of these Tauruses on here keep thinking that they are the best match for Scorpios. Not in MY book! These two are just not right for each other 9 times out of 10! I thnk Aquarius are very good for us Scorpios.

@cutiebullie: We've a meeting , I initiated .Just the three of us because my boyfriend doesn't need to be involved in the mess that he plays no role in. He told her that he wanted a divorce and she literally cried and threw the flower pot I bought for her 3 years ago out of the window! He left and I waited for her to calm down then she asked me to talk to him again not to do this kind of heartless thing . So I did and he called me a "coward" and that he'd tell my bf about we used to date! For God sake, I didn't even consider what we had was real because he lied to me and my friend. He was her bf back then yet he didn't tell me till she introduced him to me!!! What a disaster! Now he said that he could tell my bf the false inf that I tried to steal my friend's bf! What!? You said that why don't I leave them alone and don't complicate things then you contradict yourself by saying that I did nothing for my friend? If I don't , then I could have cut my contact with her 2 years ago for good but I hanged on because my loyalty and my love for her. She was with me at one occasion when I was completely down so I rememebred that. So yeah, I will leave my bf out of this. He doesn't need more complication!

Yes, he sent me flowers after he found me ! It's been 2 years! Why the hell can he just let go!? He was a prince charming too when he was chasing after me but he was a manipulative liar who twisted everything in his favour. Now he even blamed my friend for destroying his happiness that I and he could have! What the hell! We wouldn't have any happiness but disaster and I could never love a manipulative and controlling freak like him! Now, are you satisfied with the information? Please don't take this the wrong way and trying to relate yourself as a Taurus , that I'm insulting Taurus because I'm not. Just this guy is one of a kind!

@Cinnamon Girl: Yes, I've learnt my lesson now. Maybe if the Taurus have some other planets influenced , otherwise, I'm running for my life. They won't quit and they won't admit that they hurt anyone.

And yes, I'm talking about some Taurus not all.

Push him away with a sharp butcher knife

@cutiebullie: Yes thank you. I should have changed the title to "how do I mend my friendship with my friend" but this Taurus means nothing to me yet he meant the world to her (and still I think) .She gave up alot to be with him so I thought that if I could somehow use some reasonable explainations to get him back to his senses and came back to my friend , she'd be happy . She asked me to do that at one point and then at some point she asked to break up our friendship! Honestly, I don't know what she wants from me anymore but I understand that she's very hurt and torn right now between her friend and her husband. However, I want to be there for her and assure her that things will be ok and that I'll be there for her just like she was there for me in the past.
As for my boyfriend, he'd know eventually if he has to but for the moment , I'm sure that the Taurus is just bluffing because he's nothing on me . We didn't even kiss! All I did was went out a few dates with him in the past, then found out the guy cheated on my friend from the introduction of her to us. I still remembered her happy facial expression and what a shock he and I had! I meant she was happy and talked about she finally met her soulmate and that I should see him! I thought he'd have the decency to stay away after that but he didn't so I had to do the drastic cutting including the disappearnce and change of number. My friend and I could only talk on the phone and met a few times (she visited me!) over the past 2 years and we haven't even done anything wrong! I felt like my friend and I are more like the "secret couple" here! The pain my friend went through, I don't want my boyfriend to experience if I could. The guy is a toxic waste and he needs to be kept out from the people I care for. Yet my friend doesn't see it yet. He's still her love and light so all I can do is to support her through this time.

@Eris: LoL, I don't keep and play with sharp objects. My grandma told me never to play with knife 😄

BellaBulleautiful, you obviously haven't read anything that I wrote but you like to inject your points based on your personal experience and then picked out certain lines to prove what you thought was happening. My friend said she needed me and then wanted to break our friendship and then wanted me to talk to her husband . Her actions are changing every moment because she's hurt and in pain at the moment.All I do is to talk to her when she needs me and that's all. If I'm her stalker, why would she invite me for dinner tomorrow with my boyfriend accompanied? Why would she still keep in contact with me during my disappearance in her life and visited me? You kept ignoring everything I said and insisted on that the Taurus did no wrong and that I should have just deserted my friend and walked away? Well, what friends are for? Still I thank you for coming here and writting about your perspective. I hope that I haven't hurt your ego or anything. 🙂

I think I know how to solve this problem now. Thank you everyone for your perspectives and advices 🙂

Write her a nice handwritten letter.

Tell her you will be there for her when she realizes
that she needs a friend more than she needs that man,
no matter how long it takes her to figure it out.

In the back of your mind, you've always felt she is too good for him anyway, right?

No doubt in my mind that he's f****** other women...cuz he can.

I'd say tell your boyfriend WHAT has got you down
( he needs to know what's wrong with you )
but DONT tell him you are attracted to him UNLESS he asks specifically

and if so, that you are attracted to him only because
- you know you can't have him ...but you know he's an idiot though
and he's probably s******* other women behind your friend's back as you speak.