I want me Scorpio ex back... I won't rest (figuratively) until I get him back

So I am a Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Aries Venus. Most people will mistake me for a Scorpio but I am far too empathetic and sensitive to others pain. I'm a real softie but a badass at the same time. At first I was resisting his advances. He asked me out thre
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  • Posted by piscesarieslibra
    Posted by PhoenixRising
    Posted by piscesarieslibra
    I will see him in about a month.

    I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

    This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

    So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home. smile

    I still would like help

    Merry Christmas smile

    smile. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

    Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.


    You too. When I first started this thread I was heartbroken. But I figure I am determined to win him back so we are working together.

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    pisces women like pain.

  • Posted by PhoenixRising
    Posted by piscesarieslibra
    I will see him in about a month.

    I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

    This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

    So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home. smile

    I still would like help

    Merry Christmas smile

    smile. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

    Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.
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    You too. When I first started this thread I was heartbroken. But I figure I am determined to win him back so we are working together.

  • PhoenixRising
    I'm nothing you think and everything you feel....❤
    Posted by piscesarieslibra
    I will see him in about a month.

    I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

    This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

    So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home. smile

    I still would like help

    Merry Christmas smile

    smile. You're quite fixed for a mutable sign.

    Merry Christmas dear Fish. Enjoy your holiday.
  • I will see him in about a month.

    I really want him back but our post-breakup talk really broke me. He did say he still really likes me.

    This is for a business venture competition. It is something I am personally very passionate about. I am unsure how passionate he is about the actual competition, but he is working very hard. I need his help. He is writing the proposal, I am doing all of the creative things...modeling, rendering, engineering.

    So luckily I can work on my confidence while at home. smile

    I still would like help

    Merry Christmas smile
  • UPDATE:

    So we are working on a project together that we started thinking about when we were together. But remotely. He's in London, I am in LA. So we talk and discuss the project every other day. He calls me and he texts me details about his life and I tell him nothing. He again mentioned the bear I gave him and how there is my stuff all over his room. I will see him in
  • boxcarmirnta
    Very metal. Pisces, cancer rising, aquarius moon, mercury, mars, aries venus.
    female
    Posted by Rozaeon
    Posted by boxcarmirnta
    Posted by Rozaeon
    Posted by tctao
    Posted by Rozaeon
    I should come more often on this board, these threads are funny to read


    13 pages

    I wanna poke my own eyes out


    Did you read this one ?
    https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/what-have-i-got-myself-into--9485020/?p=20


    This is mine...and luckily i'm a grown up and literally give zero treetrunks about the scorp who has been shady and inconsistent since day one..all talk no action totally self absorbed and insensitive. So yea read away....... Then take a good look in the mirror.


    Why should i take a look in the mirror ?
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    Before you accuse others take a look at yourself duh....
  • No one came in here to answer my question. Instead this became a thread for people to bash each other and let our their issues with other signs.

    My main concern is that he hasn't frozen me out. He seems too happy to see me. He is just attracted to me. It's hard to explain. Also during our post break-up he seemed happy that I would eventually have to come back to his place to get my things. And he knows I am not "easy" in terms of sex.

    The problem is 'I' was wishy-washy---which had nothing to do with him. He was very intense with the relationship--we were moving at different speeds. I need space. I am a gently fish I really need my space. I don't know what to do.
  • Posted by alexa566
    Posted by Mona_Machiavelli
    Posted by alexa566
    Posted by Mona_Machiavelli
    Posted by alexa566
    Posted by piscesarieslibra
    I came here for help. Not to be derided. I care for him. But no I do not love him after one month neither does he love me. I apologize. It was one month during finals season.

    I don't want anyone else but him. But we both need time to think.

    Judge me but if you are on a mission and someone inserts themselves very abruptly and consumingly in your life it would take you for a ride too.


