I want me Scorpio ex back... I won't rest (figuratively) until I get him back

So I am a Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Aries Venus. Most people will mistake me for a Scorpio but I am far too empathetic and sensitive to others pain. I'm a real softie but a badass at the same time. At first I was resisting his advances. He asked me out thre
I don't like pain. I will be honest and say I don't know his motivations for doing this with me

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I will see him in about a month.

I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home.

I still would like help

Merry Christmas

. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.


You too. When I first started this thread I was heartbroken. But I figure I am determined to win him back so we are working together.



pisces women like pain.

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why would this cause me pain? I also don't know why he agreed to work with me
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I will see him in about a month.

I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home.

I still would like help

Merry Christmas

. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.


You too. When I first started this thread I was heartbroken. But I figure I am determined to win him back so we are working together.



pisces women like pain.

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no, not really. I don't know why he'd agree to work with me.

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I will see him in about a month.

I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home.

I still would like help

Merry Christmas

. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.


You too. When I first started this thread I was heartbroken. But I figure I am determined to win him back so we are working together.

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pisces women like pain.

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Posted by piscesarieslibra
I will see him in about a month.

I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home.

I still would like help

Merry Christmas

. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.
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You too. When I first started this thread I was heartbroken. But I figure I am determined to win him back so we are working together.

PhoenixRising
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I will see him in about a month.

I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home.

I still would like help

Merry Christmas

. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.
I will see him in about a month.

I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home.

I still would like help

Merry Christmas
UPDATE:

So we are working on a project together that we started thinking about when we were together. But remotely. He's in London, I am in LA. So we talk and discuss the project every other day. He calls me and he texts me details about his life and I tell him nothing. He again mentioned the bear I gave him and how there is my stuff all over his room. I will see him in
boxcarmirnta
female
Very metal. Pisces, cancer rising, aquarius moon, mercury, mars, aries venus.
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I should come more often on this board, these threads are funny to read


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I wanna poke my own eyes out


Did you read this one ?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/what-have-i-got-myself-into--9485020/?p=20


This is mine...and luckily i'm a grown up and literally give zero treetrunks about the scorp who has been shady and inconsistent since day one..all talk no action totally self absorbed and insensitive. So yea read away....... Then take a good look in the mirror.


Why should i take a look in the mirror ?
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Before you accuse others take a look at yourself duh....
Fins101
Pisces Sun Libra Ascendant Sag moon
^You heart is ruling your head there is a reason you initially had these feelings . People give away a lot when you first meet them ,little mannerisms when you first them , how they react when you bring up certain topics . It is not the whole picture but it’s is telling.

What would you gain by having him back would your life be better ? Would his better ?

Work on yourself move on from him. I think you need to ask what would be different if you are back together. You can’t hold him to an image in your head. It’s not fair to ask him to live up to that .

You are soooo much better than this . Get out with your girlfriends and find some hobbies .
UnicornSag
30 years old female
Sun, Venus, Mercury ♐Moon♈Mars♏ASC♓-inside 🦄/outside🐲
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So to sum this up. No I am not a troll.

I think peachy06, UnicornSaga, and whomever else are bullies.
I don't care what they think because there is something so vile about them.

If I would have said this guy were a Gemini, and Aries or another sign I doubt people on here would have had the same interpretation.

Yes. I should have said that I was sexually assaulted and my father passed in my title to highlight the circumstances.

People on here were harping about the sexual assault claiming I am lying. But no when you have to return to the same university it is real.

Maybe you guys don't see this because it was completely glossed over, but my father dying was a much worse and traumatizing experience than the sexual assault. My father was everything to me. The ex Scorpio had my father's name.

This doesn't make me unstable. Most people wouldn't cope well with those things. And the Scorpio and I never really talked about those things in length.

He wasn't emotionally supportive....even though I never talked about these things in length with him. He just wasn't supportive. I started another thread and people were saying you left him, you broke his trust, you need to be there for him through thick and thin.

He was never there for ME through thick and thin.

Everything to HIM is a game. I felt the whole time I was playing a game. He kept threatening me to "fall in line", even after saying he doesn't love me, he was petting me and calling me names, he seemed so pleased that I didn't want my things from him and I would get them in one month. He saw me two days ago and was eager to know what I was doing. That's when I texted him I need space from him.

What you were right about is he was pursuing me, I never pursued him back but I think that is what he wants now--for me to pursue him. We never had sex. I withheld it from him. And no I don't find him that attractive or sexy. He's not my type. He had to convince me he wasn't gay for the first two weeks because he comes off as a dandy. All of my closest friends thought he was gay and he was using me as a cover up.

