Posted by sweetgirl22
How do I send him the right signals without directly asking him?
Posted by scorpiopicsPosted by sweetgirl22
How do I send him the right signals without directly asking him?
I used to get Libra chicks to have sex with me by saying "We will never have sex" putting the Libra off balance and forcing her to regain her inner harmony by suggesting the opposite - that we could/should/would.
You want to know how to send the right signals WITHOUT risking anything? Right?
Well f-u-c-k--y-o-u.
No risk, to us, means you're a manipulative siren who just wants him to ADMIT IT to you.
And then YOU WIN. And then you're done with him. AND HE KNOWS IT.
If that be true, you don't DESERVE him. If it is not, and you are sincere,
all you need to do is put YOUR neck on the line for him by telling him your feelings/desires
and you will win his heart and loyalty.
And I feel sorry for you. lol You have no idea what's about to happen. lolclick to expand
Posted by MrFirebird
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Posted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.click to expand
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.
Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect thatclick to expand
Posted by sweetgirl22I wrote him a letter months ago with no response.
Posted by sweetgirl22
Also. I don't just want sex. I want all of him.click to expand
Posted by sweetgirl22I wrote him a letter months ago with no response.
Posted by sweetgirl22
Also. I don't just want sex. I want all of him.click to expand
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by tizianiPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.
Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect that
Qui? Moi?click to expand
Posted by tiziani
Yep.
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....
Er. Yeah.click to expand
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by tizianiPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.
Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect that
Qui? Moi?
I am a little old fashioned.
You see, true love should not have to fight.
It is to be freely and faithfully exchanged between the two in a variety of ways.
Where the "fighting" comes in, is when one is at risk of being hurt by another.
That "another" being an outsider or one's self.
That being said, there's a time and place for war. To keep the peace, provoke not
the war. Let war be the very last option. Reason being, someone can be truly hurt
physically, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.
Sometimes.... such wars are fought in the best interests of the family in ways
that are, oftentimes, never seen, let alone, appreciated.
click to expand
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....
Er. Yeah.
lol....oh, ye of little faith!click to expand
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MoonArtist
They aren't that scary when besotted! Sheesh, you all are making scorp men seem like monsters. They're just giant dragons and you have to know how to pet them nicely. If you don't then you'll either watch the mystical beast disappear or get burned to a crisp. See, easy peasy....
Er. Yeah.
lol....oh, ye of little faith!
VERY little faith. Half my work life I'm spoiled, the other half I'm psychologically spanked and sent to the corner for whatever it is I'm doing or not doing to appreciate said spoilage.click to expand
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by tizianiPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
"How to win my Scorpio man"
Sounds like her Scorpio man has been reduced to some kind of "prize".
I can hear a crowd chanting "F the deal! Spin the wheel!"
Yeah, I don't understand it, either. Sorry, very long workday.
I mean, it sounds like she has "materialized" her beau to a prize product.
As if Scorpio came off the assembly line.
Weellllll...Honestly, I think most people view a desirad suitor as a "prize," don't they?
at least your possessiveness is consistent, I can respect that
Qui? Moi?
I am a little old fashioned.
You see, true love should not have to fight.
It is to be freely and faithfully exchanged between the two in a variety of ways.
Where the "fighting" comes in, is when one is at risk of being hurt by another.
That "another" being an outsider or one's self.
That being said, there's a time and place for war. To keep the peace, provoke not
the war. Let war be the very last option. Reason being, someone can be truly hurt
physically, emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.
Sometimes.... such wars are fought in the best interests of the family in ways
that are, oftentimes, never seen, let alone, appreciated.
I hear you. I just believe loved ones should be treasured. I have suffered significant loss early in life and I understand nothing and no one we ever welcome in our lives is guaranteed to last. Better to appreciate them and make them feel loved and know how good you've got it while you've got it?click to expand
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MoonArtist
lol....oh, ye of little faith!
VERY little faith. Half my work life I'm spoiled, the other half I'm psychologically spanked and sent to the corner for whatever it is I'm doing or not doing to appreciate said spoilage.
I feel sorry for you non water signs and having to deal with any of us water signs. I truly do. On behalf of all of our mind fuckery I apologize.
On another note, psychological spanking sounds sooooo deliciously naughty! 😄click to expand
Posted by MrFirebird
^^^ I wasn't suggesting that we not treasure loved ones, but rather, fight when and where it truly counts.
