I think pretty much everyone at work hates me

quietly I would say

I broke allegiances in a difficult job in the health care system, I found myself burning out, was diagnosed with hypothyroidism( and went critically low on energy), I walked out in frustration last year and managed to claw things back, atlhough it turned into an ugly investigation in which I was investigated for my ability to cope

they said a lot of stuff, I said some stuff back, and there is a growing sense that despite me being back for the last 8 months that gossips keeps going around about stuff I have said, when angered, exhausted

is it just me or do scorpios tend to get more of the blame for everything, we are made the villian to displace crap onto and people seem to slowly forget our qualities

thanks for your responses, cheered me a little

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Posted by twilightzone
thanks for your responses, cheered me a little

I had two rumors circulating about me at the same time:

1) I was sleeping with some chick that I barely know

And

2) That I was gay

So.....WTF?

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quite the opposties there..



Hold your head up, they will talk regardless..Office gossip is such a pain..

Funny how this office gossip is so crazy in medical fields. I've worked in the medical field and my mom who is in her 50's still works in a medical office. This is something ALL of them do. I have no idea why either. You think it would be better but it's not. I have no idea why it's alive and well and very apparent in this field of work.

Anyways. I would just ignore it. But at the same time Scorpios can be quite vindictive so I'm not sure how bad the things you said were. Scorpio's can be very brutal. So I'm sure the things you said back weren't exactly nice either. Now, not placing the blame all on you but sometimes you have to keep things to yourself regardless of how people are in the work place. Something I learned really young. You just smile and get them back a different way.

I'm a Gemini with Scorpio placements (sun/mercury both in Gemini but VIII house) so it's almost impossible for me to keep my mouth shut. Eventually these people got fired and I smiled and waved. Buh bye. That's right. Just go about your day. Think to yourself I'm too good to talk to these peasants. Don't lower yourself to their standards. Sometimes people just want a reason to talk about you, any at that matter and try anything they can. Don't fall for it.

as a scorp, yes, I did say things and not, they were nor particularly kind but this was when I had a reached a point of burnout with a 200 page, qualification, hypothyroid, tired of defending myself from certain undermining individuals, I was physcially assaulated by a member of staff and had it insinuated that I was gay, chucking a sickie( when I wasn't)

and I may add, the role is very emotionally and mentally draining as it is, and as a result of caring too much, it seemed, I just got run ragged and people, and especially scorps aint at their best when their internal resources are wiped out

Posted by twilightzone
as a scorp, yes, I did say things and not, they were nor particularly kind but this was when I had a reached a point of burnout with a 200 page, qualification, hypothyroid, tired of defending myself from certain undermining individuals, I was physcially assaulated by a member of staff and had it insinuated that I was gay, chucking a sickie( when I wasn't)

and I may add, the role is very emotionally and mentally draining as it is, and as a result of caring too much, it seemed, I just got run ragged and people, and especially scorps aint at their best when their internal resources are wiped out

Physically assaulted? Yeah you need to find a new job.

What I don't understand is why half those people that are sexually harassing you and also physically assaulting you are still in that job. Should zero tolerance for that type of thing. I hope they were fired but until then this sounds like a very negative, poisonous place. I would find something new.

it is my hope to do so