Thank you for the other signs and the one Gemini who realized he was a wacko for saying I love you and coming on too strong after one week.

No he does not deserve better than me, I deserve better than him when I am ready.


"I think peachy06, UnicornSaga, and whomever else are bullies."

Yeah we get it, we're the big bad and you're the ultimate victim. It's getting old.



Oh how cool I'm in the bullies group lol
and not even a Scorp, that's something!
I seriously can't understand how a person can make such thread and expect people to be serious and even more supportive about them. And on top of that make also post like this and expect to be understood.
OP wake up from your dream and start sounding like a sane person and we will take you seriously. I don't give a crap about what sign your guy is. I don't give a crap about your guy completely. You sound like a crazy person, regardless on your sign or on the sign of the guy in question. So get yourself together, stop being delusional and THEN ask for advices and help



You were an marker. I am calling a spade a spade. You are an online bully. It's not like this is going to turn into a Lifetime film. I don't care what any of you (Nikki, peachy09 etc) who have nasty things to say think. Oh poor me? Not really, I am not affected by online bullies.

Ironically, peachy09 isn't as nasty as Nikki or you--she is just keeping it 'subjectively' real. I am only annoyed with her because I am sick of seeing memes.

Also, you all are attacking my intelligence, claiming I am lying etc, yet you all have selective reading capabilities. This is why Americans score really poorly in reading comprehension. Because none of you actually read my primary concerns, you were just projecting whatever opinions you have of Pisces. I would claim that Pisces were also projecting their negative opinion of Scorpios. You guys had your own agenda coming in to the thread but weren't willing to help.

Everyone was harping in on the sexual assault but mentioned nothing about my father dying.

Which doesn't make me a victim because the latter is inevitable....we are all mortal. But the latter hurt at a level I still haven't been able to comprehend.

I am in a better place today then I was a few days ago. I know how to get him back. Be myself or get naked. It's not really that hard.


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Great then that I'm no American! I have no problem reading, but I don't read bullbutter.
What part of: "YOU SOUND LIKE A CRAZY PERSON" do you not understand?
Look at the title of your topic, look at the text you wrote starting this thread and tell me again can you seriously think of a sane person who writes like that? You don't have your butter together, you have no idea what you want but you DESPERATELY NEED TO GET THIS GUY BACK!
But you not sure you want him back. You're not attracted to him. You may want him back in few months.
Go heal yourself and then start talking again about what you actually want.
I'm not being a bully I'm telling you the harsh truth that you don't want to hear! That's our problem, not mine!
I have 0 problem with Pisces people or Scorpio people. I have 0 problem with any people who are fine with me as well. My mother is Pisces if you must know. My ASC is Pisces if you also must know. So no, it has nothing to do with Pisces, it has nothing to do with Scorpio. It has a lot to do with not knowing what you want but seeking for help making an agenda how to get the guy back. Just cause you can't stand being rejected or whatever your reason is.
What problems you have outside this topic on getting back this guy I have no knowledge or reason to write about. You know what you have going on and should seek help for it therefor.
And last thing- you're insulting my intelligence by trying to make it look like I don't see pass through your words. I read people like open book, you can't fool me believe me, you can try but you'll never succeed.
So stop playing a victim here, stop imagining someone hates you or your sign and learn from what is written. I told you you need help and I stand behind my words. It's no offense, it's no insult, no bullying, it's stating fact. You don't need this guy but you do need help to resolve your problems.
No one came in here to answer my question. Instead this became a thread for people to bash each other and let our their issues with other signs.

My main concern is that he hasn't frozen me out. He seems too happy to see me. He is just attracted to me. It's hard to explain. Also during our post break-up he seemed happy that I would eventually have to come back to his place to get my things. And he knows I am not "easy" in terms of sex.

The problem is 'I' was wishy-washy---which had nothing to do with him. He was very intense with the relationship--we were moving at different speeds. I need space. I am a gently fish I really need my space. I don't know what to do.
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I came here for help. Not to be derided. I care for him. But no I do not love him after one month neither does he love me. I apologize. It was one month during finals season.

I don't want anyone else but him. But we both need time to think.

Judge me but if you are on a mission and someone inserts themselves very abruptly and consumingly in your life it would take you for a ride too.