    Don't pay attention to the hateful comments, dear Pisces sister. Your Aries side is showing stubbornness which I admire. But I'm afraid that chasing after this guy is only gonna bring more trouble your way.
    You're emotional and I understand that, but Scorpios are 10 times more emotionally unstable than any other sign. It's like playing with fire. Relationship with a Scorpio is always gonna be filled with drama, extreme highs and extreme lows. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
    I know you really want him and you really like him and are attracted to him, and I don't blame you I mean it's Scorpio after all, the sexiest sign. It is what you want, but it's not what you need.
    What you need is someone stable who will truly care for you and value your feelings. Someone who will gently land your feet back down on earth and bring you some peace of mind.
    Someone like Taurus or perhaps Cancer. Someone who will be fiercely faithful and care not to hurt you. Someone who really will feel actual love for you, instead of just tell you after a week that they love you even if they don't really mean it. Love is not about words and saying "I love you". Love is about proving it with your actions.
    Chasing after this Scorpio guy is a mistake, dear Pisces, I'm sorry to tell you this.
    Scorpios can be very manipulative, secretive, play mind-games on you, lie to you, and they aren't well known for being faithful.
    I used to date a Scorpio girl for almost 8 months. It was all sunshine and rainbows while we promised each other that we would never cheat on each other, and she actually seemed honest. But after 7 months I found out that she's been cheating on me and planning to slowly distance herself from me to make it seem like the spark is disappearing.
    You need someone who will make you feel safe and secure. Someone who will be honest with you, bring stability to your life, and be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who will push you to be independent but will also want to take care of you and spoil you with love. Someone who will consider you the center of their universe, because you deserve it.
    Taurus or Cancer will treat you that way.

    Spiritual hugs smile


    Actually, it was reverse in my situation. Let's not forget how shady and full of butter pisces can be too, while we're making such wide statements about Scorpios. Just because you were burnt by one doesn't mean we're all like you described. Just like I'm sure not all pisces are no good pieces of butter just because my ex turned out to be. See how that goes? Now swim away.


    I'm not saying that all Scorpios are like that. And I agree that some Pisces are not all that pure either. I'm sure you notice that there is a lot of biasness in my opinion of Scorpios.
    But you have to admit that you guys are an emotional rollercoaster.


    again with the generalizing. logically speaking, the problem isn't with us scorpios. the problem is your choice of a partner. you decided to fall for trash, who just so happen to be a scorpio. now you want to make it our problem, as if you dated us all. there is no you guys. there is only the scorp(s) you knew personally.


    Again, you didn't pay attention to the actual point. The point is that she is not happy and is trying to chase after a guy with whom it obviously won't work. She's chasing after him when he's not interested.

    Never beg someone to be in your life. If you text, call, visit and still get ignored, walk away.
    It's called self-respect.
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    No one is even reading anything I wrote. The thread was completely co-opted.
    No, he has not ignored me.

    During our post- breakup meeting which was way too soon (only 3 days after). I was a fool..I told him I couldn't eat or sleep and that I was very hurt. I told him I loved him, really liked him but I can't be boyfriend or girlfriend anymore not right now. He said he never loved me, he doesn't want a relationship etc. I felt he was saying these things to hurt me because he had been hurt. I could tell. He was also calling me pet names, stroking my leg gently and said he wanted to kiss me. At 3AM sends me a picture of him with a bear.

    If anything he looked too happy to see me four days ago but I had to text him that it was good to see him but he needs to give me some space. And he said no worries smile.

    My main question is he has NOT freezed me out at all--and that's why this is quite frightening to me.

  • Posted by alexa566
    Posted by Mona_Machiavelli
    Posted by alexa566
    Posted by Mona_Machiavelli
    Posted by alexa566
    Posted by piscesarieslibra
    I came here for help. Not to be derided. I care for him. But no I do not love him after one month neither does he love me. I apologize. It was one month during finals season.

    I don't want anyone else but him. But we both need time to think.

    Judge me but if you are on a mission and someone inserts themselves very abruptly and consumingly in your life it would take you for a ride too.