Contrasting the immature notion that "If someone doesn't fight for you, they don't love you" that
leads some immature or misled people into instigating a series of "head games" to see if the other "loves" them.
That's the impression I always get when I hear someone make that statement - "You didn't fight for me"
especially when the defendant was never told to fight but had to guess or read minds.
Then.. there is the crux:
IF the defendant had fought every man in town over his woman, he'd be accused by his object of affection of being jealous.
At some point, such a man's got to ask - what gives?
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MoonArtistPosted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MoonArtist
lol....oh, ye of little faith!
VERY little faith. Half my work life I'm spoiled, the other half I'm psychologically spanked and sent to the corner for whatever it is I'm doing or not doing to appreciate said spoilage.
I feel sorry for you non water signs and having to deal with any of us water signs. I truly do. On behalf of all of our mind fuckery I apologize.
On another note, psychological spanking sounds sooooo deliciously naughty! 😄
No apologies needed. You get what you give in life. If this is the treatment (or mistreatment) he doles out, it's because he never experienced a greater example.
Doesn't mean I won't lose my temper someday and put something on him Ajax don't wash off, but...click to expand
Posted by MoonArtist
It really depends on what context "fighting for" is used. In your scenario, Firebird, there's the head games. In the OP's case she's trying to instigate a connection. In another case it could be a couple already together who are having problems and trying to "fight" for saving the relationship.
As for appreciating and treasuring loved ones, as Creole says, I'm wholeheartedly agreeing. 🙂
Posted by tiziani
Lol I don't know what that means. Maybe my brain is slow today.
What I meant was people just have different ways of finding commitment.
Some people like to feel each other out, others have a checklist they want to see from the other person.. any person. Doesn't matter who they are as a person AT FIRST, just as long as they can play a certain role in their life to win them over.
That is living a movie imo, and it's totally fair even if it isn't for my personal tastes. We are all getting to the same result as the end of the day even if we initially go about it in different ways.
The first year of a relationship... very different to all that follows after.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by MoonArtist
It really depends on what context "fighting for" is used. In your scenario, Firebird, there's the head games. In the OP's case she's trying to instigate a connection. In another case it could be a couple already together who are having problems and trying to "fight" for saving the relationship.
As for appreciating and treasuring loved ones, as Creole says, I'm wholeheartedly agreeing. 🙂
I agree with appreciating loved ones. It's the right thing to do.
Of course, there are times when loved ones need a swift kick in the rear when they get out of line.
Just be honest with yourself and with him and nobody gets hurt. 😉
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Posted by CreoleGeisha
OMG... LOL ... Now I have this insane visual of me doing a "Jigglypuff" impression.
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebird
^^^ I wasn't suggesting that we not treasure loved ones, but rather, fight when and where it truly counts.
Contrasting the immature notion that "If someone doesn't fight for you, they don't love you" that
leads some immature or misled people into instigating a series of "head games" to see if the other "loves" them.
That's the impression I always get when I hear someone make that statement - "You didn't fight for me"
especially when the defendant was never told to fight but had to guess or read minds.
Then.. there is the crux:
IF the defendant had fought every man in town over his woman, he'd be accused by his object of affection of being jealous.
At some point, such a man's got to ask - what gives?
OH, I see. In that context, I must agree with you. You shouldn't have to fight for honest love. That's not really what I'm talking about, though. If people didn't assign value and importance to a love interest, why the effort to obtain or maintain the relationship at all? Either it's valuable to you -- a "prize" so to speak -- or it is not. It's not a negotiable thing.click to expand
Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by MoonArtist
It really depends on what context "fighting for" is used. In your scenario, Firebird, there's the head games. In the OP's case she's trying to instigate a connection. In another case it could be a couple already together who are having problems and trying to "fight" for saving the relationship.
As for appreciating and treasuring loved ones, as Creole says, I'm wholeheartedly agreeing. 🙂
I agree with appreciating loved ones. It's the right thing to do.
Of course, there are times when loved ones need a swift kick in the rear when they get out of line.
Whatever happened to a light, open-handed smack and a quietly stern warning? That works too, you know.
Just be honest with yourself and with him and nobody gets hurt. 😉
Yes, and this is really effective if both participants do it, too.click to expand
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