Don't pay attention to the hateful comments, dear Pisces sister. Your Aries side is showing stubbornness which I admire. But I'm afraid that chasing after this guy is only gonna bring more trouble your way.
You're emotional and I understand that, but Scorpios are 10 times more emotionally unstable than any other sign. It's like playing with fire. Relationship with a Scorpio is always gonna be filled with drama, extreme highs and extreme lows. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
I know you really want him and you really like him and are attracted to him, and I don't blame you I mean it's Scorpio after all, the sexiest sign. It is what you want, but it's not what you need.
What you need is someone stable who will truly care for you and value your feelings. Someone who will gently land your feet back down on earth and bring you some peace of mind.
Someone like Taurus or perhaps Cancer. Someone who will be fiercely faithful and care not to hurt you. Someone who really will feel actual love for you, instead of just tell you after a week that they love you even if they don't really mean it. Love is not about words and saying "I love you". Love is about proving it with your actions.
Chasing after this Scorpio guy is a mistake, dear Pisces, I'm sorry to tell you this.
Scorpios can be very manipulative, secretive, play mind-games on you, lie to you, and they aren't well known for being faithful.
I used to date a Scorpio girl for almost 8 months. It was all sunshine and rainbows while we promised each other that we would never cheat on each other, and she actually seemed honest. But after 7 months I found out that she's been cheating on me and planning to slowly distance herself from me to make it seem like the spark is disappearing.
You need someone who will make you feel safe and secure. Someone who will be honest with you, bring stability to your life, and be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who will push you to be independent but will also want to take care of you and spoil you with love. Someone who will consider you the center of their universe, because you deserve it.
Taurus or Cancer will treat you that way.

Spiritual hugs


Actually, it was reverse in my situation. Let's not forget how shady and full of butter pisces can be too, while we're making such wide statements about Scorpios. Just because you were burnt by one doesn't mean we're all like you described. Just like I'm sure not all pisces are no good pieces of butter just because my ex turned out to be. See how that goes? Now swim away.


I'm not saying that all Scorpios are like that. And I agree that some Pisces are not all that pure either. I'm sure you notice that there is a lot of biasness in my opinion of Scorpios.
But you have to admit that you guys are an emotional rollercoaster.


again with the generalizing. logically speaking, the problem isn't with us scorpios. the problem is your choice of a partner. you decided to fall for trash, who just so happen to be a scorpio. now you want to make it our problem, as if you dated us all. there is no you guys. there is only the scorp(s) you knew personally.


Again, you didn't pay attention to the actual point. The point is that she is not happy and is trying to chase after a guy with whom it obviously won't work. She's chasing after him when he's not interested.

Never beg someone to be in your life. If you text, call, visit and still get ignored, walk away.
It's called self-respect.
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No one is even reading anything I wrote. The thread was completely co-opted.
No, he has not ignored me.

During our post- breakup meeting which was way too soon (only 3 days after). I was a fool..I told him I couldn't eat or sleep and that I was very hurt. I told him I loved him, really liked him but I can't be boyfriend or girlfriend anymore not right now. He said he never loved me, he doesn't want a relationship etc. I felt he was saying these things to hurt me because he had been hurt. I could tell. He was also calling me pet names, stroking my leg gently and said he wanted to kiss me. At 3AM sends me a picture of him with a bear.

If anything he looked too happy to see me four days ago but I had to text him that it was good to see him but he needs to give me some space. And he said no worries .

My main question is he has NOT freezed me out at all--and that's why this is quite frightening to me.

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I came here for help. Not to be derided. I care for him. But no I do not love him after one month neither does he love me. I apologize. It was one month during finals season.

I don't want anyone else but him. But we both need time to think.

Judge me but if you are on a mission and someone inserts themselves very abruptly and consumingly in your life it would take you for a ride too.


Don't pay attention to the hateful comments, dear Pisces sister. Your Aries side is showing stubbornness which I admire. But I'm afraid that chasing after this guy is only gonna bring more trouble your way.
You're emotional and I understand that, but Scorpios are 10 times more emotionally unstable than any other sign. It's like playing with fire. Relationship with a Scorpio is always gonna be filled with drama, extreme highs and extreme lows. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
I know you really want him and you really like him and are attracted to him, and I don't blame you I mean it's Scorpio after all, the sexiest sign. It is what you want, but it's not what you need.
What you need is someone stable who will truly care for you and value your feelings. Someone who will gently land your feet back down on earth and bring you some peace of mind.
Someone like Taurus or perhaps Cancer. Someone who will be fiercely faithful and care not to hurt you. Someone who really will feel actual love for you, instead of just tell you after a week that they love you even if they don't really mean it. Love is not about words and saying "I love you". Love is about proving it with your actions.
Chasing after this Scorpio guy is a mistake, dear Pisces, I'm sorry to tell you this.
Scorpios can be very manipulative, secretive, play mind-games on you, lie to you, and they aren't well known for being faithful.
I used to date a Scorpio girl for almost 8 months. It was all sunshine and rainbows while we promised each other that we would never cheat on each other, and she actually seemed honest. But after 7 months I found out that she's been cheating on me and planning to slowly distance herself from me to make it seem like the spark is disappearing.
You need someone who will make you feel safe and secure. Someone who will be honest with you, bring stability to your life, and be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who will push you to be independent but will also want to take care of you and spoil you with love. Someone who will consider you the center of their universe, because you deserve it.
Taurus or Cancer will treat you that way.