    Don't pay attention to the hateful comments, dear Pisces sister. Your Aries side is showing stubbornness which I admire. But I'm afraid that chasing after this guy is only gonna bring more trouble your way.
    You're emotional and I understand that, but Scorpios are 10 times more emotionally unstable than any other sign. It's like playing with fire. Relationship with a Scorpio is always gonna be filled with drama, extreme highs and extreme lows. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
    I know you really want him and you really like him and are attracted to him, and I don't blame you I mean it's Scorpio after all, the sexiest sign. It is what you want, but it's not what you need.
    What you need is someone stable who will truly care for you and value your feelings. Someone who will gently land your feet back down on earth and bring you some peace of mind.
    Someone like Taurus or perhaps Cancer. Someone who will be fiercely faithful and care not to hurt you. Someone who really will feel actual love for you, instead of just tell you after a week that they love you even if they don't really mean it. Love is not about words and saying "I love you". Love is about proving it with your actions.
    Chasing after this Scorpio guy is a mistake, dear Pisces, I'm sorry to tell you this.
    Scorpios can be very manipulative, secretive, play mind-games on you, lie to you, and they aren't well known for being faithful.
    I used to date a Scorpio girl for almost 8 months. It was all sunshine and rainbows while we promised each other that we would never cheat on each other, and she actually seemed honest. But after 7 months I found out that she's been cheating on me and planning to slowly distance herself from me to make it seem like the spark is disappearing.
    You need someone who will make you feel safe and secure. Someone who will be honest with you, bring stability to your life, and be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who will push you to be independent but will also want to take care of you and spoil you with love. Someone who will consider you the center of their universe, because you deserve it.
    Taurus or Cancer will treat you that way.

    Spiritual hugs smile


    Actually, it was reverse in my situation. Let's not forget how shady and full of butter pisces can be too, while we're making such wide statements about Scorpios. Just because you were burnt by one doesn't mean we're all like you described. Just like I'm sure not all pisces are no good pieces of butter just because my ex turned out to be. See how that goes? Now swim away.


    I'm not saying that all Scorpios are like that. And I agree that some Pisces are not all that pure either. I'm sure you notice that there is a lot of biasness in my opinion of Scorpios.
    But you have to admit that you guys are an emotional rollercoaster.


    again with the generalizing. logically speaking, the problem isn't with us scorpios. the problem is your choice of a partner. you decided to fall for trash, who just so happen to be a scorpio. now you want to make it our problem, as if you dated us all. there is no you guys. there is only the scorp(s) you knew personally.


    Again, you didn't pay attention to the actual point. The point is that she is not happy and is trying to chase after a guy with whom it obviously won't work. She's chasing after him when he's not interested.

    Never beg someone to be in your life. If you text, call, visit and still get ignored, walk away.
    It's called self-respect.
    click to expand


    i'm addressing your generalizing, so dont shift attention to OP. i'm focusing on your "vast knowledge" about scorpios.
  • alexa566
    Sun: Pisces, Moon: Pisces, Rising: Cancer, Mercury: Pisces, Venus: Pisces, Midh
    21 years old male
    Posted by Mona_Machiavelli
    Posted by alexa566
    Posted by Mona_Machiavelli
    Posted by alexa566
    Posted by piscesarieslibra
    I came here for help. Not to be derided. I care for him. But no I do not love him after one month neither does he love me. I apologize. It was one month during finals season.

    I don't want anyone else but him. But we both need time to think.

    Judge me but if you are on a mission and someone inserts themselves very abruptly and consumingly in your life it would take you for a ride too.


    Don't pay attention to the hateful comments, dear Pisces sister. Your Aries side is showing stubbornness which I admire. But I'm afraid that chasing after this guy is only gonna bring more trouble your way.
    You're emotional and I understand that, but Scorpios are 10 times more emotionally unstable than any other sign. It's like playing with fire. Relationship with a Scorpio is always gonna be filled with drama, extreme highs and extreme lows. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
    I know you really want him and you really like him and are attracted to him, and I don't blame you I mean it's Scorpio after all, the sexiest sign. It is what you want, but it's not what you need.
    What you need is someone stable who will truly care for you and value your feelings. Someone who will gently land your feet back down on earth and bring you some peace of mind.
    Someone like Taurus or perhaps Cancer. Someone who will be fiercely faithful and care not to hurt you. Someone who really will feel actual love for you, instead of just tell you after a week that they love you even if they don't really mean it. Love is not about words and saying "I love you". Love is about proving it with your actions.
    Chasing after this Scorpio guy is a mistake, dear Pisces, I'm sorry to tell you this.
    Scorpios can be very manipulative, secretive, play mind-games on you, lie to you, and they aren't well known for being faithful.
    I used to date a Scorpio girl for almost 8 months. It was all sunshine and rainbows while we promised each other that we would never cheat on each other, and she actually seemed honest. But after 7 months I found out that she's been cheating on me and planning to slowly distance herself from me to make it seem like the spark is disappearing.
    You need someone who will make you feel safe and secure. Someone who will be honest with you, bring stability to your life, and be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who will push you to be independent but will also want to take care of you and spoil you with love. Someone who will consider you the center of their universe, because you deserve it.
    Taurus or Cancer will treat you that way.