Spiritual hugs


Actually, it was reverse in my situation. Let's not forget how shady and full of butter pisces can be too, while we're making such wide statements about Scorpios. Just because you were burnt by one doesn't mean we're all like you described. Just like I'm sure not all pisces are no good pieces of butter just because my ex turned out to be. See how that goes? Now swim away.


I'm not saying that all Scorpios are like that. And I agree that some Pisces are not all that pure either. I'm sure you notice that there is a lot of biasness in my opinion of Scorpios.
But you have to admit that you guys are an emotional rollercoaster.


again with the generalizing. logically speaking, the problem isn't with us scorpios. the problem is your choice of a partner. you decided to fall for trash, who just so happen to be a scorpio. now you want to make it our problem, as if you dated us all. there is no you guys. there is only the scorp(s) you knew personally.


Again, you didn't pay attention to the actual point. The point is that she is not happy and is trying to chase after a guy with whom it obviously won't work. She's chasing after him when he's not interested.

Never beg someone to be in your life. If you text, call, visit and still get ignored, walk away.
It's called self-respect.
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i'm addressing your generalizing, so dont shift attention to OP. i'm focusing on your "vast knowledge" about scorpios.
alexa566
20 years old male
Sun: Pisces, Moon: Pisces, Rising: Cancer
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I came here for help. Not to be derided. I care for him. But no I do not love him after one month neither does he love me. I apologize. It was one month during finals season.

I don't want anyone else but him. But we both need time to think.

Judge me but if you are on a mission and someone inserts themselves very abruptly and consumingly in your life it would take you for a ride too.


Don't pay attention to the hateful comments, dear Pisces sister. Your Aries side is showing stubbornness which I admire. But I'm afraid that chasing after this guy is only gonna bring more trouble your way.
You're emotional and I understand that, but Scorpios are 10 times more emotionally unstable than any other sign. It's like playing with fire. Relationship with a Scorpio is always gonna be filled with drama, extreme highs and extreme lows. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
I know you really want him and you really like him and are attracted to him, and I don't blame you I mean it's Scorpio after all, the sexiest sign. It is what you want, but it's not what you need.
What you need is someone stable who will truly care for you and value your feelings. Someone who will gently land your feet back down on earth and bring you some peace of mind.
Someone like Taurus or perhaps Cancer. Someone who will be fiercely faithful and care not to hurt you. Someone who really will feel actual love for you, instead of just tell you after a week that they love you even if they don't really mean it. Love is not about words and saying "I love you". Love is about proving it with your actions.
Chasing after this Scorpio guy is a mistake, dear Pisces, I'm sorry to tell you this.
Scorpios can be very manipulative, secretive, play mind-games on you, lie to you, and they aren't well known for being faithful.
I used to date a Scorpio girl for almost 8 months. It was all sunshine and rainbows while we promised each other that we would never cheat on each other, and she actually seemed honest. But after 7 months I found out that she's been cheating on me and planning to slowly distance herself from me to make it seem like the spark is disappearing.
You need someone who will make you feel safe and secure. Someone who will be honest with you, bring stability to your life, and be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who will push you to be independent but will also want to take care of you and spoil you with love. Someone who will consider you the center of their universe, because you deserve it.
Taurus or Cancer will treat you that way.

Spiritual hugs


Actually, it was reverse in my situation. Let's not forget how shady and full of butter pisces can be too, while we're making such wide statements about Scorpios. Just because you were burnt by one doesn't mean we're all like you described. Just like I'm sure not all pisces are no good pieces of butter just because my ex turned out to be. See how that goes? Now swim away.


I'm not saying that all Scorpios are like that. And I agree that some Pisces are not all that pure either. I'm sure you notice that there is a lot of biasness in my opinion of Scorpios.
But you have to admit that you guys are an emotional rollercoaster.


again with the generalizing. logically speaking, the problem isn't with us scorpios. the problem is your choice of a partner. you decided to fall for trash, who just so happen to be a scorpio. now you want to make it our problem, as if you dated us all. there is no you guys. there is only the scorp(s) you knew personally.
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Again, you didn't pay attention to the actual point. The point is that she is not happy and is trying to chase after a guy with whom it obviously won't work. She's chasing after him when he's not interested.

Never beg someone to be in your life. If you text, call, visit and still get ignored, walk away.
It's called self-respect.

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