    Spiritual hugs smile


    Actually, it was reverse in my situation. Let's not forget how shady and full of butter pisces can be too, while we're making such wide statements about Scorpios. Just because you were burnt by one doesn't mean we're all like you described. Just like I'm sure not all pisces are no good pieces of butter just because my ex turned out to be. See how that goes? Now swim away.


    I'm not saying that all Scorpios are like that. And I agree that some Pisces are not all that pure either. I'm sure you notice that there is a lot of biasness in my opinion of Scorpios.
    But you have to admit that you guys are an emotional rollercoaster.


    again with the generalizing. logically speaking, the problem isn't with us scorpios. the problem is your choice of a partner. you decided to fall for trash, who just so happen to be a scorpio. now you want to make it our problem, as if you dated us all. there is no you guys. there is only the scorp(s) you knew personally.
    click to expand


    Again, you didn't pay attention to the actual point. The point is that she is not happy and is trying to chase after a guy with whom it obviously won't work. She's chasing after him when he's not interested.

    Never beg someone to be in your life. If you text, call, visit and still get ignored, walk away.
    It's called self-respect.
  • Posted by alexa566
    Posted by Mona_Machiavelli
    Posted by alexa566
    Posted by piscesarieslibra
    I came here for help. Not to be derided. I care for him. But no I do not love him after one month neither does he love me. I apologize. It was one month during finals season.

    I don't want anyone else but him. But we both need time to think.

    Judge me but if you are on a mission and someone inserts themselves very abruptly and consumingly in your life it would take you for a ride too.


    Don't pay attention to the hateful comments, dear Pisces sister. Your Aries side is showing stubbornness which I admire. But I'm afraid that chasing after this guy is only gonna bring more trouble your way.
    You're emotional and I understand that, but Scorpios are 10 times more emotionally unstable than any other sign. It's like playing with fire. Relationship with a Scorpio is always gonna be filled with drama, extreme highs and extreme lows. It's an emotional rollercoaster.
    I know you really want him and you really like him and are attracted to him, and I don't blame you I mean it's Scorpio after all, the sexiest sign. It is what you want, but it's not what you need.
    What you need is someone stable who will truly care for you and value your feelings. Someone who will gently land your feet back down on earth and bring you some peace of mind.
    Someone like Taurus or perhaps Cancer. Someone who will be fiercely faithful and care not to hurt you. Someone who really will feel actual love for you, instead of just tell you after a week that they love you even if they don't really mean it. Love is not about words and saying "I love you". Love is about proving it with your actions.
    Chasing after this Scorpio guy is a mistake, dear Pisces, I'm sorry to tell you this.
    Scorpios can be very manipulative, secretive, play mind-games on you, lie to you, and they aren't well known for being faithful.
    I used to date a Scorpio girl for almost 8 months. It was all sunshine and rainbows while we promised each other that we would never cheat on each other, and she actually seemed honest. But after 7 months I found out that she's been cheating on me and planning to slowly distance herself from me to make it seem like the spark is disappearing.
    You need someone who will make you feel safe and secure. Someone who will be honest with you, bring stability to your life, and be loyal and faithful to you. Someone who will push you to be independent but will also want to take care of you and spoil you with love. Someone who will consider you the center of their universe, because you deserve it.
    Taurus or Cancer will treat you that way.

    Spiritual hugs smile


    Actually, it was reverse in my situation. Let's not forget how shady and full of butter pisces can be too, while we're making such wide statements about Scorpios. Just because you were burnt by one doesn't mean we're all like you described. Just like I'm sure not all pisces are no good pieces of butter just because my ex turned out to be. See how that goes? Now swim away.


    I'm not saying that all Scorpios are like that. And I agree that some Pisces are not all that pure either. I'm sure you notice that there is a lot of biasness in my opinion of Scorpios.
    But you have to admit that you guys are an emotional rollercoaster.
    click to expand


    again with the generalizing. logically speaking, the problem isn't with us scorpios. the problem is your choice of a partner. you decided to fall for trash, who just so happen to be a scorpio. now you want to make it our problem, as if you dated us all. there is no you guys. there is only the scorp(s) you knew personally.
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